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Being specific has its ups and downs. Then again, anything does.
In life, my actions always reflected a core belief of “I want this so I am going to have it – nothing else, nothing less!” which led me to certain manifestations that looked nothing like I had imagined.
Whenever I expect something to go well but it goes perfectly instead, it’s good to be wrong.
I had no worry about leaving any job that no longer served my wellbeing, ever.
The lesson learned was,
Law of Attraction works easily when something you want is just not a big deal (to you). It’s normal, natural and it always works out.
If what you want feels like a big deal, it might not be natural to you. The goals is for living your desire to feel normal because normal equals no resistance.
Experiences define you only if you allow them to.
If you know that anything can be manifested, what is there to be sad about?
What is there to worry about?
Nothing.
Act like success is the only choice, the only possible result, the only solution.
Know that success is your only choice, the only possible result, the only solution.
Note: This is one of the most important posts I will ever write. This is everything you need.
It’s not what you do, it’s how you do it – this phrase is LoA.
Two people could do the same thing, one with confidence and one without. One could feel good and the other could feel poorly. Which do you think would succeed?
One could do more than the other but their actions would mean nothing unless they felt right. The other could take much less action but feel like they got what they wanted already and manifest accordingly.
See what I mean?
“Class is in you. Either everything you do is classy or nothing at all, no matter what you do. You can’t teach that,” a friend of mine once said.
Some do whatever they want and they are tolerated or praised. Even when their actions are something that could evoke judgement, it usually doesn’t. When it does, they are understood, their behavior justified or daring nature secretly admired. Others do what is “right” because they fear life going wrong. They are so focused on the right and wrong that they forget their own happiness. They put everything else before their own happiness because of some sort of guilt. They feel insufficient and hope they might be deserving of their desires if they were “a good person.”
A happy person is a good person.
Class, grace, magnetism or anything similar always starts with you! Often, projecting these qualities means being able to deal with yourself, your life and your decisions. Often, this also means self love and self comfort. Make your own decisions and stand by them; allow the ultimate you to shine.
Knowing your desire is manifesting is the key to your success. When you know, you are guided by it or at least I am which means you can be, too.
To those of you who like to think about your desire a lot, remember that I told you you could as long as those thoughts are happy and reflect living the life of your dreams? Well, I’ve manifested that way, too. This is a perfectly valid manifestation method but only if you are happy and you nurture the thoughts of living your desire.
If you love to drown in the thoughts of your desire, you want those thoughts to be happy, positive, fulfilling, filled with love and as confident as your energy.
When manifesting love, I imagine it as the most magical thing. I dare to get excited about it and I imagine finding all the magic I want in real life while I am living my relationship. I imagine needing nothing but happiness about being together and loving each other while nothing else matters. If you accept someone, accepting their entire life is the best choice you can make and all I care about is having an amazing time just being together.
When manifesting professional opportunities, I love being the person others love to work with because she delivers even greater results than imagined. I don’t necessarily focus on easily getting along with everyone I work with, as I accept a difference in opinions and admittedly, workplace relationships have had only limited importance to me. It isn’t that I want to be difficult but I live in the awareness of having immense patience for the people I want to work with but wanting to walk away from those I don’t; that type of awareness serves as a reminder to level the bumps in collaboration and be patient when knowing that a particular collaboration is ultimately beneficial. For all these reasons, I focus on the end result when manifesting professional accomplishments.
I have additional examples but I chose these two to compare and contrast.
If you reread the passages written above, you will see that the nature of all these thoughts is one of having my desire in my life. You can do the same.
If you practice seeing yourself living your desire, you will soon begin to gravitate towards those thoughts.
We cannot skip letting go. Remember that letting go is knowing your desire will manifest and living your life happily in the present moment. You don’t have to forget about your desire in order to let go but if you continue to nurture the thoughts of having it in your life, letting go will be easier because you will fill your heart with knowing and remove the need. Sometimes, visualizing once is enough to let go but if you like to think about having your desire, think about it. You will have gotten used to the idea of having it, remove the need for it to manifest in your life and then, it will appear.
This goes hand in hand with making too big of a deal of your desire (additional stories on the Big Deal phenomenon here and here).
When you are unable to think about receiving your desire without some sort of concern coming up inside you, chances are you have made a big deal out of it rather than just enjoying all the excitement related to it. Excitement and nervousness might feel the same initially but when you decide your desire belongs to you, start from there and stick to it, these moments of tingles passing through your body are excitement and energy that attracts.
People often say,
“I want to do this-and-that but I’m nervous/unsure.”
I say,
“It’s natural to share happiness so do it only if it makes you happy, without expecting anything in return.” But if you just know you are going to get something you want in return, good for you!
I put a lot of thought into wording this affirmation optimally in order to make it work in every possible context. It is meant to be used in moments of struggle to keep your mood up; it can repair any and every form of taking a detour into negativity.
Best thing about this affirmation is that using it whenever you want regardless of your mood constantly keeps you in a positive mood. When used that way, this affirmation allows you to understand why negative thoughts are insignificant and why you may feel free to write them off as such.
No matter how I feel right now, thank You that I got what I wanted.
No matter how you feel at any given moment, what you want belongs to you. No matter how you feel at this very moment, you got it. Be happy now because your dreams are truly yours.
