Are You Afraid to Let Go?

The fear of letting go only means you are not vibrating at a high enough frequency to live your desire just yet.

This is why we can only see ourselves having our desires when we’re happy. Makes sense, right?

It’s amazing what we can see ourselves having when we’re happy. In 2011, I manifested an all-expenses-paid trip to Brazil. I was already vibrating at a high level and dared to believe that this was mine. I was already in a happy relationship, living in a city I loved, doing my Master’s and manifested this without a problem. Isn’t that a great lesson in loving your current life in order to manifest even more into it?

If you fear letting go, you are actually in fear of your life staying the same in case you should suddenly let go of your desire. However, you fall into the wrong way of thinking when this becomes your perception, as letting go allows your desires to manifest instead of vaporize.

Law of Attraction can be confusing because it is the opposite of what many have grown up believing.

When you are happy, you can imagine yourself having anything you want. I understand that sometimes, a struggle lies in having to make your current life happy when all you want to do is escape; however, why should any part of your life ever be unhappy? Don’t you deserve to have fun, be happy and feel fulfilled no matter what you do?

You can love your current life and manifest your dream one.

Those who fall into the trap of trying to make their current reality happier without trying often attempt to manifest signs of their desires manifesting. If they fail to see a specific sign just once, their vibration is at lowers without effort. Instead, they should appreciate everything they already have – cook an extravagant meal, go out with their friends, play with their dogs, go shopping, have a bubble bath, pick out work outfits for the following days, read a book, see a movie, listen to music, donate some money or clothes, manifest some money just for fun, go for a walk, visit their parents or get a mani pedi.

Regardless of where I am, I like to focus on the parts of it I find beautiful, tasteful, stimulating, fun, relaxing or just happy. I love good food and coffee. I love clothes, organic cosmetics and great conversations. I love spreading good mood onto others. I love animals, music, dancing and laughing, writing, books, acting and movies. I love both traveling and photography. I love dog walking. I love spending time with my friends. I could go on but you get the idea.

I have recently learned that essential oils are a proven method of raising one’s vibration, as they naturally vibrate on high frequencies. Last summer, I used my oil burner as usual but for the first time, I started to feel different. I didn’t know if it meant anything until just weeks ago, when I was told about this natural quality of essential oils. Then, I received an article corroborating the claim. Now that you know this, do you see yourself even happier at home while enjoying this fragrance bliss?

I used to use essential oils often but since discovering their most amazing benefits, I’ve been using them daily.

Last week, I attended the opening of an exhibit by an accomplished photographer and artist. His pieces striking  and stimulating, the audience a mix of acquaintances, friends, celebrities and new faces with a private concert as well as traditional catering, this event provided for a great reminder of the many lovely individuals I know and the fun I can have.

Here’s a quick snap on the way out:

Thank you #stefanlupino for the wonderful opening! #lupinizam

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Several weeks ago, my 13-year-old cousin had her first night on the town. My friends and I took her out on a Saturday night, giving her a taste of the party scene. She had an amazing time. She was dressed trendy while I went slightly classic but sexy. My friends treated her as an equal. She was up for a good time, fun conversations and discussing the cutest member of One Direction. She drank Coke while we drank gin and tonic in great moderation. She laughed while I sang loudly and danced to Wham! in my seat, with one of my friends. She was entertained by funny boyfriend stories. The police greeted us in the street. We made sure that by law, she had no curfew if accompanied by an adult and knew the places we were allowed to take her as long as she steered clear of alcohol. Our late night cab ride home was also fun, as the dancing never stopped. It was a great night.

Saturday night, I visited family friends. The meal served resembled a French cuisine spread – various types of cheese, home-made bread, select meats, olives and red wine. I couldn’t believe how much I ate. The conversation ignited many laughs. At one point, the group split into sports followers that occupied the living room and coffee-drinking, current events discussion participants who remained in the dining room. Then, it was men and women separately.

All these examples provide proof that we all have the ability to make our lives interesting but fun. Perceiving your own life as interesting and fun just as it is allows you to raise your vibration and bring even more love into it. Positive events such as these allow you to feel love for yourself, your life and all the exciting parts of it while suddenly giving you a chance to be able to see yourself living your dream life.

I’m off to buy more candles and essential oils.

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6 thoughts on “Are You Afraid to Let Go?

  1. Life really is amazing and don’t focus enough to on how good things are .
    Gratitude is always the first step ,for me always was . I hope this is going to be helpful for everyone . I started slow and at the beginning it might be a bit of struggle to see good stuff in life. I started slow . I used to write lists of stuff that I’m grateful for every day ..started from simple things like from actually being alive,healthy ,sunny weather . That list would get bigger every day and seeing so many positive things I had already made me motice more and more and everything around me would just be getting better . How can you not be positive knowing how blessed you are ? That really helps and changes our perespective .
    I love you wrote about letting go and I think it does work in many ways . For me it might be forgetting about things ,not caring about what I want so much or at all ,some desires are always on my mind ,there’s not a day I wouldn’t think about them but as long as I’m happy about them ,excited ,know they are coming to life they manifest too .
    I can honestly say I have never gotten what I wanted when I was negative about it or keep thinking about it going wrong . For me there are always two options . If I want something and I’m happy about and know it’s the only option it always come true . If I want something and at the same time keep thinking about what might go wrong along the way it’s either a very bumpy road to reaciving it and then I can’t really be happy with it afterwards or it just fades away and I give up on it and it becomes completely unimportant to me .
    Your last post Nina are great I honestly agree with everything you say . There’s no perfect way ,the idea is the same but works different for everyone and it’s always about what makes us feel good while doing it . I love thinking about some of my desires ,I love the feeling of knowing and with that type of feeling I’m more aware of how the process is moving forward (by sigs,internal feeling sometimes ) .
    Do you experience it that way too ?
    (Sorry if I write to much ,I’m just so used to talk about law of attraction and haw it works with everyone ,I love sharing and comparing 😂😊)

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    1. I agree with everything you’ve said as well. I do experience creation in this way – all of the knowing, events, signs or anything else translates into those specific factors.
      You’ve covered it all in your comment, very impressive 😀 I would like to invite others to read it (and re-read it) very carefully, it’s excellent xx

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      1. Hi Nina,

        First, I would like to say how much of an inspiration your blog + comments have been to me. I recently came across your blog and it seriously has been a blessing in disguise. I have learned so much reading through everything.

        I will try to keep my story as short as possible. A month ago, the guy I was seeing cut off all contact with me. We had been seeing each other for 9 months and everything was going great. However, we had a terrible argument and it ended messy. I went through the dreadful stage of begging and pleading to him to just talk it out with me. However after all my attempts to talk, his anger about the situation overpowered. We have not spoken in weeks. I would really like to have him back into my life and pursue a beautiful relationship.

        For the past 2 weeks, I have been practicing key elements you have explained in your blog posts. I have been visualizing wonderful moments with him along with writing out how I want my ideal relationship to be with him. I have been going out with friends more and just doing little things I enjoy. However, I find myself getting backtracked when I hear a love song or seeing something particular that brings me down and makes me miss him again. For the most part, I am staying positive and focusing my time elsewhere. Sometimes, I even have conversations with him while looking at our pictures. I hope that does not sound too weird. However, I feel that I may be doing something wrong or maybe I am missing something. How do I visualize moments with him and still be able to let go of the situation? I would highly appreciate your advice.

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  2. Hi Nina,

    First, I would like to say how much of an inspiration your blog + comments have been to me. I recently came across your blog and it seriously has been a blessing in disguise. I have learned so much reading through everything.

    I will try to keep my story as short as possible. A month ago, the guy I was seeing cut off all contact with me. We had been seeing each other for 9 months and everything was going great. However, we had a terrible argument and it ended messy. I went through the dreadful stage of begging and pleading to him to just talk it out with me. However after all my attempts to talk, his anger about the situation overpowered. We have not spoken in weeks. I would really like to have him back into my life and pursue a beautiful relationship.

    For the past 2 weeks, I have been practicing key elements you have explained in your blog posts. I have been visualizing wonderful moments with him along with writing out how I want my ideal relationship to be with him. I have been going out with friends more and just doing little things I enjoy. However, I find myself getting backtracked when I hear a love song or seeing something particular that brings me down and makes me miss him again. For the most part, I am staying positive and focusing my time elsewhere. Sometimes, I even have conversations with him while looking at our pictures. I hope that does not sound too weird. However, I feel that I may be doing something wrong or maybe I am missing something. How do I visualize moments with him and still be able to let go of the situation? I would highly appreciate your advice.

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    1. Hi Pamela! Thank you so much, how wonderful of you! 🙂
      It sounds to me like you know what you want but you still can’t see yourself having it. That is why you get sad when you remember something related, like a song. You’ve not made your peace with what happened just yet and that is crucial to creating something new. Once you make peace with the past, you can stop reacting to it emotionally.
      You can do a simple thing to check in with yourself and see how you feel. When you visualize or talk to him, do you truly believe that this reality is possible? The answer will show you where you are.
      I’ve read all your comments and you said you were being ignored by him which tells me you still focus on the current reality instead of pulling all your focus to the ideal reality you want to be living. Practicing your belief is necessary. I also want you to ask yourself why you don’t believe you can have it. If you start your visualization from the belief that you CAN, it will feel real.
      You CAN make peace with the past. People do the best they can and now that you know better, you can influence both of you (and your relationship) with love. He didn’t mean to hurt you; a difficult situation just made you both frustrated. You weren’t entirely happy with it which is why you broke up but as soon as you are able to see yourself being happy with him again, you will be 🙂

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