Letting go can either be a conscious decision or a natural switch from visualization.
How do you do it?
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Letting go can either be a conscious decision or a natural switch from visualization.
How do you do it?
I want to address the issue of thinking about your desire and encountering fear and negative thoughts.
As I stated in the past (my book included), start by being convinced that after you have asked for your desire, you must receive it. Since your desire absolutely has to manifest, you may relish the thoughts of living it all you want.
I am able to think about my desire or not for as long as I want to because from the moment I ask for it, I believe that it is manifesting. I let go of the need to control the process because the positive thoughts of living my desire make me see that it is manifesting in the most amazing way.
One only doubts the manifestation process if one entertains both the positive and the negative feelings connected to their desire.
In accordance, all lack of happiness comes from fearing or worrying that one’s desire is not manifesting and never will.
When any fears related to your desire come up, remind yourself that it is yours already. Because you asked, it is yours already.
If you keep reminding yourself of this fact, you will start to believe it with every part of you very soon. All it takes is a little belief to start with in order to fully believe and relax soon after. You can do this and you know it!
As a friend of mine recently stated, it is fun to see yourself living your desire! Enjoy it.
Believe that you can do anything. Believe that you can make anything happen and see your dreams coming true. If you decide this to be possible for you, you will assume that all your desires are manifesting while thinking about them with newfound lightness and love.
If you want something because you believe it will solve all your problems, that is not heartfelt motivation for the manifestation of your desire.
Same goes for needing to manifest what you decided – you manifest when you love and trust instead of need because you can’t be happy without it.
You must be happy without it first!
When you love what you want, you manifest. When you know that you bring happiness into the life of another, you attract them.
Law of Attraction is about you and everything you believe in. Law of Attraction responds to your feelings, beliefs, happiness and imagination, creating your life according to those aspects of you.
Everything you have in your life right now is what you believed was possible for you on some level. If you can see something in your mind, you can certainly manifest it.
If you can see yourself happily living your desire in your mind, the feeling of living it will make its way through your awareness, removing all attachment and allowing you to let go and manifest naturally.
More than anything, attachment is connected with the need to manifest what you want as soon as possible, impatiently and while trying to prove to yourself that you can. If you are attached to your desire, you probably keep thinking that you want what you want now, not feeling like doing anything else until you manifest it.
At the same time, don’t those thoughts and the need to prove something to yourself mean that you don’t have your desire just yet? Your goal is to feel that you do!
This is why you can think of your desire all your want if those thoughts are loving visualizations of living your desire – when you’ve had enough, you will naturally let go and focus on something else, allowing your desire to manifest.
You’re supposed to be happy, love your desire and be grateful that it’s yours! You are supposed to feel what it’s like to live your life with your desire in it.
You are only supposed to imagine what you would love to happen while being grateful for being so happy.
Some wrongly focus on the “waiting” and “trying” to manifest their desire, feeling like this all the time. They remain stuck in this energy which makes them feel awful, like their desire is slipping away which creates even more attachment as a result.
If you feel downright lousy when thinking about your desire, you are not nurturing the thoughts you want to be thinking in order to manifest. You are not believing in yourself. You are probably focusing on the wrong aspect of your desire – waiting instead of having.
Right now, you feel that you’re missing it but as soon as you get used to having it in your mind, you will automatically let it go to manifest.
You will manifest what you believe is possible for you in life. Even if you thought that something was once possible but then gave up and moved on, you may have manifested it anyway because you had finally let go.
What does that tell you?
Attachment often feels like waiting for your desire to manifest instead of having it. Attachment comes from wanting to have everything right now.
Attachment is removed by believing you already have everything.
After putting a great deal of energy into living your desire, you will realize that living it actually is natural. If you can see it in your mind, it can become natural to you. Suddenly, you’ve experienced it and don’t need it anymore; soon, it manifests.
Even when accompanied by a great deal of excitement, seeing yourself living your desire can become natural to you. Excitement doesn’t have to last or, it can come and go, but true love for your desire runs deep.
True appreciation for your desire keeps it in your reality.
Look back on every desire you have ever manifested.
If you did it once, you can do it again.
If the Law of Attraction confuses you at times, you probably find yourself bouncing from the thoughts of living your desire to the thoughts of not having it in your current reality just yet. This is one of the most common manifestation and LoA teaching problems; it is where attachment and the refusal to let go rule one’s awareness.
If you can’t take the focus off your current reality, your desired one isn’t making you happy enough…yet. You must make the visualizations and feelings of having your desire more vivid, creative and reflecting what you want instead of what you don’t or what you fear having to settle for.
If you pay equal attention to your positive and negative thoughts, you are stuck between the realities, so to speak. However, focusing on your desired reality is always the answer. The more you nurture positive feelings about your desired reality, the more your current one will fade.
Can you imagine what your life would look like if your entire visualization focus rested on having and living your desire already? It would be everything you see and it would lead to manifestation. You wouldn’t think twice about still living your current reality and you would start to enjoy it while knowing that your desired reality is coming.
When manifesting anything you can imagine, I consider it a done deal. All my happiness goes into the thoughts of living my desire which takes the focus off my current reality, allowing me to live it and stop paying attention to the insignificant details in it. As I enjoy these visualizations, my awareness soaks up the feeling of having what I want. With my desire in my life, I imagine it to be inspiring, positively challenging and full of enjoyment.
When you make your desired reality that happy, the current becomes something you don’t even think about. You don’t mind it and might start to enjoy it as a result. In addition, this approach is pure self love due to the giving of love to yourself and having your desire.
If you can’t take the focus off your current reality, you will as soon as you make your desired one more engaging in your mind. Then, you will also let go to manifest.
At the same time, impatience and a lack of self love prevent many from entirely letting go of the current reality and putting their faith into the desired; instead, many look for short-term solutions and “steps” to manifest their desire slowly, wanting to feel happy now without having to take the time to locate their limiting beliefs and personal manifesting blocks.
Some refuse to let go due to the fear of actually manifesting their desire, feeling undeserving of that manifestation and fearing its eventual loss instead of praising its gain and presence. If this is you, repeating the affirmation “I am good enough” whenever you feel the need is going to work for you.
If you decide to appreciate and enjoy all the wonders of the world around you, you will believe that life could become even better.
I am grateful for everything I love.
If you start to love your life, you will be able to let go to manifest without effort.
I am grateful for every amazing aspect of my life.
If you start to believe in yourself, you will be motivated to share your newly found happiness with others and with that, attract people into your life.
I am living in a world filled with beauty and I see it all around me.
It truly is as simple as I’ve just written it.
One of the biggest manifestation problems is a lack of confidence in one’s inner power. All of us are capable of attracting anything we want yet we attract what we believe we can have even if that belief lasts only a few seconds per thought.
The trick is to believe in one’s ability to manifest one’s true desires.
If you could have anything, absolutely anything, in your life today, what would it be?
Now, believe that you can have this. Believe it’s yours already and is coming together right now. Believe that it’s about to manifest – any day now!
Many simply refuse to nurture this way of thinking. Instead, they think about which LoA technique to use in order to manifest their desired reality. They worry about the goings on in their current reality (or a lack thereof). All these thoughts simply reinforce the uncertainty in one’s ability to manifest one’s desires.
If you are unsure that you’re “doing it right,” you are noticing your desire missing from your life and seem to be unsure that you can manifest it.
If you’re worried that you might manifest the undesired instead, that is just another way of saying you don’t believe in your ability to manifest your desires.
Why do you do this to yourself? More importantly, why don’t you believe in yourself?
See yourself having what you want! Trust that it’s yours and you will never again doubt your abilities. However, you must believe before seeing and know that it’s yours already. You can only manifest what you believe you can have.
Every time the thoughts of your current reality come to you, switch them to the thoughts of having and being grateful for living the life of your dreams!
If you could pay attention to nothing about your current reality, only enjoying the positive emotion of your visualizations instead, you could change realities seamlessly.
You would never again think about when exactly to let go and would never again have to think about practically putting your desire out of your mind to manifest – you’d simply do it.
This might sound too creative but it is absolutely possible.
I’ve done it before but am going to try it again for several days and report back.
This idea might still read odd to some but hear me out.
Many are uncomfortable with success. Many feel undeserving of it, thinking they should stay in their comfort zone of settling for less. Many feel that once manifested, their desire would slip away once again, leaving them disappointed and in pain – this is both the fear of success and of failure (in other words, allowing oneself to remain stuck simply because it’s easier that way).
I am positive that fear of success is connected to not wanting you desire enough because if you actually manifest it, what are you going to do with it then? And you’re not sure you want it that much.
You’re not sure if you’re actually going to be happy.
You’re unsure if this desire offers the life you would enjoy.
When genuinely wanting to live your desire, you have zero doubt. None. You move towards it. You can feel your own passion for it. You see yourself living in your mind whenever you want, as if you are there right now.
Ask yourself if you genuinely want to live your desire or not.
I want to live a desire greatly when I feel a massive amount of love for it.
When negative thoughts come to me, I reinforce the positive. I say an affirmation that nourishes my belief, the only component I actually need.
I might not have felt the fear of success but I’ve had others – mainly that of boredom, being stuck and on occasion, that of profound intimacy. The manifestations of those fears included different people but almost unfailingly identical circumstances, as it took me a while to finally start seeking out quality men I wanted the potential of a long term love with. Before that, it was so much easier to enjoy short term relationships after being in a long term one just once. On the other hand, this approach made me relaxed around the matter and allowed me to enjoy relationships while giving them the freedom to go where they may.
Fear of success can and should be replaced with happily anticipating success. With expecting success. With knowing that success is yours.