Thought of the Day

Letting go creates the magnitude of happiness necessary for you to manifest.

After you have become unconcerned with needing or missing anything but happy with what you have instead, you will open your heart to receiving everything you wanted.

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15 thoughts on “Thought of the Day

  1. Hi Nina,

    As I’m doing this process, I take time before I go to bed to think of what I want.

    For example, I write things out like ” I am happy. I am loved ” then I shift into writing what I want in my relationship ” I make him happy, he makes me happy. He is very affectionate with me. He calls me his wife. ”

    Sometimes as I’m writing, i might start feeling good, but then I can’t help but feel a little sadness because something might pop in my head of what he said to me in the past, or that he’s currently on a vacation I wanted to take with him. I try to change my focus, but the feeling was there. Should I stop if things like that pop up?

    Will this cancel out what I’m doing to try to direct my focus on the good?

    Thx,

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  2. Thanks Nina. I think what makes it so difficult each time is forgiveness. I’m really hurt so it’s hard sometimes to think of what I want, because what I want has hurt me so many times

    Sometimes, I do consider if I should want this anymore, or if the hurt has finally been so much that I just can’t take it anymore. But, I also know that the issues I have with this guy is what I’ve felt before with other guys in my past…. Just that in the past I did eventually give up on the guys… For some reason my heart doesn’t let this one go.

    But, I have wondered if I should. Not because I want to, but because I do want to be happy and I don’t want to be stressed anymore.

    I wish I could be cut a little bit of a break in this situation, because the distance is hard too. It causes me to miss him so much, and then wonder about our connection because we never see each other. I also can’t find it in me to really try to manifest this anymore. I’m exhausted. I try to focus on the good… I do believe and understand what you say about focus and making a decision….but it’s gotten harder and I don’t know what means anymore. Why can’t I focus this time? Why can’t I stick to my decision?

    I’m just very confused about the way I feel lately.

    Here’s what I know I want: I want this man to be in love with me and to express his love to me, for he and I to be in a committed relationship (married) and faithful to each other. For us to make each other very happy, and that we both really enjoy our relationship because it’s fun and easy. I also would like for us both to really appreciate each other and value each other and for our families and friends to be happy for us. I would also like this to manifest now, and also to feel good about myself and my life regardless. Just to be happy and get to wake up to each other every morning, to really feel that love.

    Thank you,

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      1. I just heard this in an Abe video I was listening to.

        Combined with what you just said above Nina “Even when you feel this way, it’s still yours and it’s happening right now. Repeat that to yourself!” and this quote. I don’t think anyone will focus on the hurt anymore.

        This is the quote.

        “The sensation of a broken heart, (missing someone, feeling hurt, etc) – means you are in complete opposition to the source within you and what the source within you knows. *YOUR HEART IS NOT BROKEN YOU ARE EXPERIENCING WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE LOOKING IN EXACT OPPOSITION OF WHAT YOU WANT.* You want the relationship, you want the relationship to work, you want the relationship to be wonderful – but you’ve accepted that its gone, that is not coming back and finished, that you can’t have it back so you are so focused in such opposition to what you want and such opposition to what your inner being knows is true that you feel as if you heart is broken. That is so dramatic and so not true! YOUR HEART ISN’T BROKEN, YOU’RE JUST IN THIS MOMENT FOCUSED IN SUCH OPPOSITION TO WHAT YOU WANT! CUT IT OUT!”

        Boom! 🙂 ❤

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  3. Hi C

    I feel ya lady! ❤ The hurt is still too strong and its pulling you down. You have to find a way to smash that out forever because what happens when you get together and he does something stupid, being a man and all (lol) you'll find yourself in the same boat again because it will just keep accumulating. All the hurt.

    I've been there and I know what you mean when you say that you are exhausted and I put that down (for me) to trying to hard to make it happen, lack of patience, not being able to forgive.

    From last night, if a thought came into my head that didn't make me feel good I just watched it, observed it as if the thought was floating in front of my face, like words in mid air, and then let it float straight past me and said, "That's not true" then I reaffirmed that its already mine. I had to do it a few times today at work and it silences these thoughts. It is what Nina says in both of our situations, forgiveness, and it is hard until you choose to forgive. Don't think that I am playing down how hard it is to forgive, believe me! I know! You saw my story.

    If you wanted you could try EFT on the points when you get into the space of feeling sad or any of the other things you mentioned above say "this feeling, all this hurt, this feeling, all this pain, this feeling, all this unforgiveness and resentment." until the sensations/feelings/thoughts pass, if you want too.

    I think maybe you are confused because you haven't let go? You want it deep down but then you are hurt so it keeps you in a cycle of confusion where you question why you are even trying to attract someone who has hurt you, **but if you let go it's not going to hurt anymore.**

    Why not try and say this out loud to the universe? I took what you said you wanted and rearranged it bit. I think it's perfect to ask the Universe for it! "I am with XXX, he loves me and expresses his love for me and I for he. We are in a committed marriage and we are faithful to each other. We make each other very happy and our relationship is fun and easy. We value each other and our friends and families are so happy we are together! Thank you Universe! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

    Then let go and dont think about it again.

    As Nina says, you've asked so you must receive. In one of Nina's other post she said "Miracles happen in mere moments. LOVE YOUR DESIRE and ALLOW the two of you to cross paths."

    With Love x

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      1. Hey Nina! 🙂

        I really like my job where I am now but I am only a casual and there is no room in their budget to hire a part-time or full-time person.

        Can I imagine them offering me a part time or full-time position even though they don’t have room for it in the budget?

        Could I attract them offering a more stable position there? Is that impossible if they don’t have the money for it in their budget?

        Thanks x

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      2. It’s possible. If you imagine having that job, they will find a way but that is the “how” part and you don’t need to worry about that 🙂 The only thing you may choose to do is express gratitude for their extensive budget with plenty of room for your job position in it (or something similar).

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      3. Thank you Gretta and Nina,

        I will try to focus on the good things in my life. Its weird though how when your vibration is down, you attract other bad things in your life as well. My work life has recently become a negative environment, so I’m trying to fix that too 😉

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  4. Hi Nina, C & All.

    I wanted to rush home to tell you Nina and C how my day was today, then I saw your post C about your friend and was a bit hesitant, but then thought maybe you could do with a boost and I can tell you how I have reached the place I have.

    Nina. I don’t know how I have done it, I don’t know if it is because of being half way through the 62 EFT inner child videos that I have been doing or the constant reaffirming that it is mine already or maybe a combination of ALL the work I have done since I came to this site or maybe just asking someone for help. I actually said it out loud. I said “Someone or somebody help me please!’

    But…

    I am now living in total silence. I thought of him only once today and it was with good feeling. Once! Before it used to be I couldn’t stop thinking about him at all!

    I’ll try to explain briefly. I no longer talk to him in my head about all the bad things he has done and questioning why he did it, why he listened to other people, why he was living according to someone elses wants, etc. I am no longer angry, hurt, resentful, or any of the other things that I was feeling but just can’t remember them all right now…. And let me tel you how bad it got for me. I was so traumatized by what happened that I started to talk out loud as if he was there, as if his mum was there. Ok? So you can see just how hurt I was and how real the struggle was.

    Now it is complete and utter silence.

    I will be honest with you, as I mentioned above. I asked for help. I asked for help to forgive him and his family and for someone to help take the pain and anger away from me. I woke up this morning, in some kind of state of peace! Before I used to be fretting. Especially in the mornings with thoughts of “I’m going to lose him!” My whole day would be, i love him, I hate him, I love him, I hate him, I love him, I hate him. It was like a roller coaster that I could never seen to get off no matter what I did I couldn’t remain in the space of letting go or just loving him. I wasn’t loving him, that was the real problem. I kept blaming him. I realized it after listening to an abe video and wrote down what she said. Here it is again for anyone who didn’t see it –

    “The sensation of a broken heart, (missing someone, feeling hurt, etc) – means you are in complete opposition to the source within you and what the source within you knows. *YOUR HEART IS NOT BROKEN YOU ARE EXPERIENCING WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE LOOKING IN EXACT OPPOSITION OF WHAT YOU WANT.* You want the relationship, you want the relationship to work, you want the relationship to be wonderful – but you’ve accepted that its gone, that is not coming back and finished, that you can’t have it back so you are so focused in such opposition to what you want and such opposition to what your inner being knows is true that you feel as if you heart is broken. That is so dramatic and so not true! YOUR HEART ISN’T BROKEN, YOU’RE JUST IN THIS MOMENT FOCUSED IN SUCH OPPOSITION TO WHAT YOU WANT! CUT IT OUT!”

    And what you wrote here, Nina “Miracles happen in mere moments!” “**LOVE YOUR DESIRE** and allow the two of you to cross paths.”

    I was NOT loving him AT ALL. Ekkkkkkk!! My ego had taken over. I was offended.

    I remember talking myself through letting go of him and always having this sense of knowing that we were going to end up together because quite honestly, I can’t imagine him not being in it. I’ve always stuck with my original feeling of the first moment I saw him even tho I couldn’t control the hurt and anger. I imagined what Abe says “Love him and Go downstream!’ So I actually imagined being in a river floating downstream and I could see him at the end of the stream. I think that is when I REALLY let go because it felt so peaceful to be in the water just floating and seeing him down the end of it.

    The one time I thought about him today – Towards the end, when things were getting really bad over the phone and I was pushing him (like an idiot) He again tells me hes not interested. The phone goes quite and the tone in his voice changed and he says “Why does it have to be now?’ We do we have to be together now? And I could hear that was him, not the other person who had been telling me what someone else had been telling him to say. I KNOW IN MY HEART HE BELIEVED ME and I say this to myself and when I don’t I just know that he DOES believe me. I have a text from him in the past saying “I do believe you!’ That’s when I realized that he wasn’t ready and he told me, repeatedly that he wasn’t ready.

    Sorry, post got longer than expected. The point of this. The thoughts have all silenced and I am really in the space of knowing and have let go. I have no feelings of fretting or trying or hurt or anger, sadness and all the rest of it anymore. I thought about a week ago I had gotten a handle on it but it resurfaced. I know this time it is different because it doesn’t matter when, how, why etc etc.

    Ask for help for someone or something to take ALL of the bad feelings away. Do inner child work, I cant reiterate enough how important I think those videos have been to get you back into your body and mind. Keep reaffirming that it is yours if you want. Use LOA tools if you want. Imagine being in the stream and seeing him down the end of it *** ❤ but if you dont LOVE this person completely and unconditionally, I dont believe you can ever really get into the space of believing its already yours and letting go because its only when you love that you can believe and let go. *** ❤

    Do you know why I know something took it away? Or all the work I have really has ended the merry go round of thoughts and bad feelings? Because I tried to prompt myself to see if those feelings are still there by antagonizing myself and NOTHING, nothing came up, where as before If I looked at a picture of him I would start to call again and get so upset and blah blah blah. Idiot!

    Anyway just wanted to pass on what I did and where I am at.

    Love x

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    1. Hi Gretta,

      So happy to hear you are such a better place. I was reading your story and that part about the phone conversation…. Did that really happen or was it a visualization?

      In any case, I am so happy for you. You’re in a good state of mind. Hold on to that feeling and keep building on it.

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  5. Hi C

    Yes the phone call really happened but it was end of last year. The point of my whole post was to just show you and Nina and anyone else how I let go, the things I used etc – and I really do believe this, unless you really LOVE your desire, unconditionally, as Nina says, you won’t get to the stage of believing its already yours and being able to let go. Its just my opinion, but I think contradictory thoughts/feelings of them dont attract them. It has to be pure love.

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