Thought of the Day

No make-up positive thinking

You’re not putting effort into change because it’s easier to remain the person you are used to being.

Yet being that person means always experiencing the same things over and over again.

Being that person means never having to try anything new.

Being that person means sticking to the beliefs you are used to nurturing.

Who do you want to be? What (kind of person) do you want to call yourself?

What do you want to think of yourself?

How do you want to feel about yourself?

Be open to trying new things because, well, you just never know.

10 thoughts on “Thought of the Day

  1. I do think that it takes more work to change – and that does deter some people. But, I think that for a lot of people, the challenge is not that they don’t want to put in the effort. The challenge is that they are discouraged, don’t feel love for themselves or life anymore, and all of that has made it difficult to feel love for what they want, and made it harder to believe.


    1. Absolutely true but if we don’t love ourselves and know that we’re worthy of everything we want, who will? Self-love is the one thing we can’t get around in life and it is where we have to put in the work. The post describes how to do it. Small change, one step at a time, trying one or two new things and practising positive awareness in one thing at a time in life will lead to self-love! 😀 We can all do this!! ❤


  2. Dear Nina. I trust that you are well .2 Months ago I lost my boyfriend through gun violence. He was shot dead 3 times and died on the spot. We had a very rocky relationship. He was very abusive towards me in every way possible. I’m looking to attract my dream guy through affirmations and imagination ,however, I’m still scarred by the physical and verbal abuse. He stripped me of my confidence. I’m scared of the unknown and I don’t trust and believe in my “magic” fully . I would like to attract someone that will marry me and have a child with me right now. I feel that I’m ready. Do you believe that I can achieve this and what can I do to manifest my dreams right now?


    1. Hi dear. I remember your story. I am so sorry for everything you have been through. You can achieve anything you want in life and I suggest that you start by reminding yourself that you are not the person you currently see yourself to be. You are not inadequate or unworthy. Anyone in an unhappy relationship sees themselves as unworthy as a result because they can’t make sense of how such a relationship could have happened and why it happened to them but just because we found ourselves in a difficult situation doesn’t mean it’s what we deserved. We only deserve what we decide we deserve so decide that you deserve nothing but love and heal yourself by giving yourself the same love, the nurturing, the compliments and the comfort you want to receive from the right man. When you start to treat yourself in this way, he will appear. Your love for yourself will attract the right man and his love for you.


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