There are many ways of using pretty much anything at your disposal to feel better about yourself. Life offers many props and directions you can use to start changing your personal awareness, as long as you use them correctly.
To use any awareness helpers correctly is to use them in order to change your inner world so that it could change the outer.
You do not have to change your outer world, only your inner because…
To change your inner world is to receive subconscious instructions on how to change the outer. If you even need to be the one to change it, that is – you are also very likely to attract many circumstances and people who will make the palpable, physical, manifestation-logistical changes for you.
You know how it works – sometimes, you suddenly get an idea of how to change something and other times, you imagine it changed and the change is brought to you by circumstances or other people.
Many struggle with the way other people perceive them. These could be specific people, a specific group of people or most people they encounter.
The first thing to remember is that people perceive us the way we expect them to. Or, the way we perceive ourselves.
Since your only job is to change your awareness, or at least change it first, here are some ideas of what you could do in order to start feeling better. Want the world to see you differently? Here are some suggestions of using a few easy steps correctly in order to start feeling better.
Look different and you’ll start to feel different. Changing your hairstyle also applies here. However, doing this correctly means doing the following.
You must dress in the way that makes you feel the way you want to feel, not the way you think you should feel. If you follow your true feelings, you will connect with your awareness using this fun and easy way. Your awareness is crucial and your looks should only serve it, not shape it.
If you start to feel differently, your life will start to change but you can’t cheat on this point – your awareness is crucial while your looks are just an aid, a helper, a prop. If you look differently but feel the same, your awareness cannot change.
If this idea inspires you to take a different step in order to change your awareness, do it! It is not what you do but what makes you feel like you have what you want already.
This is a classic idea – change the way you look which will change the way you feel. However, your awareness must dictate the process, not your looks. That’s why this step might or might not even be for you because some of you will start to feel differently without changing your appearance at all. Some of you won’t need to do this but might or might not benefit from doing something else instead.
Start to imagine what you would want to happen!
You deserve this change.
Do this just for fun! Think about what would be fun to experience right now. That light approach will ensure thinking about your desire briefly and letting go, helping you manifest even faster than you expect.
Carry yourself differently, even if you don’t want to!
This is going to work because you are doing something positive for yourself. If you don’t feel it now, keep going and you will eventually; if you stay positive, you will soon.
It takes only a little bit of conscious positivity before it becomes your autopilot attitude.
Behave the way you would if you lived your desire today!
Are you manifesting a relationship and want to keep your love life private from now on, as opposed to sharing details from your single or dating life with your closest friends?
Are you feeling guilty about spending money yet you want to be making even more money as soon as possible? Stop feeling guilty first.
Decide what you want instead!
This is close to living as if and imagining that you are living your desires which will ultimately change your awareness.
If you are manifesting fame and fortune, would you expect constant presents and endorsement deal offers as well as professional offers? Where do you want to keep your money and how do you want it to be managed? Do your research and decide what you want. Look forward to receiving everything you want!
If you are manifesting a specific job, do you want it include travel and an expense account? Expect it! Look forward to receiving it! Imagine yourself flying business class, get your travel luggage ready and think about all the ways you could do your job magnificently. How would you achieve results? If you truly love the job you want, you will want to think about this!
If you are manifesting a new relationship, what do you expect from your partner? What do you expect from yourself in terms of your new relationship? Use it! Be the partner you want to be. Keep your home the way you want it for yourself and your partner. Do you want a very homely relationship or a more active one? Think about everything that would make this relationship easy.
As your awareness changes in accordance with these steps, other people will also start to see you differently but more importantly, you suddenly won’t care anymore. You will be busy with your own life and stop worrying what others think of you. And your new life will manifest.
These are just some ideas.
Any additional ideas? Share them!
I had no worry about leaving any job that no longer served my wellbeing, ever.
The lesson learned was,
Law of Attraction works easily when something you want is just not a big deal (to you). It’s normal, natural and it always works out.
If what you want feels like a big deal, it might not be natural to you. The goals is for living your desire to feel normal because normal equals no resistance.
I wanted to give you guys an update on my life. I want to document what I do, especially now that I am looking forward to new challenges, opportunities and events as I have just introduced a great new change to my life.
I worked as an independent associate with one university but decided I had accomplished everything I desired and chose to leave this collaboration behind. I had created a program of counselling and seminars for this university unique to the entire country; this type of work was meaningful, challenging and an irreplaceable opportunity. I wanted to leave this job sooner but then realized I hadn’t accomplished everything just yet; this opportunity contributed to my personal satisfaction as well as my professional.
Ever since making the decision to leave, I have been dedicating all my time to writing. I plan on finishing my second book very soon and with that, the year 2016 might be the year I self-published two books. How cool is that!? It definitely is to me.
That was me at age thirty one. I turn thirty two on January 5th.
I have lived about five different lives. Different countries, people and work offered me everything I wanted and I wanted all those lives. I had five lives and a million dreams. Now, especially with my work concluding when I wanted it to, I am ready to move countries once again. Having been close to my family for two or three years was great after being away from them for six years before that and it offered different dynamics which I was craving at the time. I continued to travel and collaborate with various people while spending more time close to my family and now, I need a change once again. I want that change and I look forward to it.
We often discuss love and relationships in this community so let’s talk about that now.
Everyone in this community already chose their perfect person – I might not currently have a great love to manifest but I am open to it! That’s a good start, don’t you think? I look forward to the next chapter. I must admit that I hadn’t missed being in a relationship – many members of this community are or have manifested being in one but I wasn’t ready for the one just yet, if you want to put it that way. And I knew it. There were however options yet had I felt the need for them, they would have eluded me. I have a great family and friends to share love and happiness with. I have met some new, amazing people and all of this blended into an attitude that ensured meeting quality men throughout this time.
This year however, I manifested some great friendships. I had also reaffirmed some existing friendships which showed me whom I wanted to stay close to. I want to keep my friends but some are just closer than others and that’s perfectly fine. Others we stay close with no matter how much time passed. I love these nuances of relationships and life, as they provide fascinating change and dynamics. We all share fun times with each other which is enough to remain appreciative of one another.
Now, I look forward to sharing the news of my new life! Just as importantly, I feel as if it’s 2017 and I am exactly where I wanted to be.
I want to hear about your favorite manifestation of 2016! Please share.
LOVE you all! 😀
You have to want to feel good! You have to want to feel different, live your desires, be happy.
Once you truly decide to change, you will create and adopt new habits.
Do you know what I mean?
I manifest easily because to me, there are no big and small things.
There is only what I want.
If I want anything, I just imagine what I want my life with it to look like. The entire time, I know that this is possible to manifest.
I believe everyone knows on some level that Law of Attraction is simple yet they stand in their own way. Every individual who says “It’s not working for me” gives it away – the me part shows they have already put up their own barriers.
I believe LoA is a concept that people understand because it is natural to all of us. I believe everyone knows that anything is possible, at least on some level, but that the negative things in life are much easier to attract than the positive. This type of attitude often comes from low self esteem, past disappointments and not enough self love, which is what we always come back to.
Self love is essential to seeing yourself manifest, not distinguishing between the big and the small things and simply believing that your life is there to be shaped by you and not the other way around.
Do you truly believe that you have no say in your own life? You do!
Many fear the unwanted happening to them instead of focusing on their own power to shape their lives. This is a problem because it leads to passively living an unwanted life instead of actively creating the desired. And when someone believes their desire to be more than they deserve to receive, they are idealizing that desire and depriving themselves of much deserved self love.
If you want LoA to feel natural to you, you must allow yourself to relax and believe.
How often do you allow yourself to believe? Share your thoughts in the Comments section and let’s discuss it!
Do you like the featured affirmation? I wrote it sometime in 2014. Use it! I believe it can help anyone who likes it.
Law of Attraction means knowing that you are an amazing person who deserves an amazing life.
Some could say I don’t have much experience when it comes to forgiveness. After all, I have forgiven but often refused second chances to others, a choice that can be misinterpreted as a lack of forgiveness. However, I find the practice of forgiving someone I don’t want in my life but keeping them away at the same time completely legitimate.
When it comes to LoA, forgiveness is essential. Essentially when it comes to dealing and manifesting new relationships with your exes.
Forgiveness is a choice. Once you make it, stick to it; otherwise, why bother?
Here’s a little explanation from my past of what it means to make a choice. And forgiveness is a choice just like any other.
WHY I LOSE INTEREST
I had eventually lost interest in every relationship I was in. I’m trying to think about what exactly this means.
Losing interest was my personal epidemic. People have told me it is because I don’t fall in love easily.
In the past, I fell in love but didn’t stay in love. Falling in love was based on focusing on the good in the man I was with until finding out something that changed my perception of him. I have been in love before but I’ve never been with a man and thought, “He’s the one.” Even when I thought I thought it, I knew I actually didn’t.
As far as LoA was concerned, I got what I had asked for. I was only comfortable loving while love lasted without effort, only for as long as I was interested in his positive traits. I guess I never considered any of those men someone I’d be proud to call my partner in the long run.
I did not need any of my chosen partners to be classically good looking, rich or anything else that was physical or material – I only wanted to see something in a man that was different. Special. I didn’t ask for anything but positive and caring personality, manners and a man who created a life for himself he genuinely enjoyed.
Once, my then-boyfriend sat on the only free bar stool while we were out with friends, without even offering it to me first and leaving me standing while he sat down without blinking. I was embarrassed. Not about what others might think, especially since most didn’t give the situation a second thought, but embarrassed with myself for having been in a relationship with an idiot. When the same then-boyfriend and I were walking in the street one day, he suddenly disappeared without a word because he saw someone he knew across the street and ran to say hello without giving me a heads up. I walked for another two seconds before realizing I was walking on my own. In my mind, he instantly became an unequivocal idiot.
The sad thing is, I have even “better” stories from this particular relationship. And by sad, I mean tragicomic. What I actually mean is hilarious.
To be fair, this was in my early to mid-twenties and taught me that someone being “a good guy” was just not enough. I used to say I liked “good guys” and thought that one being “good” or “nice” was enough. I had completely ignored my taste for basic sophistication, personality wise. That kind of sophistication requires self-comfort, confidence and an open heart. Heart driven individuals have it while those driven by insecurity block their own sense of self love. I like good men but I also like quality men and goodness is just one, possibly the core but still not the only trait of overall quality.
This relationship was a lesson in quality. Manners don’t take wealthy or privileged background but only a little intelligence and common sense. A lack thereof could have come from one’s old, negative habits with less-than-quality women (or maybe I acted like one in part, who knows). Maybe it had something to do with low quality upbringing but eventually, we have to reevaluate the “values” we were raised on and create our own.
Again, I was younger then (I turn thirty two on January 5th) but these incidents were enough for me to stop respecting my then-boyfriend.
Now, what did LoA bring me as a result of this?
When one stop respecting another, they set the relationship up for a free fall. I started to keep him around as I pleased, felt free to start arguments as I pleased without worrying if raising my voice when I did would hurt his feelings. Later on, leaving him caused growth in my self-respect; it wasn’t difficult for me to do because I already loved myself enough to put myself first and know that everything was going to be okay.
A LESSON IN FORGIVENESS
I’ve been asked how to forgive. Some might argue that I don’t have much experience with forgiveness but as much as I believe one can talk their relationship issues out lovingly, especially if they genuinely love the person in question, I didn’t want to in this case. Others might say I’m too critical but I’m not perfect, just like anyone else – I am however fair and devoid of hypocrisy, as I only stay put for as long as I want to, never fake or pretend and am always honest. When I give something a chance, I mean it. When I’m unhappy, I leave. Living this honest life is the only way I can be happy.
I make decisions according to my feelings and personal values.
You can however choose to love and forgive your (desired) significant others for absolutely anything. You can choose to love them despite their faults but it must be a decision you will stick to.
You must forgive and stick to it the way I chose to leave and stuck to it.
You might wonder how to forgive and the answer is, by being strong. It takes strength to stay and it takes strength to leave, your relationship or any other manifestation you want to bring about.
If you want to forgive yourself and everyone in your past, appreciating the lessons you learned, do it. You are allowed to forgive and move away from the individuals who do nothing to contribute to your happiness.
If you decide to forgive someone you still want in your life, look at it as starting over. Create the new present and forget the past. Be strong enough to do that.
You receive what you feel deserving of.
You attract what you believe to be possible for you.
Since you can attract anything you choose, use self love to eventually feel that anything you want is possible for you.
Shield your awareness from your own negative thoughts and reactions, and you will have made significant steps towards your new, positive lifestyle.
Today, someone took my words towards them as an insult. I didn’t intend it that way – I meant to give a positive suggestion but the other person perceived it negatively. This kind of thing happens in life but I often see many individuals ridden with guilt after an incident of this sort.
I decided not to care and remained in a good mood. Deciding that this occurrence was nothing, I went on about my day and every time it came to mind, I decided that everything was fine.
I saw the person in question again, later on. They acted as if nothing had happened and seemed as if they didn’t even remember our earlier misunderstanding.
In all my years of Law of Attraction practice, I have seen others miraculously change into the perception I had of them in my visualizations of desired events. However, this creation method implies completely ignoring one’s current reality, which is something many struggle with.
Many still see their current reality more powerfully than the visualizations of their desired reality. The trick is to believe in the power of visualization and feelings, as those beliefs allow for effortless creation.
Look back on your life – you believed before seeing on numerous occasions. Today, you can apply that belief to the reality of your heart’s desires. If those desires include relationships with specific people, remember that those are as likely to manifest as anything else you may want. The trick is to believe and instead of focusing on the other person, focus on yourself.
Then, you will see miracles happen.
Once you believe that your visualizations are real and about to come true, you will be able to let them go and allow them to manifest.
As you can see, changing your reality when it comes to other people is created exactly the same as anything else. You just have to be able to see yourself in your desired reality including another person instead of focusing on your mutual current circumstances.