Mark my words – things will pick up when your happiness becomes the only thing you value and everything and everyone bringing you down comes to be so irrelevant that you don’t even register their existence.
And you know what the best part is? You can get there all by yourself, by doing nothing other than valuing your life more than you value the things and people so irrelevant to the said life that you shouldn’t even be noticing them.
“This sounds a little harsh,” you might say. But I won’t. I won’t because I have seen too many people put their energy into the things and the people that contribute nothing to their happiness (and, in many ways, seem like they want to take away from their happiness!).
You think it might sound harsh because you wouldn’t want for the people you value to suddenly see you as irrelevant – it’s the guilt that causes this way of thinking. However, just because you discard those who don’t contribute to your life in a positive way doesn’t mean that the same will happen to you. Those who are good to others and give honesty and respect even to most people they dislike are respected and their presence is desired. And those that don’t contribute to other people’s lives in a positive way will find others distancing themselves. This is how LoA works when it comes to personal relationships.
You might also feel guilty discarding (the thoughts of) those you were once close with. But you have to think of your happiness first. Is it truly worth it to be miserable every time you interact with someone specific?
Is it worth it to spend time around someone and blatantly see that they don’t have your best interest at heart but continue to keep them in your life?
Who does that benefit?
You might not want to cut someone out of your life entirely – in this case, you want to set some boundaries.
Why am I saying all of this?
Putting self-love first when deciding who to let into your life and how much boosts your overall happiness and enhances your manifestation power by offering you a consistently positive life. Those who take care of their sense of self-value by knowing that everyone needs to earn a place in their life (as we all need to earn a place in other people’s lives, without exception) will find positivity about their desires easy to achieve because they will be enjoying a happy existence already.
What do you think? I love when we discuss so please, share your thoughts in the Comments!