Dealing with Discouragement in Your Manifestation Process

Have you ever gotten discouraged shortly (or, at any point) into your manifestation process, fearing that your desire might never feel real to you?

Trying too hard to feel your desire belonging to you already is the very thing preventing you from manifesting. If you have experienced this, your awareness is that of trying instead of happy for having your desire already.

In order to manifest, you are supposed to imagine having your desire already. Imagine what you do and how you act with it in your life. Why do you love it?

I’m happy just imagining that I have what I want. That happiness is powerful enough to cause me to believe and let go. Try to just imagine that you have it now – what would you be doing?

Your current mood has everything to do with your awareness. Whenever you feel like an unsuccessful manifestation practitioner (and hopefully you never again will), refer to this blog post and remind yourself of your worth.

Stay strong and focused!

Unless you choose your own life, another life will choose you. Stick to your goal and nothing less – affirm that you already are what you want to be! If you don’t feel that you are, could be or feel uneasy about believing, think about whether or not you truly want your desire.

Are you afraid of how others will react to you once your desire manifests? Do you fear negative comments?

If you truly want your desire, feel good about having it in your life and only care about your own opinion from now on; anything else is moot. Fearing negative comments is something that many experience but the only thing you need to consider is whether or not you want to be crippled by the intruding and limiting opinions of others.

You most likely don’t think much of those who try to criticize your choices already because by default, the critical ones are the most insecure ones. So why care about their opinions?

Something magical happens when you only focus on your own opinion – you feel good about having what you want and simply stop hearing anyone else’s disagreeing tone.

After you just imagine having what you want, your focus will be effortless.

Are you postponing your manifestation?

Do you fear being stuck once you manifest, effectively postponing the manifestation with your thoughts?

Or, do you think that you have to become someone deserving of your desire before receiving it?

Guess what – you already are as deserving as you feel you need to be. Just be a good person, do good and you will feel good. Then, you will manifest.

Do you see how these ideas fit into your manifestation process?

Once again, just imagine that you have your desire now. Picture a situation in which you are doing something with it. This imagining will make you happy and allow you to let go.

Can you deal with your negative thoughts?

You might wonder how exactly your awareness will change as a result of your newly found optimism.

If you feel good (before and visualize (or use another manifestation aid), you will eventually start to believe your desire is a done deal.

If you make feeling good a priority, that day will come sooner rather than later.

If you find yourself capable of ignoring your negative thoughts, the day you manifest will come along fast.

Your feelings are a strong creation force – keep them positive and they will make your thoughts positive in return.

If you don’t feel it yet, keep going and you will!

Don’t fall into the trap! Your desired manifestation might not feel real just yet but don’t let that discourage you.

Just imagine having what you want.

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45 thoughts on “Dealing with Discouragement in Your Manifestation Process

  1. Hi Nina ❤

    I think this is the best post you've ever written. I know I said something similar once on another post you wrote once before but this really hits it, for a lot of us I suspect also.

    THIS – "Trying too hard to feel your desire belonging to you already is the very thing preventing you from manifesting. If you have experienced this, your awareness is that of trying instead of happy for having your desire already."
    Very important. Trying to hard to feel v's happy for having it already. Huge difference. Imagining v's trying hard to feel.
    For me personally acting like his gf/wife/partner is what got me out of trying hard to feel – to having it already because why would I have to do anything if we are already together, right?

    This – "You most likely don’t think much of those who try to criticize your choices already because by default, the critical ones are the most insecure ones. So why care about their opinions?"

    Only a few days ago I had to tell someone straight up what I thought of them after they pulled a faced at finding out I still hadn't given up on him. I must tell you. I enjoyed every second of the shocked look on their face. Funny because this person is in a very bad relationship yet tried to tell me, without using words, that I was insane. Go figure. Made my belief even stronger.

    Just to update – Since my acceptance post, it never came back. Those thigns I was doing, those constant thoughts. Still have no desire to make contact, i write that because as you know I couldn't let go and had started calling again. That all stopped. I don't think of him much during the day anymore because I am so busy and having fun at work. I really think my job has played a huge part in helping me let go as well as the belief – but it's definitely up there. I do visualize a bit at night before going to sleep, but only because I want to. I look forward to it now, before I used to hate it and would procrastinate because I couldn't focus and I would come out of it and a minute later be back to square one with those shitty thoughts.

    I did want to ask one question. Since not thinking about it much at all anymore and having let go I am NOW starting to see signs, and big ones, in the last week I have seen a vehicle drive past me, what I used to see all the time when we used to talk, I would see this truck right before he contacted me every time. i have not seen this truck since we stopped talking, and now it has now just suddenly come out of the blue, 2 times in the last week. Oh, I smiled when I saw it. Why the signs now?

    Thanks x

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    1. Thank you SO much 😀 And thank you for being so active on the blog, I see that you’re inspiring many community members! 😀
      The signs happened because you seem to have let go so your manifestation is speeding up!

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  2. Hi Nina,

    I was wondering what is your take on if through the process before manifestation he met someone else ? The heart wants what it wants and somehow you created the situation – but what if he’s happy with that other person, is it right to keep at it because you met them first? Is it even realistic? Is it really always because you clearly suck at alignment? What if you are aligned and everything else in your life is working out like pure magic except that one thing that you still really want but that one thing is just not happening …

    And then you could let it go and move on with your life, but isn”t it accepting that it just doesn’t work because you tried and it didn”t work? When is it time to say : i have given it everything I had, I tried and somehow my reality is still not a match even though everything else is great, ignore it as I might – when are you positively convinced it will work and when are you just being delusional waiting for pigs to fly?

    And why does it come when you don’t want it anymore … that’s just silly, who came up with that rule, I find it a little twisted and super unfair when you think about it? And I see here people so full of love for someone regardless of what happened between them and their person, why isn’t the love enough?

    My life is the best it”s been in a long time, everything is working out perfectly, beautifully – things align and show up effortlesstly – some I care about some I don’t, some instantly some that I thought about months ago. Fair to say I live a charmed life. My guy is even super active on my social media again (which he hadn’t been for a while) and when I see him randomly – he only has eyes for me.

    But he’s also in a serious relationship to the point of meeting the parents type level and I find it hard to ignore that because while I wasn’t looking and I was avoiding reality and working on my gratitude : his relationship was actually solidifying while I was manifesting a whole bunch of other dudes that are not the one I want to go out on date with. I went on 3 dates just this week obviously i’m vibing high and then I find out his mom was here and they stayed all together in a luxury hotel hanging out on the beach. I’m also moving countries so on top of that we will add distance.

    When does it start looking like I’m an idiot, because I kind of feel delusional : how in the hell could this possibly even happen with odds like this? I do believe in miracles but this one feels like it’s at Jesus coming back from the dead level : nothing seems ( and I chose seems on purpose because I know what it looks like on the surface doesn’t always mean something) but nothing NOTHING seems to be going the right direction and yet everything in my life reverts me back to him – aaaaaallll the time!!

    What type of sorcery is this and where is the antidote? I’m totally over this vicious circle and I want it to stop, would love your insight on how to do it. Anyone’s really – I just want to be happy and at peace, I find knowing about this LOA really made my life a lot more complicated

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    1. Hi 🙂
      When everything in life works except that one thing, it is so because that’s how you perceive it. You see yourself as the person for whom everything works except for relationships with that one individual (or whatever that “one thing” is).
      You didn’t feel as if you two were together so he met someone else which is just an expression of the two of you not being together because that’s how you perceive it. Once you KNOW you are together, he will be with you. Right now, if you could feel that it’s OK he met someone else because that made you see you wanted to be with him even more and that desire fuels your GOOD feelings of being with him, you will have turned the negative into the positive 🙂 It often goes like that, right? You are unsure about someone, then they meet someone else and are happy and you then realize you want them more than ever? 🙂 Use that in a positive way!
      For many, it comes only after they don’t want it anymore because only then have they let it go. If you can let go which means trust and let it happen WHILE you want him, you will manifest.
      But what if you saw yourself as the woman for whom EVERYTHING she wants works out? 😀
      There are no odds but those which we perceive and remember that we manifest what we believe we can have. If you feel that it’s impossible to have this due to whichever factors involved, it’s going to be difficult to manifest what you want.
      You are also perceiving distance because you feel disconnected from him and seeing the two of you TOGETHER is key 🙂
      I know you’re analytical by nature but in this case, it’ll be easier to believe if you start to believe in miracles. Your awareness and constant questioning have taken you to the place of feeling silly but deep belief prevents that. It is never too late to start working on your belief. Your belief is the antidote to whatever it is that’s happening right now. You are your only obstacle and you don’t have to be – if you believe without having to see, you will be even happier and in anticipation of everything coming together. I know that my optimism and the belief unseen might be difficult for you to grasp but all it takes is opening your heart. Everyone knows the feeling of believing without reason in something, anything, and that thing coming true without any logical explanation. It’s happened to everyone at least a few times.
      Just believe that the Universe will perform a miracle. They happen every day 🙂 xx

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      1. My mind is so amazed at some of the stuff you just said it, it actually hurts :

        THIS: “You didn’t feel as if you two were together so he met someone else which is just an expression of the two of you not being together because that’s how you perceive it.” – I wondered why this happened and you just enlightened me : it is the physical representation of my belief that we’re not together.

        And then, “Right now, if you could feel that it’s OK he met someone else because that made you see you wanted to be with him even more and that desire fuels your GOOD feelings of being with him, ” – I used to think he wasn’t really looking for anyone, I used to think he had a specific type, I used to think he was commitment phobic … this situation showed me that I was wrong : he can commit, he doesn’t have a specific type and clearly he does want someone to be with.

        It also showed me that I actually really want to be with him and I do care about him and ,it also strengthened the belief that we’re supposed to be together.

        And finally, this : “Everyone knows the feeling of believing without reason in something, anything, and that thing coming true without any logical explanation. It’s happened to everyone at least a few times.
        Just believe that the Universe will perform a miracle. They happen every day” is what I have been praying for. I believe in miracles, strongly – because I have experienced them and because I have no logical explanation for this desire and this pull I have to him – it is completely out of character for me.

        My prayer was answered. Since I asked what I was supposed to do the replies I got was :
        – an email with the subject line : she believed she could and so she did
        – a random movie scene about faith and taking chances because it’s worth it
        – a magical Gretta who has filled me with such uplifting energy that I feel like I can take over the world
        – and so much love around me from my friends, my family

        Pure magic, from the bottom of my heart : thank you !

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  3. LyLy / Nina

    OMG! I feel for you! But at the same time your ‘Jesus coming back from the dead level’ comment made me laugh so much. Thanks I needed that! You are very funny! But I do understand what you mean, how it looks like it is on that level of miracle.

    I think Nina needs to answer your post. I don’t know what to say… I did feel low today also, not to do with him originally, but it came on after what I had to do. I cut my entire family and friends out of my life today – never to return. I could write the whole drama out, but I can’t be bothered. It had been coming on for sometime.

    I did get sad over him, but I think it was just a side effect of getting rid of the vampires.

    How long has he been seeing this girl for? I remember you mentioned that he said he thought ‘she was a keeper’
    If its like most peoples relationships its just based on attraction, it will probably end the same way that everyone elses does. Not even knowing who that person really was.

    I think your issue might be still looking at the WHAT IS. You have to believe no matter what. I know you are probably sick of hearing that shit – but no matter what has happened and how much time goes past… always deep in my heart I know I’m going to end up with him. If you find it hard to act as if you could just start saying “he’s coming” “I just know it’s gonna happen” “I just know we are going to end up together!” But Nina could probably give you better advice. I know some people who just couldn’t get into the space of acting as if and when they started saying those above phrases it was much easier for them to believe. Also If possible can you get off social media and not look at him? I find it helps to not see anything at all.

    Also – I remember Joe Dispenza saying – “You have to recondition your body into believing that that future event is happening to you NOW because your body as the unconscious mind does not know the difference between an actual experience that produces an emotion and an emotion that you fabricate by thought alone and you have to change the circuitry in your brain, neurologically, to look like the event has happened and then you have to emotionally condition your body into believing that future event is already done and when your thoughts and feelings are aligned and your mind and body are working together you’re heading for a new destiny.

    To me that means act like he is living in your house. Cook for him. Talk to him like he is there. When watching TV, hes holding your hand etc etc. All that good shite!

    Theres 2 ways I see LOA working. 1) Let go and do minimal to no work or 2) act and feel 24/7 like you are with them until he shows. I’ve started doing number 2, cause I like it. I bought him a card today and wrote in it for him.
    Nina, is my advice ok?

    Try those xx
    Love xx

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  4. Hey LyLy

    I had to come back and write some more to you. After watching Joe’s video above I heard something in the video – which I think applies to you. He mentions at near the end how his daughter was telling him how she did it. She mentions how if she started to analysis it…etc, etc.

    That’s what I think you are doing. Analyzing the what is and all the reasons why it won’t work instead of focusing on the ones why it WILL and that it already has. I think that is coupled with GUILT. You feel guilty for wanting someone who you think is happy. Do you know for sure they are 100% happy? Do you know every thought this guy thinks? How do you know with 100% no doubt that he might be thinking other things? I know people who say that they are happy and are not. I know people who post all their couple photos on FB and have terrible relationships. Why are feeling guilty for loving someone? You want the best for you both,I don’t see anything wrong with that. Have no guilt or shame, you are not doing anything wrong. Lose the – is it right, is it wrong? thinking. Lose right and wrong all together, like the should, woulds, could, maybes, etc. Right and wrong is in that same category. The pooh category.

    You are aligned with everything else because you don’t have all these guilt / analyzing feelings like you do around him. You said this “What if you are aligned and everything else in your life is working out like pure magic except that one thing that you still really want but that one thing is just not happening….” Because you REALLY WANT IT – Lose the part after the word magic, you are reaffirming that nothing is working, so that is what is happening, nothing is working.

    I think part of you has always thought this was not going to work and that you were just being delusional. Going to work. Not delusional. You should see how i have set up my house, if you think you are delusional I am going to write down the bottom the changes I made to my house.

    You said “And why does it come when you don’t want it anymore … that’s just silly, who came up with that rule, I find it a little twisted and super unfair when you think about it?” – It can come when you do want it or when you dont. Does it matter how or when it shows up or if you want or dont want it anymore? It doesn’t does it?

    This part here has always confused me with LOA. If i was acting like I was with someone I dont think i would be going out on dates with other people. You can if you want, but to me I would feel like I was saying to the Universe, “I dont really know what I want.” You take control, I am not that serious about him.

    “But he’s also in a serious relationship to the point of meeting the parents type level and I find it hard to ignore that because while I wasn’t looking and I was avoiding reality and working on my gratitude : his relationship was actually solidifying while I was manifesting a whole bunch of other dudes that are not the one I want to go out on date with. I went on 3 dates just this week obviously i’m vibing high and then I find out his mom was here and they stayed all together in a luxury hotel hanging out on the beach. I’m also moving countries so on top of that we will add distance.”
    IGNORE. IGNORE. IGNORE. You have had so much resistance around LOA working for this, him, etc – give yourself some time to start acting and believing.

    “How in the hell could this possibly even happen with odds like this?” What you are really thinking.

    “but nothing NOTHING seems to be going the right direction.” What you are really thinking.

    “I just want to be happy and at peace, I find knowing about this LOA really made my life a lot more complicated.” I used to say this and then stopped when I realized that just saying it made it more complicated.

    Why I am not delusional. 😉

    I physically actually do these things.

    I wake, hes there. I can hear him breathing. I get up and make him his coffee. (Cause i want too!)
    I pack his lunch. Yes I make it and put it in his container! (cause i want too!)
    I make him breakfast. (cause i want too!)
    I see him off.

    I got to work – This is MY time. I let go during these 6 hours and have fun. If i think about him I just say thank you.

    I come home before him. I clean up a bit, do some washing. Cook his favorite dinner, we talk about our day. I Set 2 plates. Wash the dishes with him.

    He has a shower, I read. We watch some tv or go out. We hold hands. We talk.

    We go to bed. I can feel him holding my hand. He falls asleep, i can hear him breathing.

    I fall asleep REMEMBERING THE FUN we just had that night.

    I have rearranged my house. Hes boots are at my front door. When I make myself a tea I automatically make 2.
    There is now 2 chairs at my desk, his robe is hanging behind the bathroom door. Hes aftershave and shampoo are in view. His beer is in the fridge and its the first thing I see everytime I open the fridge.

    I do all this because I want to and because It’s real for me.

    🙂

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    1. Hi Gretta/Lyly and Nina,

      I’m really curious to hear Ninas take here too

      Especially about dating other people and how that can affect your manifestation.

      My feeling is that it does affect your manifestation, although I do know people that did manifest their ex back while dating new people

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  5. “You have to recondition your body into believing that that future event is happening to you NOW because your body as the unconscious mind does not know the difference between an actual experience that produces an emotion and an emotion that you fabricate by thought alone and you have to change the circuitry in your brain, neurologically, to look like the event has happened and then you have to emotionally condition your body into believing that future event is already done and when your thoughts and feelings are aligned and your mind and body are working together you’re heading for a new destiny.

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  6. Oops I forgot

    His motorcycle helmet is near the front door.
    I leave love post it notes around the house.
    We got to the gym also. Maybe a run.
    Many more I just can’t remember it all now.

    I don’t feel delusional at all. 🙂

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  7. Lol you Gretta, we say it’s better to laugh about it than to cry about it right? I reckon my post was written with humor in mind.

    NEVERTHELESS ! I remember seeing the video you shared and thinking : wooooaahhh cooolll!!! But then there’s always a new video that comes out that I’m thinking wooooaahhh cool !!! Until the effect fades –

    Granted I have always had some resistance with this situation but you know I was doing really well- I don’t ever go on his social media but he goes on mine a lot apparently so because he’d liked something I ended up on his page ( I won’t lie – alcohol might have been involved ).

    The reason I’m dating is because I didn’t for years and you know what it makes me feel like I’m waiting, putting myself on hold – so I literally started dating again this week and bam 3 of them : all something to do with what he does for a living and I didn’t even do it on purpose … None of them gave me butterflies though but it’s nice to be wined and dined and looked at like the incarnation of the sexiest human creature on earth- but they end up reminding me that they’re not who I want.

    Most will tell you carry on with your life, forget about them, date – I tried the whole as if thing and I admit it makes me feel like I’m 2 steps away from Kathy bates in Misery .

    My main issue is being overly analytical and being naturally a strong personality with slight controlling issues ( best combo ever obviously )- that translates to the common friendly advice of : soften up a little, maybe you’re too intimidating ( which is just pc for you’re a scary woman please stop it )-

    I would let it go , forget about the dude and move on with my life – But I can’t .. Like seriously honestly truthfully I have tried and I can’t let it go. I prayed about it, meditated, admitted defeat, met someone else that used to rock my world – nothing … I want this one. Don’t ask me why, I can’t even explain it – iTs like he’s inside my skin, in every fiber of my being and even if I pretend I’m not looking and I don’t care : he’s there, all the time, everyday –

    It’s not painful, it’s not anger, nostalgic or anything like that – it’s just … It’s in me and it’s not letting me go. And when I look at this situation my rational brain doesn’t understand – I don’t understand why this is happening and I don’t know how to break free from it. At the same time I don’t want to because it feels all wrong. I look at it and I know this is not what was supposed to happen but somehow on the way something went awol and now we’re in a scenario that’s not the one we should have been in –

    I know it but he don’t.. I swear it feels like some Parallele universe I remember who you are but you don’t remember who I am and I can’t figure out how to make you remember and I’m losing my mind because God dangit !!

    I’m ranting again for but yeah you know the drill. You might be right there is some guilt at the thought of doing something that would lead to a separation ( cheating parents syndrome obviously) and most of all there is still some belief that we get granted things and sometimes life is just cruel at making you believe you can get something with absolutely no intention of honoring it ( broken promises childhood – well hey there’s a winner , just made that link )

    Is it old programming ? Yes – can I cure it? I just acknowledged it so it will be manageable- does it solve the issue ? Nope because I still want my dude – she should get her own … Wtf ? Seriously though I feel like it won’t be fully okay until we’re together, sadly though I’m not sure I believe we could ever be together ( this isn’t said with any insecurity – it’s probably because darth vador is keeping him away from me , what else could it be?) which mean I’m not sure I believe it will ever fully be okay … Queue Ben and jerry’s ice cream and Bridget jones nonsense.

    Oy vey!

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    1. Hahahahahahahaha love this!
      Use the dating to believe that you are an amazing woman, date or girlfriend, however you want to put it, and you’ll start to believe you are amazing enough to be with anyone you want. By default, you will also be that person without effort.

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  8. Hi LyLy

    ❤ I DON'T THINK ANYTHING CAN AFFECT YOUR MANIFESTATION EXCEPT YOU. ❤

    I think if you want to date then you can, but don't go on them missing him, just look at it like you are catching up with friends. 🙂

    Don't try to rationalize the situation at all. AT ALL.

    This

    "At the same time I don’t want to because it feels all wrong. I look at it and I know this is not what was supposed to happen but somehow on the way something went awol and now we’re in a scenario that’s not the one we should have been in"

    I've seen worse situations. Ignore what has happened.

    and this..

    "Seriously though I feel like it won’t be fully okay until we’re together, sadly though I’m not sure I believe we could ever be together."

    Be ok now. Ekkkkk! the last line is showing your TRUE belief. I know you said you don't want to work on yourself but do EFT to knock the block out of you that is making you believe that you cant be together.

    I have posted that Dr Joe video once before. Have you ever done what he says? To recondition your body and mind that the event has already happened? What if for the next few weeks you set up your place like he is living with you and do the things I wrote above that I am doing? Could you try that? What do you have to lose? 🙂

    Loa works if you let go and forget and be happy or act like it is until they show and be happy. I started to use the props just to mix it up. It's not that I can't forget because I find myself having periods of not thinking of him at all and feel fine.

    I think there maybe some impatience also, like why is it taking this long. It's taking this long because of your beliefs.

    I think you all need to be EXTREMELY GRATEFUL that you have some kind of contact with your person. Do you remember that I didn't? That he was told things that were not true? Lucky he saw past that bullshit 😉

    You have to believe this is going to happen. If you dont believe, it wont. If you just say "I KNOW we are going to end up together!" that to me is enough to start things moving in a more positive direction. You've got to stop looking at the what is and starting act as if.

    Have some determination and belief in yourself. You are seeing yourself as something small and not powerful.

    Powerful and magical and able to draw what and who you want into your life.

    K? 🙂

    xxx

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    1. Thank you Gret’ your insights are always a pleasure to read and a nice kick where I need it.

      The belief it won”t happen is based on the following premise :
      1- I have been told love is simple, if it’s too complicated then the situation is not for you
      2- I have been taught that if he cares for you, you’ll know, if he doesn”t you will be confused
      3- I have also been taught that you don’t always get what you want but you will always get what you need

      So as I sit with my situation, my rationale is if it looks like a bust, smells like a bust – it probably is one. The only thing on the pro side is the fact that it’s a genuine desire that I have, sometimes my desire is strong enough to tip the scale others it isn’t because refer to above 1, 2 and 3.

      I’m actually not struggling with him because everytime we’re in each other’s vicinity it’s a positive experience. I struggle with the fact that I feel like I’m being told that if I deny gravity long enough I’ll start floating.

      I am definitely impatient mainly because in not too long I will be moving far away and then the odds of me even seeing him will go from we’re neighbours to 0.

      I guess it just looks really bleak in terms of rational possibilities so I revert to what I was saying the only way this could actually happen is if Jesus himself got involved.

      It’s interesting when you say I’m seeing myself as powerless and small… most people would say I’m the opposite of that, myself included – when it comes to relationships though I feel very powerless because it affects you in such a different way. i am sometimes fighting myself because when I get emotionnal I feel vulnerable and thus powerless.

      If I didn’t have any feelings for him this whole situation would be a completely different ball game. Ain’t that just typical!

      I think what is fascinating as I re-read this is : it almost seems like I’m actively trying to talk myself out of this. From the beginning, maybe I subconsciously feel like I’m in danger or something – the possibility of getting hurt is enough for me to keep myself away even though keeping myself away is actually hurting me more.

      Humans are just weird….

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      1. Hi LyLy

        The belief it won”t happen is based on the following premise :
        1- I have been told love is simple, if it’s too complicated then the situation is not for you
        2- I have been taught that if he cares for you, you’ll know, if he doesn”t you will be confused
        3- I have also been taught that you don’t always get what you want but you will always get what you need

        1) – This is crap and I have heard this also. People complicate EVERYTHING! They even complicate love and how it should be and how it should show up. The person who came up with that statement is just lazy and probably doesn’t want to work on themselves or their relationship. The statement is not true. Don’t pay attention to it. People love drama and to complain and moan. Lazy.

        2) – I grew up hearing this shit from my mum also until I met a good friend who wanted this girl for 2 years but did nothing about it and he could have had her! Fear, whatever. You do NOT always know how someone is feeling or what they are really thinking. That’s why I asked you do you really know what he is thinking when he looks at you? Do you know 100% with no doubt that he isn’t having doubts about this girl but putting on a show like most people do? You don’t. I also asked how long has he been seeing this girl for? What is your intuition telling you about them? Ignore what it looks like on the surface, do you think it will last?

        3) – The famous Rolling Stone song. I turn that shit off when it comes on the radio. The worst song in history, ever written. Plus I can’t stand him. How limited was the moron who wrote that song? If it was Jagger or someone else. Total dickhead. Now people go through life quoting that and believing it. I’ve heard people say it out loud. I feel like slapping them lol.

        Knock those 3 beliefs out of you with EFT. I know you said you don’t want to work on yourself anymore but at least just do those 3 because you are attracting based on those subconscious beliefs. They are energy blocks in your system, programs, viruses – that you must get rid of or you really won’t get what you want because this is what is driving you to keep manifesting what you DON’T want.

        “So as I sit with my situation, my rationale is if it looks like a bust, smells like a bust – it probably is one.” = Ekkkkk!

        “I struggle with the fact that I feel like I’m being told that if I deny gravity long enough I’ll start floating.” – YOU WILL!

        “I am definitely impatient mainly because in not too long I will be moving far away and then the odds of me even seeing him will go from we’re neighbors to 0.” = KILL the impatience. I know you want this now, but does it matter if its now or in a year? Honestly? Why are you moving also?

        “I guess it just looks really bleak in terms of rational possibilities so I revert to what I was saying the only way this could actually happen is if Jesus himself got involved.’ = Then speak to Jesus, your guides, his guides, your angels, the universe – whatever you believe in and TELL THEM to get involved and help you out. Seriously. Seriously. Seriously.

        “i am sometimes fighting myself because when I get emotional I feel vulnerable and thus powerless.” = What you are really experiencing is a loss of control, you want to be in control of everything, which is bringing on the feelings of vulnerability and powerless. Let go of ALL control and float downstream KNOWING that he loves you.

        “I think what is fascinating as I re-read this is : it almost seems like I’m actively trying to talk myself out of this. From the beginning, maybe I subconsciously feel like I’m in danger or something” – KNOCK this out with EFT. That’s now 4 things to knock out, becoming aware is not enough, you have to move these programs out of your energy body/field/subconscious.

        “the possibility of getting hurt is enough for me to keep myself away even though keeping myself away is actually hurting me more.” – TAKE THE RISK. LIFE IS TO SHORT. You will not die from getting hurt – but you will from not taking that risk.

        Read my post below this and try it out for 4 weeks and see what happens. I dont know why i feel inclined to type this again but just remember you dont really know what he is thinking, ever.

        Peace xx

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  9. Hi All

    Back again. I was thinking as I was driving home about what Nina said – “Trying too hard to feel your desire belonging to you already is the very thing preventing you from manifesting. If you have experienced this, **YOUR AWARENESS IS THAT OF *TRYING* INSTEAD OF HAPPY FOR HAVING YOUR DESIRE ALREADY.**

    That is so very important.

    Trying to hard to feel your desire belonging to you V’s happy for having it already. Huge difference.

    Use the props. Start to condition your mind and your body will follow. Start doing things for TWO people. Condition your body to move about in your house as if he was there living with you in the relationship you have always wanted with him. Is your house clean? Is it something you would be proud of? Would you want him or yourself to live in a messy place? Do you have coffee cups and last night dinner plate still sitting in the sink? What are you wearing right now? Do you feel good? I know people will say that you can dress how you want, but there is no way in hell I want him to see me in trackies (this is just MY opinion) and looking like a bag lady, unless I am gardening or have the flu from hell. I want to look good for myself, but I want to look good for him also! I want to be proud of myself and I want him to be proud of me too! How enthusiastic are you that he is about to come home? OMG. Right before I hear his truck pull up I get a rush! Imagine how it would feel to greet him at the door when he comes home. This is something I have always done, then I usually leave them alone for an hour or so to unwind. Condition yourself that its happening right now. Youve got the relationship you have always wanted! Set your entire table for him and his family to come over then have a conversation with all of them! Do you have pets? Do they sleep on his side of the bed? Where is he gonna sleep then? On da floor?! Haha! OMG. I love to watch him eat. It’s so funny. He makes those MMmm Mmm noises. No lie. When we first met it was kinda a shock for me to eat with someone who is so vocal while eating Hahahahaha! Mmmm! (seriously, he does do that!) Does the boy have a towel to have a shower with or do you only have enough towels for YOU in your bathroom? Does he have space for his things? Clothes? Bathroom stuff? Boys toys? Boys ‘crap’? His car (If you have the space) on and on and on. ❤

    You can do what Nina says which is no work or you can do what Joe says. Both work.

    I bet when you wake tomorrow and you make 2 cups or coffee or tea you will find you have a big, huge, fat grin on your face and you will want to come back here and rush to tell me how good it felt.

    Gotta run. He's going to be home in 40 minutes. 🙂 🙂 🙂 ❤

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    1. lol

      Your replies gave me LIFE!!! I laughed so hard I must have looked like a crazy woman on some form of illegal medication. Yesterday I was feeling so overwhelmed that I prayed and I said : Universe, God – you have the ability to fix this in a heartbeat … None of this is necessary, none of my anguish is necessary – I know you want us to have free will but in this particular case I give it all up so you can do what is needed for this whole situation to be fixed because i can’t.

      As you so beautifully put it : it’s a matter of control, releasing control and trusting the process – regardless of how it seems.

      I asked him once recently, actually the first time I saw him with whatsherface, if he was happy in general – he said no. When I told him I was leaving, he asked if he could come. So you’re absolutely right, I don’t know 100% that what is on social media represents his truth, if I got by what he says : it doesn’t.

      When I see him, I am all he sees – he looks at me like he wants to penetrate my eyes and settle into my soul, he always hugs me for a little longer than most people do and will always answer if I contact him for any reason. What does my intuitiion tell me, i don’t know, I stopped listening to it because it used to say he and i were going to be together and it didn’t really pan out as I though so I don’t fully trust it.

      I had started sleeping on one side, made room in my closet, my bathroom, making space for him to come into – but eventually I kind of gave up and I won”‘t lie now my space is like the Tasmanian devil came by for a visit. I thought whats the point, I might as well spread out and take over the world like pimkie and the brain … except the world is my room. As you can tell I have consistency ADHD… I did ask myself seriously if I even wanted this guy, if this was ego and you know what- It’s neither, it’s just … he’s home. Not in a complete me because I’m a psycho that needs my other half to validate me but in a : we’re supposed to be together in this because that’s what we agreed some long time ago. (whivch in essence doesn’t necessarily sound less crazy :s )

      He travels a lot for work so I never really know when’s around because sometimes he can be gone for weeks, pretending to have a routine with him would suggest otherwise which would be counter effective. I guess 4 weeks of delusion wouldn’t harm me : so what do I do for the next 4 weeks I live as if I’m in a relationship with him? That’s it?

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      1. I am in my mobile phone. It’s hard on my little phone.

        Yes 30 days but no swaying, no talk of feeling delusional, no control, just acting like you are together. When you are at work, let go, that’s your time. Do things for 2 ppl. Watch the Dr Joe video again, really listen to everything he says. No doubts, no buts, no what if’s – just pure 100% belief and acting like you are together. For 30 days. When a bad thought comes in just tell your mind/ego to f*ck off. Seriously just try that.

        The reason I kept asking you if you were 100% sure that he was happy was because it didn’t feel to me / look like he is. You remember what I used to do for a job, yeah? That’s why I kept asking and saying to you are you sure he is as happy as it looks and now you’ve confirmed it. He ain’t happy. Boom! This is YOUR time to do something, with all your determination and guts.

        Make it happen! No exceptions. ❤

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      2. Hi Gretta,

        You just reminded me of this thing I read about called the Superman game with your 30 days post below. Here you keep yourself from thinking negative thoughts because you’re playing a “game”. So the pressure is not on what you’re manifesting… you’re just playing the game.

        Details in this post:
        http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=32

        By the way, can you really see stuff about our lives via what we post? Does your psychic ability also work in your life, are you able to see what your future may hold?

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      3. lol you know in essence Gretta, I kinda knew it, I just figured people would do something about a situation if they’re unhappy in it. I think he loves his job but it takes a lot out of him – as for her, I don’t know how long it’s been going on but I know they went public about a month ago. I also knew you were asking me over and over again because you had a feeling and you can sense something that I’m not able to see right now. I always had that sensation but never asked because you’d often said you didn’t do it anymore 🙂

        I also know we are supposed to be together that’s why we met the way we met and are present in each other’s lives. I also know that for whatever reason, it’s on me to not give up just yet (maybe I’m emotionally stronger) … I remember the superman game and I guess I can do it … as a one last shot before I leave and just drop it without looking back.

        If it ends up working, I am personally flying to Australia to find you and give you the biggest hug this earth has ever seen.

        It reminds me of this secret story : http://www.thesecret.tv/stories/nothing-is-impossible-no-matter-how-impossible-the-situation-may-seem/ actually re-reading it today, I realize it could have even been written by me.

        Nina, if you’re reading this, I think you should have a forum. It’d be easier to keep track of our conversations and would attract a lot of people I’m sure.

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  10. Lyly and all.

    I have been following this conversation but haven’t had time to comment. What Lyly said really could have come from my own mouth! As you all know, I go back and forth with my belief. I am sure it is completely normal. At this time, I am kinda feeling neutral. I still want him but I am feeling the loss of him. It is hard not to.

    A couple of weeks ago, I texted him and asked him to get together. A couple of days later, he said he was available but that day I had a previous engagement and couldn’t meet. I was so torn. I wanted to see him so bad and was afraid that if I didn’t, I never would again. I told him I couldn’t go but I want to get together so let me know next time he is free. He understood it was late notice and that was it. A little over a week later, after not hearing from him, I casually sent him a text asking how he has been. To my surprise, he answered pretty quickly. We texted a couple more times and then he just stopped. That was a week ago. No more mention of going out from him. I could bring it up (again) but I would absolutely love for him to text ME and ask ME.

    I feel I will never be free of missing and wanting him. I am not sure if that is because we are meant to be together or I am mentally unstable and delusional! 😉

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  11. C

    Read these 2 posts I did yesterday if you haven’t already seen them. ❤ ❤ ❤ https://thelawofattractionandmylife.com/2016/08/01/thought-of-the-day-67/comment-page-1/#comment-3386

    I like the sound of that game. You could do that also but with him in mind. ❤

    Yes I can see things but I have turned myself off. It was when I saw LyLy write a few posts back that he apparently said that this girl "was a keeper" that the feelings started to go off and it didn't feel right to me. It didn't feel right what he was saying and he didn't look happy to me. Life in general also. Lyly, you said that you assumed that if someone isn't happy they would leave. Don't assume, people get comfortable and lazy and avoid things. I know one particular relationship that I was in that I should have left in the first year but stuck around for years more.

    Yes it works in my life. I can go for a job and drive there and they are already telling me its not the job or I won't be successful or whatever I ask about. I try not to use it tho. I especially don't use it on other people. If they ask, which they don't anymore, I just say that's my past, I am happier now. I am trying to live 'normally' which most people don't understand. It was a high pressure job because there are so many fakes out there stealing peoples money and bullshitting to them – using cliche words like soulmate, etc, etc and just basically leading them on. You can train yourself easily. We all have it. You are a spiritual being, you know that right? Your body is just a vessel. You could join a spiritualist church or a mediation/psychic circle and develop the psychic muscle. I always recommend meditation to people, i think it's awesome.

    Yes I can see what the future can hold BUT one important thing. YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR LIFE. A psychic call pull the information from The Field /The Matrix but it is YOU and YOUR MIND that creates your reality. If you go to a psychic and she tells you NO it aint gonna happen, you will make her right. But as an ex psychic I am telling you and everyone now. YOU ARE THE CREATOR.

    Avoid psychics and clairvoyants. Healers are good. I am not saying to avoid them because they are all bad. I am saying avoid it because if you want anything YOU ARE THE ONE THAT BRINGS IT INTO YOUR LIFE WITH YOUR MIND.

    ❤ X

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    1. Gretta, it’s so interesting what you’re saying because I experienced it first hand:

      Last year I spoke to a few psychics, 2 of which have amazing reputations and they all said : he was the man i was going to spend a long time with and saw children in our future – and a whole bunch of stuff. And then when I was vibing low, I saw someone else who told me he was just in my life to teach me a lesson and not particularly romantically – and as my doubts started getting stronger and stronger, the last time I had a reading she painted the picture of an asshole who has addictions, was unreliable and not someone to have a serious relationship with.

      I basically manifested like a boss, though I chose to believe it meant the ones who said we would marry were wrong. Isn’t it interesting how much easier it is to believe the worse case scenario? I wonder why I do that… you’re right some EFT might be required just to clear it out.

      The secret story came to mind because as I was reading your reply, I could hear her post in my head. And re-reading it today felt like I was reading it for the first time.

      I hear you when you’re saying to do it from a place of bring it to me and not from a place of ‘trying’. It’s a shift I have to figure out because I’m not sure if I know how to not feel like I’m doing something for it to happen rather than living a new reality so it can catch up.

      Why am I doing this is a good question to ask …I actually never thought about it.. I just read one post you wrote and it summed it up in just a few words : I have a deep desire to make it work, I really really do .. I can’t shake the feeling that this is who I should be with and there is absolutely no doubt about that in my mind (just like in the story).

      Where I falter is in the faith and belief that it can happen. I have moments but I haven’t been able to be consistent with it. You kno it'”s funny, because when I prayed I asked : what am I supposed to do? I don’t understand what you want from me and what it would take …

      And inspired action led me to write on here and get your responses. isn’t it that purely awesome though?

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      1. Hi LyLy

        This – “I basically manifested like a boss, though I chose to believe it meant the ones who said we would marry were wrong. Isn’t it interesting how much easier it is to believe the worse case scenario? I wonder why I do that… ”

        I will tell you why WE do that – but brace yourself because not many people can cope with it when i tell them. They automatically go into defense mode and say that that is not them – because the truth is so jarring.

        We do it because…. we like to destroy ourselves and each other. Its human nature to destroy. Take a look at the world. How did you feel after trying to convince yourself that that psychic must have been wrong? You created bad feelings, right? You were hurting yourself.

        There is a famous psychoanalyst in Brazil called Norberto Keppe. Google his videos on youtube, but brace yourself to be smashed in the face with the truth of what human beings do to themselves and each other. We want pain and suffering more than love and joy.

        It starts with narcissism – which leads to envy – but not envy of wanting what someone else has – envy of not wanting it for yourself and not wanting the other person to have it either. Then megalomania. We want to be Gods. We see yourself separate from each other when really we are all one. (Religion as an example, suicide bombers, my god is the only god etc)

        This may all seem very negative but the truth is never negative. Awareness and bringing the darkness to light, becoming more conscious in what you do to yourself and others. You may not consciously always know what you are doing but in time you start to see it. Just becoming aware changes you. So does watching their videos and reading their books.

        That is what we teach each other and that is what the world teaches us. That drama, pain and suffering FEELS better, is more normal, because who are we to deserve it all, right? Who are we to be happy and pain free and not slaves, right?

        There is another woman called Claudia Bernhardt de Souza Pacheco who wrote the book “Women on the Couch – An Analysis of Female Psychopathology” – If you want your mind blown away, read that. She studied woman and you just have to read it. You might get angry when you read it but it will change you forever.

        You would have to read their books and watch them on youtube to fully understand it all. It’s very jarring but the truth always is.

        You said this – “I hear you when you’re saying to do it from a place of bring it to me and not from a place of ‘trying’. It’s a shift I have to figure out because I’m not sure if I know how to not feel like I’m doing something for it to happen rather than living a new reality so it can catch up. ” – Be natural. Act like you would naturally act around him. ❤

        If your feeling is that you are meant to be together with him and you have always felt and known that then stick with it. Intuition doesn't lie. I say the same thing. I knew from the moment I saw him.

        You said this – "Where I falter is in the faith and belief that it can happen. I have moments but I haven’t been able to be consistent with it. You kno it'”s funny, because when I prayed I asked : what am I supposed to do? I don’t understand what you want from me and what it would take … And inspired action led me to write on here and get your responses. isn’t it that purely awesome though? – Yes awesome! 🙂 – It's the faith and belief that is the yeast that is going to make your bread rise. 😉 The consistency in your belief will come as you keep training your mind and body to act like you already have the relationship you want. Just keep at it! 🙂

        🙂 x

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      2. Gretta,

        No shock at all as I absolutely agree. Pain and suffering comes more naturally to us and I believe the programming is so deep because it’s been passed from generation to generation, that our negative emotions are justified and deserved (we even created a God who had to save us from ourselves).

        This : ‘That drama, pain and suffering FEELS better, is more normal, because who are we to deserve it all, right? Who are we to be happy and pain free and not slaves, right?’ sums everything you said beautifully and I do think there is a deep rooted guilt to even believe that we’re not only deserving of good things in our lives because it’s our birth right but there is also this belief that we need to give something up, sacrifice something for it.

        Acknowledging it is definitely the beginning of letting go of this limiting mindset and it takes the pressure off to realize it’s not just me, it’s not that I’m somehow broken – rather it’s a program that stems from long ago, beyond this life.

        These books are fascinating I’ll definitely have a look.

        ‘ Be natural. Act like you would naturally act around him.❤’ I see what you mean, being aware of him being around me and behaving like I would in our relationship.

        Thank you sooooooooooooooooooooo much Gretta because I feel so much better than I did just this morning, I feel like it’s actually possible and I can do something to change it. Your patience and guidance did that for me – thank you so very much 🙂

        I know you said you don’t want to go back to your former job, but I do think with the help of your intuition coupled with some coaching training, you would make an amazing spiritual advisor.

        Day 1 of the rest of my life : August 2nd, 2016 is herewith officially the day my beloved and I started a beautiful loving committed relationship. (our babies are going to be so gorgeous the world isn’t ready for it!!! :p

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  12. LyLy

    Yep. It’s true I don’t use it anymore but it is always there.

    Ok, but when you do it. Don’t do it with thinking I’m just gonna try it one more time before I leave. I feel that might interfere also. It still has an essence of disbelief! – You’re doing it because you love him and want this. Look at it from that angle. Not from an angle of this is my last hope.

    You said – “If it ends up working, I am personally flying to Australia to find you and give you the biggest hug this earth has ever seen.” – That sounds cool! ❤ Just make sure you are vibrating to bring it to you and not vibing as this is my last shot / last attempt. You know what i mean? Make sure the intention pure.

    I don't know if you saw these posts but I just gave them to others to have a read of.

    https://thelawofattractionandmylife.com/2016/08/01/thought-of-the-day-67/comment-page-1/#comment-3386

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  13. LyLy

    That The Secret link that you posted….

    This is no coincidence! That is a sign!

    She started to do all the things I’ve been telling everyone to do.

    “I put out a second toothbrush, another towel, both in his favourite colour. I put out his favourite magazines and I slept on my side of the bed, I did my makeup like the way I would in his house – on the floor in front of the floor mirror. I also brushed my teeth on tiptoe like I would have to at his house as his sink is higher up. Every morning I visualized myself doing my routine the way I did it in his home.”

    Ha! This is exactly what I say, even more spooky! – Mine mans inital is J also. Love it! – “I also said over and over in my head “thank you for my loving relationship with J.”

    Mind blowing story! And yep it does sound like our stories. And everyone should follow what this lady did. Nothing is impossible!

    ❤ x ❤

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  14. Hello everyone,

    I am very confused at the moment. He wants to meet me.. what if the person doesn’t want a relationship but wants to meet up causally? I like him and feel the connection and he is the one I wanted all this while but now I fear at the thought of meeting him as I am not as strong emotionally (given I live on my own and get carried away with any kind of short time support). Do I just go meet and not worry now? The days following the meet up are the ones I dread about the most. I really feel stuck.

    I would like to know what is the best thing to do….

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    1. Do it N … He wants to meet you, meet him and come as your best self because she knows what to do and when to do it. Don’t be afraid of your manifestation, that”s how I got here in the first place – and don’t make assumptions because you don’t know what he wants.

      If it would help, I would pretend i’m an actress and playing the role of a confident, irresistible goddess that every man wants to be with and keep… it takes the pressure off of you if it’s just a play right?

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    2. Meet him and enjoy it 🙂 Don’t have any specific expectations for the time you spend together but just enjoy it and know that your relationship will work out when it’s supposed to and that it will be soon 🙂 That will allow you to let go.

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      1. Thank you Lyly and Nina.

        I will meet him soon. I was thinking not to meet him yet as I felt I was not fully prepared because of the thoughts I was getting on this being casual. I have to change my thoughts on how he sees me. All these days I was just focusing on myself and sending love. I don’t know why but my intuition is telling me to delay the meeting. Anyway I will wait for few days and decide. Meanwhile I will get some time to change my thoughts too.

        Thank you so much to you both again.

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  15. LyLy

    Hahahaha! ❤ No worries. You are welcome!

    Once you start conditioning your mind and body you will see how easy it is to STAY in the BELIEF FEELING STATE. How can you not believe when he is right there with you? 😉

    The first time I set out 2 plates and started to have a conversation with him I got all shy! Hahahaha! And that is exactly how I get around him sometimes because the happiness overwhelms me (If that makes sense?) The shyness passed as I started hearing him say all the things to me that I have always wanted to hear him say.

    When you are sitting and having dinner with him in your house – watch him eating – he doesn't have to be looking or talking to you at this point, but just watch him eating. The first time I did it, I cried from the joy of being in that "ITS HAPPENED!" feeling state. I was so overwhelmed with gratitude for him that it made me cry. It feels so real. It blew me away. I did it a few times with his parents there at the table. Man! It was so vivid. Just amazing!

    If any of you have trouble with eating dinner with him, visualizing it, actually carrying out a conversation with him – then you can close your eyes a few minutes at a time here and there and it amplifies the feeling, then move back into the natural state of speaking to him as you normally would while having dinner together.

    This – "Day 1 of the rest of my life : August 2nd, 2016 is herewith officially the day my beloved and I started a beautiful loving committed relationship. (our babies are going to be so gorgeous the world isn’t ready for it!!! :p"

    Yep. Haha awesome! Hi 5!

    P.s I love the baby part. More than you know. 😉

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  16. Hi you all, so good to read your awesome comments. and N so happy for you!! Go ahead. rock his world…. and yours too. 🙂 In a really loving way.

    I thought I would share some of my manifestations that i love and one that was less-than-good would like to keep it to myself but I want Nina’s suggestion so I’ll have to mention.

    1. One day I just told Uni to send me a butterfly that will cross my path. Since that day I see butterflies crossing my path… through all twists and turns of the road. It feels so awesome.

    2. I am manifesting Unicorns in bundles…

    3. I am also manifesting Rainbows. But still asking Uni to send me the real deal here in India where I live. 🙂

    4. My boo and I are doing fine. What is funny is I imagine him in a particular colour or top or bottom clothing…. and he is wearing the same thing in about 48 hrs max.

    5. I ave become highly intuitive these days. There is a girl who I see often in office cafe, but I realized she was not coming to office these days. And the first answer my inner self told me that she is outside of country. And the next day i checked her Facebook to only find that she was in Hamburg, Germany. And she came back the day after. LOL goo for her.

    6. I wanted to go to cafe with a girl for lunch but she usually go out with her college friend. Today I had this feeling that i really wat to go with her and it would be great if she tells me her friend is on leave or something. So it was! We went on break together…

    And not so good manifestation:

    7. I went to see my baby in daycare and was really happy to see her playing and talking to her teacher and friends. She was sitting on a table and I just had this flash that told me she was going to get hurt. But I just cancelled the thought and went back to my office and got a call in no more than 15 mins later that she was hurt. The cause? She ran and banged her head in to the table.

    Nina, I’d like to manifest good things. I want to know what I can do during such “flashes” of intuition… ?

    P.S. Guys! I remember you all before and after my meditation. Hope you receive my good vibes…

    Love & Light

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    1. Hi Lightline,

      I always enjoy your posts so much and thank you for sharing your successes and challenge too. I know that I last time I read about your success was a real motivator to get my act together.

      About your intuition question… I can’t wait to see Nina’s response because this has been a big question for me too. How do you know when it’s your intuition or just a fear? Is there even a difference?

      And how do you cancel something when you’ve already emotionalized it with fear? It seems like I have failed in the past with this as well.

      Sending you love too 🙂 ❤

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    2. When those flashes happen, it’s your fear talking and you either have a choice to give in or be stronger than your fear and manifest what you want.
      By just accepting that you’re stronger than your fears, you will manifest what you want at a moment’s notice. You can do EFT on your fears if you want or send heart energy to your desires. Either way, you ARE stronger than your fears and can overcome them in a moment 🙂

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  17. Wow, I was just wondering about my intuition 10 minutes ago, then came on the blog and read this. I have the same question, how can I interpret when it’s something that’s so emotionally charged?
    If I’m in the zone, my intuition tells me this man is my husband. It’s beyond my control. But then I’m really fighting heavy resistance right now. It’s brutal. But I reminded myself that my intuition tells me he’s the one, it always comes back to him.

    Nina, what do you think? A blog post on intuition would be awesome!

    Lots of love to you all!

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    1. Thank you Lightline!! I really appreciate everyone’s love, support and all the positive energies that keeps us inspired through out.
      I am able to manifest few things quicker these days too – may be its the fact that we are now more conscious of what we are focusing on and how it appears in our lives. It’s asserting our believes on LoA more and more.
      Mine are similar to yours like I thought about my colleague who I haven’t seen for a long time- the one who he sits just next my desk. He is working in a different location at the moment but guess what as I was going home I was at a junction and had to wait for the passing by car and it was his car we waved at each other 🙂
      I am trying to relocate from the place where I live and change my job.. and I have been getting non stop call from a lady for a job role (this job is in the place very close to his place – just 15 min drive) plus I got a job agent (who is also from his place) add me on linkedin. These are quite few..
      I think meditation has helped me a lot in disciplining my mind.
      As for my intuition, I still want to be confident in believing and knowing what exactly it feels like. Is it possible to change our intuition or is it something ‘in-born’ based on our thoughts and feelings?

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