Change the outcome by changing your attitude, awareness and behavior.
Change the outcome by engaging in self-love and putting yourself first.
Stop putting your desired partner before yourself, no matter how much you miss them – put yourself first at all times. And do so by knowing that your ideal relationship with them is a done deal.
Do you know why I always say “Don’t trail the person you like on social media?”
Because if you do, you think they’re better than you are. You think they’re cooler, happier and have more power.
You assume they don’t feel the same and that you have no chance with them, all because they’re not messaging the exact moment you are indulging in your attachment.
You prioritize them when you should be prioritizing yourself.