Keeping Focus on Your Ultimate Goal

Since I mentioned this in my last few blog comments, I will elaborate on it now.

Some find themselves to be capable of keeping a limited amount of focus on their end goal while overthinking its potential development or painful past experiences in the meantime.

Several times, I’ve manifested using the following set of personally devised steps.

  1. Capture the feeling of having/living your desire now. See yourself in it. Dare to feel overwhelmed with love, having received your desire. Feel it! Then, say “Thank you.”
  2. Ask the Universe to give your desire to you and then, thank the Universe for having received it. You will end up using almost the exact same words for both. I think both of those because I know that as soon as I ask, my desired reality is created. Then, the only thing left is to receive it.
  3. Every time you feel tempted to entertain your negative thoughts (if you do at all), remember that since you asked for your desire, you must receive it.
  4. Whenever you want to (if you do), remember the feeling of having/living your desire from step one. If you would rather let go completely and forget about your desire until it manifests, you can.

This exceptionally brief series of steps often allows me to manifest within six, twelve or twenty-four hours. Other times, immediately, depending on the desire in question or how quickly I let go/am ready to receive what I had asked for.

WHY FOCUS ON YOUR END GOAL?

For one, focusing on the path your desire takes to manifest into your life will only lower your vibration. You will most likely want it to manifest faster, losing grasp on the gratitude you should feel for it.

Instead, be grateful that your desire is coming to you. Be grateful for your reality of living it, which will manifest soon.

Another reason why you should stop thinking about the path of your manifestation is your awareness of not having it yet. You can playfully imagine how it might happen but not cling to any of those ways.

Focusing on the “how” part can induce a sense of fear almost effortlessly. In my case, I don’t want to know how my desire will manifest – that part holds amazing surprises so why spoil it?

Be open to the most amazing surprises of your life! Be confident in yourself because you are unique and beautiful. Admire the person you are!

All of this sounds so simple only because it is.

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THOUGHT OF THE DAY

Be yourself! You don’t have to change who you are in order to live your desire.

You are beyond worthy enough already.

When you dare to be yourself, you will be and stay relaxed. Then, you will be able to easily connect with your confidence.

The Problems of Attachment

Do you feel like you “can have” some of your desires but others seem impossible to obtain?

This attitude presents a manifesting block and attachment to specific desires. You feel like you can’t live without those specific desires, feel unable to manifest them because they are “bigger” or “better.” You might also think, “I never get to have that.”

We’ve all felt this way about a specific desire once or twice; my solution for it lies in, guess what, confidence!

Since you already know you can live any reality you choose, it is time to stop fearing life and absolutely own your power instead!

Many struggle to deal with all the resistance manifesting love can bring, especially when it comes to a specific person.

If you want to live a specific reality, believe that you can! Stay focused until you get there without looking for ways of making it happen. The Universe will make it happen by leading you and your belief to a specific set of actions you will have to take, places to go or a change of circumstances necessary for your desire to manifest. This is how your desire will come to you. Often, you won’t even have to do any of that for your desire to manifest – it will come to you immediately.

This change in attitude will give you motivation and confidence. You can live your desired reality and if you still want it, be ready to live it! Be confident enough for it! Never idealize it but accept it instead.

Idealizing a specific reality, job, physical appearance, friendship, relationship or person can lead to profound attachment to your desire. Still, you can create an absolutely magical life with your desire in it but this magic depends on accepting your desire for what it truly is. There might still be days you are bored living it but this doesn’t have to mean you will lose it. Just allow it to be.

You will be overly attached to a specific person if you believe they are “perfect” but will feel great love for them if you believe them to be perfect just the way they are. This way, you are not idealizing them but appreciating them instead. You are allowing them to be themselves while wanting to make them happy. You want to spend time with them. You give them the freedom to be themselves while loving them.

Now, look at the specific relationship with a specific person you currently want to manifest. Do you love them for who they are or are you idealizing a made-up version of them you would like to fulfill all of your needs? A relationship exists primarily for happiness while you have to be a complete person all by yourself, without another. Do you want to share your life with that real person, with the person he or she genuinely is?

When idealizing your specific person, you are not seeing the real person. Not only are you then unable to manifest a relationship with them due to seeing them as “perfect” but believe me, they don’t want that kind of pressure put on them. Like you, they want to be loved for who they truly are.

When wanting a specific person in my life, as a friend or partner, I am “attracted” to them for their true energy. I want to know them, talk to them, learn about them, spend time with them and share adventures with them.

If you feel incomplete without a specific person in your life, you are on a low vibration and feel like you need that relationship to be happy. The downside of that is, the awareness of need attracts more need, preventing you from letting go and manifesting.

Choose a person you want to give love to. Wanting to give instead of thinking of your own needs should be the reason for choosing someone. We want to give to those who make us happy so think about who it is that makes you happy.

In order to manifest a relationship, I have to want to be in it. I must want to make a specific man happy and genuinely desire to be with him. This might take some time of knowing a man beforehand but it is worth it; if it doesn’t, I knew everything I needed to know after knowing him shortly. When I feel it, I know it. Otherwise, I enjoy life, closeness and adventures with my friends, new friends, people I wanted to meet and then did, travel, fun, relaxation, comments from my readers, work engagements and individuals I’ve had a great time working with.

Speaking of which, I have to start getting ready for tonight’s event.

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Another problem of excessive attachment to specific people and relationships lies in giving your power away. You are allowing someone else to control your good mood and vibration with their actions. But why? Does this make any sense to you?

The best part is, your specific person holds this power because you allow them to! It is still your choice to feel the way you do.

By now, you know you can manifest the relationship you want. You know that you should feel confident and you are getting there. And you know that I believe in you.

THOUGHT OF THE DAY

The other day, one of my closest friends said that good health seems to spill over into all aspects of life. When one’s health is in order, one’s entire life seems to move along swimmingly.

I loved the idea and I feel that way after a good night’s sleep. Waking up in the most amazing mood keeps me relaxed, with a clear mind. On the other hand, exhaustion can contribute to generally feeling low and gravitating towards negative thoughts.

Do you get enough sleep? Does it affect your thoughts?

Why “Me” Time Matters

Enjoying “me” time removes need and excessive attachment to one’s desire, allowing them to enjoy their life fully and rapidly manifest entirely new miracles.

“Me” time is another positive concept which society has spun into negative, pegging it selfish and unnecessary. “Me” time allows you to reconnect with your essence and true desires, giving you a chance to be grateful for everything you have.

I love my personal time. Going to a spa, reading a book, watching movies, long walks, meditation, even shopping all by myself in some cases can give me exactly what I need. I love and deserve it; my private time reminds me of everything I love, have and deserve in life. You can feel the same way and you know it!

Much of my work is also created in private but that is an entirely different story.

Many Law of Attraction teachers advocate pampering oneself as a method of expressing self-love as well as raising awareness of one’s value. I absolutely agree.

When you start to treat yourself the way you deserve, you will only accept the same from others.

“Me” time allows you to raise your vibration as you remind yourself of how rich and wonderful life is.

OTHER METHODS

Nothing raises my vibration as effectively as a song that describes my feelings. I’m a music fan that manifests the perfect song of the moment without effort and recommend this to everyone. So many of us love music and can use this extremely easy way of raising our vibration.

Personally, I can kill an entire day listening to the same song on repeat while going about my work and errands. Connected to my desire, this particular song gives me effortless visualizations and makes me happy, preparing me for receiving and living my desire.

Your private visualization time with music on makes for fantastic “me” time.

My Beloved Readers…

Thank you for helping and supporting each other – it’s wonderfully inspiring to read your comments and see that you want the best for one another (not to mention continuously attracting love into your own lives by expressing it to others).

I’m very grateful for you.

LoA and Health – How Does It Work?

One of the aspects of life I am grateful for every day is my terrific health. Something that should never be disregarded, good health is manifested using the same principle as absolutely anything else. At the same time, following ideas given by the field of medicine can be a co-creating tool but one should never forget their health is primarily their own choice. Medicine is useful so be grateful for it but you give the final word – how many truly believe this to be possible?

If it were impossible, there would not be a single case of individuals “miraculously” recovering from fatal illness to no tangible explanation. However, there are plenty of those cases yet still so few to show that true and unrelenting faith tends to rest in a rare kind of individuals. Faith means primarily believing in yourself.

LoA AND HEALTH

It is said that the human body already contains everything it needs to heal itself. Medicine helps but why believe that specific medical therapy works or doesn’t work – just because someone said so?

Aren’t we stepping into the essence of LoA?

Those who make decisions regarding their health must also mind their energy around it. Are they convinced the desired result belongs to them or are they testing various options hoping to see results? Are they keeping a positive attitude, helping their intuition guide them to inspired action?

I realize that believing in one’s good health/successful recovery while the doctors are uncertain of it isn’t easy for everyone. However, this concept comes down to the same creation principles – we all manifest what we believe to be true and that truth must exist in the mind before it can manifest into one’s reality.

If everything we need is already within us, so is the strength to manifest our own good health. Sometimes, medicine will help and other times, we won’t even need it. Even finding the right co-creation field depends on one’s positive attitude in finding the solution; one simply has to keep an open mind and focus on the end result they truly desire, producing positive energy which allows them to find that solution shortly.

MY OWN HEALTH

I maintain my excellent health with daily gratitude.

Last weekend, I was worried I would catch a cold having accidentally put on a thinner coat than planned in a moment of distraction. I didn’t exactly catch a heavy cold but wasn’t 100% either, which continued for as long as I accepted this state of my health. Maybe I just wanted to spend two days in bed with books, tea and TV. Then, I decided I was healthy and yesterday, woke up feeling like my usual self.

Illness can also come as a result of either a collapse or a raise of one’s vibration. Seven years ago, I endured four weeks of bed rest within the same year due to two different cases of illness. However, the positive personal changes I experienced over that year were even bigger. One of the cases of illness was an ear infection and one of the great personal changes was moving into my own, new, fantastic apartment. A decision to move away from another beautiful apartment with a roommate was followed by the ear infection which was followed by finding and moving into that incredible apartment. I had only found the apartment after having gotten healthy. It hadn’t been up for rent until then. However, I was positive I would find the perfect place the entire time.

Sometimes, the Universe works out the perfect timing even when you know it’s going to be soon. All you have to do is keep focus on your end goal and know that everything will come together soon.

Any day now, as I say.

MANIFESTING FOR ANOTHER

It might be difficult for you to imagine manifesting good health for someone else, especially one that keeps focusing on the negative.

I have once tried to advise someone who was ill. They weren’t up for cooperation. To every affirmative ideal I had, they would say, “I don’t know.” As simplistic as this may sound, try to apply this idea to anything one wishes to create – knowing is essential and without it, how could one possibly create their desired outcome?

Then, I asked, “Do you believe you could get better?”

They said, “I’m not sure. Sometimes I believe it’s possible.”

I asked them why just sometimes.

They responded, “I’m too old and tired. I can’t bring myself to hope. It might be my time to go.”

This person suffered chronic disbelief in their good health, the very thought of manifesting which made them exhausted. Disbelief can run deep which is why many refuse to even venture on manifesting their desires. Disbelief keeps them in their comfort zone to this day, with short-term improvements followed by the inevitable relapses. They can believe for a few days and then, fall back into negativity. They have not altered their awareness fully.

WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE?

When it comes to your health, you will manifest what you believe to be true – just like any other aspect of life.

Are you the type of person who is always sick? Someone who always catches a cold, expecting it to happen? Or, are you always healthy and happy about it?

Now, be honest with yourself – are you grateful for your health every day? Do you believe you can feel as youthful and energized as you wish to be?

THOUGHT OF THE DAY

You must be willing to do whatever it takes to keep your focus on having your desire – that’s where the “work” part is.

Deal with resistance. Redirect your thoughts. Change your awareness.

Are You Ready?

I find it necessary to explain in further detail  the process of one’s feelings when manifesting a relationship. Yes, we all know to ask and allow ourselves to receive but what about those unable to let go without understanding why? Those who feel uncomfortable without understanding why?

Just because I tell you it can all be overcome doesn’t mean I don’t understand your struggle. As always, I will also tell you how I do it and trust that it will help you.

Manifesting relationships requires absolute certainty of wanting a specific person and a relationship with them. I have to want to be with the man in question. Being aware of my preferences in choosing this man helps, as I am aware of why I like him and want to be with him. To give you an idea, I tend to admire a man with an open heart.

After deciding on a specific man, I love being absolutely intoxicated with the idea of being in a relationship with him as often as I can. When it comes to calmer moments, I still visualize situations of simply thinking, “I’m so happy with him.” That sentiment can come to me in any situation and I can feel it just by looking at him. I love to create our relationship in my mind and heart, with the help of my feelings. Imagining I have it already is always supported by vivid visualization of the relationship I love and enjoy. I love that the relationship is mine already simply because I’ve decided so. Feeling that I have it already motivates my actions from the start.

In the past, I shared my happy feelings for a specific man with my friends. If I didn’t, one of my closest friends knew there was a problem (with my feelings). She would then say,

“If you haven’t mentioned his name in a few days, it means there’s trouble in paradise.”

Today, I verbalize it less and differently. I am comfortable with change which allows me to accept my new preferences. However, the feeling of loving my relationship and the happiness of being in it (already) remain strong.

Once I calm down from the euphoria, I realize that all those positive feelings have truly made me believe my desire belongs to me already. This is the benefit of any positive feelings – they reshape your awareness. This is the reason why, if ever experiencing a lack of positive feelings, you are advised to go out and do something nice for yourself or someone else. You will automatically be filled with love!

In the moments of resistance, I already know it’s false because I believe in my relationship. Resistance feels weak because my belief is strong. This is why I only advocate working on the belief, as it obliterates anything else.

Once you begin putting all your energy into your belief and make a commitment to stop reacting to your fears, the belief will grow. It will feel real, strong and the resistance will actually feel false and slightly paranoid. Resistance never makes sense – many tend to come up with outrageous scenarios in their minds.

I have been called an amazing girlfriend in the past. I think one of the main reasons for it was because I dared to feel a tremendous amount of love for the man in question, our relationship and myself. If I wasn’t being called an amazing girlfriend anymore, I had already started to feel uncomfortable in the relationship.

The knowing my relationship belonging to me already is mostly calm. Various situations will give me butterflies but the overall feeling of knowing is steady and calm. The feeling of having everything I wanted evokes gratitude in me but is also calm because it is organic.

Being in your specific relationship has to feel natural to you – then, you’ll be open to living it. Living in your house feels natural so you remain in it. Your physical appearance is something you’re used to seeing in the mirror every day –  you offer no resistance to accepting that it’s real, as you see it every day. See what I mean?

Your relationship has to feel real and natural to you. In the cases of conscious creation, you simply have to develop new habits allowing you to perceive the relationship as real.

Be mentally ready to live your relationship. You can achieve this with simply feeling love and letting go. I believe one must truly feel good about themselves in order to be ready for their desired relationship. Happy relationships require happy and confident individuals who are also courageous and comfortable with themselves.

You might be looking for a solution that will change your thought process without you having to do it yourself – that is why some keep searching for the perfect LoA technique. However, the answer lies in a conscious decision being made on your end.

You might be wondering why so many suggest feeling gratitude for your desire, as if you have it in your life already. Well, the reason is gratitude evokes and increases the love inside you. Feeling truly grateful for your desire will expand your heart energy, allow you to feel love for your desire and appreciate your life.

Today, I’m just excited to see my parents and give them a hug. It’s enough.

THOUGHT OF THE DAY

Attachment is greater when it comes to manifesting relationships than many other things in life, as they are something one was most likely taught to “need.”

However, you don’t. But you can want to be in one, directing your loving energy to creating a relationship simply because you want it.

If you need it, you can’t attract it. The need creates your awareness. However, being complete without a relationship will attract one into your life.