Anyone can be just as attractive as someone else. Like anything, this type of awareness comes from your inner world instead of your physical attributes.
When impatient to manifest a desire as soon as possible, many forget that feeling good about themselves is essential to their success. Whether it’s self confidence, self comfort, self love or simply feeling that they have everything they need, the others who succeed do so because they feel good (about themselves, whether or not they realize it).
Do you spend much time trying to be someone you’re not, measure up to someone else or feel that you need to “improve?”
Think of someone you consider attractive. Then, think about why you find them attractive. You know it’s more than just their looks. What do you like about the energy this person projects? Do they possess any attributes you admire? It’s all about the way one feels!
You are only as attractive as you feel and you can understand that you will only be as attractive as you allow yourself to feel. If you dare to feel as attractive as someone you admire, to use the most simplified example, you would understand why it comes from within even though it may seem otherwise.
This entire field of manifestation epidemic can be resolved with self love, just like anything else. At the same time, an insight into why people think the way they do might help you accept and understand why you can feel good.
Attractiveness and Stability
Being able to wait for your desire patiently is a sign of personal stability.
Personal stability can be achieved with love. If you feel a great deal of love for your desire (and, yourself), you can get there fast. If you keep looking for it, you are definitely not ready to live it. How could you be? You don’t believe it’s yours! Self love can help you with this – a practice I always recommend, self love leads to inner peace, emotional stability and everything else that makes you feel good.
When it comes to relationships, stability is a quality that adds to your attractiveness. We are all attracted to people who don’t seem to need anything but are happy in the life they created, with everything they have, all of which adds to their stability. If you are unhappy with what you have, it is difficult to feel attractive and deserving. See what I mean?
You are not trying to achieve stability for the sake of your desire – you want to achieve it for yourself first, for your own happiness. Stability equals happiness. If you don’t believe me, look back on any time you were happy with your life without feeling the need for anything else. Those were the times you were steady in every way and simply happy. Those were the times you looked ahead with hope and positive expectations instead of fear and worry.
Stability can also be achieved with patience (or, it can lead to patience). Stability and patience go hand in hand. When you feel happy and calm, knowing you’re going to get what you want, you feel good which in turn makes you even more attractive.
Sometimes, stability means avoiding mistakes. Other times, it means admitting to them. To me, stability also means honesty which is why I practice it in my case.
You probably look at some people and think that they’re more attractive than you. Don’t feel unattractive – it’s not worth it, especially when knowing it all comes from within. If you want, use those people as inspiration, not negative self classification, but always be and remain yourself.