Labeling emotions, signs or feelings as “good” or “bad” can influence your manifesting mood and with that, the time it takes to see results.
If you fear something you perceive as “bad,” hurtful or detrimental to your manifestation process, you could slow that process down. If you think a negative thought and react to it with fear or emotion, thinking it would repeat or manifest anew, you might frantically be trying to get rid of it.
I understand the need to rush. However, rush is just another form of fear and it doesn’t benefit any of us.
You want to get rid of your negative thoughts as soon as possible because you feel almost incapable of ignoring them. However, dealing with them by simply asking yourself why they exist in you in the first place (in case you can’t let them pass without reacting to them) will allow you to form better, stronger, highly positive self-beliefs.
Are you afraid of what you might find if you face your inner self? Don’t be. Just because you feel your confidence shattered doesn’t mean you’re not an amazing person. This is just a phase you can resolve.
This problem is solved with generally high self-confidence, in my opinion. What is your first thought when I say that? Do you think I mean arrogance or do you associate a strong sense of self-confidence with someone you might dislike, thinking that this is a form of negative awareness?
Your reaction to that term can show how you feel about it, giving you a sense of any limiting beliefs you might hold. If you know someone and consider them self-confident but dislike them, you probably hold a limiting belief of self-confidence being “bad.”
This is who we uncover limiting beliefs.
What is “bad” to you? What is “good?” To me, self-confidence is a good thing. I always suggest turning every thought into a positive one which is why I suggest examining limiting beliefs or simply deciding that your negative thoughts are powerless and ignoring them (if you can). Some can and some examine the meaning of them – either way works.
If you think negative thoughts are “bad,” you might be upset at their every appearance and fear their meaning. However, if you perceive them as “good,” giving you a chance to clear your limiting beliefs or learn more about yourself by reacting to them or ignoring them, you will have hurried the process of becoming the new you (by that, I mean ‘the person you wish to be’).
I feel even more optimistic than usual when manifesting relationships. If I don’t, I am not interested in the man I chose enough (this happens rarely but when it does, I know what it means for me). I see everything as a good sign leading me to my ultimate result. If I have a negative thought, I consider the meaning of it. If we miss a date, I am sure that an even better way of things coming together will suggest itself. In my interactions with him, I feel free, happy and positive that I add value. All along, I feel that the relationship I desire is mine already. Focusing on the end result allows the process to unfold but focusing on the specific steps blocks it. Let the process happen! You will know when to suggest something, say it or ultimately, let the person you want know how you feel about them. The “how” and “when” will suggest themselves in moments. Then, you’ll act. Those parts are not planned – when they suggest themselves, you know what to do.
When the feeling of having your desire already leads you, your thoughts, specific perceptions and actions follow. Living life with an overall sense of everything working out the way you want it to will make your manifestation process of any desire even easier.
You can be self-confident and be any type of person you want. Self-confident individuals feel good about themselves and comfortable with themselves no matter who they are or what they define themselves as. They don’t have to be financially wealthy or in shape. They merely have to be happy with themselves as well as the life they chose.