Many find themselves incapable of manifesting their future due to being burdened by their present or their past.
I have long been trying to figure out why, for so many, fear is easier than letting go. Many hold the fear of getting hurt instead of believing they can be loved, feeling uncomfortable enough to prevent letting anyone in.
All those fears easily surface when one ventures onto manifesting love. Why? Because a healthy individual creates a healthy relationship yet the process of becoming confident, steady and positive, becoming a healthy individual can be taxing enough to make anyone feel like they are drowning in their own instabilities. Love demands an open heart which first has to be open for one’s own sake.
That was one of the most important passages I’ve ever written.
One can only imagine having what they want when they’re happy but many find it difficult to be happy without living their desire first. Problem is, happiness is an inside job – you’ve heard it many times but while seeking out your inner peace, you may feel upset, anxious or rattled.
It has happened to all of us.
Getting yourself in line and turning yourself into an emotionally strong individual requires going through the darkest, most neglected thoughts and fears one has ever tried to ignore in hope that they would go away. Even in the most effortless moments of forgiveness for those thoughts and experiences (whether to yourself or other people), embarrassment or guilt could come up before accepting that everyone is only human and we have all made mistakes.
I say “mistakes” but I don’t believe in them. Even your apparent “mistakes” were learning experiences and therefore, never wasted. You made those mistakes because you subconsciously craved lessons more than you did the seemingly “right choice” in those moments. Then, you learned your lesson.
Why can a state of good mood be so difficult to achieve while being such a natural thing?
Many fall into the bad mood (or, a low vibration) when thinking about the past but especially when wanting to manifest a future that is the opposite of that past. They want to be healed or escape that past when in truth, they must heal first, before escaping their past.
We must heal in order to get over the past.
Many things you want your manifestation to do, you actually have to do yourself.
It’s worth it.
Facing your deepest issues is worth it because being done with them means never having to emotionally react to them again. You can ignore your negative thoughts. You can forgive the past. You can realize that positive thoughts and heart energy mean and provide nothing but love for yourself as well as everyone around you. You can hop onto the vibration of your desire and finally be living it.
How would you like to be completely relaxed, knowing you have your desire already, with visualizations so real that you remove all need for seeing physical proof?
Relaxing is essential but sometimes most difficult to do when manifesting love. Everything is attracted by the same principle but some put up great resistance to manifesting relationships with specific people. However, when you are relaxed and let go, you suddenly see yourself with that person and then, it’s important to just stay relaxed and let go again.
However, what if your mind keeps drawing your back to the past, with your specific person or someone else?
One gets burdened by their past when one dislikes the person they used to be in it.
How did you handle heartbreak in the past? Did you agree to the things and accepted the people you should have sent packing instead?
Forgive yourself! Who cares? That was then, this is now and if those things weren’t worth keeping in your life back then, why keep them in your thoughts now?
You can escape those thoughts. Forgive yourself and everyone involved. You were a different person and now, you are an even more amazing individual. By forgiving, you will start to ignore all your negative thoughts or even eradicate them from your mind.
Is focusing on your past causing you to fear failure in your manifestation today?
You might be attached to a desired specific way of your manifestation or think that unless you see every step of it with your own eyes, it’s not happening. You might be assuming these things because of your past. You think that things have to go a specific way or they won’t get better.
Let the Universe work out the way of your manifestation while you love and appreciate the end result of it. The Universe knows a much better way than any of us could come up with.
The important thing to know is that another person cannot hurt you. Only you decide if you’re hurt or not. I know that sounds far-fetched but think about it – if your feelings create, who could be stronger than you when it comes to your life? Nobody.
Know that your sadness is about you. You don’t feel like you can have what you want, especially when thinking about your past. However, you can. Accept that it’s yours which will automatically remove the need for it. Since it’s yours already, you can relax. The trick is to know it’s yours when asking for it. Then, you can relax and allow it to appear.
Your negative thoughts as well as your reaction to them clearly show your awareness. You either feel your desire being yours or, you don’t, allowing yourself to be upset about it.
And do you feel worthy of living your desire just as you are today?
You might think that you want to be beyond anything and everything to become worthy of your desire. However, you can achieve that just by being yourself.
Translation – you already are.