Are You On A Higher Frequency Than Your Ex?

Today, I want to talk about the (usually short) time period when two people in a relationship are on different energetic levels.

What happens when the person you’re manifesting love with has to get on your energetic level and not the other way around?

Imagine that you are manifesting love with an ex (or someone new) who is now unhappy and frustrated in their own life. You see them for who they are, you see how valuable they are but for many reasons, they are in a bad place in their own mind and life. They were happy the first time you were together but now, they aren’t. On the other hand, you are happy because your life is amazing, you have so much, you know and love the Law of Attraction and now, you are even happier because you are about to get back together with your ex – you have decided to do this and it is happening! They need to change their thoughts and life in order to become happy and get on your frequency because now, you are on different ones. Sending heart energy and positive feelings to them will help raise them up because the loving energy of another person makes all of us feel good.

You are already happy but your ex has to become happy in order to get on your frequency again.

I once manifested a relationship with a man who was frustrated with the dishonesty of the people in his life and the uncertainty of his future. He was a kind and loving person who lacked confidence and the ability to create his own happiness and our mutual happiness lasted shortly. When his personal dissatisfaction prevailed, I’d done nothing to change it. Had I not decided to end our relationship, I would have been able to create more happiness in his life the way I’d done in mine. Had I loved him more, the way he deserved, my love would have helped him discovered his purpose. This is why it is utterly important to give nothing but loving energy to one’s relationship – you never know when you’ll move to two different frequencies if you continue to rest in negativity. Years later, he started to learn about creating his own happiness, respecting himself and loving his life. I love being his friend and I am giving our friendship more love than I ever did to our relationship.

When seeing someone we love unhappy, we tend to hold on very tightly and are relentlessly trying to make them happy. The trick is to just let go and simply love them. Influence them with loving energy.

I’d learned this lesson in practice and wish I had known it a lot sooner.

If you are failing to feel enough love for the person you want to manifest a relationship with, you simply have to learn how to love them. If you can’t imagine loving them now, when you just want to manifest them back, chances are you wouldn’t love them forever even if they came back today. Love and faith go hand in hand and by faith, I mean absolute knowing that you and the person of your choice are meant to be together and being happy about it. Forgive them for their mistakes and love them for everything they are.

Sometimes, it is a mere understanding of things that raises your vibration and enables you to let go. When you have a specific goal in mind, everything else happens in order to make your goal manifest.

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Don’t Believe Everything You Think!

“Don’t believe everything you think.”

I am continuously surprised at the amount of truth hidden in this phrase which goes beyond its initial impression of explaining the reality behind one’s personal origin of thought.

If you feel that something awful is happening and you start digging for it, specific event you might have imagined may be nowhere near the truth… But the fact that you already allowed so much negative energy to come in may cause you to see negativity everywhere, regardless of its source. Translation – if you are afraid that something undesirable is happening, you will unlikely discover that you’re right about it but if your negativity is strong enough, you will find something else you’ll dislike and perpetuate your dissatisfaction.

When you’re happy, you attract positive events and circumstances which bring you even more happiness. When you allow the negativity in and then add emotion to it, you attract even more of it. Nothing even has to happen to invite more negativity – you just see it everywhere even without any new developments in the world. Feelings create so wouldn’t you rather be filled with great feelings therefore creating even great feelings?

GIVING LOVE TO OTHERS

Those who are manifesting new relationships with their former partners may be battling the rush of negative and positive feelings coming at them all at once. Now, let’s address the negative ones.

When manifesting relationships, negative feelings may come up but the good news is that they are not based on reality. One might imagine every possible scenario in which things could go wrong but when it comes to our perception of others, things are never as simple as we assume. It is impossible to know and understand another person’s pattern of thought, their past and their former experiences until we have known them for years therefore the things we assume about them are most likely incorrect. What we need to remember is that we judge others according to our former experiences and this is mostly the way through which we create expectations directed at them.

The Law of Attraction says we must let go of all the assumptions we could possibly have in order to manifest exactly what we want. If we continue to stick to them, we might manifest several undesirable circumstances or hardly manifest anything at all.

WHY DO WE BECOME NEGATIVE?

Can you recognize the circumstances in which you often start to feel particularly negative? For me, this used to happen when I was bored. Finding happiness and different ways of contribution to the world in the moments of boredom was something I needed to learn.

We tend to become negative when we envision things to be happening a certain way and yet, they don’t. We envision it because, based on our past once again, we think that we know how things are supposed to go. But isn’t the idea that the Universe knows better comforting? Isn’t the idea that all we need to do is trust just liberating? Isn’t the idea that all we need to do is send out loving energy absolutely magical?

Love felt for the end result aligns all our actions. Let go of the how – the Universe knows. Allow room for some positive suspense. Your negative thoughts are merely an indicator of your fears but are as false and empty as those fears .

Negative thoughts are always insignificant. Remember this.