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You Must Focus on Your Ultimate Goal…Now!

Have you ever, for any reason, forgotten this very simple idea?

You must not obsess about the “how” or any other details of your manifestation but only keep your eye on your ultimate goal!

If we worry about the how or any other details, we ensure our own distraction from the ultimate goals.

Think about it – whenever you only thought about your end result with passion, loving the idea of living it, you got it fast! However, when you worried about how or when or if it would manifest, you encountered obstacles.

May I say that obstacles suck? No argument there, right? But the truth is, we attract everything we experience based on what we focus on. This is why we should simply move on from past and start over, with manifesting everything we want. We only have ourselves to blame but that’s kind of a comforting thought – you know that your life will change with a simple change of your thoughts.

Recently, I have been pursuing new work collaborations or even employment, provided it was at a place I would absolutely love to work. I was called for five interview and had one last week. Later on, I found out that this interview didn’t work out to my preference and looked back on my thoughts and behavior.

I have been positive but also bounced back and forth with preferences – work here, work there, work on my own…I visualized a different scenario every day, if not various scenarios at different times of the day. After receiving the news that the collaboration I considered would not pan out today, a fire was lit inside. I decided to strongly and irreversibly specify what I want and where I want to be right now.

When I was a child, I used to just feel love for what I wanted as well as see it as a blessing; as we grow older, we tend to focus on our fears and worries and “hows,” due to being scarred by past experiences.

When creating, we need to be relaxed. Whether it’s jobs, love or work products, we must be relaxed in order to create. I believe that this is why many companies are in trouble – their employees are constantly tense and negative due to not being appreciated and taken care of at work or working in any unpleasant conditions.

When we’re relaxed, we just do without thinking, think good thoughts about creating and love our desires. Overthinking is a result of unhappiness or tension and when we’re consumed in it, we only focus on our dislikes and potential obstacles.

Knowing what you want is the beginning of relaxing.

Believing that what you want is going to work out in an even faster and more beautiful way than you could imagine because the Universe can do anything (instead of believing that it must work out in the way society’s rules dictate) is essential. You might think you know “how it works” but don’t fall into the trap – the Universe always has the fastest and the most beautiful way in mind, if you are willing to trust it and believe.

Thinking that we know the process, even if it was written out anywhere, is a mistake because that is how we confine ourselves to only one, narrow way of manifestation.

Now that I have decided where I want to be receiving job offers from, I am visualizing being offered an abundance of work and expressing gratitude for it. I say, “Thank you that I’m receiving amazing offers” and I can imagine and feel it. When I imagine it being real, I know exactly how it feels to be receiving what I wanted, and it feels happy and safe. I am secure in knowing that abundance is mine.

Focusing on your goal instead of the details takes your willingness to summon all the positive energy and motivation you can feel. When I summon that motivation and energy, I feel like I could burst from desire for my desire, and the love I feel for it. I feel like I want it so strongly that the thought of having it makes me feel like the entire Universe is on my side and that I genuinely have it now! I feel like I have it now but I don’t yet, and I know that I am going to any day now. When you feel so passionate and so motivated, you change the course of events faster than you though.

Just allow yourself to feel – you will attract miracles, have the things happen to you that no one else experienced or heard of, and you will only have yourself to thank. And, you will relish being so special instead of fearing it. You will want a life that’s easy instead of seeking out a dramatic or partially negative reality.


The Next Chapter

In my books, blogging and personal coaching, I have always emphasized two options for using affirmations to attract the desired – being grateful for your desire being yours already or expressing gratitude for your desire being on its way. Either way works but your choice depends on what makes you comfortable, allowing you to either feel good about everything being yours already or accept its upcoming arrival without experiencing resistance from being too aware it isn’t here yet. (The latter requires being okay in your current reality as it is, until your desire arrives).

Some can easily imagine their desires being a done deal in the sense of belonging to them already – these individuals have the easiest time imagining reality as they want it to be. Others can imagine themselves having their desires but have an easier time thinking those desires are still coming to life which allows them to let go.

I still switch between the two depending on the goal in question but today, I prefer the method of expressing gratitude for living my desired reality right now. It’s my life already; it’s mine right now. Technique one.  Read More

Thought of the Day

Successful manifestation is all about starting to believe you’re an individual for whom life is just easy and to whom success comes naturally. You know you deserve it.

Change your core, change your life. 

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Specific Wording and Manifesting Relationships – Use YOUR Words to Create Positive Manifestations!

Let’s talk about manifesting relationships because I have always found that the correct internal verbal expression of those relationships (which is different for every single individual) leads to positive thoughts and visualization which lead to belief.

Do you prefer to tell yourself that your desired relationship belongs to you already or internally state that it is going to manifest soon?

Which specific wording suits you better?

Some feel unnatural believing their relationships belong to them already but do feel good knowing that everything will come together soon. Others feel great about knowing that everything has already been worked out on an invisible level and just has to manifest in reality. Others genuinely feel good knowing that a relationship might manifest or that it might not, whatever feels best – there is a great deal of individuals out there who don’t practice LoA consciously when it comes to relationships because they feel it ruins the element of surprise.  Read More

Thought of the Day

If you decide to appreciate and enjoy all the wonders of the world around you, you will believe that life could become even better.

I am grateful for everything I love.

If you start to love your life, you will be able to let go to manifest without effort.

I am grateful for every amazing aspect of my life. 

If you start to believe in yourself, you will be motivated to share your newly found happiness with others and with that, attract people into your life.

I am living in a world filled with beauty and I see it all around me. 

Affirmation of the Day

I am beautiful.

This affirmation is powerful because it omits any factor besides inner beauty. No age, no weight, no physical factors discussed. And then, that inner beauty felt turns into both inner and outer beauty manifested. 

Why Affirmations?

Because you put all your focus into the feelings you feel and the words you repeat.

When feeling what you want to feel and repeating what you want to happen, you attract it.

Affirmation of the Day

Create an affirmation for right now.

Many find themselves dissatisfied with where they are but you must be happy in order to get even happier. This affirmation can get you there if you allow it. You could remove all resistance.

My affirmation for right now is,

I get what I want, when I want it.

This affirmation is going to make you happy in the present moment by knowing that your desired future is coming. Suddenly, you will know it’s yours which will make you see just how much you already have by knowing that even more is coming.