One of the manifestation epidemics I see is a simple way in which many end up feeling negatively about their desire and with that, sometimes give up on it.
That way is having expectations of how your desire should manifest, partially or entirely.
Let’s say you’re manifesting a relationship with a specific person. You think the fastest way would be for them to call you or follow you on social media. Or, you might think the fastest way would be for them to just ask you on a date immediately. Say yes if you asked them today? Answer your message to them with immediate willingness to be with you?
Now, let’s say those things don’t happen. You ask them to meet and they can’t or are unwilling to. They don’t respond to texts. They don’t say what you think you should hear after their earlier behavior. You don’t say what you wanted or meant to say for whatever reason. Your friends and family weigh in with ideas of how they think things should go, all contradictory to LoA but typical of the usual limiting beliefs of the world. (I am not belittling your friends and family but these things happen with individuals who analyze what they see without feeling what you feel and knowing what you know.) You start to question yourself and your faith is withering.
You are attached and in order to manifest, you have to let go (=believe your desire is a done deal and manifesting right now even if you can’t see any proof of it).
How do you let go in this particular situation?
What you must do first is realize that the “how” hurts you, your manifestation and your perception of your desire. The problem with the “how” is that trying to figure it out can bring so much negative thought to your desire that you come close to changing your mind from wanting to manifest it.
You now see it as the cause of personal sadness.
Second, you must know that the path of your manifestation is being blocked by your attempts of figuring it out. Just because it seems like things are not progressing doesn’t mean they aren’t. What makes no sense to you now will make perfect sense to you after your desire has manifested.
The only thing you must do is believe that living your desire will make you happy. You must believe it’s possible for you and be able to see and feel yourself living it, just once. And isn’t knowing that worrying blocks your manifestation enough of a warning to give it up?
You have been focusing on tensely observing your desire instead of seeing yourself having your desire in your life. In this case, you must see yourself with this person. You must see yourself having a relationship with them.
This form of manifestation epidemic often happens when one starts to ignore their present joys and puts all their attention to the current behavior of their desire, not even to having their desire (which would have been positive if it allowed them to enjoy the present as well as the visual of the future).
I understand why you cling to the “how.” You think, “If not like this, how is the person going to realize they want to be with me? How else does a person behave when they’re interested in someone?” And I know you mean well but with that, you are focusing on the other person instead of yourself without even realizing! With that, you are only hurting your good mood which ordinarily leads to rapid manifestation.
You might also be thinking that figuring out a way of your manifestation you feel comfortable with is going to help. However, this type of thinking shows you are not ready to manifest. You feel nervous around the idea of living your desire which is not a welcoming manifestation energy. In a relationship, the person you want to be with wants someone they feel comfortable with and they cannot feel comfortable with someone who doesn’t feel comfortable with them. In this case, you fear manifesting then ruining things and losing your desire as a result.
In order to manifest, your desire must feel natural to you. You must be comfortable with the idea of receiving and living it because comfort is the energy of zero resistance. If you think you aren’t good enough, that is the opposite of comfort.
Now that you know what to do, forget the “how” part. Even if you hadn’t realized you were focusing on it somewhat, forget it! The Universe will give you what you know is yours, what you believe to be possible for you so feel comfortable about living your desires.