New Service – Personal Coaching

Hello everyone!

Due to great interest, I have decided to officially offer coaching sessions. I have dedicated enough time and seen enough success stories through my free LoA email consulting over the past three years to broaden my service to coaching through calls or video chat. (I also have experience in career and life coaching, including teaching university seminars on both subjects.)

For those of you interested in booking your first session, here’s the plan!

You may choose an option of a phone or video call. This can change with each session but it won’t reflect the price – your comfort level is the only thing that matters. I am also open to adapting to time zones so each session will be arranged separately, for the duration of either half an hour, if you would like to start slow or just give it a try, or a full hour.

A copy of your bill will arrive via email the day after your session. My company is registered in Croatia and you will be able to send your payment directly through bank transfer or PayPal.

For the purposes of billing, your name and address will have to be provided when booking a session. All bookings can be made through email at nina@thelawofattractionandmylife.com. Please include the information about your current time zone and your preferred session time. Once the session is arranged, you will be provided with contact information based on your preferred method of communication.

For those of you who want to book a session now, I want to tell you that due to prior engagements, I have more openings in my schedule next week so please, give me a suggestion for a time this week, August 15 to 20, and an alternative for the next in case this one is booked already.

In addition, please include thoughts, comments and suggestions on this post and coaching plan, if you have anything to share. I would love to hear your opinion.

Thank you for supporting this service long before I ever started it.

Talk to you soon!

Nina

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Thought of the Day – Guilt, Fulfilment, Positive Feelings or Negative Behavior?

LoA is when you make pizza, eat the entire thing in one sitting and remain at your ideal weight.

Many feel guilty about what they have and wanting what they do. Guilt is nothing but empty emotion and an inexhaustible source of personal manifesting blockage.

Guilt is contradictory to manifesting because it evokes negative feelings while manifesting is all about the positive.

Some refuse to even remove negativity from their lives because they feel guilty about dropping it and actually feeling better; feelings of this nature go back to one’s fear/awareness of being unworthy of their desired manifestation.

The reasons for engaging in certain behavior during your manifestation period say a lot about your awareness. Do you visualise because you love living your desire or because you feel that you should in order to receive your desire (a.k.a. because you feel your desire missing from your life and want to attract it)?

Do you actively feel guilty about wanting what you do or feel that you deserve it?

The Likelihood of Manifesting Your Desires

One of my favorite movies is Gone with the Wind and I wonder if others were as fascinated with Scarlett O’Hara’s motherly yet cool mom Ellen. After young Scarlett has been left a widow, Ellen suggests she end her mourning period, get out of the house and travel to Atlanta to party because there is always lots going on.

Ellen had given Scarlett terrific LoA tips – a pick-me-up is always better than unnaturally prolonged mourning with the sole purpose of respecting societal norms. Ellen O’Hara was a cool mom.

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On the other hand, Scarlett felt that she could have anything and anyone except for Ashley Wilkes, constantly trying to make him jealous and win him over by marrying his cousin Charles, marrying for money twice after that, nursing his wife (and cousin) Melanie back to health and making him her business partner. She feels that she has money, men, family and her business deals but due to the feeling of not being with Ashley, she keeps making one mistake after another.

I believe many feel the same way when finding themselves capable of manifesting any desire except that biggest one. That big desire usually entails a specific person.

The answer is as simple as leveling that one big desire with the rest of your desires and believing they’re all equally easy to manifest and equally likely to happen.

The bigger you make your desire in your mind, the more you feel disconnected from it.

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Self love makes any desire feel small because your happiness is bigger than all of them. You simply give your desired manifestations a chance to fit into your happiness and give them the privilege of sharing your beautiful life.

When perceiving a desire small, you can see yourself having it and let it go. This can be just as true of jobs, financial wealth, luxury and love with specific people as it is of clothes, flowers and cups of coffee.

LoA and Quality Alone Time

If one can spend quality time on their own, one will have removed the need for the things many of us have gotten used to having and tricked ourselves into “needing” over the years.

In moments of solitude, many have tricked themselves to believe to be bored by default instead of exploring potential activities they could enjoy on their own. Then, many already know how to appreciate their time alone. Some love reading and writing in complete solitude. A friend of mine likes to drive around for hours and think. Some do nothing but simply disconnect themselves from the world which replenishes their minds. Another friend of mine took my advice and made a habit of going out to lunch alone while reading a book. Regardless of the specific activity (or a lack thereof), the ability to enjoy some alone time goes a long way when it comes to confidence and with that, faith in one’s manifestation abilities.

You might wonder how exactly this works.

Here’s how.

Enjoying some alone time allows you to see why you don’t need anything else. You are perfectly capable of finding amusement and productivity all on your own; knowing that, you can simply become grateful for everything and everyone that make a great addition to your life. You can be grateful for any conversation you have, all your friends and family and realize why relationships are natural to us – they make us happy, even if we don’t actually need them. You could be fine on your own but knowing that can also easily allow you to be grateful for everyone in your life.

You just spent some time alone and you survived. You don’t need other people – you just like them.

Knowing this can help you remove the need for your manifestations, allowing you to finally manifest. Removing the need for company and just appreciating it helps you manifest.

Try and spend a few hours on your own – you will start to enjoy your own company.

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The Revision of Focus

The title of this post might confuse you at first but think about it – how clear is the meaning of focusing on your desire when it comes to LoA? How often do you get confused with the idea of having to keep focus on having your desire without actually realizing what it means?

This is your ultimate guide to the meaning of focus and how to keep it on having your desire.

Keeping focus on having your desire equals knowing that it’s yours and thinking and behaving accordingly. If you think about it often, you think about it being yours. If you put it out of your mind, you affirm that it is yours every time you think of it and then put it out of your mind again.

You can think about your desire all you want, as long as those thoughts are of having your desire instead of missing it.

Keeping focus allows you to let go. Letting go means knowing that everything you want is yours and never worrying about its manifestation.

Looking for an easy way to stay focused?

Write it down!

Writing in order to keep focus on your goal is what I suggest. Writing down for focus is great because it allows you to hold onto the thoughts of having your desire. Same with affirmations – they reaffirm the idea of you having your desire.

You can choose between writing or repeating affirmations; if it makes you happy, use both (only if it makes you happy because happiness changes your awareness fast). Writing a story about living your desire and reading it over and over or repeating affirmations of living your desire will alter your awareness to match the life you want to live.

See how it works?

If I truly want to manifest any desire, it is important enough to me to know that it is mine and that is the only option I will accept. I will visualize what it’s like to live my desire and be grateful for it.

If and when any negative thoughts come up, we must be honest with ourselves in order to resolve them – if we intend to manifest our desires, we will remove those thoughts or accept them as meaningless attempts of distraction. We will decide that we are brave enough to discover what it will be like to live our desires by loving them for what they are. These reactions will prove that we are focused on living our desires by resolving any and all self-imposed obstacles.

This is all you need to know because that is all there is. Keep it simple, without distractions and you’ll succeed.

My New Email

Hello everyone, I wanted to give you a quick update!

From now on, I can be reached at:

nina@thelawofattractionandmylife.com

Lots of love!

Hello Everyone!

I’m back and I have missed you so much!! I am sorry it took longer than anticipated but I have just uploaded my book to Amazon and it will be available in 24 to 48 hours! However, this time away from the blog which I had taken to complete the book made me realize all over again how much this type of work and this community means to me.

Also, I upgraded the blog – you may have noticed that now, we are thelawofattractionandmylife.com! I will add the forum to the blog shortly and I am considering posting some videos in addition to articles soon, and more books are coming in the future! I anticipate writing them will be much easier from now on. Tonight, I will stay online to answer all your questions, reviewing the comments from weeks back but first, I am going to get some dinner and then come back.

I will once again become a regular presence on this blog, just as you are used to. I am so excited!

I want to thank you all for your love and support, especially over the past month. Thank you for you and for everything you contribute to this community. You have no idea how much I appreciate you, especially today.

I just wanted to tell you I was back but I might delete this post in a few days so if you have any important questions, please post them in the comments below another article.

I love you all, see you in an hour or so!

N

LoA and Health – How Does It Work?

One of the aspects of life I am grateful for every day is my terrific health. Something that should never be disregarded, good health is manifested using the same principle as absolutely anything else. At the same time, following ideas given by the field of medicine can be a co-creating tool but one should never forget their health is primarily their own choice. Medicine is useful so be grateful for it but you give the final word – how many truly believe this to be possible?

If it were impossible, there would not be a single case of individuals “miraculously” recovering from fatal illness to no tangible explanation. However, there are plenty of those cases yet still so few to show that true and unrelenting faith tends to rest in a rare kind of individuals. Faith means primarily believing in yourself.

LoA AND HEALTH

It is said that the human body already contains everything it needs to heal itself. Medicine helps but why believe that specific medical therapy works or doesn’t work – just because someone said so?

Aren’t we stepping into the essence of LoA?

Those who make decisions regarding their health must also mind their energy around it. Are they convinced the desired result belongs to them or are they testing various options hoping to see results? Are they keeping a positive attitude, helping their intuition guide them to inspired action?

I realize that believing in one’s good health/successful recovery while the doctors are uncertain of it isn’t easy for everyone. However, this concept comes down to the same creation principles – we all manifest what we believe to be true and that truth must exist in the mind before it can manifest into one’s reality.

If everything we need is already within us, so is the strength to manifest our own good health. Sometimes, medicine will help and other times, we won’t even need it. Even finding the right co-creation field depends on one’s positive attitude in finding the solution; one simply has to keep an open mind and focus on the end result they truly desire, producing positive energy which allows them to find that solution shortly.

MY OWN HEALTH

I maintain my excellent health with daily gratitude.

Last weekend, I was worried I would catch a cold having accidentally put on a thinner coat than planned in a moment of distraction. I didn’t exactly catch a heavy cold but wasn’t 100% either, which continued for as long as I accepted this state of my health. Maybe I just wanted to spend two days in bed with books, tea and TV. Then, I decided I was healthy and yesterday, woke up feeling like my usual self.

Illness can also come as a result of either a collapse or a raise of one’s vibration. Seven years ago, I endured four weeks of bed rest within the same year due to two different cases of illness. However, the positive personal changes I experienced over that year were even bigger. One of the cases of illness was an ear infection and one of the great personal changes was moving into my own, new, fantastic apartment. A decision to move away from another beautiful apartment with a roommate was followed by the ear infection which was followed by finding and moving into that incredible apartment. I had only found the apartment after having gotten healthy. It hadn’t been up for rent until then. However, I was positive I would find the perfect place the entire time.

Sometimes, the Universe works out the perfect timing even when you know it’s going to be soon. All you have to do is keep focus on your end goal and know that everything will come together soon.

Any day now, as I say.

MANIFESTING FOR ANOTHER

It might be difficult for you to imagine manifesting good health for someone else, especially one that keeps focusing on the negative.

I have once tried to advise someone who was ill. They weren’t up for cooperation. To every affirmative ideal I had, they would say, “I don’t know.” As simplistic as this may sound, try to apply this idea to anything one wishes to create – knowing is essential and without it, how could one possibly create their desired outcome?

Then, I asked, “Do you believe you could get better?”

They said, “I’m not sure. Sometimes I believe it’s possible.”

I asked them why just sometimes.

They responded, “I’m too old and tired. I can’t bring myself to hope. It might be my time to go.”

This person suffered chronic disbelief in their good health, the very thought of manifesting which made them exhausted. Disbelief can run deep which is why many refuse to even venture on manifesting their desires. Disbelief keeps them in their comfort zone to this day, with short-term improvements followed by the inevitable relapses. They can believe for a few days and then, fall back into negativity. They have not altered their awareness fully.

WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE?

When it comes to your health, you will manifest what you believe to be true – just like any other aspect of life.

Are you the type of person who is always sick? Someone who always catches a cold, expecting it to happen? Or, are you always healthy and happy about it?

Now, be honest with yourself – are you grateful for your health every day? Do you believe you can feel as youthful and energized as you wish to be?

A Quick Follow-Up…

Three days ago, I wrote about my lack of inspiration for doing any work besides writing. That particular feeling had been invading my life for two days before I wrote this post.

I decided to let it go and trust that my inspiration would come back. It did just before I wrote that post.

Less than 24 h after writing it, I received a lecturing gig.

Letting go and staying relaxed around my desires combined with trust creates a win-win situation.