I see this example frequently in my coaching – a wonderful individual is hurt by the lack of evidence in their desire manifesting, yet the frustration in the lack of evidence perpetuates the lack of manifestation.
Why? Because Law of Attraction corresponds with our feelings about a specific desire. When we feel like it isn’t ours and are upset about it, we must receive more of it.
When we affirm that our desire is ours (because we’d decided so), believe that the Universe is making it happen and imagine living our most desired scenarios while relying on that decision and our belief instead of the current reality, we will begin to feel good about our desire. And then, we will manifest.NG
There is no perfect answer – we just have to choose to believe. Searching for the perfect solution only delays the manifestation, losing days of thinking positive (which would be much more productive).
Becoming the person you want to be requires thinking like that person now. If you had your desired job/relationship/home/bank account balance now, how would you look at things? Which values would you nurture? How would you feel about things around you – same as you do now, or differently? When you see things this way, positive thinking is easy and enjoyable, fulfilling its purpose of uplifting feelings and changes in your life.NG
Relationships are one of our favorite topics on this blog, and I believe the world needs better relationships in every way. Every relationship still begins with deciding the way you want to feel in it.
You might think this is egotistical. You might subscribe to the idea that it’s all about the other person. You might think you’d be selfish to think like this but let me ask you – what would your relationship look like if you were only fulfilling the needs of your partner and neglecting your own?
You might still be accepting that in a relationship, your needs must be fulfilled, too. You might be thinking about just making your person happy and how it would be enough. The truth is, it would only be enough for now.
As you affirm that you make your specific person the happiest they’ve ever been, and are willing to honor their needs and life, you must also think about them fulfilling your relationship requirements, guilt free. Because, why wouldn’t you deserve everything you are willing to give? You do. And you must receive it. Relationships cannot be one-sided and that’s why you must visualize having what you want from a person you respect enough to give them them the same.NG
Not putting enough feeling into the idea/concept/imagining/visualization of having your needs met will make you see roadblocks and cause you even more pain.
You are currently experiencing a lack of manifestation because you are neglecting your side and allowing the current reality with your person to dictate the course of your manifestation. You are giving them all the power – why do they deserve to decide on the course of the relationship and you don’t?
They say they don’t want the relationship. You however know how happy you would be together. Why do you feel guilty believing while making a conscious effort to be the best person you can be every day? Why is he/she right to decide you aren’t a match? If you believe in your desire, you are right, too. Let your positive feelings prevail. But don’t let them go just because your person doesn’t see it right now – if you happiness, positivity and confidence grow, your energy will manifest a change.
This is where confidence matters most. You are as amazing as you decide, not only as good as someone else does.NG
No matter how impossible it seems, give it a shot and one step at a time, visualize your person being the kind of partner you desire.
Do you remember the secret ingredient to make it easier?
Strongly deciding that you are in the kind of relationship you desire, with the person you chose.
When you decide your relationship is coming to life unstoppably, it’s easy to relish in positive feelings about its inevitable delivery. We need to reconnect with visualizing our lives while believing in magic as well as compatibility, miracles as well as desire, and creation as well as determination to achieve.NG