Whenever I expect something to go well but it goes perfectly instead, it’s good to be wrong.
When you’re happy, you naturally see yourself having what you want.
Happiness is being your true self and being proud of or at least happy about it, no matter who it is you feel happy being. As long as the main reason for being and expressing your true self is love, you won’t see any reason not to.
Love can be stifled when others tell you to not be yourself but only if you allow it. Love cannot burn out unless you put it out yourself. When you’re happy just being yourself, you are experiencing and feeling love. You are living it.
You can be happy seeing yourself in your current or desired reality as long as you don’t sink into bad mood when remembering your current reality post visualization, for example. Being grateful for what you can in your current will you bring your desired reality about.
Feeling good about myself is what makes me happy. Feeling confident makes me happy. Feeling great about living whatever I want to makes me happy, as well as going to places I want while feeling like I deserve it. I might not express gratitude in those exact words but I express it anyway.
What would make me unhappy is guilt. It would be setting aside my own happiness for whatever reason or purpose. It would be the fear of living life. Coming across people who are or have been guided by guilt their entire lives, I see how useless it is. I believe everyone knows how pointless guilt can be, as it usually leads to depriving oneself of the things one should be enjoying due to thinking that happiness means greed.
One must be comfortable with happiness if one wishes to manifest all of one’s desires. Staying calm while knowing it’s all going to happen, that it’s happening right now, is when I’m at my happiest.
Don’t let yourself sink when you return to your current reality from the visualization of your desired one – if you maintain your belief and stay on a high vibration with the help of gratitude, your life will change quickly.
It’s all about getting used to living on a high vibration; once you get used to it, all the guilt will disappear. Getting used to living on a high vibration lets you become heart-driven. If I feel any less than spectacular, it just feels weird. It feels like it isn’t me. It feels like something is missing, no matter where I am or what I’m doing – knowing that happiness comes from within and is produced nowhere but within makes me understand that nothing or no one else is capable of solving my worries.
When I’m happy, I am comfortable having what I want. Many experience discomfort at the thought of living their desired realities, fearing they might lose them after gaining them, feel inadequate living them or never gain them in the first place. These feelings come from guilt or low self-esteem; knowing that you and only you can resolve and remove those feelings will help you get started on doing so. Then, you will be on your way to living on a high vibration.
Happiness can produce great amounts of excitement but let’s talk about why it is important to feel comfortable with the idea of living your desire in order to manifest quickly and effortlessly. Being comfortable with living your desire equals being comfortable living on a high vibration.
Some experience discomfort by getting too excited about their desire – a concept that reads happy but isn’t so when used to describe a desire not yet manifested. Experiencing excessive excitement about a desire not yet manifested can feel like fear, as fear and excitement tend to produce similar signals in our bodies. This is why excitement and fear produce conflicting emotions. Think about it – how many times have you gotten very excited about the prospect of your desired manifestation but moments later, began looking for reasons why it might not happen? Excitement works only when combined with the comfort of having your desire in your life.
Self-comfort goes hand in hand with self-confidence and it allows you to start living on a high vibration effortlessly. If you feel comfortable having something in your life and accept it being there, you don’t resist it and you see yourself living it.
Getting used to living on a high vibration will become easy once you start nurturing positive thoughts. Be happy, visualize positively and express gratitude – it will allow you to become as happy as you always wanted to be.
Attracting a specific person into my life sometimes consists of reason as much as love – if I know that letting go means manifesting immediately, I can reason with myself to let it all go in order to manifest.
Do you put more time into thinking about your desire manifesting rather than living with it after it does?
The need for manifestation can be strong enough to tempt one into focusing on the manifestation part alone…but what happens after?
When one chooses to focus on the manifestation part alone, they are guided by need instead of love. True love for one’s desired life allows for seeing oneself living that life instead of just experiencing a high from a desire manifested.
When you think about receiving or living your desired reality, are you honest with yourself? Do you want to just receive your desired reality or do you want to live it every day? Do you see the difference?
Manifestation is all about choosing what you would love to be living today and loving it.
When it comes to what I want in life, I want it to be a constant presence. I want it in my life every day. I feel comfortable living (with) it every day because I want to live it every day. Feeling good when manifesting is important because those feelings allow for positive manifestations and shift focus to the end result instead of the current need for instant fulfilment.
In order to distinguish between the need for instant result and true love for your manifestation, think about this – how often have you felt poorly about something you wanted to manifest just because you had noticed that it hasn’t happened yet? You might have been bouncing around from one manifestation method to another, hoping for instant result instead of imagining having your end result and allowing it to sink into your awareness.
This particular state of mind can be a nuisance and it can last for as long as you engage in it. Some worry that they hadn’t manifested their desire yet but this type of worry comes from noticing your desire missing from your life which comes from need. Those who engaged in this way of thinking didn’t imagine having what they wanted but noticed that they didn’t have it yet, looking for new ways of achieving immediate results instead of allowing for those results to be reached on their own while the time passed anyway.
In order to achieve what you desire, visualize your life now that you have it. The more you do so, the more you will feel it being yours. You will naturally let it go to manifest after you truly feel it being yours but for that, you must see it or at least choose to believe in it.
Do something that’ll make you feel like an exciting person and see it turn you into one.
I do it. It has to be something that’ll make me happy, whether I do it just for myself or to make someone else happy as well.
The feelings one chooses to engage in shape one’s awareness.
I went out with my elementary school friends on Saturday night. Unlike our class reunion two weekends ago, this was a smaller group of just a few people who have had several nights out together since December. Those nights started spontaneously – two of us found ourselves in the workplace of the third when the fourth suddenly showed up. After that, the four of us planned a night out, two planned the reunion and two days ago, we had a fun night out enjoying drinks and live music. I loved it when we started shooting pool later on, though I believe I will never be any good at it.
The four of us have known each other for twenty five years on average. I turned thirty two in January, two others followed last week and the youngest group member will next month. Having known each other for so long and being the exact same age, there is great understanding among us.
It’s amazing to see the extent to which my oldest friends have grown up to be fascinating individuals, simply by being themselves. One of them became an online sensation last year after he declined to charge a book blogger client for a cab ride – instead of the money, he asked for recommendations on some new reads. In sheer amazement, his client gifted him several books and paid for the cab ride. I had heard the story without knowing it was him and after rereading the articles (the story had come out last year and was covered by multiple websites), we had a blast discussing all the comments.
Another one wants the next big step in his life to be parenthood. He says it would make him happier than anything and he is ready. He’s a relaxed, happy and natural person with a healthy attitude towards relationships as well as a great friend. I believe it’s going to happen for him soon.
I love talking to both of them about anything I feel like sharing, laughing out loud to nearly every story I hear. We are entirely relaxed around each other and thrive on being ourselves.
Before all of us met up again soon after the reunion, I knew that we would have a good, fun night. We somehow remained close friends even though some of us haven’t seen each other in many years and I have been grateful for our friendship and mutual understanding. There was a Law of Attraction lesson in it – appreciate what you have and even more will come. Appreciating my friends for the great people they are showed me they were even more amazing than I knew because appreciating what you see truly leads to seeing even more than you asked for.
There’s also another fantastic benefit of having friends that have the power to truly capture your attention and make you laugh to tears.
When you spend time with friends who make you forget about everything else, your vibration shifts. You can see yourself having what you want without needing it (or needing anything else) because happiness fulfills our needs. Not anyone or anything but pure happiness.
Those who make me laugh boost the feeling of pure happiness in me.
Was there something that made you particularly happy in the past few days? Share your thoughts in the comments section!
Face your worries without judging yourself for having them. You can remove them simply by understanding them.
“You are in touch with everything that is natural to a human being – your mindset, mood, energy, feeding regimen, health, style and chosen methods of exercise prove it,” one of my closest friends said to me about a week ago. We talked about exercise because I had gone swimming the day before – being an avid swimmer, got an intense workout out of it. We talked about my love for the water and it being a natural element as well as one of my favorite surroundings; as the discussion progressed into my veganism, my friend said that he found my choices very natural and very easy to enjoy for that very reason.
“You can’t reprogram people’s minds for them – the best you can do is to teach them to focus on what they want instead of their fears and negative feelings, teach them to believe in themselves and let them do the work because we all create our own lives,” he said in addition.
What I do is tell them that they must be happily persistent in focusing on their desired realities instead of the current or their fears.
I was recently asked how to achieve focus on the positive instead of one’s fears by a reader in the blog comments section. Visualizing having what you want, allowing yourself to be happy about it without engaging in negative feelings and changing your focus to positive when negativity tempts you instead of worrying about all the what-ifs is the core of believing consciously.
When a lack of belief translated as engaging in fear or negative feelings becomes the center of one’s focus, attachment happens. Then, fears of not getting what one desires or the feeling of waiting are formed. This can be prevented by continuing to focus on one’s desire consciously, choosing confidence and self-love over fear.
Living a life of continuously prioritizing positive feelings over the negative creates a happy, confident and loving awareness.
I cannot describe how effective it is to imagine having what you want happily while ignoring your negative thoughts. Before you know it, imagining that you have what you want translates to your mind immediately firing back with “It’s mine already!” to any negative thought – when you commit to the gratitude for living your desired reality and ignoring your negative thoughts or dismissing them as powerless over you, things fall into place fast.
You must be strong enough to ignore your negative thoughts and you can achieve that with self-love.
If you continuously go back to engaging in doubt and notice that you still haven’t manifested what you want which makes you doubt even more, it is up to you to choose to believe instead. Belief allows for letting go while continuously being distracted and set back by negative thoughts shows disbelief and refusal to let go. If you believe, you don’t doubt while continuously doubting that you can have what you want shows that you don’t actually believe.
This reader also asked how to let go and my answer is, by engaging in what makes you happy already in addition to seeing your desired reality being yours. Once you have stopped engaging in negative thoughts and giving them any power, you will have let go to manifest.
My entire manifestation method is based on relying on my visualization, if you will. I think about what I want because it makes me happy while I make the effort to fix the parts that don’t.
When you focus on your desired reality, there will be very few parts you don’t like, if any. When you get used to seeing what you want to have and would love to do, that is the focus you will automatically go to. You will be ignoring the current reality by default and all the details in it will work themselves out. You must only get yourself used to enjoying the desired reality in your mind.
Problems arrive when you try to plan and coordinate your current reality with your desired one, obsessing over what you want to do now instead of just imagining that you already have everything. Thinking about what you want to do to improve your momentary reality energetically shows that you don’t have your desired reality just yet – you should abandon this practice immediately.
Just happily imagine having what you want.
Once you start to do this, you also get even more than you imagined. Last weekend, I went to a class reunion I was unsure I could have fun at. The night started off so-so until I disconnected from the parts of it that were annoying to me and focused only on the parts I liked. Suddenly, the enjoyment grew and the fun took over when a group of thirty-something adults who had powered through their early age together found themselves acting like children again and enjoying every minute of it.
Let me explain.
Prior to organising the reunion, I had expressed distaste for our former class teacher. I saw her at a function two years ago and she was practically begging to be the centre of attention which I found desperate for an adult woman. When I saw her at the reunion, she remembered every single person that had showed up except for me – a move that had actually made me happy because it gave me a reason to ignore her for the rest of the night. When she got on my case about not wanting to have kids, I gave poised answers which the rest of the group agreed with and she still managed to annoy a close friend of mine by prolonging the subject. She had arrived inebriated and repeated every single point she tried to make ten times throughout the night but after I moved across the table and focused on the great conversation there, the party suddenly grew and she left before the fun continued.
When you focus on the good, the bad has no choice but to escape. Same goes for the negative feelings you carry.
As the fun continued, it grew further as we collectively adopted the same fun attitudes we had while growing up together. We danced, pulled pranks, talked, laughed and continued to do so until six a.m.. The following day, we continued to chat and rehash. The conversation was even better this time because we were older, more experienced and independent. As a group, we naturally focused on everything positive.
However, those who choose to be guided by their negative feelings which are usually related to their hurtful current realities have different life experiences. You must only imagine what you want to be happening.
You have been taught to rely on the current reality – when you learn to rely on yourself, things change. Your parents might have taught you to rely on the current reality because that was the best they could do but now, you’re an adult and you know better. You choose your beliefs.