You know you want to be with him/her. You know that you aren’t together yet. You want to manifest a relationship but it upsets you to be apart, and potentially see or think of them with someone else.
You may or may not already know that accepting the current reality is essential to manifest the ideal. You want to be unfazed by whatever you’re seeing and only visualize the ideal…and it’s hard. It’s hard to disconnect from everything in front of you in order to connect with everything you want. It’s difficult to not be sad, especially when missing someone.
There is sadness in the missing and happiness in togetherness. However, perception is something that keeps us inside an awareness. We either think about being with our specific person and start picturing it or we dwell on being apart. If you look at it logically, these are the only two options.
Fortunately, energy works by attracting to us what we spend our time thinking about.
It isn’t that you receive something first, and then believe it can be yours – it works the other way around.
Yet when noticing an absence of something we aren’t used to having, we can forget that affirming and visualizing can make us feel like we have it already, and change our reality.NG
So you can choose to think about your ideal life and see change happen.
People manifest what they are used to, at least on autopilot. Unintentionally, we tend to attract what we are used to having over and over. Someone who sees their financial wealth as the basis of their life will continue to manifest a life in which that wealth remains on their comfort level. Someone whose perception is being a single person will continue to attract and engage in situations that support it.
Our habitual perceptions must be changed in order for our life to change. These changes are achieved with affirming, visualizing and knowing that the Universe is manifesting them into our realities. Knowing that the Universe has already created them and is placing them into our lives right now. Our only job is to be open to that change, to be accepting of it. To be ready for it now; a.k.a., to be sure it’s about to show up, to be looking forward to it, to be excited about it.
Because if you know your desire is cemented into the path of your fate, you have nothing to worry about.NG
Here are the practical steps on what to do if knowing that your desire isn’t here yet is causing you sadness.
- Remember that you aren’t together yet, so you have time to prepare. That’s a good thing! If you feel uncomfortable or not ready for your manifestation just yet, don’t you want to get ready? Get comfortable? You will be in a much more of a receiving mode if you are comfortable, which means your desire will manifest faster. (When we have fears, we block our manifestation. Whether it’s about getting hurt or wondering what kind of partner you are going to make, fear will continue to keep your manifestation from you and make you feel unworthy. And you don’t want that.)
- Sadness is a sign of focusing on not having what you want – you must affirm and/or visualize to lighten your energy. If what you want is missing from your life, Our energy is light when we either know that what we want is ours, or feel that we would be okay either way. Work on the knowing and you will be able to focus on other things, allowing your desire the space to manifest.
- You are winning your person over with positive thinking and love. You aren’t making them come to you/come back but because of the love you feel, they’re choosing to come to you/come back! Stay positive not just for yourself but for them as well. You will be much more attractive to your person and, energetically, to your goals, if you create a wonderful mood for them. If you’re happy and sure, you attract faster; the happier we are, the more powerfully we entice our miracle. And the person we want will be attracted to a happy individual. You won’t find attractive those who don’t enjoy life either.
Remember, you are an amazing person. You are someone who knows happiness and wants it back. To make that happen faster, you want to choose to believe that your goals are a done deal. Don’t think that they’re still so far and have to come much closer. Believe that they’re close already, even if you can’t see it. Because we manifest everything we deeply believe.