THOUGHT OF THE DAY

If you don’t believe in having your desire, a belief containedย within you, you could see a million signs and still not believe.

If you believe, you do so regardless of the signs you are seeing (or, not).

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35 thoughts on “THOUGHT OF THE DAY

  1. Hi .
    Just want to share a quick story about a certain project I wanted to complete and how my mindset effected it along the way .
    It was something I wanted to do and it was on my mind for a while . There was no pressure so the person crucial to it eventually came to me asking to get the project going (I don’t have to offer it ,he came to me ) .The timing wasn’t ideal but I knew it will happen eventually. I gave him a timing when we starting and promised to make this happen as he really wanted it (it was almost as if I’m doing him a massive favour ) Of course things played in way that everything became possible and pretty much ready to go . For some reason I started thinking that he might not be interested in it after all and it all got weird . I got strange messages from him delaying things ,putting them on hold . He wasn’t interested very much and tried to blow me off .All of sudden I was the one convincing him to start a project which he insisted on doing together before . I realized I’m complicating this and decided the whole thing will be sorted out and motion by the end of the week and if not it’s ok too ,it’s his loss ,I’m ok where I am anyway . I just stop thinking about going bad or worring about it at all .
    Sunday afternoon he came over personally and told me he really wants to start as soon as possible and even will put on hold other obligation to be fully on board . Done .
    It always works like that with everything.

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  2. I think its all about believing you can actually have what you want. If you believe to the point you see it already happened then it becomes so. So the EFT for me helped in the doubts that were blocking my belief. Its all about your belief. You can have anything you believe.

    Take care, C

    Sent using CloudMagic Email [https://cloudmagic.com/k/d/mailapp?ct=pa&cv=8.0.67&pv=4.4.2&source=email_footer_2] On Tue, Dec 08, 2015 at 1:48 PM, The Law of Attraction and My Life wrote: Nina Grdic posted: “If you don’t believe in having your desire, a belief contained within you, you could see a million signs and still not believe. If you believe, you do so regardless of the signs you are seeing (or, not).”

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      1. yup…at least that was my experience. The hard part for me as I explained to Nina was sure I believed but I would also be plagued with doubts about my belief which meant I was seesawing between feeling good about my belief and then panicking it may never happen. So as we chatted with Nina she let me know I may be having some counter beliefs/doubts that were causing me to flip flop on the issue. So I figured I had doubts as to whether I was worthy of my desire and I have been doing EFT to remove the doubts. It worked and continues to work for me….

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      1. hi. is it Greta? Mine is actually Carolyn. And I am doing great!! Loving reading through the posts and comments and I absolutely relate to some of the experiences . I am sooo glad to have discovered this blog and particularly Nina . Isnt she just the best! Her grasp of LOA and more importantly encouragement , patience and wisdom is just so precious. It can and is as easy as she says. I feel light and happy and really good and things just keep getting better and better. We got this right?!

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      2. Hi Carolyn,

        No this is Clare. Thanks for writing back. I really admire your progress and of course Nina as well. Yes I feel that Nina has an amazing way of explaining and Interpruting the LOA so it is much easier to understand how it works and therefore Believe in its power. I have only recently really started to Believe like have the unshakable faith and At the same time I have managed to remain super happy and positive for the first time ever. A lot of good things have already started happening!๐Ÿ˜„

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      3. Hi Clare. Thanks for your comments . So glad to hear of your progress. It is also quite encouraging to me and I am delighted we are all benefiting from each other. It can only get better

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      4. Hi Clare. Thanks for your comments . So glad to hear of your progress. It is also quite encouraging to me and I am delighted we are all benefiting from each other. It can only get better๏˜Š

        Take care, C

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  3. I’ve been reading all the comments and all I’m copletely addicted ๐Ÿ˜‚.
    I was also a little hard for me figure out what belief really is and how to believe .
    I’m very blessed with my friends and family and people around me overall so I can always be open about anything . I do tell them I believe in power of human mind and how it works and all that . I don’t care if anyone would judge me or think I’m a little crazy ,they don’t anyway. I’d be open about it with my boyfriend too ,maybe wouldn’t be getting into many details about our situation so he doesn’t think I’m practising some sort of witchcraft ๐Ÿ˜œ.
    For me the breakthrough moment was when I discussed with my friends what is that make us like each other ,what makes us think of each other in certain way ,being certain type of people to each other and how do believe in all that . You gotta get deep into it but it’s something u know very well and can understand it better that way . Why do you think that that person like you ? What is your way of thinking when it comes to that person ? How do you get what you expect from that person ?
    It helped me a lot and hope it might help others too .๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Šxx

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    1. You know what one of my past issues was? Not getting a specific person, never that but whether or not I could be happy in a relationship with him or any other man. However, that was also the way I discovered that you have to see yourself being happy with someone in order to manifest a relationship with them. Many think it’s about getting the person (no, we don’t own anyone) but it’s actually about believing that you can be in a (happy) relationship with your specific person. If you don’t think he/she could be a good partner or that you could be happy with them and want to make them happy (or be able to), that’s an inner block or a sign that you don’t actually want them.
      If I appreciate a man for who he is and want to make him happy, I have made my choice.
      I am very flattered that you love the blog so much. I can say that we have a great community here filled with amazing people focused on the positive in themselves and their lives! ๐Ÿ˜€ Thank you everyone xx

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      1. Hi Nina,

        This is exactly my issue right now. I can’t picture being happy with anyone, nor my specific person. I don’t think that means that I don’t want to be with anyone, or don’t want any relationship, I think it is an inner block/resistance instead.

        What did you to get rid of that resistance exactly?

        Also, I’m following along with the EFT videos you recommended. Are we supposed to repeat what she says, or just listen to her and feel?

        Thank you!

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      2. I just had to discover what kind of relationship and man I wanted. Also, this belief usually means you’re unhappy with yourself, your life or at least an aspect of it. I had to look at the reasons why I believed relationships were so boring and I came to learn what I wanted in a man and what would make me truly happy in a relationship.
        It’s all about getting to know yourself.
        I never rushed the process and it didn’t take that long to realize what I wanted.
        When it comes to EFT, you can do either. The point is to do whichever makes you feel good. You can switch them around – repeat out loud at times and at others, you can repeat it to yourself. However, repeating out loud helps, in my opinion.

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      3. This is the thing . It’s such a good point .
        I’m can only speak for myself and what I know is only based on my own experiences.
        When I look back ,think about the times things were going so smoothly I felt great ,amazing ,in fact so good it was mind blowing and I hardly had a need to fix myself or think about my confidence . I didn’t have work on myself to be happy ,was happy and the only think that would be even better was knowing that I make him happy too . Making him happy was the most rewarding feeling and I’d always get it in return . When you’re happy you got so much to give to others . Nothing can bring you down because you’re know exactly who you are and how blessed you are .
        This only my opinion ,hope no one will get hurt and I’m guilty of that too every now and again . When we want something we think that will fill the void we feel but the truth is only we can do it ourselves . I don’t think that any of our loved ones wants to serve us a building block . That’s a huge ,heavy burden they shouldn’t have to carry for us and I doubt we are really willing to do it for them or anyone else .
        I don’t . As cruel as it sounds I walk away from it . I try my best as long as I can but if it’s still not enough I just want to take off and avoid it .Nina you always say it’s all about us and it’s so true . When we doubt those people we want we really doubt ourselves . I see a difficult manifestation as reflexion of that now . It’s like working very hard on keeping yourself in a positive mood and eventually it is becoming a way of life and we get closer to what we want ,we are half way there and then after all this journey we start to doubt again . We are so close and come back to being dependent on people we manifest ,almost as if all our happiness depends on them(we completely forget that before we got here we could do it all by ourselves ) . So I guess they need to pull away from us . It’s too much being constantly under pressure like that .
        When you feel loved you don’t need to be told that ,when you feel sexy and confident you don’t even expect complements.
        When you’re happy you don’t need anyone to make u happy ,you just spread the joy and make others happy .

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      4. I really discoved a lot of about myself because of this blog .
        I searched for those answers inside me for quite a while and in a space of a few days I was reading this I became so much lighter . Maybe is also writing it that makes it sounder to me .
        Now when I think about my past visualizations I can see how much they are dictated by the mood I’m in at the time . How different are the ones showing up randomly when I’m very happy and positive ( they just flow smoothly ,out of no where and we are both so content ) to the ones that I see still having resistance going on (theyre kinda simple and reflect him assuring me of how he feels for me ) .
        When you happy the biggest dream seems possible and it’s so easy to believe it .
        No my case I think I was still very attached to our past bad experiences and I couldn’t overcome the fear of it reapiting again( funny enough he did reassure me its not his intention the last time yet I still wouldn’t let that go ๐Ÿ˜ and thought of the worse happening )
        Thanks a lot for all your great posts ๐Ÿ˜Š

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      1. Hi Nina
        Just in the last day or so I picked up on some mistakes I had been making.
        1) My first one was for some reason I kept checking my phone (ARGH!!) for a message from him which I shouldn’t be doing as we are already together. :/
        2) My second mistake is that a friend and I went to a cafe in the area he lives in a few times this week (and no it wasn’t planned it just happened to be the suburb he lives in) and I found myself ‘looking for him’ (!!!) ARGH!!! Again sending out to the universe that I don’t believe I am already with him!
        3) And then, I hate to even type this, it’s become VERY clear to me now that I am STILL in the space of *not believing* as I remember thinking AND feeling that ‘I just don’t believe that he could ever love me or want to be with me’ ‘I just don’t see it’
        I have this disbelief that he would ever want to be with me. I guess maybe I look at him and feel that maybe he’s either to good for me or out of my league. It feels more like ‘why would he ever be interested in me?’
        Can’t tell you how disheartening that was to realise that these beliefs are STILL there.
        Can you please tell me what you really think the issue is so I can do EFT on it because now I’ve developed a fear that if I don’t fix this I’ll be to late. :/
        Just based on point 3 what do you think the issue is? Worthiness? Not good enough? Or something else I can’t see?
        Thanks again. Xxx

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      2. Just to add to my above comment…

        ‘I just can’t see him ever coming around’ that’s another thing I hear myself say.
        I think it’s also that he’s so stubborn I can’t see him backing down blah blah blah. You get it.
        If you asked me do you believe that he would ever want to be with you or love me the answer would be no…

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      3. And one last thing again (apologies)
        From the start I remember thinking ‘he would never be interested in me’
        What exactly is my issue?
        Thanks so much for your help xxx

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      4. Hey Gretta, I read all your comments ๐Ÿ™‚ Don’t worry at all – you can fix all of this. To begin, I would also like to say that LoA has proven to us many times that there is no such thing as “too late,” as it is a term people assign to their situations according to their own perceptions.
        When it comes to you ending up in his neighborhood on completely unrelated errands, to me that would be a sign of the desire manifesting! You have to appreciate all the signs you are getting and how easy you have it, physical distance wise. I have been in relationships with people who have lived abroad several times and spending less time in each other’s company than you would like can be hard. You are lucky! He already lives so close by. These factors are not crucial to manifesting a relationship but they’re blessings. They really are.
        Now that you see that all these things were good signs which you didn’t see because you felt like you didn’t believe, does having your desire sound possible? ๐Ÿ™‚
        From what you are saying, you are definitely feeling undeserving of living your desire. However, you are just putting him on a pedestal instead of seeing him for who he is while loving him for it. He isn’t better than you. Nobody’s better than anybody. I’m not better than you or him. You see what I mean? People need to value each other but when you appreciate someone and create that energy, you will receive appreciation back from him. Also, when you appreciate your amazing relationship with him, it will be drawn to you like a magnet.
        These are the limiting beliefs I would tap on – feeling undeserving of him and your relationship, occasional lack of self-esteem holding you back/feeling that you’re not good enough to be with him and be loved by him, feeling undeserving of receiving the relationship.
        If you use the channel I recommended, you have videos directly related to limiting beliefs, resistance, not good enough and the lack of alignment with your desires and forgiveness (for both yourself and him). Also, getting rid of anxiety.
        Sometimes, issues dissolve mid-session. I remember last summer, I was tapping to get rid of some break-up negativity and one day, I forgot what my issue was while I was tapping above my eye! Just relax and let it happen ๐Ÿ™‚
        Also, don’t trust your decisions or fears when you’re upset. When a person is upset, their body is tense and the brain doesn’t actually work at full capacity – this is why many make decisions they later regret while in an upset state. Only when you relax and feel good do you see things clearly. Love is the ultimate clarity.
        It gives me great pleasure to help. My calling is to help people learn about themselves, life, the Universe, to own their power and experience all the love they’ve ever wanted in their life by feeling and expressing it ๐Ÿ™‚ I am so sorry you felt this way but I honestly think you’ll feel much better now xxxx

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      5. Hi Nina.
        Thanks for the reply.
        When we ended up in his area I did think, ‘wow, this maybe a sign of it manifesting!’ Because it’s not a place we normally go to. It’s a bit of a drive. But then we ended up going back to this cafe 4 times for different reasons and by the 4th time I got a bit down because I realised that I had started ‘looking out for him’ the last 2 times. As I said we never go to this area as its a bit of a drive and even tho I was starting to look for him towards the end, I admit also that it was a bizzare feeling to be in a suburb I hadn’t been to in over a year and after being able to hold my visualisations for the first time EVER. A lot of better changes have happened also, I no longer hold any resentment towards him and his mother. I found myself having to work on his mother more also because it hurt so much that this woman judged me so harshly and didn’t even know me. I don’t know if you remember but I said I was yelling at them in my head. That completely stopped. I did EFT on defending myself because that is what I was doing, the yelling in my head at them was me defending myself. Just realising as I type this, the yelling at them stopped and then I find myself in his suburb a week later 4 times (unplanned) now I can see the connection just between those 3 events, me working on the hurt, visualising and ending up where he lives (unplanned).
        I will work on ALL those points you made, the undeserving one stood at the most, It bought in the biggest reaction in me. I think it also extends out to other areas in my life also. What is the EFT channel you recommend? Do you have the link?
        Thanks again for the help. Xxx

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      6. I do remember the story with the mother and it’s amazing that you’ve forgiven that entire situation.
        Feeling undeserving will be resolved. But this is why it can be very good to experience negative thoughts – they reveal so many things related to awareness and they show up so that they can be resolved. After you ask for your desire, they appear to help you become the person you need to be in order to happily live your desire.
        I’m so happy to help ๐Ÿ™‚
        Here is my favorite EFT expert whom I definitely recommend:
        https://www.youtube.com/user/EFTwithShalini/videos

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      7. Thanks for the reply!
        Yes, I do believe that ending up in the suburb revealed the few blocks that are still present so it was a blessing in disguise. ๐Ÿ™‚ I will get into the EFT.
        Thanks again! Xxx

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  4. Hi Greta, I use to be exactly like you but with Nina’s help I was able to identify my issues and work through them. I am still a work in progress but I notice my level of belief is directly related to my level of confidence and your really have to be in a happy positive frame of mind.

    I know it is difficult but you will get there and soon you will be believing he is lucky to have me!

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