When Energy Rearranges Fast…

Just like every time I manifest a life change, my current reality seemingly starts to fall apart; there’s beauty in that because that makes it easier to leave.

In order to manifest a new reality, you must be prepared to give up the current, even in a single aspect. If you want a relationship, you must be ready to give up being single, especially if it has become your comfort zone. If you want wealth, you must be ready to deal with having money from now on – taxes, an accountant and banking might be take up a little more of your time from now on. If you want a job, you must be ready to work and want to spend your days doing so. You must want to wake up and go to work.

I believe I have found the way of ignoring my current reality every time I want to manifest a new and better one. This is also a way of turning the negative into the positive.

I always say one must be happy in their current reality in order to manifest a better one. Our minds keep us away from what we believe is negative for us.


Every time I start to manifest a new reality, I am grateful that my current one is hectic in a very particular way because that means I’m leaving soon.

I have also manifested desired change when I felt perfectly happy and satisfied in my current reality. Both ways work because they both mean no resistance which allows letting go.

When my current reality isn’t enough, I seek happiness elsewhere. I visualize and soon manifest the current reality I truly desire. When focusing on my new reality, I find it OK to be in my current because current boredom makes it easy for me to see a happier one. We naturally gravitate toward happiness.

There are several desires I have been entertaining thoughts about and for the past few days, I have been increasingly happier about them. Yesterday, that happiness escalated, leaving me to feel super calm and loving about those desires while prompting my current reality to start to fall apart.

The following occurred yesterday and it shows exactly why living my life happens to be the most exciting thing that has ever happened to me. While we manifest our new realities, our personal energies rearrange and make room for the new by weeding out the old – sometimes, this turns into chaos. A chaotic rearrangement might confuse some, making them think that their life is falling apart but in truth, it is actually coming together to become what they want it to be.

My hairdresser called me at noon to come in at one. On the way out, I ran through a pavement cleaning project, muddying it slightly. Even though I hoped to make the bus to my destination because it practically leaves me at its door, I tried to do some banking beforehand, missed the bus and had to cab it. Somewhere on the way, a man slipped me his phone number which I forwarded into the paper recycling container in the street. My hairdresser had a scheduling conflict but having plenty of time, I backed out of my appointment and asked if I could have another attempt at the bank while she took care of business. No one else was at that bank so I was done in a minute but on the way back, one of my sandals completely fell apart in the middle of the street and I had to walk back to the salon completely barefoot. There was no supermarket nearby to even buy an emergency pair of flip flops in. My hairdresser gave me cleaning wipes and lent me a pair of shoes while my mother, whose appointment was booked later on, brought me another pair to wear home, as I had to throw out my entirely broken platforms which I’d owned for five years. I tend to love to wear my shoes until they break but this was the first time they ever broke on me. While I was in the hairdresser’s chair, drinking coffee and getting my hair done, I got a sudden case of violent cough. And I never get sick, not even when I’m tired. Everyone knows that! From the chair next to mine, I heard a sign of one of my current desires which I had even seen coming and immediately knew it was coming true. I like to think that a lesser woman would have been worried if her desires would still want her in this state but I refused to be rattled.

If you want to see the sexy pair of shoes I had to wear home, scroll down to my Instagram shots. The good part was that they were ridiculously comfortable. After getting my hair done, I had to pick something up at the mall with several passers-by staring at my shoes.

Paying zero attention to the current reality means being OK without my desire until it manifests. For me, letting go is all that comes with accepting the current reality.

For as long as my current reality is filled with good stories, I stop paying attention to “improving” it. I like a dynamic reality and eventful day-to-days. There is no comfort zone here.

My feet still ache from the hot concrete pavement I had the pleasure of feeling yesterday. The featured photos are of me yesterday evening, tired but safe at home.

9 thoughts on “When Energy Rearranges Fast…

  1. Dear Nina,

    After reading your post, it makes me think about my recent situation.

    As I tended to manifest a new and perfect relationship, I haven’t contacted with this ex, who had a big scandal, for a month. Few days ago, he called and we had a peaceful conversation. I didn’t plan to meet him at this moment but he still asked. So we met and he looked very unhappy and was emotionally unsteady which influenced me for two days.

    This past month I tried to live my life happily. So I wonder, when I attract him to contact me again, is it because I am still vibrationally matched to what I am ready for, not to what I want?

    Last time you replied me, “when you raise your vibration, other people catch onto it.” So does it make sense to you that people who catch onto it are very unhappy? and what can we do when it happens? I still care about this man but I know I deserve better. Thank you!



    1. Yes, you got it. We manifest what we have no resistance to and if you resist what you want but don’t resist something else you find more likely to happen for example, that’s what you will probably manifest first (unless you let go so that your desire could manifest).

      If you are unhappy, it is easier to meet people who share that because you’re on the same vibration but when it comes to attracting people, you attract the kind of relationship you see yourself having with them. The type of your relationship with them shows your vibration and right now, with him, it seems that you see the two of you having this type of relationship which not enough for you in many ways.


  2. Thank you Nina! Now I am getting a little confused.

    After I knew his scandal a month ago, I did spend few days to clear my mind, sooner than I expected I felt better and better. Just about I almost forgot him, he re-appeared. So do you mean that when we are on the process of raising our vibration, before we are able to keep vibration high and steady, there’s still a chance we will attract unhappy people? If I still care them but I also want to prevent my vibration to get lower because of them, what will you suggest?


    1. The fact is, you attract people to you when you raise your vibration. Regardless of his state in this case, he wanted to be close to you but if you are happy and he isn’t, being in contact with him might not make you happy right now and you may choose not to be in it. People are attracted to happiness. With that, as a happy person, you might choose to stay away from him because being around unhappy people might bring you down.


  3. Yes Nina, thank you for your advice.

    There are some questions regarding my desired relationship that I’ve been creating. I will try to organize them and write to you soon. 🙂


  4. Hi Nina,

    As you’ve known, last year I tried to manifest my desired relationship with my ex because there’re so many aspects I liked about him. Later on I noticed there’re some negative and crucial things about him caused me to resist. So I figured maybe I should manifest a new relationship with an ideal man by focusing on those aspects I like about him. Only this time I know “he” doesn’t have to be THE specific man I want to manifest. I believe the Universe will bring me another one. But when doing so, this ex keeps coming back to my mind and reminds the feeling of losing him.

    So, because of this ex, I realize what kind of a man I truly want to be with, but he is also the man who causes my resistance and slows down my manifestation.

    I am not sure if you can understand my situation. It has been bothering me for months. I really really wish to hear your advise! 🙂 Thank you!


    1. I think this speaks of your thoughts about relationships in general. You might be fearing manifesting another unhappy situation yet what you want is love. Believe in love! You deserve it 🙂


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