I am addicted to results and will motivate you to see yourself living them until you reach them, becoming irreversibly happy and creating magic in the process.

Nina Grdic

Life coach. Writer. Born in 1985. Lived in USA, Croatia and Belgium. Trained in dance and acting. Travel, style and music lover. Passionate about life, happiness, psychology and building confidence of an individual.

This is merely an introduction to me.

I have chosen to write this blog and share my own manifestations as I believe a personal approach to the Law of Attraction to be one of its most effective teachers. Furthermore, a personal approach allows for abundant explanations of the “how,” a part of LoA that serves as a distraction if focused on. I have been manifesting intentionally my entire life but several years ago, I read various books on LoA theory in an attempt to find and fill any potential gaps in my own knowledge. I have unlimited faith in the human potential – we were all born to live the lives we love and anyone can become an expert manifestation practitioner. I have been advising others on achieving self-confidence and personal goals for most of my life.


Most recently, I worked as a Communications consultant, university lecturer and have given motivational speeches. My work was featured in published poetry and essay collections at age twelve; around the same time, I gave my first essay and poetry readings. I also sang in choirs, attended drama school, studied dance and worked as a DJ after college. I earned my Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Communications and Business Communications. I was born in Croatia but manifested living in USA and Belgium.


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  1. Hi Nina!! I just came across your blog. I have been reading about LOA, Neville Goddard etc and I love your articles/comments! I have a question–how do you send heart energy to someone you love and desire to have a committed relationship (i.e. marriage) with? Is it done when you are visualizing/feeling the end result? If so, what is the process?



    1. Dear Shaina,
      I’m glad you found the blog πŸ™‚ Sending heart energy is based on literally feeling the loving energy from the area of your heart traveling to the other person and making an impact on them, connecting the two of you while you are feeling gratitude that your heart energy is touching them. Know that you are sending the love that is drawing this person to you.
      When I send it, I know who I want to send it to. Then, I say, “Thank you that my heart energy is touching insertnamehere right now and I literally feel the power of that loving energy in the area of my heart and this invisible power touching the person, knowing that it is and that it is drawing us together. Since most people send heart energy without realizing it, I often feel it from the people I send it to specifically and it is always clear whom that energy is coming from – like receiving a text and seeing the name of the sender. It doesn’t matter where they are – this is what brings you together πŸ™‚


  2. Hello Nina!! I basically come to this website everyday. I had written previously that there was a man that I dated and we haven’t had much contact for a while but I know he is my husband. I read about Neville Goddard, your website etc and I do my best to visualize and feel but then there were times where I felt discouraged because society would ask questions about my personal life and then well, doubts/fears would creep in. Nonetheless, I bought things that would indicate that I am married and well, I also have a “dating coach” (that I paid for) and I am trying this because I want guidance (this was before I found your website). She says that I am fantasizing (I have Anniversary cards, Monograms of the first letter of our names, Mr and Mrs cups etc) and that instead I need to reach out to him (I called a month ago and left a voicemail and he texted that he was in a meeting and would call back later and I have not heard since) and tell him that I want to reconnect/be very transparent about it. She doesn’t think I can let go without doing so. When she said that–I felt anxiety.

    Here’s the thing: Based upon Neville Goddard and also what you have written–the Universe wants to give us what we want/desire. People often manifest their desires when they have the positive feelings/energy, are happy as though they already have their desire–they don’t need to make that effort to manifest–it comes to them. I feel that if I call again–it would be me putting out the effort which would then negate the fact that I am already married to him.

    Do you see what I mean?

    I also read about your “over the top visualizations”–I myself notice that when I visualize the two of us not only married but also starting a family–it gives me a rush of positive emotions. I have a vision board with a picture of us, all the wonderful qualities about him, a wedding card with our names, pictures of a house, a family with kids, wedding rings, a cake etc. and I keep this in my purse. I also have a journal that I write in at times.

    So far I feel like I have only manifested “signs” this month:
    -My childhood friend that I haven’t seen in 15 years is his co-worker
    -I was invited to a visit a family friend after 10 years who lives in the city he grew up in
    -I watched a movie on the plane that had a side character with his name (he has an uncommon name)

    Since my goal is to manifest the relationship I already have to see myself as his wife and him as my husband–and all the wonderful feelings that come with that. I have not been as consistent as I would like to be. It comes and goes in waves. I don’t want to just manifest signs.

    I remember once reading in one of Neville Goddard’s works he said to not discuss anything (I assume because people can/might discourage you). ….Unless of course you are on this amazing website!!

    What do you think?


    1. Dear Shaina,
      Thank you SO much! πŸ˜€ I love everything you said πŸ˜€
      Some LoA teachers advise not to discuss until you’re certain that your desire belongs to you, in one way or another. However, once you have worked on the feeling and have come to KNOW your desire belongs to you, you can talk abt it all you want and make all the moves you want – you’ll see which specific behaviors come naturally πŸ™‚
      I used to talk abt my relationship manifestations because I wanted to, all the time. When I didn’t feel like it, I didn’t. I always manifested anyway because I worked from the end result and just did what I felt I wanted to do πŸ˜€


  3. Dear Nina, I really love your blog, it helped me a lot. I have one question, you said many times that you have succesfully manifested relationships with specific people. I want to get back together with my ex, but he said really bad thing when we broke up, he doesnt love me anymore, fallen out of love, and dont want to be with me never again. Are there any hope for me that we will still be together again or this is alost case when he said these things ?
    I am really looking forward for your answer πŸ™‚


    1. Dear Hope,
      Thank you so much πŸ™‚ There is absolutely hope for your situation and it will change as soon as you change your feelings about it and your feelings about yourself in relation to it.
      It is important to forgive both yourself and him for what happened. Things change and people get back together. That’s life πŸ™‚ Isn’t that great?
      It is important that you see things as you want them to be instead of as they are. Imagining that you have what you want, that you are the person you want to be, living your desires, will work as long as it makes you truly happy πŸ™‚
      Does it make you happy to feel that you two are back together when you imagine it? Enjoy that good feeling! Be grateful for the relationship as if you have it already.
      I successfully manifested specific people because I always believed things were happening and then, they did.


      1. Thank you so much Nina πŸ™‚ you are a wonderful person that you help and answer everyone’s question here. I wish you the best πŸ™‚

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      2. I wish the same to you πŸ˜€ Thank you so much, it’s my pleasure πŸ˜€ I’m currently finishing my book which deals with LoA, self love and self confidence so that’ll provide additional help πŸ˜€


      3. So i have to ignore whats in front of me, and imagine that we are together again even when he is so rude to me and acting like im invisible?


      4. Forgive him for those behaviors and trust that the end result you want is yours. Forgive yourself for it as well.
        If you love him regardless of his behaviors, you will see that those behaviors stem from something that has to do with him, not you. These are his problems. If you can love and forgive, trusting he’ll see the light and ignore those current behaviors while believing in your goal, you will achieve it. Trust and then, happily live your life, knowing your desire will manifest πŸ™‚


      5. And if he says that he hates me and he will never be in love with again, and dont talk to me anymore there is still a chance that we will be together?


      6. He said he doesn’t interested in me anymore, and want to forget me and move on. But i really want to be with him.


      7. You can turn that around once you change your belief and believe you can have what you want. As soon as your inner feelings change, so does your life.


  4. Hi! πŸ™‚
    I would say that doing what you feel is positive in your life now will attract even more positive events into your life πŸ™‚ Then, happiness and productivity will be your focus.
    And, thank you πŸ™‚


    1. The Universe knows what you want and you will keep that clarity as you nurture the belief that this is yours, this is happening and nothing else πŸ™‚
      The clearer you are, the faster things develop.
      Once you KNOW it’s yours, you won’t feel the need for timeline as you will feel that you have it already or that it’s coming soon ❀


  5. Dear Nina,
    you are so wonderful!
    I am from Croatia too πŸ™‚
    How can I contact you?
    I need some advice… I have some problems with visualization and vortex… I am trying to manifest my ex back… and I am stuck.
    Or maybe I could send you here or wherever you say… it is a long story, I really need your help!
    God bless you! πŸ™‚


  6. Dear Nina, thank you very much! I will send you email. Can I write you on Croatian?

    I read your blog everyday, your stories, and stories from other!
    I am very happy for all of you and wish you all the best!
    Stories from all here give me hope! But still I have doubts.

    So, I am asking you Nina, and others (if you had some situation you find hopeless) is there any chance for me?

    I had some serious relationships and went out on many dates. But my ex (I will call him Ivan) is only ex I want back.
    We were together about a year and a half, but for few months before relationship we were just chatting.We broke up in November 2015. It was a long distance relationship. We both live in the same country but in different cities driving distance about 4 hours. There was one business event here in my city and he came with his friends and that is how we met. At first, I did not fall in love. I was skeptical because we live in different cities and my first relationship was LDR so I did not want to repeat the same thing although I felt that maybe I should give a chance, something inside of me was different. He was crazy about me from the start. When he came back home, he added me on FB and we started chatting every day, hundreds of messages daily… By the time, I fell in love. We could not spent a day without our messages, and later phone calls. Then he came here in my city for two weeks preparations for bar exam, and those two weeks were perfect. We were finally together in the same place. We were so happy. We spent every day together and then we talked about our situation and we both agreed that we will be together no matter LDR, that we will figure something out. For the next few months he was so crazy about me, he came here couple of times, he called me every day… but in July 2015 his contract expired and his boss did not want to extended his contract, so from then (and now) he has no job. In meantime, he decided to study for his bar exam after that summer. We spent summer vacations together, but after that something changed inside of me. He had no job so he had free time, and I thought that we could use that his free time to be together, to see each other often… I thought that we could see each other more before he started to study hard for exam. But no. I started to be annoying and in constant fear of losing him. He felt that, he told me that he wont see me under the pressure I gave him because he wants to be happy with me, not upset. The more I was scared and in panic, because I wanted to hurry things up, the more he started with resistance. He started to go out every day with his friends, parties, barbecues… He is very connected with his friends, a very social guy. I started to feel lonely and left out. I thought he would care less, that he would eventually forget me, that his friends will be before us, that he would be lazy to come here and be with me, and that we could broke up. I was so scared. So depressed. So lonely.

    Then we started to fight often. I told him what I was feeling, how scared I was, that I know that then was a hard time but I am not sure if I was still important to him. Every few days I asked him did he really mean that he cares for me. So annoying but I could not stop. I was so confused and scared. I lost my compass. I started to feel jealous when he went out and when he spent time with others, and not with me. I hated that situation. I hated myself but I could not stop thinging and acting bad and desperated. I could not go there because I was working and I relied on weekends. But nothing. He did not show initiative anymore or any idea how we could see each other. I became clingy, frustrated and needy person. Oh my God, I do not know how this happened to me. I pushed him away. Then he said that he could not stand anymore our tense conversations, our fights., that I would never change.
    He said that I was no more his happy, positive girl with whom he felt in love, that I became unattractive with my behavior…
    I could not cleared my thoughts and calm myself.

    Then one evening in November we had the last long phone call- I provoked him, he was very mad, and then he said to me he can not stand this pressure from me, that was never in love with me, that we were just friends hanging out and chatting, that he was skeptical about our relationship, that if he was in love with me he would come and try hard… I was so confused, I did not understand how can he say something like that to me because his behaviour was different and I thought he had deep emotions and he showed them to me before. I cried, I apologized, I tried to convinced him that we deserved one more chance… everything I should not did, I did.
    So, after that we did not spoke to each other. So strange. After a year of hundreds messages daily, suddenly nothing.

    In December was traditional business Christmas party in my city, he and his friends love that parties and I hoped he would come and surprised me. No. No one came here. They were all studying for bar exam. He sent me a message for Christmas and New year, I replied and that was it. We are in NC for 5 months. Last we saw each other was in September. I could not sleep, eat, I prayed to God every single day for us, I cried every day… nothing. For months. He had his exam last week, now he is waiting for results. And now I am studying for my bar exam.

    You know when you have that special feeling about someone? I have never felt this way before. I have never loved so deep before. He was so good to me, like no other boys I dated and like no previous exes I had.. He was something different, he behave like I was the only one, like a tressure to him. My friends told me that I should be so happy and grateful for having that kind of boyfriend. He was that type of boyfriend I always wished to have. So I started to think that I don’t deserve him and felt bad because I thought that I was not good enough for him. I thought that I do not deserve to be so lucky. I tried hard to show him he was important to me, I put him on the pediestal, I tried to be perfect and caring. I was always available to him, I never said no to him. By the time, maybe he took me for granted.

    Now, I do not know does he feel anything for me, maybe he forgot me, because we are in NC for months. And he told me few times in November that he was never in love with me, that he wanted me, but not anymore.
    His best friends told me, while we were together, that I was the only girl he liked so much, his friends didn’t see him so happy and crazy for a long time, he said to them that he was so lucky that he had me, but he had some issues about LDR and our future lifes, he didnt know what to do about his job and family..
    I know I acted horrible. From attractive girl I became in his eyes and heart unattractive. I ruined everything. I am very emotional, sometimes I cried in front of him, I cried on a bus station when we had to come home again. When I love, I give all my heart without any calculations or games. I tolerate most of the things, especially in this relationship I was very patient and lenient because of my first relationship. I knew it was LDR and it was hard and I did not want to make things worse. But after summer I wanted to hurry up things because I was scared about his free time and where is my place in his life and I forgot to take slow steps. I was occupied with my own thoughts and fears. Also, there was some other problems… for example, he has no place to stay here, and I also have no place to stay in his city, so the money and accomodation is also a problem; his parents are both doctors and very ambitious and they put pressure on him to be brilliant in passing his bar exam (he told me that he would try harder after the exam but he wants to put his focus first on that exam because of the pressure and lost job). I know that this is important and priority but still in that moment I didnt understand the whole thing.

    I have so many doubts. For example, I have never had any miracule in my life. For everything I prayed, my prayers was not being answered. I can pray for days and months, nothing. Maybe because I was too attached or I prayed desperately… Not sure what is going on. Even if I strongly believe that my prayers will be answered, I get nothing. I was so many times disappointed. In this situation (get my Ivan back) I read so many successful stories here and on some other LOA forums… I am very happy and glad for all of you, but also sad because I think that something like that can not happen to me.
    My exes never came back (although I never wanted that but sometimes I imagined how would it be nice to happen something), there was no will or fight for me… like I do not deserve or I am not worth that. My friends have so many chances and stories, I have nothing. I never had a second chance. Sometimes when I read about something nice or something unexpected or something nice happen to my friends, I imagine what would be like if someone calls me all of a sudden, or knock on my door… or to hear someone miss me, or someone would say that he dont want to lose me… Never ever. Am I invisible or what? Or you know when you think of some person, he/she calls you? Never happened to me.

    Also, when I strongly believe in something, I get the opposite. For example, I really trusted Ivan would come here for Christmas party… I bought a new dress, I was so excited. He did not come here.
    I feel my situation is hopeless, like there are so many obstacles. LDR, NC for months, my behavior which pushed him so far away, maybe he forgot me, he said he wasnt in love with me, that we were just good friends… I don’t know. I am afraid to be disappointed again if I try so hard and believe in loa and there can be a small chance or a way… I want my little miracle, but I am lost and I don’t know what to do. Is there any chance for me? Can I have a second chance with Ivan?

    After Christmas I started searching on the internet and that is how I found LOA. I made a vision board, I write gratitude journat (not every day), sometimes I meditate and write affirmations. But I can not visualize, I have never been good at it. Because of that I am not consistent. I see some shadows, no feelings, no senses, no faces… maybe sometimes I can see something but not in minds eye, like I stand somewhere and observe me and something else. My images are not vivid, and I can not hold it in my mind longer than 5-10 sec. You know the example with lemon on the table? I know how lemon looks like and that thought is in my mind, not the real lemon. I can not see it or feel it in my hand, or smell it. Nothing.
    I know that visualizations are very important part of LOA, that is also one more reason why I think my Ivan will never come back to me.
    Is there any real hope for me?

    Please, any advice, experience or ideas are welcome!

    Thank you all!!


    1. You can absolutely email in Croatian and participate here in the community in English πŸ˜€ You may comment on any of the posts.
      Firstly, you must believe your relationship is possible, always. I advise believing it is yours.
      There is absolutely hope for you and I must say that you identified all your problems correctly and have seen how your relationship changed. Now, it can change back to positive.
      What you could try and do is remember and with that, recreate the feeling of having that happy relationship you two had in the beginning. If you only focused on that, you could get it back! We get what we focus on. Now, enough time has passed and you can bring yourself to believe that you can start over, being your true, happy self instead of the both of you being upset with life and each other.
      This approach could also give you an easy way to visualize because you would not be creating new images in your mind but thinking back on the already lived reality and then, it would repeat. If you believed you could start over, you can recreate that reality and that energy within yourself πŸ™‚


      1. Thank you very much for your kind words. πŸ™‚
        Yes, I know what I did wrong and I know what I must change. I am working on it. Baby steps, but I am trying to be better. Not only for him or others, but for myself first because I really want to be happy, complete and strong person with self-confidence.

        You said: “What you could try and do is remember and with that, recreate the feeling of having that happy relationship you two had in the beginning. If you only focused on that, you could get it back!”
        I donΒ΄t understand how can remembering and “living” in past can move me in the future? I donΒ΄t want to be stuck in the past.
        So, I would not be creating new images? Then how I can get the new relationship with him?
        I am confused now… Sorry!


      2. If you focus on something from the past that made you happy, it can repeat in your present so it’s a good thing πŸ˜€ You only think about the good parts of the past, like when you first started dating and how amazingly in love you were. ONLY that. It could be an easy way to get back into the positive feeling around your relationship. Remember how it felt back when you were happy. You can enjoy that feeling which will help you create new images in your mind πŸ™‚ Just look back on the good parts of your relationship with him and remember how happy you were – it’ll make it easier to believe you could be happy with him again.


  7. Hi Nina!

    Your blog is amazing, i came here everyday for inspiration, and im looking forward to your book πŸ™‚
    I have 4 questions, I hope you can answer them . πŸ™‚

    1, my first one, what If I want a specific person but he has a wife and children. Can I/ Should I manifest a relationship with him? And if i can, can I make the wife accept his decision, and be happy for us?

    2. How can I manifest money? I dont want a private jet, or a jacht, or a lot of cars, I just want to travel a lot, stay at a nice hotels, live in a nice home, maybe own a car, eating out, and buy anything i want like a dress or shoes?

    3. I need your advice, cause I dont know, what career I want. My main interest is being a singer, but I cant sing, cant play any instrument. I wrote a lot of songs, but I cant sing them, cant play them. So is it possible for me to be a successful and well-paid singer?
    My other interst is working in films, writing scripts. So what do you advice, how can I do what i love? Is everything really possible ?
    If I want to be a Grammy winner singer or an Oscar winner actress, or owning a very succesful business is it possible for me?

    4.My last question is, what do you think, what happen when we die?
    My theory is that, when we die, we get everything we want in an instant, for example, If i want blonde hair, the next moment I am blonde, Or I am in a desert island, Or I am a man, Just like the physical world, but there our wishes came true in a moment. What do you think?


    1. Hi Tia! Thank you so much πŸ˜€
      It is possible to attract anyone but not if you believe that what you are doing is wrong. Ask yourself why you want this particular man. Do you believe you two are truly meant to be happy together? Examine your feelings and doubts. Your feelings create and what you believe is possible or right governs what you attract. If you’re asking if it’s right, you are wondering if you’re doing something wrong but only what you see as right and wrong matters. What you focus on and feel good about, you attract.
      When it comes to money, be specific. Think of an amount because that makes it feel real – if you say “a lot of money,” that feels vague which makes it difficult to attract. Clarity is key. If you find out how much you want to spend every month or year, exploring the prices of the home you want or the hotels you’d like to stay at, you can vividly imagine how it would feel to have and spend that much money.
      Everything is possible but maybe developing a talent would help you believe you can do something. If you want to sing or play, take lessons and you’ll believe you can be good enough. If you feel that writing is your biggest talent, focus on that – same with acting. If you choose one now, you’ll see if you’ll stick with that one or choose another later. If this is something you truly want, you can take the time for lessons and see what you easily believe you can be good at. In order to manifest it, you have to believe you’re good at it. Don’t worry about “how” things are going to happen but you have to believe you’re good if you’re going to manifest it. Lessons could help you discover what you’re good at.
      I honestly haven’t thought much about what happens when we die. It’s a good question but I don’t know.


      1. Nina, thank you so much for answering all my questions πŸ™‚
        i had two left that i forget :
        1. can two people get back together even when bad things happened between them like cheating, lying…?
        2. can I manifest in someone else life? for example If i want my sister and her ex-boyfriend to get back together, or my friend to get the guy she is in love can I manifest it to them, without telling them ? πŸ™‚


      2. They can as soon as they start to feel differently about each other and their relationship. As soon as thoughts change, so does life. If people with bad history start to feel good about each other again, they can start over. Once one person feels love for another, they attract.

        You can help your sister or friend manifest their desires, yes. You can believe they will manifest what they desire and with that, you send them good energy to manifest relationships they want πŸ™‚ You can also send them heart energy. Be grateful for them being in your life, for their happy lives and grateful that they are now living the happy relationships they wanted to live.


  8. Nina
    I would like to read about Lightline’s manifestation but cannot find them… What’s the easiest way to get to her posts?


    1. Dear Hope,
      It is created the moment we ask and sometimes, it appears in the physical reality that moment but if it doesn’t, it only means that physical factors have to align first. Your desire might be required to travel to you, call you, if you are manifesting a house it has to be built or the current occupants must move out first, the item you wish to receive might have to be delivered to you etc. πŸ™‚


    1. You won’t if you believe it’s yours. Impatience is just another way of noticing that your relationship isn’t here YET but as soon as you start to imagine it as if it’s here now, you will let it go and it will appear πŸ™‚


      1. It took from days in some cases to weeks in others. I once said I would be with a specific guy in the future and it manifested that way.

        It is important to visualize, imagine, feel that you have the relationship now. I advocate visualization because I think it can be easy for all of us. However, you can also start by asking yourself how it would feel if you two were together now, how would you want it to be? Then, see what kind of ideas and images come to mind, what do you see you two doing and being happy, how would you love it to be? Even as you picture it, you will start to see and even know that it is possible.


  9. Hi Nina,
    I really found and enjoyed your post about the LOA and how to attract/manifest a specific person. I even bookmarked it. πŸ™‚
    I have a question though, something that bugs me and fills me with doubt…
    – If the person we are trying to manifest back into our lives doesn’t feel the same way about us as we feel for them, then how can we manifest them? They have their free-will and inner being, so can’t that counter our manifestation?
    Also, and not meaning to sound too negative here, but what if that person is thinking of something else and therefore trying to attract something completely opposite as to what we are trying to manifest with them?
    Thank you so much!


    1. Hi John πŸ™‚ Attracting a person means believing in love and allowing yourself to believe in the love you want to create between the two of you so you will choose to either focus on your ideal reality of you two being in love or the current reality of you two not being in love but you can’t focus on both and get what you want. Focusing on both sides will make you feel awful and focusing on what you want and believing in miracles will make you happy. Miracles happen every day – look back on your life and you will realize how many already happened πŸ™‚

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      1. Thank you, Nina. πŸ™‚
        I do believe in love, most definitely. And miracles! πŸ™‚
        I manifested her (the specific person) without even realizing. Then unfortunately things ended and we didn’t speak for a couple of months. I visualized and released resistance and managed to manifested her back into my life 3 weeks ago. For the first week all seemed like she wanted me back, which I was over the moon for obviously, but I felt somewhat impatient and wanted the whole manifestation asap…which obviously caused resistance. A week ago she went cold on me again and hasn’t initiated conversation since. I know my fear and impatience of wanting her back again is causing resistance, but I just can’t seem to chill, stop thinking about her and thus become into alignment again…
        I now find myself doing what you wrote about — waiting for text messages, especially now during the holiday season. So I know what I’m doing wrong, but the conscious part of me can’t stop wondering ‘why’? Why would she suddenly stop talking?
        May you please give me some advice as to how I can relax and stop resisting (and now doubting) so much? I would really appreciate it.
        Thanks again!


      2. My advice is self love. Focus on you instead of her is essential and self love will remind you of how much you have and everything you deserve πŸ™‚

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  10. Greetings Nina!! I see you’re a fan of visualizing and deep down I am too. When I set aside time (setting a time on my alarm) to visualize it feels like work, like a chore, a task. This doesn’t make me happy. So I ceased doing that–it just felt unnatural and like work by force. Maybe I am too attached? Trying to make something happen, instead of feeling my visualization real and then saying thank you. What’s funny is I’m still a natural visualizer ( I think everyone is, if they notice it). When I get out of my own way e.g. If I’m outside enjoying the day, I start to see images with my eyes wide open and they feel so good. Eventually (and I mean every single time) after feeling great and going along with the images I start to imagine something terrible happening. Some of it comes from incidents in my past which I realize has nothing to do with today or the now. So I should ignore them and not give them credence? Do not react to them? Maybe watch them go by like passing clouds(the meditation)? I hope your day is/was wonderful. Blessings.


  11. So Nina, I’ve come to the conclusion that all my negative visualizations boil down to someone(unknown) ruining my happiness. These specters come in right at the point where my happiness is soaring and try to destroy/mar my good time. My visualizations start off great and just when I’m at my happiest, some figure I don’t know shows up and ruins it. Then I continue my visualization usually seeking justice(revenge) on them. Any insight you have would be great. I’m not sure what this says about me? Also I’m an actor, so maybe this is “Drama?” I am now at the point where I’m laughing at these thoughts and visions. Like, there goes my brain again, but I also feel deep down it says something about me being hurt or not feeling safe. Feeling I in some way don’t measure up or I’m not enough. Would love to see your comment about this and thank you. Thank you so much for this site. YOU ARE AMAZZZZZING!!!

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    1. Hi!! Negativity creeps in at those exact moments because when you are feeling good about something NEW, that novelty causes the negativity/resistance to come up because the mind operates on our habits without any effort so when you introduce new thoughts about new things, the mind resists until you decide that it’s yours and feel natural about it πŸ™‚ That’s why it’s said that ppl are creatures of habit. Most let their subconscious minds rule and that’s all about habits whereas the conscious mind which introduces new ideas is all about choice instead of habits.
      Seeing what you want as if you have it already is necessary so that the mind gets used to it and creates familiarity around it in order to manifest!
      Of course, it could also be your personal enjoyment for the dramatic beauty of life πŸ˜€


      1. I was thinking manifesting self love! We already have confidence and relationships but this would be about always feeling good about yourself, your goals and creating every day as you want it to be for yourself, feeling the way you want to feel. What do you think? πŸ˜€


  12. really good idea πŸ™‚ also, i would be really interested in learning more about loa, about the universe, going a little deeper, if you have any thought about it, i would be really interested πŸ™‚


    1. To be honest, I don’t usually think about how the Universe makes anything happen. Energy is a strong influence that shapes our lives and assuming the energy of living my desire is enough to see it happen πŸ™‚ I just have to want it and many times in life, I wanted to stay where I was for a while but then wanted to change some other life factors. Go by your feelings and let yourself manifest what you love.


  13. Hey Nina
    Thanks for all your posts and coaching. I can really testify to all condsidering that Nina is an awesome and caring coach. I hope u are well and resting πŸ˜‰


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