A Positive Individual’s Manifestation Method

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My entire approach to manifestation is based on being a positive person – it’s what I’m used to, it’s organic, it feels right. I love having unwavering faith that my desire is manifesting and since positive energy coming from within helps the Law of Attraction work without effort, it makes me feel connected to my desires and love from the Universe.

Having everything I want is what feels most natural to me. Whenever I thought that I could compromise what I wanted just to accomplish some other goal (without reason, because we can have everything), I ended up partially displeased – this was when I learned that I only accept having everything I want and nothing less. “Partially displeased” is not worth it.

I am only happy when I have everything I want and to get it, I assume that I have it already. Everything we feel is reflected in our realities.

Positive energy works easily with knowing that one’s desire is manifesting; however, you don’t have to be an unnaturally positive person but only need to know that your desire is going to manifest. Knowing is key. Continue reading

Your Personality Type and Manifestation

Combining some light psychology and manifestation can be useful. Today, we are going to discuss your personality, preferences, habits and ways of expressing yourself that can help your manifestation play out as smoothly as possible.

Some people are extroverted and others, introverted. Some are outgoing and others are shy. Some are open and others tend to be distrusting for a variety of reasons. Some love to have booming social lives while others prefer to socialize mainly with their closest friends. Some are optimists and others are pessimists, even if they wish to be optimists instead and are currently working on achieving that goal. Some love to take risks while others like to feel comfortable. All of us love novelty in different ways.

How well do you know yourself? Knowing what kind of person you are helps you reach your full manifestation potential. What are you used to? More importantly, what would you prefer to experience?

Our strongest character traits can drive us in our lives. The things we seek and the lives we value can help us define the path in which we see our future manifestations coming together. Our personalities can help us manifest if we stay positive yet true to ourselves.

Are you upbeat? Do you like to engage in the things that keep you happy and excited? Or, do you get excited about many things without effort? Either way, you can boost your manifestation with the behaviors that are organic to you.

You probably like to enjoy the things that make you excited so try and incorporate living your desire with that. What would your desired manifestation have to entail in order for you to feel comfortable with it yet never lose yourself? If you like an adrenaline rush, take action towards your desire but only if the thought of doing so makes you happy while you expect nothing in return. In this case, you would simply be feeding your own happiness. You will feel excitement just from making a move! At the same time, always remain positive.

Are you an extremely strong person? Do you feel good but are rarely rattled, reducing your worries to problems larger than your own? If you think that nothing is a big deal (or, that many others make a big deal out of nothing), you stand a great chance at fast manifestation due to your steady mind and a resistance-free outlook on life.

Just like nothing else is a big deal, neither is your manifestation – it is just as likely to happen as anything else. Believe! You can receive your desire because it’s a regular thing in life. Something you are wishing for has already manifested for someone else before you and there will be others who will manifest the same type of thing in the future. It’s not as big of a deal as it seems.

Are you a highly positive person? Do you like to turn every situation in life into something positive or better yet, something you actually want?

You might not usually manifest many specific situations but rather have a habit of turning everything you encounter into something positive, knowing it’s going to work out for the best. Use your lack of need for specific details and focus on your end result – keep your end goal simple and you’ll succeed fast!

Are you imaginative? If you are, you can use the power of visualization effortlessly. With your eyes open or closed, focused or in passing, imagine that you have what you want, now. What are you doing with it? How do you feel? Who are you? Use the power of your imagination and live your desire as if it were reality right now!

If you like to imagine what makes you feel good, simply imagine your future.

Are you usually quiet? Then, you might prefer your desires to come to you without you “doing” anything but feeling good about yourself and allowing manifestation to happen by letting go. The steps in between will align. 

Imagine a world in which your desires have manifested. You were comfortable with manifestation and are now happy. Wasn’t it easy yet you were able to be yourself, taking all the time you needed? 

When you happily think about living in the world where you have everything you wanted, say an affirmation which reflects having your desire in your life or lovingly visualize living what you wanted. Then, just be yourself. 

Be positive and believe.

Know.

Your Awareness Comes First and Your Thoughts Second – A Guide to Uncovering Your Happy Self

Do you have a problem feeling good about yourself no matter what you have or, don’t?

Is this you?

  • When you think thoughts of having your desire, you always end up back in the same old negative place after a little while.
  • Your fears keep coming back even when the current reality starts to turn into everything you have asked for.
  • You always assume that things will go wrong at some point.
  • No matter what you do or how much you manifest, you just don’t feel “right.”

There is a difference between feeling good about having your desire and feeling good about yourself.

If you don’t feel good about you, you run the risk of manifesting your desire but not keeping it in your life. Feeling poorly about yourself can prevent you from seeing yourself living your desire permanently, even if you can see yourself receiving it initially.

Let’s face it – self work is the part many attempt to skip, pushing themselves to believe their desire belongs to them instead of repeating affirmations about themselves in addition to their desire.

And why is that part important?

You are supposed to feel good about both yourself and your desire. If you don’t feel good about yourself without your desire, you won’t even after it manifests. This is the biggest reason your desire cannot fix your life or your awareness – only you can do that!

Many also attempt to skip over the self-work part due to the impatience to manifest their desire as soon as possible. However, they continue to feel poorly, blaming the lack of their desire for this state of mind when in reality, the state of mind itself is the problem.

Your decisions about your life come first. Your awareness comes first and your thoughts second. This is why you can face your negative thoughts and say, “No! I asked for what I want and that is what I must receive.”

You must start to rely on your conscious decisions and insist on them instead of your uninvited negative thoughts. This is the reason why you can say, “I asked for my desire and that is what I must receive.”

You can ignore those negative thoughts because only you consciously decide who you are and how you live your life. You decide what makes you happy. By ignoring these thoughts and saying yes to your conscious decisions and nothing else (or, less), you are respecting yourself. You are only accepting what you want.

What to do…?

After coming to realize that your awareness and conscious decisions come first and your thoughts second, you are to focus on every bit of positivity you feel about yourself. You are to tell yourself why you deserve your desire.

Then, you are to start to finally be happy without your desire. When you have a problem being happy, you are advised to examine why instead of think about your desire.

Are you trying to tell yourself that you want something but ignoring your true nature and needs in reality? You need to face those first.

If you know that there is a part of you which is unhappy no matter what, ask yourself why. Ask yourself what it is you honestly want.

If you want something that you don’t want to want, admit that you want it any way. At least in part, admit to yourself that you might want other things than your desire, even only occasionally. After facing those thoughts, you will get to know yourself and you might just change your mind, realizing your desire is enough after all.

Never chase the idea of living a specific life but think about the kind of life that makes you truly happy. If you want to manifest something just for show or just to prove your power to yourself, it’s not worth it. To manifest, you must feel good and if you are simply trying to fulfil your needs, you are not feeling good.

It is time to focus on living your life instead.

What is it that makes you happy? Do it. Put yourself first, not your desire. Putting yourself first equals feeling good so if you must resolve your lack of happiness with yourself and admit to yourself why it is there, do it.

Be important enough to yourself to do whatever it takes to make yourself feel better, even when it takes profound self honesty. Face yourself and remember that no matter what you find, you are worthy of love and can start to give it.

Silence the Thoughts of Missing Your Desire and End the Waiting Period!

The question of how long it takes for a specific desire to manifest is something I have been asked a lot recently.

Some wondered,

Why do certain desires take time? Do some desires necessarily need to take long to manifest? Why do some take long and others don’t? What can be done to speed up the manifestation process?

I say, it all comes down to the following questions.

Why do you care when some of your desires manifest but not others? Why are you attached to some of your desires but not others? Why do you perceive some of your desires as easy to manifest and normal to have in your life but not others?

Do you know that by letting go, you can manifest immediately?

However, letting go is connected to the feeling of living your desire already instead of missing it.

The answers to all those questions might give you more of a manifesting relief than you currently imagine. If you have negative thoughts, they might not even be present for the reasons you think but if you ask yourself why, you could uncover the real reasons for them.

On the other hand, there are other ways of cutting down on your manifestation waiting period, especially after you begin to understand the reasons why some desires take long to manifest.

You perceive your desires to be missing from your life.

If you feel that you’ve been waiting long, abandon that awareness immediately! If you notice that your desire is taking forever, you’re running the risk of your manifestation taking even longer if you indulge in the feelings of emptiness. What you focus on persists and if you are focused on having waited a long time and gotten nowhere, you are noticing the wait and prolonging the missing.

This is where visualization and imagining that you have your desire already works and changes your awareness, taking away your feelings of need and filing your life with happiness and a sense of security. Happily imagining that you have your desire in your life already and visualizing as well as knowing that your desire is going to manifest cut down on your waiting period and allow you to manifest even faster than you expect.

You are trying to control the process.

Many tend to focus on the process instead of the end result (or, focus on the current reality).

The “how” part is not up to you or me – it is up to the Universe but if you allow it, it will manifest your desires in an even more magical way than you expect. The Universe wants to give you what you want immediately and you can allow that to happen by nurturing happy thoughts of your desired end result.

The wait will only exist if you focus on it. Don’t! Focus on having your desire instead and be grateful for it. Know that it’s coming or imagine that you have it already. There are so many ways of being happy and feeling good so pick one!

Nothing has to take long but the sooner you stop noticing your desire missing from your life, the sooner you will manifest.

Why the wait?

You perceive the wait because you are dissatisfied with your current reality sans manifestation. However, once you become truly happy with your current reality, with everything you have simply because you appreciate it, you will see yourself living your desired reality. Even if this doesn’t make any sense to you, it is what it is – happy people see themselves having what they want while the unhappy ones don’t believe that things could improve.

You will stop waiting when you embrace the “having.” Your desire belongs to you already – accept it.

How to Break Free From “Not Having” Your Desire

The feeling of your desire missing from your life can be annoying, upsetting and can drive you into frantically working to change it in order to attract your desire instead.

I won’t even try to describe that feeling beautifully or eloquently because it isn’t; instead, this feeling is unpleasant and can lower your mood.

However, I am going to suggest several solutions for it.

Remain committed to staying in a good mood!

When your goal in life is to be in a good mood no matter what you do and where you are, knowing that bad mood is a waste of time, you will automatically want to go out and do something for yourself. Every time you fall into the bad mood, you will automatically want to change it.

When you get bored, think about what you would like to do to fix your mood. When you feel low, treat yourself (I hate that expression but it works). Go out and buy something for yourself, treat yourself to a meal you love, have a bubble bath, remember all the wonderful people in your life or, one of my favorites, donate money. In any way to anyone you want. Giving is something that will instantly raise your vibration.

Remember all those LoA sources telling you to get in a good mood first and then, think about having your desire in order to attract it even faster. To that, I want to add that when you remain in a good mood, when it becomes your goal, you will manifest your desires fast anyway.

Repeat affirmations!

When this dark feeling comes to you, you can change it by training your brain to automatically think opposite thoughts. You can repeat affirmations, self-devised or any you have read and liked, training your mind to automatically go to the positive when you think of the negative.

In addition…

You can always use the steps described here. You will notice the similarities.

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Why don’t you think you’re amazing?

I preach confidence non-stop because it makes manifestation easy. It helps you stay in a good mood. It makes everything in life easier. Many readers have told me they struggle with maintaining their confidence especially when manifesting relationships.

Confidence is a positive feeling, awareness and attitude. Confident individuals never judge themselves or others – one of the most important lessons we could ever learn. Confident people love their lives because they arrange them in all kinds of positive ways.

Now, do you love or need?

Loving the person you are allows you to love another. Feeling incomplete while thinking that another could complete you will inevitably trick you into thinking that you need them to be the person you always wanted to be.

Truth is, you don’t need anyone – relationships are a choice. You are capable of being happy on your own, allowing love to manifest into your life. Being happy on your own is also very healthy, allowing you to be the best possible partner to the person of your choice.

The most amazing partners are those who can be happy on their own.

LoA and Health – How Does It Work?

One of the aspects of life I am grateful for every day is my terrific health. Something that should never be disregarded, good health is manifested using the same principle as absolutely anything else. At the same time, following ideas given by the field of medicine can be a co-creating tool but one should never forget their health is primarily their own choice. Medicine is useful so be grateful for it but you give the final word – how many truly believe this to be possible?

If it were impossible, there would not be a single case of individuals “miraculously” recovering from fatal illness to no tangible explanation. However, there are plenty of those cases yet still so few to show that true and unrelenting faith tends to rest in a rare kind of individuals. Faith means primarily believing in yourself.

LoA AND HEALTH

It is said that the human body already contains everything it needs to heal itself. Medicine helps but why believe that specific medical therapy works or doesn’t work – just because someone said so?

Aren’t we stepping into the essence of LoA?

Those who make decisions regarding their health must also mind their energy around it. Are they convinced the desired result belongs to them or are they testing various options hoping to see results? Are they keeping a positive attitude, helping their intuition guide them to inspired action?

I realize that believing in one’s good health/successful recovery while the doctors are uncertain of it isn’t easy for everyone. However, this concept comes down to the same creation principles – we all manifest what we believe to be true and that truth must exist in the mind before it can manifest into one’s reality.

If everything we need is already within us, so is the strength to manifest our own good health. Sometimes, medicine will help and other times, we won’t even need it. Even finding the right co-creation field depends on one’s positive attitude in finding the solution; one simply has to keep an open mind and focus on the end result they truly desire, producing positive energy which allows them to find that solution shortly.

MY OWN HEALTH

I maintain my excellent health with daily gratitude.

Last weekend, I was worried I would catch a cold having accidentally put on a thinner coat than planned in a moment of distraction. I didn’t exactly catch a heavy cold but wasn’t 100% either, which continued for as long as I accepted this state of my health. Maybe I just wanted to spend two days in bed with books, tea and TV. Then, I decided I was healthy and yesterday, woke up feeling like my usual self.

Illness can also come as a result of either a collapse or a raise of one’s vibration. Seven years ago, I endured four weeks of bed rest within the same year due to two different cases of illness. However, the positive personal changes I experienced over that year were even bigger. One of the cases of illness was an ear infection and one of the great personal changes was moving into my own, new, fantastic apartment. A decision to move away from another beautiful apartment with a roommate was followed by the ear infection which was followed by finding and moving into that incredible apartment. I had only found the apartment after having gotten healthy. It hadn’t been up for rent until then. However, I was positive I would find the perfect place the entire time.

Sometimes, the Universe works out the perfect timing even when you know it’s going to be soon. All you have to do is keep focus on your end goal and know that everything will come together soon.

Any day now, as I say.

MANIFESTING FOR ANOTHER

It might be difficult for you to imagine manifesting good health for someone else, especially one that keeps focusing on the negative.

I have once tried to advise someone who was ill. They weren’t up for cooperation. To every affirmative ideal I had, they would say, “I don’t know.” As simplistic as this may sound, try to apply this idea to anything one wishes to create – knowing is essential and without it, how could one possibly create their desired outcome?

Then, I asked, “Do you believe you could get better?”

They said, “I’m not sure. Sometimes I believe it’s possible.”

I asked them why just sometimes.

They responded, “I’m too old and tired. I can’t bring myself to hope. It might be my time to go.”

This person suffered chronic disbelief in their good health, the very thought of manifesting which made them exhausted. Disbelief can run deep which is why many refuse to even venture on manifesting their desires. Disbelief keeps them in their comfort zone to this day, with short-term improvements followed by the inevitable relapses. They can believe for a few days and then, fall back into negativity. They have not altered their awareness fully.

WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE?

When it comes to your health, you will manifest what you believe to be true – just like any other aspect of life.

Are you the type of person who is always sick? Someone who always catches a cold, expecting it to happen? Or, are you always healthy and happy about it?

Now, be honest with yourself – are you grateful for your health every day? Do you believe you can feel as youthful and energized as you wish to be?

The Illusion of “Steps” – The Traps of Postponing Your Desire

The idea that your desire must manifest through a series of steps is an illusion. Your desire can manifest immediately, skipping every “step” you think it may require.

You can go from not talking to someone to being in a relationship with them. You could go from not knowing someone to being close friends in what seems like an instant. You could be homeless and manifest wealth. Anything you believe is possible will be.

However, life often makes many believe they need to go through stages before their desire can manifest. These stages are “steps” others have perceived as necessary in their own lives, passing those limiting ideas on to their offspring, friends, collaborates or any individuals asking for their advice.

You will begin to live your dream life once you accept that the Universe is limitless.

You’ve probably experienced the following.

  • Someone you know struggles to find employment. This person could have also been you. They send their CV out without result which in turn deteriorates their self-confidence. On the other hand, you’ve seen someone who sent out one application, a few at most, confident in getting what they want and, they did. This person could have been you.
  • Someone you know struggles to find a relationship. They might date or want a specific person but nothing is happening. Their frustration slowly takes over their desire. This could have been you. On the other hand, someone else seems to flow through relationships (or lives a relationship they love) effortlessly and as soon as they are single, usually by their own choosing, new potential partners seem to wait in line to be with them. This individual believes in their own high value. This could have been you.
  • Someone you know (or yourself) continuously struggles with money. These struggles never end, even during times of employment. No matter how much money this individual may earn, they fear losing it and almost feel as if the world tries to rob them of it. Another individual, or you, comes into and enjoys money easily. They earn competitive fees. They receive gifts. They travel as often as they want. They own beautiful clothes. They often donate money to charity and give gifts themselves. They enjoy money and see an abundance of it.

The second group of individuals in the examples above doesn’t feel the need to postpone their desire in any way. Their energy causes rapid manifestation because they effortlessly work in accordance with the Universe that wants to give us our desires now!

One perceives or even prefers to go through steps if they feel the need to earn their desire, showing they don’t feel worthy of it just yet. This is also a trait of individuals who want their desire to manifest at a specific point in the future – after college, after they lose weight or after they get their dream job/desired salary. “Steps” are nothing but an indicator one doesn’t feel worthy of their desire just yet, or believe they can manifest it.

Have you ever tried to visualize your desire and it just didn’t work? You couldn’t see yourself having it. After asking yourself whether or not you truly wanted it, you concluded that you did. Then, you either had a choice of repeating your visualization until it felt natural to you or diving into your fears, preventing yourself from manifesting the said desire.

You might be unemployed today but have a job you love soon. You might be earning next to nothing today, receiving a large amount of money shortly. You might be single today but could be in a relationship in just a few days. Just because someone told you you have to work hard for anything you want doesn’t make it true. Only if you accept and agree with this idea will you find it to be true, continuing to see those who believed in their own value manifesting rapidly.

You are enough. You are good enough to live your desire now, let alone after you start to feel even better about yourself.

Why Is It So Easy?

Most people are taught to work hard for everything they want. This limiting belief follows us around for the majority of our lives while breaking it down goes into the meta of creation.

Thinking you must work hard to achieve what you want will bring exactly that – you will work hard with certainty that this tactic must lead to your goal and then, it will.

But what would have happened if you considered that reaching your goal was easy, without overly hard work having to be involved?

Thinking that working hard might bring you to your goal will cause exactly that – you will work hard but reaching your goal will depend on your thoughts along the way.

However… What if you just decided that your goal was yours, easy to reach while feeling only love and gratitude for it? Then, any work that might have to be done along the way will never be difficult to do.

Law of Attraction is easy to use but because of society’s limiting beliefs, this idea can be difficult to open up to. Too many have grown up thinking they’re not allowed to be happy and have it easy, deeming those ideas negative.

When it comes to the teachings of the world, they are in direct collision with the laws of the Universe. Law of Attraction is consisted of a relaxed state of being, having fun, feeling love and gratitude as well as knowing for certain that your desire belongs to you already. Working hard for it or considering it difficult to reach sets you up for unnecessary frustration and hard work.

Growing up, you were probably taught that hard work is necessary to achieve everything you desire while still not being a guarantee that you will. You may have been taught that opportunities are only given to certain kinds of people and that desiring success and happiness is selfish and greedy.

Parents who teach their children these limiting beliefs are afraid of losing them, losing their family tradition or afraid of the opinions of those around them. Does that sound fair to their child – not being everything they desire to be only to not hurt their parents?

Does it sound fair that one compromises who they are for someone else?

Why so many difficult and limiting ideas?

The idea of having to work hard in life brings a negative connotation. In truth, when one loves their desire and is certain of its manifestation in their life, they want to do what it takes to bring it to life. They are open to taking action they feel is right when it comes to achieving their dreams, which is the definition of inspired action.

When one loves their desire enough, the amount of work they do to accomplish it may seem like hard work to some but is easy and fun to them. It isn’t that they do nothing – they simply love what they do and never work harder than necessary as a result. They have fun with it every day.

When one loves their desire enough (or completely), that much love allows effortlessly letting go in order to manifest. Then, all the action necessary to take along the way seems like child’s play.

However, many find it difficult to accept how easy Law of Attraction is supposed to be. On some level, they’d rather work hard for their desires because that is what they’re used to, fearing how easily those desires actually are to attract and receive. They feel guilty for being happy, loving life and having fun simply because many around them refuse to open their own hearts to happiness and continue to complain about their own realities.

The truth is, everyone has the power to completely alter their reality. If you come across an individual refusing to do so yet you’ve taught them what you know because you wanted to help, send them positive thoughts and heart energy from now on. Let them come to you for help. Everyone decides when they are ready to improve their lives but it will be your positive energy that motivates them if words ever failed to. This will be the right solution for you, too, as you will be much happier after letting go of a frustrating situation.

The happier you are, the more you will achieve – this is why all the unnecessary hard work will never bring your goal to you. If you desire to do everything possible with the Law of Attraction with a guarantee that you will achieve your desire, this is the wrong way to do. You are only supposed to use the manifesting tools you love, think thoughts you love and redirect them when thinking about your desire becomes taxing.

Happy thoughts come first, regardless of what they’re about.