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We Want to Feel Special, Not Famous… So, Why is Fame Appealing?

Have you ever wondered why the concept of fame is attractive?

It is not because one wants to be worshipped by the entire world.

It is because one wants to feel special and accomplished while celebrated for their unique talents.

It is because fame implies one’s possession of a special gift that makes them different and makes their life even better.

One doesn’t want to be worshipped by the world – usually, one just wants to be worshipped by only one person or a few closest individuals at most. One doesn’t want to encounter screaming fans in the street every day – they just want to be recognised as the most special person in the room, the person that always stands out.

Most of all, one wants to represent their own ideals and be celebrated for it – that is the point of fame. Being told you stand out just the way you are. Being told you are perfect just the way you are.

A great deal of this idea applies to believing in yourself when it comes to the manifestation of your desires.

Famous individuals are attractive because they seem happy! They seem to have achieved the self-focus everyone wants, as everyone desires to be enough for themselves to only focus on themselves instead of other individuals (or everything they’re missing). Everyone wants to be able to focus on what they have and like themselves enough not to need anything else. Everyone wants to like themselves enough to just enjoy life because with that, others will be attracted to them and bring them even more positivity and opportunities.

Am I wrong?

Applying the concept of fame to self-belief in manifestation works when you consider these points. To manifest your desire, you must be happy on your own. You must believe you’re good enough. You must appreciate your life and everything you have in it instead of thinking about what you’re missing. You must feel valuable and abundant. And if you’re feeling beautiful, you emit and attract even more. You should feel as much as you can (or have the energy for) for yourself because the happier you are, the faster you’ll attract. And if you’re feeling happy with nurturing only one or two qualities of yourself, those you feel matter most to you, that works as well. You simply must love your authentic self.

Manifestation is easy when we engage in self-confidence exactly for who we are and self-love for deciding that we’re worthy of everything. Then, one makes oneself feel like a superstar.

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Idea of the Day

They say you can’t please everyone.

I say, why is that the goal?

You will only end up happy if you make all the effort to make yourself happy first.

And then, choosing those that make you happy second begins to happen on its own.

Thought of the Day

Focusing on another person more than you focus on yourself is simply exhausting.

Worrying about their feelings more than you do your own is exhausting.

Prioritizing them over yourself is exhausting, as it inadvertently leads to putting yourself down.

Feeling more need for them than you do for your own happiness is the most exhausting thing of all.

Negative Thoughts the Teacher and You Awareness the Student – Choice of the Lessons Learned

I woke up the other day and decided that I was going to go back to being an entirely positive person.

Even if this is who you are most of the time, some things cause temporary stress which makes it hard but I put my all into pulling myself out of it. I suppose in the past weeks, I felt a little burned out.

It’s not like everything has been going smoothly. I had gotten sick for the first time in four years and even a good cold can bring you down – just ask all my clients who have called in for a session during that week! But I love my work so I wanted to remain available because it lifted my spirits. I’ve been exhausted – not chronically but occasionally. I struggled to get along with those closest to me several times. At the same time, I learned to value and always feel confident about my own feelings all over again…and that was an amazing reminder. Especially after I realized that somehow, I had focused on the negative instead of the positive on several occasions and I don’t even know how that happened. I guess one can get caught up in negative feelings sometimes.

Had I become the person I advise everyone to avoid being? I’m probably exaggerating but I learned my lesson which I want to share with you today – I have just gone through this particular period and come out the other side because I hadn’t communicated my issues in a positive way but in a negative manner instead, both to myself and others.

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Thought of the Day

I imagine myself abundant because it makes me feel good.

I see myself abundant in quality of life, luck, money, intelligence, beauty, charisma, finesse, respect, positive experiences, friendships and love. I see myself abundant by living in a world I appreciate simply because it makes me happy.

Seeing yourself abundant should make you feel great and then, Law of Attraction is going to work for you rapidly and magically.

Look back on every time you received something in life simply because you wanted it – didn’t it feel good and just easy? It did, because you liked the thought of having it. Now, use those same thoughts to imagine living your desires.

The Stages of Overcoming Annoyance

Getting rid of the feelings of anger, annoyance or irritation has been my personal battle against negative thoughts at times. It was either one of the following two – fearing boredom or feeling annoyed with people or circumstances completely unnecessary to my situation.

Once, my then boyfriend’s ex attempted to interfere with our relationship. I told him I would get end our relationship if he didn’t cut her off. He did. I have been harshly dismissing people who had attempted to involve themselves in any situation of my life ever since even though I am often aware that simply ignoring them is enough. And I can tell you that this irritation with them instead of pretending they don’t exist doesn’t make me feel good. Today, I have made a promise to myself that I will continue to act as if they don’t even exist – to me, this is positive thinking because it means removing myself away from negativity and the people generating it.

Lately, my weakness hasn’t been firing back at those that have tried to insert themselves into my life (you have to sometimes) but still being irritated with them long after I chased them away.  Read More

Manifestation Epidemic – Wanting to “Do” When You Should Be Letting Go

Knowing your desire is yours but not seeing it in your current reality just yet can be frustrating. At this stage of manifestation, you might be wondering what you’re supposed to be doing or simply how to distract yourself when the thought of having your desire makes you so excited that it is all you can possibly think about.

At this stage, you might be tempted to start “doing” something to make your desire manifest faster but please refrain – in this exact moment, you should simply distract yourself by doing other things, especially enjoying the things you have time for now but won’t as much once you have manifested your desire.

Every change of circumstances changes a life. With every new chapter, we have a little less time for some aspects of the previous. There are things you could be enjoying right now that you won’t have as much time or energy for once your desire is manifested so focus on them instead. In turn, they will allow you to let go of your desire entirely only to see it appear in your current reality faster than you think!

This change of focus is more beneficial than you might currently realize.

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Thought of the Day

Whenever I am about to meet my closest childhood friend, I end up running late. Every time and only with her. I usually pride myself on punctuality but no matter what, I always end up arriving late to meet her, specifically and without fail.

However, every time I start getting ready to see her, something comes up for her last minute but it always ends up magically resolved just as I am about to arrive. Every time I’m late, it turns out to have actually worked out better for her that way.

This is the essence of our dynamics and we are both aware of it. We find it very interesting and have gotten used to meeting this way, thus continuing to attract the same outcome every time. One could say we have a positive effect on each other, as one’s tardiness works out better with the other’s short-term, last-minute obligations.

How would you analyze that according to the Law of Attraction? Let us know in the comments!

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If You Think Law of Attraction is Fiction…

I used to write poetry and fiction, became a published author in my preteens and eventually, decided that I preferred writing about real life. Fiction can never be as powerful as real life, no matter how much it is based on it.

Some people have asked me whether Law of Attraction was fiction or not. Some perceive visualization and the concept of living as if to be fiction for as long as it is different from “real life.” However, current reality and visualization of an ideal one are equally real, as one’s ideal reality must be seen as real in order to manifest into the current.

If you perceive visualization and living as if as fiction, how can you ever allow it to become your current reality?

You can’t. You have to believe in the possibility of your ideal reality becoming your life in order to allow it to happen.

Believing in living your ideal reality is not as scary as you think. I know it’s easy to hesitate to imagine living your ideal life for several reasons – fear of loss, fear of success, breaking out of your comfort zone… Yes, these things sound scary but as soon as you try, fear begins to fade. If you did it just a few times, it would go away completely.

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Not Giving Up on Them – What Does it Mean?

Should I start referring to myself as a “positivity coach?” “Life and positivity coach?” I don’t know yet but I’ve been playing around with that term today.

A client of mine recently introduced me to the following quote:

“A person who truly loves you will never stop believing in you and will never let you go, no matter how hard the situation is.” (Courtesy of powerofpositivity.com) My client then asked me to elaborate on this quote and gave me plenty of ideas through which to explain it.

This quote refers to several things and several stages of a relationship (or a relationship manifestation). To me, it means the following.

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