Losing touch with who you are is what causes unhappiness, not the change in external circumstances. Yes, this type of change can be confusing, but if we look at any changing circumstance and say, “It’ll improve,” then it truly will.
And how do you lose touch with who you are? You start to feel that you are not someone you like.NG
To me, this meant being afraid. I am only happy when I’m fearless and in the recent years, I had become aware of the things I cared about, a.k.a. had to lose. However, it doesn’t have to be that way but those were the thoughts I had had to eradicate in the recent past. It wasn’t even as bad as I thought it was going to be – I just needed to remind myself that no matter what happens, we just choose what we want. If a parent falls ill, we say they’ll get better. If one doesn’t find their ideal partner by the age of thirty, one should say to oneself that the person is coming and the relationship will only be even better than it would have been before age thirty. Turn everything into a positive because that is how we create a better life.
It is not what happens to us, it is the way we say and believe that things will get better and nothing could never derail us – that is what I’ve always said. No matter what happens, say to yourself that even this circumstance or event brought you closer to your ultimate goal. This is fearlessness, whether or not you see yourself as a fearless person. Fearlessness, courage and dauntlessness simply feel good.
When you don’t feel daunted by a change in circumstances, you begin to attract only the change in circumstances you appreciate, at least for the most part. The fact that something we dislike will occasionally happen isn’t a big deal because it will never happen with the most important things for as long as our mindset towards it remains positive.
Say that even all your negative thoughts got you closer to your goal – I do.
Say to yourself that your latest or most annoying change in circumstances is irrelevant because you and/or others involved in it will come out the other side as if nothing ever happened. As a person who used to live for new experiences, I had devised this affirmation to prevent myself from being derailed in life. And it works.
See how anyone can be fearless in practising Law of Attraction with this one simple approach? And it doesn’t even require anything besides being yourself. All it takes to be fearless is knowing that nothing can stop you from achieving your dreams and that manifesting your desires is guaranteed because the Universe loves you.