Being uncomfortable with what you desire will prevent it from coming into your life; this concept translates into the intentional practice of LoA in various ways.
If you are aiming to manifest love but feel uncomfortable with the idea of living it for any reason (you know whether or not this is true), you are preventing it from coming into your life. This lack of comfort often translates into various doubts you may have around the idea of living your desire. If you doubt that the person you want to be with could love you, that you could be happy living a life with them under the circumstances you say you want or that the relationship would change your current reality too much, you are uncomfortable with it and are preventing a smooth manifestation process.
In this case, you need to think about your genuine feelings. You need to accept some things or believe that you can improve them.
If you want to be at your perfect weight, you have to be ready to live a life with that perfect weight and be ready to let go of your current physical appearance in order to manifest a new one.
If you want to manifest love and a specific life with it, you must now be ready to live that life so that you could manifest it and allow it to start. On the other hand, every time you have doubts, you will prevent your manifestation from happening. (Having doubts means engaging in them; dismissing any doubts that may come up means you’re ready to manifest).
In order to prevent any internal tension, you must relax and you know it.
RELAXING INTO LoA
What triggers attraction between two people is what moves the attraction process when it comes to LoA; it all comes down to the same thing.
I am not telling you to alter your personality but just relax and with that, change your awareness into that of having your desire.
Be honest with yourself. If you feel the need for manifesting your desire because you’d been trying so hard to get it (or for any other reason), this is not the right reason to manifest. The only reason to manifest a desire is if living it would make you happy, if you truly want to live it. If someone were manifesting love with you, would you want it to be out of need or for the love itself?
You get what you give. And once you relax, you will project the awareness of living your desire and/or overall confidence and happiness. You will give these things and what do you think that will get you? Just about everything you want!