When you are unable to think about receiving your desire without some sort of concern coming up inside you, chances are you have made a big deal out of it rather than just enjoying all the excitement related to it. Excitement and nervousness might feel the same initially but when you decide your desire belongs to you, start from there and stick to it, these moments of tingles passing through your body are excitement and energy that attracts.
People often say,
“I want to do this-and-that but I’m nervous/unsure.”
“It’s natural to share happiness so do it only if it makes you happy, without expecting anything in return.” But if you just know you are going to get something you want in return, good for you!
These individuals evoke resistance instead of going along with positive feelings. However, this also includes recognising those positive feelings. If the thought of doing something doesn’t make you happy, simply avoid doing it.
However, if you focus on self love first and your desires second, the happy opportunities for manifestation and inspired action will come to you more often because your personal happiness will be on the rise.
Self love solves everything. Focus on yourself before anything else makes life manageable, exciting, within reach and manifestation easy. Suddenly, you are open to receiving because the idea of living your desires feels natural to you.
Here comes the most fascinating part.
One blows the thoughts of their desired manifestation out of proportion when they fear negative thoughts because they want to think perfect thoughts out of fear of their negative ones manifesting.
Oftentimes, one isn’t even afraid of negative manifestation – just their negative thoughts.
Here are some tips for changing your focus to self love instead of worrying about your current circumstances or future manifestations.
Be unaffected by your current circumstances; moreover, be grateful for them because of everything you’ve learned, started, discovered, found and everyone you met. Once, I had to leave my current life to focus and finally start doing what I wanted to do. I had to remove myself in order to change my life because my current one was distracting but it was worth it. Soon, I found out that I could accomplish what I never did in my previous “life” and started to think about everything I wanted in the long run.
If you can be grateful for your current circumstances, you will have manifested your desired reality even faster due to zero resistance. On the other hand, the no resistance factor will be just as strong if you simply practice self love and pay no conscious attention to your current reality. Even if you complain about your current reality sometimes, you will know how to fix it and know that you can. Whether you believe it or not, self love solves every manifestation hiccup.
Living your desire must be natural to you. Think about it – you rapidly manifest everything you see as “no big deal.” If you saw your biggest desires that way, how fast do you think you’d manifest?
You’d believe that you can and you would do it; this energy also allows for letting go. Every time I have a specific desire, I see myself living it just because I want it.
Think about the person you want to be. Who are you? Who do you want to be? Firstly, accept that you are good enough, just as you are; second, think about the kind of person you want to be, what you want to accomplish and how you want to feel and live every day. Remember that your inner energy has nothing to do with your looks or any other physical factors and neither does the power of your manifestation.
When you see your desire just like any other thing in life, you see it being yours right away. No resistance, no worry, no nervous feelings, no negative thoughts.