Feelings Creating Manifestations

Why is it sometimes so difficult to believe that you can have exactly what you want instead of settling for less?

You probably know what I mean, as the world attempts to preach that “dreams don’t come true,” “you should be realistic” or “you can’t have everything.” My guess is, you’ve heard those phrases throughout your life and in retrospect, your energy level may have simply dropped after facing these discouraging ideas.

Many go through life programmed by the beliefs of the world. However, the Law of Attraction states that going by your convictions and the feelings they produce will only produce even more of the same. Whatever we accept is what will be true for us while with the Law of Attraction, our power to create is limitless. By now, you know this in theory but do you truly believe it when it comes to your life and your own manifesting abilities?

Have you ever made excuses for not having something in your life, denying that your power to manifest it is absolutely endless? Trying to convince yourself you didn’t truly want the things you did?

Sometimes, distinguishing these feelings takes a little awareness. It takes work. However, being honest with yourself about your feelings and what you truly want in your life is a priceless gift. From there, you are free to accept yourself and know yourself better.

Have you ever tried to convince yourself you didn’t truly want the person you wanted simply because you thought you couldn’t manifest a relationship with them?

I had the opposite problem – several times, I wanted to convince myself of wanting someone in my life more than I actually did. Years ago, I wanted to convince myself that long-term relationships were my goal instead of short-term ones, as many around me continued to ask me about my breakups. This way of thinking was abandoned very fast (within days!) when I reminded myself how ridiculous it was to pay attention to anyone who thought they knew better about my feelings than I did. I knew that I would have different relationships once I decided so for myself. I didn’t know what I wanted in a long-term relationship back then…I only knew what I didn’t want. However, I ultimately knew that I would know and have one when it became my true desire.

Knowing yourself and feeling unconditional self-confidence as well as love is the key to owning your feelings. Our feelings are one of the most important tools we have in making the Law of Attraction work with us, as they produce tremendous energy that boosts our manifestations.

When manifesting most things (not everything), I either feel completely excited about it or completely relaxed. Both of those feelings have been natural to me throughout my life therefore experiencing them for anything in my life feels natural and makes me feel as if I already have it.

When I’m excited, I feel great; when I’m relaxed, I feel great. My happy thoughts exist in both of those states. Other times, my manifestation energy can be one of curiosity. Whenever I feel curious about how something would be, I imagine having it and imagine how it feels. Curiosity produces powerful energy in my case.

Many are used to discomfort about most things in life and you should abandon this feeling. It doesn’t make anyone happy. It’s just an addiction, an unproductive habit and it holds you back completely.

In order to manifest, one must distinguish between positive and negative feelings. Know what kind of state of mind makes you happy. Some never get excited yet they are happy. Others don’t like surprises while some people love them. Some of us love curiosity in life while others avoid it, using various ways to make sure their potential manifestation is something they truly wish to live – the first group might just dive in while the second will take their time getting to know their subject of interest (or simply, over-thinking things, which leads to nothing).

Many others don’t believe they could ever be happy.

What type are you?

What makes you happy?

When we speak about anything, we experience the emotions of the event as if it were happening right now. Speaking confidently about your ideal reality is an extremely helpful manifestation technique. When we speak about things as we want them to be, we feel them being so; we feel ourselves living our desired reality and we feel that we have our dreams. We never think about whether or not it’s on its way, even if it’s here already – we just know.


When We Think We Know How…

You probably have a specific idea of how a relationship is supposed to happen and what one should do when pursuing their love interest. Texting, calling and asking to see you on a daily basis, asking you to meet their friends, declaring the things those in love tend to declare, asking you to be exclusive, expressing harmless jealousy for your friends of the opposite sex… Sound familiar? You probably also create new ones along the way – after a date, you may feel that, if your potential partner is serious about you, they will take the next step as you envisioned it. In case they don’t, you’ll feel that your desire of being in a relationship with them isn’t manifesting and you’re doing something wrong.

Are you guilty of this way of thinking?

Now, when your desired relationship doesn’t take the path you’ve envisioned, you may start to lose hope that the Law of Attraction is working. You may begin to think your relationship will never happen.

Have you ever done this?

In order to manifest a relationship fast, you must only feel love for it, yourself, your significant other and focus on your ideal reality as you want it to be.

Resistance tends to happen with the question of how. “How will this happen?” “How can I manifest a relationship with this person if they have said this?” “How long will it take?” However, any kind of resistance towards receiving the relationship you want with any specific person means you are either not accepting them fully or are not emotionally strong enough to have a relationship with them right now. Emotional strength and stability are essential to being in a successful relationship and if you find yourself being upset at everything right now, you must work on your emotional strength.

Being continuously upset with the person you have chosen is ultimately a sign of strongly engaging in resistance.

Look at it this way – if someone wanted a relationship with you yet they were perpetually upset with you and even pointing out everything you were doing wrong, thinking they knew better about what makes you happy, would you want to be with them? Even if they didn’t say anything to you but you could see it in their face, feel them judging you, would you want to be with them?

The answer is no. And you know it. You’ve probably been there at one point or another. You know what I’m talking about.

The way to resolve this is accepting and loving the person you want to be in a relationship with for everything they are which is easier than you think. It starts with accepting yourselfWhen you love who you are, you are capable of loving others the same way. What we feel for others is what we feel for ourselves.

Today (and this has been true for years at this point), I don’t care if I haven’t spoken to someone in a week, a day or ever. If I want someone in my life, they are coming into it. I attract everyone with thoughts and feelings of love. Friends are attracted with love. Significant others are attracted with love. A dream career is attracted with love. Ideal physical appearance is attracted with love (I’ve done this, too, without watching my diet or working out). Favorable events and circumstances with those you love are attracted with love. Money and dream homes are attracted with love.

When actions of love are combined with related thoughts and feelings, my power is endless. When one attracts with love, attachment falls away naturally. Every single one of my moments experiencing what I call the Highest Energy State showed me this and manifested miracles into my life.

Heart energy is one of my strongest allies in manifesting anything and everything. I’ve had days, even weeks in the past, when my energy was low and I wasn’t even motivated to tap into my heart energy but as soon as it would come about spontaneously, it was such a gift that I wished I’d been living it every second. Motivation for becoming an expert in sending heart energy happened when I decided that every single day of my life would be exciting and interesting, even those recovery days off; every single day would be as happy as those when I was bursting with heart energy… And those days always brought miracles beyond my comprehension. That’s the way I want to feel every single day.

If I’m experiencing any kind of resistance, to me it is a sign that I haven’t put enough heart energy into my desire. When manifesting a specific person, I couldn’t quite see myself with them yet if I had any resistance. Usually, this resistance meant I didn’t truly wish to be with the person long-term and would give up on them shortly after the honeymoon period of the relationship ran its course. (Of course, these were my personal examples – many who experience resistance with a specific person break through it, manifest the relationships and see it last.) This or any kind of resistance was always connected to my past but also, my “paranoid” thoughts. In the past, I had an uncanny talent of assuming the worst about a boyfriend, all due to the fear of getting bored. I feared ending up in an ordinary relationship – the most powerful form of resistance on my end.

Since all feelings and manifestations of circumstances come from within, every fear of boredom truly meant I wasn’t as interested in myself as I wanted to be. In order to attract an amazing person, one must feel that they deserve one and therefore think of themselves as an amazing person who deserves another of the sort.

Being the person you consider impressive can start with doing what makes you feel good. Personally, I pride myself on my way of thinking, my patience, confidence, the friendship I offer, my honesty, talents, respect for everyone around me, love for animals, a continuous desire to be an even better person and helping others. I donate to charity, advise, empower and help whomever I can. I send heart energy to others on a daily basis. These factors make me feel good about myself. Thinking of everything I am exceptional at, feeling happiness and love for it automatically makes me happy to be deserving of living my dream life, whatever that may entail.

Many have asked me how exactly heart energy helps their relationships. Few think to use it when things are good and in a way, I understand. As long as things are good and you are grateful for this, they will continue to be good and get even better; however, if one doesn’t feel deserving of their life being so good and thinks that happiness doesn’t last, it won’t for them. Then, things go sour and that is when one usually wants back the happiness they thought they didn’t deserve. Reading it now, do you see any point to this way of thinking?

Why not just create happiness and keep it? Who are you not to deserve this in life? Everyone does and so do you.

However, if you wonder how heart energy could possibly fix things for you, here’s an example of how sending heart energy once went in my life.

I’d gotten into a bitter argument with someone I was seeing. Arguments are far from my nature and I tried to moderate this one as much as I was willing to. Then, what started to bother me was my behavior, not his. I cared about how I behaved and handled my affairs in life…so I apologized. I felt that I hadn’t really done anything wrong but I apologized because I cared about how I communicated (and finally learned what it means to truly care about someone, for better or worse). After I apologized, I decided things were going to be fine and we would experience a reboot of our special connection. So, I took care of my own happiness. I pampered myself – I had an amazing bubble bath, made an extravagant meal for myself, visited the hairdresser and enjoyed the compliments I was getting for it, went out with my friends and drowned in the music I loved. I reminded myself of how happy I was and how much I deserved to live the life I wished. I was grateful for my happiness with him and him making the next move. I visualized our happiness, sent heart energy and forgave both of us for our argument. I knew it would all happen.

Three days later, it was as if he’d turned into a different person. He was telling me how much he’d been thinking about me, what he’d been up to, singing me praises. Our argument had not only become the past but it seemed as if he never even remembered it happening. Things were great until I allowed my energy to drop again and focus on his character traits which I disliked. I was doing this because ultimately, I didn’t want to truly be in a relationship with him (again, that was me while you may want to be with the person you feel resistance for). While I did, things were going great but then, I began to look for an excuse to get out. At any point, the Universe may ask us if this person truly is who we want to be with and if an honest change of heart happens, we are allowed to say no at any time; however, if one gives up while they truly, deeply wish to be with a specific person, they are setting themselves up for continuously receiving less than they deserve in life. In this specific case, I was manifesting separate events, not a relationship… And it was great manifesting practice.

Now, truthfully, is there a good reason why you shouldn’t receive the relationship you wish to receive? No. Never. The only one standing in your own way is you.

Regardless of how far we progress in discussing different topics on this blog, manifesting love continues to be one of my favorites. Sometimes, I think manifesting love is what we live for – nothing can make us happier than the moments spent wrapped in the embrace of the person we love, looking into their eyes, knowing they feel the same.

Nothing feels better than fearlessly opening ourselves up to love, receiving magic in return and allowing ourselves to share our significant other’s world while letting them into ours.

Crossing Between Parallel Realities – Can You Feel the Shift?

With the Law of Attraction, we are able to shift between realities, manifest our desires and even change our memories of the past. We are able to choose and step inside the realities we wish to experience but if we pay close attention, we can feel ourselves to be on an actual way to a new reality.

I love shifting between realities. Feeling this shift gives me a unique rush of emotion, sights, sounds, taste and touch.

Several times, I’ve manifested individuals into my life without physically meeting them first. Seeing them on Facebook, briefly in passing or even on television, my decisions to experience them would lead to contact, conversation, friendships or even relationships. Then, I decided to explore what happens on the way to manifesting a specific person. I became attuned to the process.

Deciding I loved the process of bringing any specific person into my life, I asked the Universe to allow me to feel this change as it was occurring. I felt it through energy exchange, physical sensations and various visible (or invisible) signs.

Once, I felt the heart energy of a specific person I was manifesting. We hadn’t physically come into contact yet but I felt their heart energy touching me. While manifesting them, I changed the idea of what I wanted our relationship to be several times, making it impossible for them to come into my life fast. Undecided, I chose to accept my feelings, knowing they would appear once I finally decided what I wanted from them exactly. However, having sent so much heart energy towards them in the process ensured that they began sending it back to me and I began to wonder if they were aware of it. One can imagine a new friend, a new lover, a new collaborate or a new interesting individual they wish to have without putting a face to them but knowing how they would feel once the meeting would occur. I wondered if this person was aware we were attracting each other into our lives and I wondered who I was to them. Were they looking to find someone who understood them and began to respond to my heart energy/attracting me? Were they looking for someone to inspire them? A new friend? Or were they simply feeling like they were about to meet someone new, without thinking too much about who it would be but knowing the experience would be fascinating? Were they just expecting to meet new people or were they thinking about the specific traits in people they wanted to meet? Were they looking to fall in love?

Another time, one of my close friends manifested our entire friendship. We’d met several times and I had no idea we would end up as close as we are today. However, he wanted us to be friends and spoke to me as if we already were, a tactic I had used in the past but rarely saw others do the same. I loved his warm energy and sharp sense of humor, both of which caused me to want to discover more about him. All of this intrigued me and reminded me that individuals sometimes meet for various purposes and even different initial intentions but the stronger energy attached to a goal will decide on their specific relationship. One could argue I gained even more than I had asked for – a new friend. We met while looking for different things but one liked the other’s positive energy attached to the idea of becoming friends.

Case three, I wished to manifest a relationship with a specific person and asked to feel the shift in realities. Suddenly, I would feel myself used to receiving messages from him; this thrilling feeling resulted in talking to each other constantly. The change occurred within two days. When manifesting seeing him on a specific night, I could feel his presence in the room already. Then, I had a spontaneous visualization of him walking in the street nearby only to find out he had taken that specific way towards our place of meeting. Unable to explain these feelings, I chose to take them as signs that my desire was manifesting because I only accepted receiving my desire and nothing less. My determination was all I needed to rely on. I felt as if the two realities briefly overlapped but as soon as I began to feel an absence of loving feelings on my end, I knew I desired a different reality. Taking this specific leap was just as emotional but had already taught me I wished to feel a connection in a relationship stronger than I did with this specific person.

In another situation of manifesting a relationship with a specific person, I became so relaxed and so trusting about having my desire already that I let go completely. Every single step of the way made me happy and in retrospect, there were so few but with each and every one, I was receiving even more magic than I had asked for. I had completely forgotten about ego, pride and control. I finally understood what it was all about. The experiences of crossing between realities in this case were entirely effortless because I had opened my heart to them and this specific person fully. I loved preparing every single corner of my physical reality for the arrival of this manifestation. I knew it was mine and every day spent manifesting it was filled with love. From then on, I decided to create everything in this particular way. Today, every step of creation is absolutely electric in my experience.

Every possible reality you wish to live already exists – this concept alone is almost enough to make me feel secure in anything I wish to manifest. One’s infinite ability to create and manifest every single dream they have is a thought that evokes endless happiness in my life. Personally, I needed to embrace the process of figuring out what I wish to experience – a concept I judged myself by. In the past, I judged myself for not knowing what I wanted at times which never helped me figure it out faster. I judged myself for changing my mind at times as well as experiencing occasional paranoid thoughts, thinking that I needed to resolve everything at once. All I needed to do was embrace and love my desired goal, whatever that may be.

I began finding excitement in seeing how things would unfold instead of trying to control them. I began to love the “how,” an aspect of creation which causes much concern among many. All I knew was that no matter what happened, I already had my perfect reality; it already belonged to me, I loved it and was awaiting its arrival.

Positive signs mean that your desire is on its way – a lack of signs or what you may have perceived as “bad” signs in the past mean nothing. They are to be ignored and they never mean that your desire is out of reach. The perception of any circumstance or event is entirely up to you and what you wish to create is entirely in your hands.

I always choose to listen to myself rather than the world and I am grateful to have all the ability I need to create instead of having to rely on the ideas of the world for wisdom and advice. I choose the perception I have of myself and reality aligns. I choose it with love and manifest more love in return therefore loving every step of the way ensures for an exciting creation process.

Over-The-Top Visualizations and Letting Go – Love

When manifesting a specific person, I often chose a visualization that is slightly overboard in common sense. This type of visualization allows me to let go immediately yet gives me an indescribable rush of emotion.

This type of visualization is practically fantasizing but allows for putting a lot of emotion into it yet feeling it as if it were reality now, rendering another strong flow of emotion. As a result, this fantasy readily appears in my life, leaving me almost speechless and confused.

It wasn’t always necessary for me to do this. When the most basic relationship situation would manage to give me enough emotion, I focused on it. I could easily see myself with some people in day-to-day situations but visualizing more distant ones would allow me to feel more. I used over-the-top visualizations on individuals I felt I was attached to more than most, the ones I liked more than most. Over the years, simply imagining myself in regular relationships with them got to feel trite therefore I began taking my scenarios to the next level.

An over-the-top visualization represents an event you would love to experience with your specific person but you may only love the idea of it while the reality would scare you a little. This visualization usually describes an event in the future which you may even wish to experience one day but having the option of it now would be more than you would ever expect to receive.

I composed this theory when suddenly becoming involved with a man I shared a complicated past with but cared about deeply. Then, I shared an idea with one of my closest friends about living with him. This idea would give me a rush of emotion at the very thought of it. I didn’t even consider bringing it into my concrete reality as it was such a distant idea – I had just found it to be a very vibrant fantasy. I awoke my inner child and played with it. Then, something amazing happened.

I completely let go of the idea weeks later and moved on with my life, as this was just a game to me. However, he suddenly, almost immediately, began behaving differently. Even though we lived in different countries, he was asking to see me as if I lived around the corner. Even the thought of him behaving so differently gave me a rush of emotion – I had no idea what was going on! Since I spent many years in his native country and visited a lot, I was due for another visit a month later and had told him that. He was determined to meet me on the day of my arrival and we got to talking. From not seeing each other for months, we jumped into couple mode immediately, with him talking about our future in the way that matched my fantasies exactly. I had no idea what was going on – he seemed like a completely different person! Then, the same close friend of mine reminded me that I had manifested it. Completely forgetting I had ever said I found something amazing in the idea of living with him, she was wondering why I was in shock when he suddenly talked about our life together. She was hardly surprised but I learned how truly careful we needed to be about what we wished for because we might get exactly that, and more.

This relationship didn’t last as along the way, I failed to see myself happily coupled with him. I had changed my mind, which is okay to do. Regardless of how hard we tried, we eventually started arguing constantly and gave up. Oh, well. It was a great experience that gave me an insight into my manifesting powers and for that, I will always be grateful.

In other cases of the past, I would use over-the-top visualizations of my chosen partners and I falling madly in love within days…and vocalizing it. I used this tactic to a great extent four years ago; everyone was in utter disbelief at all the “I love yous” flying around in my relationships.

At the time, I found the idea of being open to love amazing and new. Having ended a long-term relationship, I was thrilled to see myself alive and well and open to finding an even bigger and better love.

In early 2011, I started one of the most intense relationships I had ever experienced. Our feelings for each other had been building up for months and once we started things up, everything became even more intense. Then, I told a friend that I was expecting an “I love you” within ten days. I received it six hours later. I wanted to know that magical feeling of being happily in love again. After this relationship ended, I started another one. We had become intensely close which only escalated once we became a couple. In this case, the first “I love you” came from me – the situation was perfect for it and I felt it. He responded immediately and we were both in disbelief of how magical and easy it all was. In retrospect, every relationship should be that easy, regardless of the specific elements one wants to manifest in it; the best part is, we all have the ability to make it happen.

Just last night, I was completely stricken with my realization of how much over-the-top visualizations help me. I attempted to visualize an event that seemed natural and grew bored. Then, I started visualizing an over-the-top event and suddenly felt light while experiencing a rush of positive emotion. I was completely filled with love and bliss, unable to fall asleep.

When using an over-the-top visualization, I never think about how to bring it into my reality, as it seems so distant and even slightly crazy. However, when these things arrive, they feel incredibly exciting yet natural. I am so used to seeing my life evolve rapidly and in epic directions that manifesting circumstances aligning in this way is what I and even my closest friends almost expect. When an over-the-top visualization is used, one brings their dream into the present moment effortlessly, in feeling and then in the experience.

The factor of letting go in over-the-top visualizations applies effortlessly when one truly chooses a visualization which represents a wild, dream-come-true end result in the future. Then, one never thinks about consciously bringing it into the now but simply feels that should this happen now, it would be the biggest thing in their life. It would truly be a dream-come-true.

I found that what I consider an over-the-top visualization works like a charm in my case.

A Love Manifestation in Someone Else’s Life

One of my closest friends recently manifested a relationship with a specific person. In this venture, we’d joined forces. A manifestation guide and solutions to details that appeared along the way, the harnessing of energy coming from both our sides and keeping focus on the end goal resulted in waves of success.

My friend has known her current man for approximately two months. They met unexpectedly, through mutual friends. Beforehand, she’d been wishing to meet a man worthy of being in a relationship with and throughout our conversations, she’d defined this ideal man as warm, loving, gentle, easygoing and nurturing. Shortly after, she met two interesting individuals but decided neither of them were it. Refusing to give up or allow her vibration to lower, she was simply grateful for meeting them at all.

The exact list of qualities her new man had to possess allowed her to keep a clearer focus than she even realized. After meeting each of the two preceding candidates, I would ask her if she thought this was it and both times, she was unsure but completely at ease. A part of her even started to feel that being alone was what she truly needed; then, one afternoon, she informed me of meeting someone new. Shortly after, she decided that things would work out between them.

Her communication with him continued and soon, they’d made a movie date. It went so well that texting followed the hug good night but then, she suddenly feared she had said something wrong. In her mind, the texting had gone awry on her side but in mine, nothing was wrong as he continued to write to her. The two of us joined forces and gradually changed the energy she was giving to the situation.

My contention was that she’d said something wrong only if she decided so.

If she chose to see the situation as a light one and decided it was bringing her closer to her end goal, it would be so. Law of Attraction responds to our feelings and the energy we emit therefore I suggested she focused on how happy she was that their relationship was coming to life. Unsure, she would proceed to say good night to me, too. The next morning, she informed me that her feeling of having “messed things up” continued, resulting in further action on her part which perpetuated that belief. Reading her descriptive messages, I became even more convinced that details only gain magnitude if we choose to assign it to them.

My new contention stated that what she saw as a big deal didn’t have to be a big deal to him and won’t be unless she decided so.

All of us assign different meaning to different things in life. One can obsess about a text they’d received while the idea behind it may have been completely irrelevant in the sender’s mind. I once threw up after too many Mojitos in front of my date and thought it was the last I’d ever hear from him until he made a surprise visit shortly after. When I told him that I had wondered if he was put off after my amateur drinking episode, he said he hadn’t thought about it much since. We all decide what we give meaning to and I’d decided my friend needed to only give meaning to her end goal – a relationship with the man she’d chosen. Soon, she managed to replace the majority of her discomfort with relaxation and decided to forget everything she thought she’d worded wrongly. Then, she added the main ingredient – honesty.

Feeling comfortable doing so and completely relaxed, she embraced full honesty in her approach to him and told him why she’d behaved the way she did. Her delivery was honest and light. After he saw that she possessed this rare quality while being loving, spontaneous and feminine, she became irresistible to him.

I’d defined openness of heart and the wish to give love to everyone and everything as her natural manifestation strength as well as general tendencies. In my opinion, she didn’t need to visualize unless it came to her spontaneously (I am much more of a natural visualization practitioner – one must select the techniques they enjoy the most) and her need to feel love and bliss every second of the day would ensure she attached positive emotion to her desire and let it go in order to manifest rapidly. Defining one’s natural manifestation tendencies helps produce the feeling of effortless results. Her openness of heart directed her to a completely honest place, a place she continues to feel more comfortable in than she ever thought possible.

Another interesting date situation in which we’d joined energies involved his tardiness. She was unsure what had happened and I’d said everything was fine. Expecting him to come over but starting to get worried due to his absence, she was unsure of what to think. I felt calm about it and thanked the Universe for him making it safe to their date. Then, I told her he’d message within the hour and let her know he was on his way. Do you know when his message came? About a minute later and followed by a legitimate reason for his tardiness.

From then on, their communication and dates ran smoothly, even when a few small disagreements came up. “Smoothly and enjoyably” was her goal with all her attention directed towards it. Shortly after only being grateful for being together and seeing a smooth flow, their relationship became effortless. Smooth sailing manifests when it becomes all we see, regardless of what happens. When obstacles fail to be perceived as obstacles, they disappear.

How did all this make me even happier?

Manifesting help, circumstances or an end result for someone else turns out to be one of the most rewarding experiences of my life every single time I do it. Making someone I love happy equals (and equates) making myself happy. However, it also enables me to let go. In case I’m manifesting something I struggle to harness positivity towards, focusing on someone else’s goal and knowing I can help manifest it fills me with love, lightness and confidence. I have always been able to manifest for those I love and I use that gift often.

Serial Boredom in Relationships

Various concerns may appear when manifesting relationships. Some might doubt their ability to use the Law of Attraction successfully; others might hold feelings of anger or annoyance towards specific people they are manifesting while others could face the challenge of trying too hard to manifest without feeling that their desire is already a part of their life.

My concern has always been – what if I get bored?

Whenever I want to create anything, I never doubt my ability to do so. Occasionally, I need to take a few days to get used to the feeling of having it in my life – I need to allow it to feel natural to me. However, I used to absolutely dread manifesting a specific person and feeling stuck as a result.

Boredom is a feeling that used to mean absolute fear to me. Whereas I’ve seen many individuals focus on having a relationship with someone they love and be happy, I had mistakenly focused on the fear of getting stuck in an ordinary, grey relationship. Unmistakably, this I ended up manifesting more than once – a relationship would start the way I wished but turn grey fast. Not just uneventful but as severe as grey, leaving me feeling stuck, kicking and screaming to break free.

Occasionally, I wondered if I had suffered from uniqueness. Did I truly think I was so much more interesting than the men I was manifesting? Or had I simply manifested the exact same set of circumstances every time to ensure that a relationship would be short-lasting? Was I chasing a high or true, permanent happiness?

Ultimately, I realized that it didn’t matter. Whatever I was doing, my fear of boredom in relationships with anyone was preventing me from experiencing happiness. That boredom was the problem. Another problem I had faced was realizing that love can disappear but not everyone around me agreed.

Without trying to demean any heartfelt advice I have ever gotten, I found that some of my friends who tend to be in long-term relationships sometimes lessened the feeling of love I had felt for my exes with their words. Those whose love relationships lasted for years would tell me I didn’t know what love was simply because I felt it for short periods of time. I have no resentment towards them – they were simply trying to help but were telling me their story because it was all they knew.

Years of research have showed me that love can and does disappear from one day to another whenever it does, be that day two months or two years into the relationship.

The length of our love relationships depends on us; our energy can make or break any relationship we enter. Our thoughts are energy and they create our lives; one is able to dismantle their love relationship just as easily as they had once created it.

All my love relationships which had ended only months in were manifested that way; every one of those times, I had consciously manifested a love relationship for a specific period of time. Knowing that someone wasn’t “the one” didn’t stop me from living a relationship experience with them. In the end, why not? We were happy for as long as it lasted and who in the world would say no to happiness?

In retrospect, my fear of boredom might have encouraged me to enter relationships mainly with those I saw myself being happy with for short periods of time. I figured, “If we were together for just a short time, we can never get terminally bored.” Today, I see things differently. I see the upsides of long-term relationships instead of their downsides. I feel that I can make a long-term relationship exciting because I have the desire to do so.

I know that our relationships can be whatever we choose for them to be instead of having to be a certain way and while researching my personal relationship resistance, I knew that I had to observe my past behaviors in a loving way. Emotions such as embarrassment, fear of losing your partner or constantly dissecting the negative sides of the relationship will result in resistance only strengthening and never fading.

The idea of having to change our own feelings for our external world to change is completely true. The time and the focus placed towards achieving this goal will be worth anyone’s effort.

Boredom had created more boredom for me while love always creates more love… For anyone.

Settling For What You Want… Nothing Less

When you love yourself fully, madly and unconditionally, you will only accept the notion of receiving exactly what you want… Nothing less. If necessary, you will keep moving forward with manifestation until you get there.

This principle has been used by several Law of Attraction practitioners and I have used it since childhood. Only accepting what I want in life because it’s what I deserve always came to me naturally. The idea of not being able to have everything I wanted felt beyond unnatural – the only question was whether or not I wanted to live a particular experience.

I have covered some of these things in the past but I continue to learn and look for ways to pass on these concepts to others. Every day, I understand more and more why the Law of Attraction is difficult for many to grasp. While listening to them, I look for new ways to explain what needs to be brought into awareness in order to improve. The rules remain – the internal forms the external. Thought forms life.

When reading some of the Law of Attraction materials or even my former blog posts, they can all sound exactly the same. When one’s manifestation abilities come naturally, they may read these materials and understand exactly what is being said but what about those who simply need a small nudge to awaken their manifesting abilities which we all carry inside us?

My personal examples on this blog exist to encourage others to focus on the principles behind manifestation which can materialize into different or similar events in their own lives. I am confident that these specifics are continuously providing others with more understanding of the Law of Attraction.

Today, I want to explore the idea of only receiving what we wish to receive… Nothing less.

I deserve to have everything that makes me happy because I deserve to be happy. I make others happy because I intend to do so. I inspire others because I intend to do so and I manifest constant inspiration for myself. I am loved, surrounded by love and I attract love every day. I manifest money because it enables me to have and do what I desire as well as help others by donating it. I manifested job offers out of thin air and felt that I deserved them because I’ll always have a lot to offer. I feel amazing about being a vegan because I love animals beyond words. I focus on the people I consider to be great because recognizing greatness of another means recognizing your own. The option of having what I want is an effortless, natural idea to me. When I achieve the feeling of knowing that what I desire is mine, I stay in it – this is a unique energy to be wrapped in. The best part is, no one evoked it inside me but myself alone. Even when the outside world doesn’t show that my desire is manifesting, I know it is because I know how powerful my thoughts are. I only accept the creation coming from my positive thoughts which leads to my desires manifesting unconditionally. I only accept my inner courage and knowing.

Remember this – unless it came from a true change of heart, settling for less equates giving up on your dreams. Sometimes, what we think we want is not what makes us happy in the end. When one believes they deserve to have what they want, they automatically believe that everyone in the world deserves the same. When they share their manifestations with others, they’re never bragging but instead, share their stories to help others learn as much as possible about manifesting their own dreams; also, to inform them that manifesting dreams into reality is possible and even easy.

Without repeating that our power is limitless, we need to be aware of creation starting and ending with ourselves. Like attracts like therefore confidence can only attract situations in which we feel even more confident. Same goes for chaotic and painful thoughts which attract even more of the same and every loving thought and action we send out into the Universe. This is why it is so important to stay happy; that way, we attract even more happiness, including the specific things we desire.

Many are plagued by the fear of failing to manifest their desires. One of the most difficult concepts to grasp may be believing in a thought without physical evidence of it creating but this is the primary law of the Universe. Thought always precedes matter and if you look back, you will see plenty of evidence to support this law. Throughout your life, you have known that some things would happen and they did – same goes for everything you know every day. You know you’re living in your house, you know you have your parents, friends, job, clothes and your physical body. In the same way, you can decide what you wish to manifest and it will appear in your life.

Some struggle with unexpected curve balls on their manifestation journey. The good news is, they can easily be removed. Why was your curve ball thrown at you? According to one of the basic Law of Attraction rules, if you decide it came for a good reason, it will be so. If you decide that you are failing to manifest your desire, it will be so.

However, when you are unconditionally focused on your goal and only accept the option of receiving it, curve balls either stop being thrown or you simply refuse to view them as such. You refuse to see any obstacles because the Universe can only give you what you desire and nothing less.

When clarity and focus on your end goal are all that you give attention to, nothing can derail you. To those who have yet to achieve unconditional belief in their ideal end result manifesting, curve balls will serve as confusion which will then manifest into even more chaos.

Curve balls are thrown when we are impatient or not 100% comfortable with what we desire. This has happened to me in the past and after finally relaxing about it, I realized why my energy had caused those events. In my case, it was because I was trying to manifest something I didn’t truly want out of love. Do you love what you are wishing to manifest? Our personal energies are balanced with trust, immense trust in the Universe to give us what we desire so strongly. Yes, going through a curve ball situation is stressful and can increase impatience; however, when our focus lies on our unconditional happiness, with or without manifesting our desire (an energy clearing way of thinking), we can finally relax.

Today, my former curve balls seem insignificant to me and I wished I had felt that way when they arrived. If you need to take some time to decide what you want, be OK with that. Thank the Universe for helping you become the person who knows what they want as if it’s already done. 

When we realize that all we have today is this moment, with everything we already have in our lives, all the love we already receive on a daily basis, everything we are grateful to have and would never want to lose… We can relax. Do you want to feel miserable this very moment or do you want to be as happy today as you will be once your desires have manifested?

What about those who feel undeserving of amazing things in life? They are unhappy with who they are. Are you happy with who you are? I am. I am an amazing friend, I manifested my ideal weight, I am building a career I wish to have, I have always donated money to charity and the idea of living my wildest dreams was something I became used to. Listen to yourself. If you suffer from the idea of being undeserving, step one is to use the Law of Attraction to become a person you will love being.

It all starts from self-belief which can be manifested with love but also, one must love their manifestation tools. A friend of mine uses an evidence journal to record the signs of her desire manifesting and while doing this, the certainty grows in her mind. If she gets stuck, she seeks help and receives it. Another close friend of mine chose to feel love for everyone and everything, consciously sending out heart energy and only visualizing when it comes to her spontaneously. Actually, she hasn’t decided to do this – it is a way of manifesting that effortlessly makes her happy.

Listen to yourself.

Here’s a common mistake – while looking for a job, one may go about it in two ways. Some might keep focus on having their dream job while using the job search process as inspired action of getting to their goal; others will likely focus on the job search process and complain about there being no job positions available for them which will lead to more of the same. Have you done any of these things in the past? Do you deserve your dream job or a continuous job search? The choice is yours.

Are You On A Higher Frequency Than Your Ex?

Today, I want to talk about the (usually short) time period when two people in a relationship are on different energetic levels.

What happens when the person you’re manifesting love with has to get on your energetic level and not the other way around?

Imagine that you are manifesting love with an ex (or someone new) who is now unhappy and frustrated in their own life. You see them for who they are, you see how valuable they are but for many reasons, they are in a bad place in their own mind and life. They were happy the first time you were together but now, they aren’t. On the other hand, you are happy because your life is amazing, you have so much, you know and love the Law of Attraction and now, you are even happier because you are about to get back together with your ex – you have decided to do this and it is happening! They need to change their thoughts and life in order to become happy and get on your frequency because now, you are on different ones. Sending heart energy and positive feelings to them will help raise them up because the loving energy of another person makes all of us feel good.

You are already happy but your ex has to become happy in order to get on your frequency again.

I once manifested a relationship with a man who was frustrated with the dishonesty of the people in his life and the uncertainty of his future. He was a kind and loving person who lacked confidence and the ability to create his own happiness and our mutual happiness lasted shortly. When his personal dissatisfaction prevailed, I’d done nothing to change it. Had I not decided to end our relationship, I would have been able to create more happiness in his life the way I’d done in mine. Had I loved him more, the way he deserved, my love would have helped him discovered his purpose. This is why it is utterly important to give nothing but loving energy to one’s relationship – you never know when you’ll move to two different frequencies if you continue to rest in negativity. Years later, he started to learn about creating his own happiness, respecting himself and loving his life. I love being his friend and I am giving our friendship more love than I ever did to our relationship.

When seeing someone we love unhappy, we tend to hold on very tightly and are relentlessly trying to make them happy. The trick is to just let go and simply love them. Influence them with loving energy.

I’d learned this lesson in practice and wish I had known it a lot sooner.

If you are failing to feel enough love for the person you want to manifest a relationship with, you simply have to learn how to love them. If you can’t imagine loving them now, when you just want to manifest them back, chances are you wouldn’t love them forever even if they came back today. Love and faith go hand in hand and by faith, I mean absolute knowing that you and the person of your choice are meant to be together and being happy about it. Forgive them for their mistakes and love them for everything they are.

Sometimes, it is a mere understanding of things that raises your vibration and enables you to let go. When you have a specific goal in mind, everything else happens in order to make your goal manifest.