You may think you have to improve before becoming worthy of your desires. The truth is you can attract anything you want to live in your present circumstances. However, it is certainly less than amusing to experience one’s mind wandering, coming up with ridiculous scenarios of the undesirable.
Once, I was accused of seeing someone else by a boyfriend I was close to breaking up with. Our relationship already overwrought, he’d come to this conclusion after not being able to account for my absence of several hours after which I’d returned home with messy hair, sweaty clothes and jumped in the shower immediately.
I wasn’t seeing anyone. I’d been on the move the entire day and spent three hours at a friend’s overheated apartment. Afterwards, I ran to see another friend, nearly missing the bus. My run from her apartment to the bus station in padded, heeled boots, simultaneously putting on a wool cap, entering the bus and departing only to enter another heated apartment effectively frizzed my naturally curly hair and caused me to sweat on the synthetic clothes underneath my winter coat.
Makes you think about the crazy scenarios one’s tense mind can be allowed to write.
When you permit these negative thoughts surrounding your desire to take over your awareness, you are doing so because you are aware of the lack of your manifestation – nothing else. Your fears connect completely separate aspects of your life into a single story, causing you to see conspiracy everywhere.
When thinking about everything that could go wrong with your desire, you are still focusing on the absence of it – after all, doesn’t your desire entail its presence in your life instead of everything going wrong with it?
Feel free to release those thoughts.
Are you afraid of the excitement your desire evokes at its thought? Embrace it!
You can think about your desire as much as it makes you happy but only as long as you think of it as something you’re thrilled to have in your life. If you think about all the things you want to do before receiving it, what you should do in order to finally have it or what you need to improve, you’re perpetuating the absence of it from your life. This is where mind energy and heart energy may collide or work together, depending on your awareness.
What happens when you feel too weak to shake off your negative thoughts?
There is a way to use this energy to your advantage.
I have recently read that fear and excitement have a very similar effect on the human body’s nervous system. This notion made perfect sense to me, as some of my strongly emotion-filled manifestation moments came out of fear. An excellent motivator when used instead of resisted, fear has allowed me to produce positive emotion towards any desire with a simple change of thought.
Imagine getting emotional over a negative thought, simply changing it into a thought of having your desire and allowing the accompanying emotional charge to suddenly feel electric instead of somber. Try it and let me know how it goes.
One of my greatest convictions in life is that every situation can be used to my advantage, yet another advantage leading to the achieving of my goal. Fear turned into excitement corresponds with that idea perfectly.
These Law of Attraction studies we do together exist for you to understand energy – not to put pressure on you to achieve the “perfect” way of thinking.