I have been thinking about possible ways of resolving resistance around the desires of those who have been trying to manifest something specific for a long time. These individuals have gone through stages of love, grief, happiness, frustration and anything else you could think of.
If you’ve been trying for a while and felt hopeless at times, I’d like to contribute the following methods because I know that the thought of feeling good about your specific desire might seem impossible at times.
I suggest you first take a few days, a week at most (even though I am sure four days will already make a difference), to get used to feeling like your desire is yours already with the help of these methods/techniques. You can practice them all continuously or in any kind of order you wish – do what makes you feel good. Some, you might only have to practice once (if not all). Even if it takes continuous work to achieve results, the faster you believe and decide to persist, the faster you will start to feel different. Just embrace your belief and insist on it within yourself, no matter what.
Today, you must decide to manifest what you desire and stick to it. You must believe that you can! If you believe, you will stick to that belief and be able to let go in order to manifest.
1. List (or simply admit) your worries.
If an attempted manifestation or simply the thought of your desire causes you any kind of upset, followed by a lack of detachment or a highly negative state of mind, figure out why. Since everything translates back to us and the way we feel about ourselves, think about what a specific fear you may have says about you.
You might worry about your specific person seeing someone else yet this is probably a disguised personal fear of not being enough to make your specific person happy, in addition to being aware of your desire remaining far away from you or impossible instead of being yours.
You might strongly dislike another person only because you fear being like them in a negative way or simply fear being less and letting yourself down in any way. You might be accusing your partner of eyeing someone else while actually projecting your own guilt of wanting someone new onto them.
You might be failing to manifest your desire while refusing to admit to yourself that you actually feel dissatisfied with the thought of living it. Your specific fear might just be a more bearable or believable projection of a personal concern you may have.
Admit your deepest worries to yourself and then, pay attention to your feelings. Do your fears seem realistic or have you created them based on some other personal beliefs? Understanding where a specific fear came from helps you remove it for good which can also be done after just days of focusing on positive decisions and self-reflection.
If you worry about your negative thoughts, you are not aware of your desire being yours already and are not OK with your current reality, both of which you must be in order to manifest.
Don’t rush or skip over this specific self-reflection stage – by now, you know that you must deal with these thoughts if you want to feel better.
2. Be decisive!
Right now, you are accepting your negative thoughts but being decisive and powering through them will take you to your desired result.
Every time your negative thoughts come up, remember that your desire belongs to you already and express gratitude for it. If you’ve tried everything else and failed, sticking to simple persistence in your belief will take you to your desired reality. Eventually, your negative feelings will be replaced with an awareness of having your desire. This is how you will self-train to focus on everything positive, including your desired reality.
You are the one who can make a difference in your life, no matter how difficult it seems right now. You can do this!
3. “It’s happening right now” might not work – switch to “It’s mine already.”
The first affirmation I advocate as it is one of my favorites – I find it effective and easy. However, if you don’t believe that your desire is manifesting right now because of all the negative feelings that have been connected to it for so long, tell yourself that it is yours already.
When “It’s mine already” is said, any paranoid thought you may have had becomes moot. You already know that it is yours so go with that belief! Soon, you will be automatically going to that very belief regardless of all the negative thoughts attempting to distract you.
Soon, you will see why your belief is the only thing that matters.
4. Rely on yourself.
Deciding to do this will allow you to see why you should believe in yourself. You will understand why self-belief matters. You will understand that your beliefs shape your reality instead of your life unfolding completely outside your power.
Those who don’t believe simply feel incapable of changing their realities. In order to change yours, you must accept that if you power through and believe, you will change your life.
Once you decide to rely on yourself, you will start to believe that you can achieve any goal you desire. Your doubts connected to your desired manifestation may have damaged your self-belief but as soon as you start to feel different, you will see your life change. Right now, your self-belief has created the life you might dislike in various ways but as soon as you start to believe in yourself, you will see your reality change.
Simply accepting this fact will allow you to see why you must believe in yourself and why it is that simple.