Feeling badly about your desire usually comes down to not seeing yourself having it in your life; on the other hand, you may nurture the thoughts of having your desire in your life all you want.
When you think thoughts of having your desire, those thoughts naturally go away after a while. You can only think about something you already have for so long before changing focus. Think about it – when the fact that you are living in your house comes to mind, or driving your car, going to university or work, your clothes, your pets, kids or anything else you have, you briefly think about it then change focus to something else. That is what we do.
I always suggest (in my book included) to start with and stick to knowing that your desire belongs to you already because that notion will literally turn into your awareness.
All in all, you see what you have right now. And when you see your desire in your mind as if you have it right now, you live it and then, you live something else you have.
When you live something that hasn’t manifested yet in your mind as if it were your current reality, you manifest it. You don’t want to live anything 24/7 even if you want to keep it in your life – a life on repeat would bore you. You remove the need for it because you have just lived it and felt like you had it already.
This is why it is important to see your desire as if you had it now. Seeing that you have it now will remove the need for its manifestation and make you feel like you have it instead of missing it. Then, you will manifest it. You just had it in your mind so now, you will have it in your life.
This is also why the power of visualization is an absolutely incredible manifestation aid but you must practice its content steadily. You must focus on having your desire. When you visualize living your desire in any way, visualize as if you had it now. And if you practice for just a few days, you can feel your desire being yours. However, you must not rush – just see yourself living your desire because that will remove the need for it and allow you to manifest it.