I wanted to share some personal and practical steps for positive thinking.
Sometimes, we simply don’t know what to do; we don’t know how to actually put positivity into practice.
- Be honest with yourself about what you need. Don’t ever tell yourself that you desire is too much to manifest – I’ve seen this happen. Nothing is too much. You deserve to have what you want but you must believe that you’re the right person for it and that it is the right thing for you.
- Be honest with others about what you want. If, at times, you don’t want to share your wants with someone who isn’t a part of them or a part of your ideal life, you can choose not to share…but be honest with yourself about why you aren’t sharing it with them. Do you believe they’ll mock you and does it bother you that they do? Do you secretly don’t believe that you can manifest your desire and are afraid they’ll reiterate this thought?
- If you truly are secretly scared that you can’t have what you want, take the time to convince yourself otherwise. Funny as it may sound, the Law of Attraction responds to what we decide and convince ourselves of. So you want to be affirming that you get everything you want easily. You want to affirm that everything you want is yours and visualize yourself having it. Before you know it, you will receive it.
- Start seeing yourself living the life you want and being a natural at it. This is how you should visualize – you being in it, you being great at it, you being happy and everyone impressed. If you can’t be bothered to do that yet, you are simply preparing for it or have decided to explore a different kind of life last minute (trust me, I’ve explored about fifty different kinds of lives and would change my way of thinking and experiencing it from one day to the next but the variety and the experience were completely worth it).
Start with these. Combined with telling yourself that you are beautiful and observing yourself become increasingly beautiful as a result as well as praising your amazing mind and watching it flourish while attracting you admiration, these steps will help you feel good about who you are. And there is nothing more important than that, in happiness or manifestation. One can only manifest an authentic life if they live one already.
If you want to have a specific job or be with a particular person, that is who you are. You don’t have to be embarrassed of it. If you want to be famous, that is who you are. You are allowed to want what you want!
If you praise your amazing mind, being confident in your decision making and loving your intelligence, that mind will start to bring you admiration from the people whose lives you impacted in a positive way. As others revere your accomplishments and decision making, you will have already known your worth because you had decided on your mind’s power even before results appeared! This is how we must live and it’s what positive thinking was designed for.