Be grateful for having what you want and feel your heart open up to receiving it.
Below, you can watch a video of your fellow reader and my lovely beauty blogger client Jiya who talked about several LoA coaching lessons on her own YouTube channel!
Due to great interest, I have decided to officially offer coaching sessions. I have dedicated enough time and seen enough success stories through my free email consulting over the past three years to broaden my service to coaching through calls or video chat. (I also have experience in career and life coaching, including teaching university seminars on both subjects.)
For those of you interested in booking your first session, here’s the plan. Read More
LoA is when you make pizza, eat the entire thing in one sitting and remain at your ideal weight.
Many feel guilty about what they have and wanting what they do. Guilt is nothing but empty emotion and an inexhaustible source of personal manifesting blockage.
Guilt is contradictory to manifesting because it evokes negative feelings while manifesting is all about the positive.
Some refuse to even remove negativity from their lives because they feel guilty about dropping it and actually feeling better; feelings of this nature go back to one’s fear/awareness of being unworthy of their desired manifestation.
The reasons for engaging in certain behavior during your manifestation period say a lot about your awareness. Do you visualise because you love living your desire or because you feel that you should in order to receive your desire (a.k.a. because you feel your desire missing from your life and want to attract it)?
Do you actively feel guilty about wanting what you do or feel that you deserve it?
One of my favorite movies is Gone with the Wind and I wonder if others were as fascinated with Scarlett O’Hara’s motherly yet cool mom Ellen. After young Scarlett has been left a widow, Ellen suggests she end her mourning period, get out of the house and travel to Atlanta to party because there is always lots going on.
Ellen had given Scarlett terrific LoA tips – a pick-me-up is always better than unnaturally prolonged mourning with the sole purpose of respecting societal norms. Ellen O’Hara was a cool mom.
On the other hand, Scarlett felt that she could have anything and anyone except for Ashley Wilkes, constantly trying to make him jealous and win him over by marrying his cousin Charles, marrying for money twice after that, nursing his wife (and cousin) Melanie back to health and making him her business partner. She feels that she has money, men, family and her business deals but due to the feeling of not being with Ashley, she keeps making one mistake after another.
I believe many feel the same way when finding themselves capable of manifesting any desire except that biggest one. That big desire usually entails a specific person.
The answer is as simple as leveling that one big desire with the rest of your desires and believing they’re all equally easy to manifest and equally likely to happen.
The bigger you make your desire in your mind, the more you feel disconnected from it.
Self love makes any desire feel small because your happiness is bigger than all of them. You simply give your desired manifestations a chance to fit into your happiness and give them the privilege of sharing your beautiful life.
When perceiving a desire small, you can see yourself having it and let it go. This can be just as true of jobs, financial wealth, luxury and love with specific people as it is of clothes, flowers and cups of coffee.
If one can spend quality time on their own, one will have removed the need for the things many of us have gotten used to having and tricked ourselves into “needing” over the years.
In moments of solitude, many have tricked themselves to believe to be bored by default instead of exploring potential activities they could enjoy on their own. Then, many already know how to appreciate their time alone. Some love reading and writing in complete solitude. A friend of mine likes to drive around for hours and think. Some do nothing but simply disconnect themselves from the world which replenishes their minds. Another friend of mine took my advice and made a habit of going out to lunch alone while reading a book. Regardless of the specific activity (or a lack thereof), the ability to enjoy some alone time goes a long way when it comes to confidence and with that, faith in one’s manifestation abilities.
You might wonder how exactly this works.
Enjoying some alone time allows you to see why you don’t need anything else. You are perfectly capable of finding amusement and productivity all on your own; knowing that, you can simply become grateful for everything and everyone that make a great addition to your life. You can be grateful for any conversation you have, all your friends and family and realize why relationships are natural to us – they make us happy, even if we don’t actually need them. You could be fine on your own but knowing that can also easily allow you to be grateful for everyone in your life.
You just spent some time alone and you survived. You don’t need other people – you just like them.
Knowing this can help you remove the need for your manifestations, allowing you to finally manifest. Removing the need for company and just appreciating it helps you manifest.
Try and spend a few hours on your own – you will start to enjoy your own company.
The title of this post might confuse you at first but think about it – how clear is the meaning of focusing on your desire when it comes to LoA? How often do you get confused with the idea of having to keep focus on having your desire without actually realizing what it means?
This is your ultimate guide to the meaning of focus and how to keep it on having your desire.
Keeping focus on having your desire equals knowing that it’s yours and thinking and behaving accordingly. If you think about it often, you think about it being yours. If you put it out of your mind, you affirm that it is yours every time you think of it and then put it out of your mind again.
You can think about your desire all you want, as long as those thoughts are of having your desire instead of missing it.
Keeping focus allows you to let go. Letting go means knowing that everything you want is yours and never worrying about its manifestation.
Looking for an easy way to stay focused?
Write it down!
Writing in order to keep focus on your goal is what I suggest. Writing down for focus is great because it allows you to hold onto the thoughts of having your desire. Same with affirmations – they reaffirm the idea of you having your desire.
You can choose between writing or repeating affirmations; if it makes you happy, use both (only if it makes you happy because happiness changes your awareness fast). Writing a story about living your desire and reading it over and over or repeating affirmations of living your desire will alter your awareness to match the life you want to live.
See how it works?
If I truly want to manifest any desire, it is important enough to me to know that it is mine and that is the only option I will accept. I will visualize what it’s like to live my desire and be grateful for it.
If and when any negative thoughts come up, we must be honest with ourselves in order to resolve them – if we intend to manifest our desires, we will remove those thoughts or accept them as meaningless attempts of distraction. We will decide that we are brave enough to discover what it will be like to live our desires by loving them for what they are. These reactions will prove that we are focused on living our desires by resolving any and all self-imposed obstacles.
This is all you need to know because that is all there is. Keep it simple, without distractions and you’ll succeed.
Hello everyone, I wanted to give you a quick update!
From now on, I can be reached at:
Lots of love!
I’m back and I have missed you so much!! I am sorry it took longer than anticipated but I have just uploaded my book to Amazon and it will be available in 24 to 48 hours! However, this time away from the blog which I had taken to complete the book made me realize all over again how much this type of work and this community means to me.
Also, I upgraded the blog – you may have noticed that now, we are thelawofattractionandmylife.com! I will add the forum to the blog shortly and I am considering posting some videos in addition to articles soon, and more books are coming in the future! I anticipate writing them will be much easier from now on. Tonight, I will stay online to answer all your questions, reviewing the comments from weeks back but first, I am going to get some dinner and then come back.
I will once again become a regular presence on this blog, just as you are used to. I am so excited!
I want to thank you all for your love and support, especially over the past month. Thank you for you and for everything you contribute to this community. You have no idea how much I appreciate you, especially today.
I just wanted to tell you I was back but I might delete this post in a few days so if you have any important questions, please post them in the comments below another article.
I love you all, see you in an hour or so!