A Love Manifestation in Someone Else’s Life

One of my closest friends recently manifested a relationship with a specific person. In this venture, we’d joined forces. A manifestation guide and solutions to details that appeared along the way, the harnessing of energy coming from both our sides and keeping focus on the end goal resulted in waves of success.

My friend has known her current man for approximately two months. They met unexpectedly, through mutual friends. Beforehand, she’d been wishing to meet a man worthy of being in a relationship with and throughout our conversations, she’d defined this ideal man as warm, loving, gentle, easygoing and nurturing. Shortly after, she met two interesting individuals but decided neither of them were it. Refusing to give up or allow her vibration to lower, she was simply grateful for meeting them at all.

The exact list of qualities her new man had to possess allowed her to keep a clearer focus than she even realized. After meeting each of the two preceding candidates, I would ask her if she thought this was it and both times, she was unsure but completely at ease. A part of her even started to feel that being alone was what she truly needed; then, one afternoon, she informed me of meeting someone new. Shortly after, she decided that things would work out between them.

Her communication with him continued and soon, they’d made a movie date. It went so well that texting followed the hug good night but then, she suddenly feared she had said something wrong. In her mind, the texting had gone awry on her side but in mine, nothing was wrong as he continued to write to her. The two of us joined forces and gradually changed the energy she was giving to the situation.

My contention was that she’d said something wrong only if she decided so.

If she chose to see the situation as a light one and decided it was bringing her closer to her end goal, it would be so. Law of Attraction responds to our feelings and the energy we emit therefore I suggested she focused on how happy she was that their relationship was coming to life. Unsure, she would proceed to say good night to me, too. The next morning, she informed me that her feeling of having “messed things up” continued, resulting in further action on her part which perpetuated that belief. Reading her descriptive messages, I became even more convinced that details only gain magnitude if we choose to assign it to them.

My new contention stated that what she saw as a big deal didn’t have to be a big deal to him and won’t be unless she decided so.

All of us assign different meaning to different things in life. One can obsess about a text they’d received while the idea behind it may have been completely irrelevant in the sender’s mind. I once threw up after too many Mojitos in front of my date and thought it was the last I’d ever hear from him until he made a surprise visit shortly after. When I told him that I had wondered if he was put off after my amateur drinking episode, he said he hadn’t thought about it much since. We all decide what we give meaning to and I’d decided my friend needed to only give meaning to her end goal – a relationship with the man she’d chosen. Soon, she managed to replace the majority of her discomfort with relaxation and decided to forget everything she thought she’d worded wrongly. Then, she added the main ingredient – honesty.

Feeling comfortable doing so and completely relaxed, she embraced full honesty in her approach to him and told him why she’d behaved the way she did. Her delivery was honest and light. After he saw that she possessed this rare quality while being loving, spontaneous and feminine, she became irresistible to him.

I’d defined openness of heart and the wish to give love to everyone and everything as her natural manifestation strength as well as general tendencies. In my opinion, she didn’t need to visualize unless it came to her spontaneously (I am much more of a natural visualization practitioner – one must select the techniques they enjoy the most) and her need to feel love and bliss every second of the day would ensure she attached positive emotion to her desire and let it go in order to manifest rapidly. Defining one’s natural manifestation tendencies helps produce the feeling of effortless results. Her openness of heart directed her to a completely honest place, a place she continues to feel more comfortable in than she ever thought possible.

Another interesting date situation in which we’d joined energies involved his tardiness. She was unsure what had happened and I’d said everything was fine. Expecting him to come over but starting to get worried due to his absence, she was unsure of what to think. I felt calm about it and thanked the Universe for him making it safe to their date. Then, I told her he’d message within the hour and let her know he was on his way. Do you know when his message came? About a minute later and followed by a legitimate reason for his tardiness.

From then on, their communication and dates ran smoothly, even when a few small disagreements came up. “Smoothly and enjoyably” was her goal with all her attention directed towards it. Shortly after only being grateful for being together and seeing a smooth flow, their relationship became effortless. Smooth sailing manifests when it becomes all we see, regardless of what happens. When obstacles fail to be perceived as obstacles, they disappear.

How did all this make me even happier?

Manifesting help, circumstances or an end result for someone else turns out to be one of the most rewarding experiences of my life every single time I do it. Making someone I love happy equals (and equates) making myself happy. However, it also enables me to let go. In case I’m manifesting something I struggle to harness positivity towards, focusing on someone else’s goal and knowing I can help manifest it fills me with love, lightness and confidence. I have always been able to manifest for those I love and I use that gift often.


Serial Boredom in Relationships

Various concerns may appear when manifesting relationships. Some might doubt their ability to use the Law of Attraction successfully; others might hold feelings of anger or annoyance towards specific people they are manifesting while others could face the challenge of trying too hard to manifest without feeling that their desire is already a part of their life.

My concern has always been – what if I get bored?

Whenever I want to create anything, I never doubt my ability to do so. Occasionally, I need to take a few days to get used to the feeling of having it in my life – I need to allow it to feel natural to me. However, I used to absolutely dread manifesting a specific person and feeling stuck as a result.

Boredom is a feeling that used to mean absolute fear to me. Whereas I’ve seen many individuals focus on having a relationship with someone they love and be happy, I had mistakenly focused on the fear of getting stuck in an ordinary, grey relationship. Unmistakably, this I ended up manifesting more than once – a relationship would start the way I wished but turn grey fast. Not just uneventful but as severe as grey, leaving me feeling stuck, kicking and screaming to break free.

Occasionally, I wondered if I had suffered from uniqueness. Did I truly think I was so much more interesting than the men I was manifesting? Or had I simply manifested the exact same set of circumstances every time to ensure that a relationship would be short-lasting? Was I chasing a high or true, permanent happiness?

Ultimately, I realized that it didn’t matter. Whatever I was doing, my fear of boredom in relationships with anyone was preventing me from experiencing happiness. That boredom was the problem. Another problem I had faced was realizing that love can disappear but not everyone around me agreed.

Without trying to demean any heartfelt advice I have ever gotten, I found that some of my friends who tend to be in long-term relationships sometimes lessened the feeling of love I had felt for my exes with their words. Those whose love relationships lasted for years would tell me I didn’t know what love was simply because I felt it for short periods of time. I have no resentment towards them – they were simply trying to help but were telling me their story because it was all they knew.

Years of research have showed me that love can and does disappear from one day to another whenever it does, be that day two months or two years into the relationship.

The length of our love relationships depends on us; our energy can make or break any relationship we enter. Our thoughts are energy and they create our lives; one is able to dismantle their love relationship just as easily as they had once created it.

All my love relationships which had ended only months in were manifested that way; every one of those times, I had consciously manifested a love relationship for a specific period of time. Knowing that someone wasn’t “the one” didn’t stop me from living a relationship experience with them. In the end, why not? We were happy for as long as it lasted and who in the world would say no to happiness?

In retrospect, my fear of boredom might have encouraged me to enter relationships mainly with those I saw myself being happy with for short periods of time. I figured, “If we were together for just a short time, we can never get terminally bored.” Today, I see things differently. I see the upsides of long-term relationships instead of their downsides. I feel that I can make a long-term relationship exciting because I have the desire to do so.

I know that our relationships can be whatever we choose for them to be instead of having to be a certain way and while researching my personal relationship resistance, I knew that I had to observe my past behaviors in a loving way. Emotions such as embarrassment, fear of losing your partner or constantly dissecting the negative sides of the relationship will result in resistance only strengthening and never fading.

The idea of having to change our own feelings for our external world to change is completely true. The time and the focus placed towards achieving this goal will be worth anyone’s effort.

Boredom had created more boredom for me while love always creates more love… For anyone.

Settling For What You Want… Nothing Less

When you love yourself fully, madly and unconditionally, you will only accept the notion of receiving exactly what you want… Nothing less. If necessary, you will keep moving forward with manifestation until you get there.

This principle has been used by several Law of Attraction practitioners and I have used it since childhood. Only accepting what I want in life because it’s what I deserve always came to me naturally. The idea of not being able to have everything I wanted felt beyond unnatural – the only question was whether or not I wanted to live a particular experience.

I have covered some of these things in the past but I continue to learn and look for ways to pass on these concepts to others. Every day, I understand more and more why the Law of Attraction is difficult for many to grasp. While listening to them, I look for new ways to explain what needs to be brought into awareness in order to improve. The rules remain – the internal forms the external. Thought forms life.

When reading some of the Law of Attraction materials or even my former blog posts, they can all sound exactly the same. When one’s manifestation abilities come naturally, they may read these materials and understand exactly what is being said but what about those who simply need a small nudge to awaken their manifesting abilities which we all carry inside us?

My personal examples on this blog exist to encourage others to focus on the principles behind manifestation which can materialize into different or similar events in their own lives. I am confident that these specifics are continuously providing others with more understanding of the Law of Attraction.

Today, I want to explore the idea of only receiving what we wish to receive… Nothing less.

I deserve to have everything that makes me happy because I deserve to be happy. I make others happy because I intend to do so. I inspire others because I intend to do so and I manifest constant inspiration for myself. I am loved, surrounded by love and I attract love every day. I manifest money because it enables me to have and do what I desire as well as help others by donating it. I manifested job offers out of thin air and felt that I deserved them because I’ll always have a lot to offer. I feel amazing about being a vegan because I love animals beyond words. I focus on the people I consider to be great because recognizing greatness of another means recognizing your own. The option of having what I want is an effortless, natural idea to me. When I achieve the feeling of knowing that what I desire is mine, I stay in it – this is a unique energy to be wrapped in. The best part is, no one evoked it inside me but myself alone. Even when the outside world doesn’t show that my desire is manifesting, I know it is because I know how powerful my thoughts are. I only accept the creation coming from my positive thoughts which leads to my desires manifesting unconditionally. I only accept my inner courage and knowing.

Remember this – unless it came from a true change of heart, settling for less equates giving up on your dreams. Sometimes, what we think we want is not what makes us happy in the end. When one believes they deserve to have what they want, they automatically believe that everyone in the world deserves the same. When they share their manifestations with others, they’re never bragging but instead, share their stories to help others learn as much as possible about manifesting their own dreams; also, to inform them that manifesting dreams into reality is possible and even easy.

Without repeating that our power is limitless, we need to be aware of creation starting and ending with ourselves. Like attracts like therefore confidence can only attract situations in which we feel even more confident. Same goes for chaotic and painful thoughts which attract even more of the same and every loving thought and action we send out into the Universe. This is why it is so important to stay happy; that way, we attract even more happiness, including the specific things we desire.

Many are plagued by the fear of failing to manifest their desires. One of the most difficult concepts to grasp may be believing in a thought without physical evidence of it creating but this is the primary law of the Universe. Thought always precedes matter and if you look back, you will see plenty of evidence to support this law. Throughout your life, you have known that some things would happen and they did – same goes for everything you know every day. You know you’re living in your house, you know you have your parents, friends, job, clothes and your physical body. In the same way, you can decide what you wish to manifest and it will appear in your life.

Some struggle with unexpected curve balls on their manifestation journey. The good news is, they can easily be removed. Why was your curve ball thrown at you? According to one of the basic Law of Attraction rules, if you decide it came for a good reason, it will be so. If you decide that you are failing to manifest your desire, it will be so.

However, when you are unconditionally focused on your goal and only accept the option of receiving it, curve balls either stop being thrown or you simply refuse to view them as such. You refuse to see any obstacles because the Universe can only give you what you desire and nothing less.

When clarity and focus on your end goal are all that you give attention to, nothing can derail you. To those who have yet to achieve unconditional belief in their ideal end result manifesting, curve balls will serve as confusion which will then manifest into even more chaos.

Curve balls are thrown when we are impatient or not 100% comfortable with what we desire. This has happened to me in the past and after finally relaxing about it, I realized why my energy had caused those events. In my case, it was because I was trying to manifest something I didn’t truly want out of love. Do you love what you are wishing to manifest? Our personal energies are balanced with trust, immense trust in the Universe to give us what we desire so strongly. Yes, going through a curve ball situation is stressful and can increase impatience; however, when our focus lies on our unconditional happiness, with or without manifesting our desire (an energy clearing way of thinking), we can finally relax.

Today, my former curve balls seem insignificant to me and I wished I had felt that way when they arrived. If you need to take some time to decide what you want, be OK with that. Thank the Universe for helping you become the person who knows what they want as if it’s already done. 

When we realize that all we have today is this moment, with everything we already have in our lives, all the love we already receive on a daily basis, everything we are grateful to have and would never want to lose… We can relax. Do you want to feel miserable this very moment or do you want to be as happy today as you will be once your desires have manifested?

What about those who feel undeserving of amazing things in life? They are unhappy with who they are. Are you happy with who you are? I am. I am an amazing friend, I manifested my ideal weight, I am building a career I wish to have, I have always donated money to charity and the idea of living my wildest dreams was something I became used to. Listen to yourself. If you suffer from the idea of being undeserving, step one is to use the Law of Attraction to become a person you will love being.

It all starts from self-belief which can be manifested with love but also, one must love their manifestation tools. A friend of mine uses an evidence journal to record the signs of her desire manifesting and while doing this, the certainty grows in her mind. If she gets stuck, she seeks help and receives it. Another close friend of mine chose to feel love for everyone and everything, consciously sending out heart energy and only visualizing when it comes to her spontaneously. Actually, she hasn’t decided to do this – it is a way of manifesting that effortlessly makes her happy.

Listen to yourself.

Here’s a common mistake – while looking for a job, one may go about it in two ways. Some might keep focus on having their dream job while using the job search process as inspired action of getting to their goal; others will likely focus on the job search process and complain about there being no job positions available for them which will lead to more of the same. Have you done any of these things in the past? Do you deserve your dream job or a continuous job search? The choice is yours.