Using Props in Manifesting

I find props to be very useful to manifesting, as they immediately provide a relaxing feeling and the ability to let go.

Law of Attraction responds to who we choose to be and how having what we want makes us feel. Props are an amazing tool because they create the feelings of having our desires inside of us.

When manifesting money, some use abundance checks. Filling out a blank check, self created or from a downloaded template, will generate the feeling of wealth. Writing the desired number into a hard copy of your bank account statement will eventually make you feel that it’s possible to have it – this is what “seeing is believing” really means.

Many years ago, I wanted my own laptop. I was in college and used the home computer on a regular basis but more and more, I could see myself typing up notes in class and writing assignments from my favorite coffee shop. I imagined my laptop to be the connection between my work and the world. One day, I borrowed a friend’s laptop to do a presentation – she had generously allowed me to take it to class she wasn’t attending and then return it. While I was using it, I thought of how great it was to have my own laptop I could bring anywhere. Hers was the perfect size and had everything I needed. I loved using it and while doing so, even just carrying it to class, I felt what it was like to have my own laptop. This was the perfect example of the way props allow us to assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled. Less than a month later, my father surprised me with a new laptop.

When visualizing being on a date with a person I had set my sights on, I once naturally saw myself wearing a specific outfit. This was unplanned; it was a spontaneous idea I had while visualizing but I decided to embrace it. After having a strong visualization of the date, I purposely wore the said outfit the following day and suddenly, it reminded me of a date I had… Which hadn’t even happened yet!

It happened a week later.

When manifesting love, you may choose to wear a ring on your left ring finger; it doesn’t necessarily mean you wish to get married but this particular prop will make you feel that you already are in the relationship you desire.

Once, I wanted to manifest away a pregnancy scare. There are many positive things to be said about having children but many negatives ones about having them before due time and at that particular point in my life, I was not about to take my chances. Often, the fear of experiencing pregnancy before its due time may cause our bodies stress which then causes the body to answer accordingly and prolong the fear. Fear can become a self-fulfilling prophecy and every time it appears, it must be loved away with appropriate thoughts and feelings. When my fear of the issue appeared, I chose to put my faith in having the desired outcome instead. With a little belief, I became completely unconcerned of what date it was. This gave a clear signal to the Universe of my expectations. Needless to say, everything worked out as I wanted it to.

There is also something I like to call a “mental prop.” By this, I mean a prop that helps redirect one’s thoughts.

A prop for redirecting your thoughts once fear strikes in is thinking about the opposite. Fear can fill your mind with the opposite of what you want and once it creeps in, I suggest that you love it away. Love is the opposite of fear. If you fear not getting your dream job, feel what it will be like having your dream job, spending workdays in your wonderful new office, completing inspiring and fulfilling tasks. If you fear that the person you want to be with doesn’t want you back – imagine them wanting you back, calling you, texting you, seeing you every day. How does having what you want make you feel? This is what the Law of Attraction will respond to. Keep the idea of opposite in your mind as a mental prop; you’ll be amazed to see how well it can work as well as raise your vibration more than you realize.

Props add an extra kick to manifesting. Suddenly, having your desire seems possible and real. This feeling is not only a great mood and confidence boost but also essential to successful manifestation.


Manifesting Love and Relationships Unscrambled

Manifesting love and relationships can be challenging which doesn’t make any sense. Love and relationships are separate things, especially in today’s world – love, by nature, is one of the happiest manifestations one can experience in their lifetime while relationships can be difficult to maintain.

When it comes to the Law of Attraction, it is my firm belief that in order to successfully manifest relationships, one must view them as easily and happily as they view the idea of love.

It is possible to use the Law of Attraction to manifest any kind of relationship you desire with the person you desire but you only if you see it through. Even when things get difficult, you must do the work to bring yourself back on track. This takes killer self-confidence which you are capable of obtaining. When manifesting relationships with specific people, you may fall into despair at the manifestation pace, negative thoughts or any other factor. Then, you may be in the category of those still unsure whether they truly want the person they set their eyes on due to some difficult experiences with them yet momentarily being unable to forget them. Whatever your thoughts are, I want to share some of my personal experiences and opinions of manifesting relationships based on the past seven years.

To begin with, who do you choose to be in a relationship with?

We all want excitement yet we want a relationship to sail smoothly. This takes a special kind of feeling but who do we easily feel it for? Usually, this idea is related to being with a person who is exactly (or close enough to) what we wanted…but are they the person you want or do they simply possess the ideas and the behaviors you wished to have in any specific partner you set your eyes on?

Too many times, I’ve seen people let go of the person they truly love simply because he or she refused to change specific personality traits. Painful as it is to say this, those who expected their partners to change were not always keen on changing themselves while in any relationship situation, both parties contribute to any given problem. I’ve been on both sides of the problem in the past and an additional one – I once tried my hardest to love a person who simply fulfilled my ego needs and of course, the relationship ran past its due course and died a painful death. At the same time, there was another person in my life I loved but didn’t want to be in a relationship with. Complicated, right? However, over the years, I have only become even more convinced that love and relationships truly were two separate things but they can be synchronized and they can both be easy.

So, how does the Law of Attraction come into place in manifesting and experiencing relationships?

Case in point, I was projecting the energy which was the opposite of what I wished to create in every single way. One of the two behaved the way I wanted while the other was who I wanted… But he didn’t behave as I wished him to. Eventually, I criticized the one who behaved as I wanted just as much as the other, effectively going back to square one. There is no reason to think that the person you want to be with is simply beneath you because as a result, you will be less of a person you need to be in order to manifest a happy relationship, as the energy we project onto another we also project onto ourselves.

I deemed some people relationship-ready while others I deemed the opposite. In reality, I was looking for excuses not to be with the person I truly wanted to be with, leading them to never wanting to fully commit to me either. You may choose who you want but never look down on anyone, for any reason…and I had looked down on him. I thought of him disposable. Years later, the person I loved was still in my life and I decided to experience the best in him. I began to entertain the idea of us becoming a couple and we became closer than ever. This lasted for as long as it made us both feel good. Then, we naturally went our separate ways. No hurt feelings, no arguments, no tears. I loved him but knew he wasn’t the one for life and the Law of Attraction responded accordingly – we enjoyed our connection, then separated. The last thing I wished for our relationship was to have a calm separation, which it did. Today, I wish him well but never entertain more than a few seconds of thought when it comes to him, as my once strong feelings faded a long time ago.

But what about those who still, or once again, wish to live a happy relationship with the person they love? Whether this is a new person in your life, someone you are involved with or your ex, you will achieve results if you drop the unnecessary amounts of ego and then, achieve a seemingly impossible task of combining the love and the relationship into one. If you are still manifesting a relationship with the person you love, you may be holding a grudge over any unpleasant, hurtful experience you ever had with them. However, thinking about those hurtful experiences will not improve your relationship but bring more of the same. In order to resolve this, it is necessary to stop focusing on all the hurtful experiences one had with the person they are inviting back into their life.

Love is necessary for manifesting anything and making it last. Whether it is a career, money, a relationship or anything else, nothing will become a permanent fixture in your life unless you love it.

Now, you may ask what to do if you love a person but wish they would treat you better than they have so far, whether you are in a relationship with them already or are manifesting it right now?

The answer is…

When you truly love a person for who they are, with all their qualities and all their faults, you will never ask them to change. There’s a clear difference between wanting to improve your relationship with a person and wanting to blatantly try and change them. When wishing to improve your relationship with someone, you wish for the both of you to be happier, whether you realize it or not. When trying to simply change a person, you are only looking out for your own interests.

Who do you love enough to want to make them happy while wanting to allow them to make you happy? Is this person already in your life? Be honest. Who is it?

On the other end, how do you know that someone doesn’t make you happy? It is when you don’t want to find yourself sharing happiness with them. You want to share it with someone else or at least someone different. This new person may have any kind of personality in the world but if you can love them, you will want to share your world with them.

I see people fighting for love – that cannot be denied. However, I see twice as many fighting ego battles, digging deep into the insults instead of thinking about everything worthy of love in the person they desire. This is often the case when one is manifesting an ex back into their life or when one wishes to become an exclusive partner of the person they are involved with casually. In these two cases, many hurtful experiences may arise but if the person you have this type of relationship with is the one you want, you must become strong using only love.

The golden rule of insults – the name you have been called by another describes the opinion this person has of themselves, not you or anybody else.

Those who are confident never judge; the insecure ones look for counterparts and if needed, they attempt to bring others down to their level. Give them love and give yourself respect or vice versa. It will come back to you.

Unfortunately, this also means that every time you looked down on your ex for upsetting you, answering to insults with negative thoughts, they managed to drag you down to their level. Your ex might have made a mistake but by entertaining negative thoughts, you made the same mistakes you judge them for.

The only way to rise above is to feel love for yourself, then feel love for your ex and bring them back up with you. You must put the hurt feelings behind and stop living in the past. You must love the new relationship you have in your mind for the two of you, one of nothing but love and happiness.

Are you ready to embrace the relationship with the person you truly want? Because embracing it means releasing your other options, if you have kept any, safety nets and idea of settling for less than what you truly want away from yourself. It means being ready to be their partner, be in an entirely new relationship with them and be happy with them, all of which you can manifest. You must distinguish a person you truly love, for better or worse, from the people you find manageable.

Since relationships are such difficult experiences for many, these individuals opt for a candidate they can handle – one who will offer them some kind of security. Choosing someone other than the person you want and starting a relationship with them doesn’t make you enlightened; being with someone you know you don’t truly love comes out of need while being with someone you love comes out of want. Relationships are meant to be wanted, not needed, as we are perfectly capable of living and breathing whether or not we are in one. We already possess everything we need to stay alive but the questions is, what and who do we want? Only a loving mindset will allow us to be with the person we truly want, as we naturally want to give them all of ourselves. A desperate and needy mindset an a loving mindset are so different that when entering the latter, you can barely remember what it was like to be in the former…it simply feels like a lifetime ago.

Once you become ready to embark upon using the Law of Attraction to manifest a relationship with the person you want, you may face several challenges. There is an easy way to resolve all of them.

Some struggle with time. Even though you want to manifest your dream relationship now, you can still make it happen sooner than you think. In the meantime, cherish your life just as it is and make your visualizations so powerful that they simply become effortless. Time serves as an amazing reminder of why we love, like, cherish or value someone. This is why the time apart makes us miss and remember the reasons we love another person. Enjoy the process because, guess what, you already have everything you need which makes you free to live and be happy in anticipation of the day you will get what you want!

Some struggle with thoughts of their existing relationship (or a lack thereof) with the person they love. We hate to admit it but negative thoughts can be comforting. When suspecting that something is wrong, a part of you may wish to be proven right in order to end the suspense and finally relax. They want an excuse to give up because it’s easier that way. In relationships, suspense is a negative feeling and we are usually willing to do whatever it takes to end it and return to security. In today’s world, it is also very difficult to get used to being happy. However, you have to try and once you do, you will find it natural. The reason it feels so foreign is because happiness is impossible to achieve without being yourself which is a rarity in today’s world. You must be free to be yourself and love who you are. Love is more than you think in every way, which is why so few understand it. You must view love and relationships as a feeling, an energy, instead of viewing them as a set of behaviors. Love is a feeling and you choose who you share it with but only after you share it with yourself.

Some struggle with thoughts of what could go wrong once they have the relationship they wanted. When manifesting a relationship, only think about the relationship. Do not think about its end unless you wish to manifest it. Allow yourself to sink into your visualizations, experiencing and feeling them as real as possible. Then, they will translate into your life as soon as possible.

Some struggle to leave the past in the past. This notion encompasses many problems of many relationships but since when is living in the past a beneficial experience? Unless you wish to recreate a positive manifestation from your past, leave it where it belongs. Never think about the past unless you truly wish to bring it into the present. 

Know what you want. Prepare for happiness. Imagine the loving relationship you want with the person you want and be ready to experience it. Live in the present.

Above all, know that you are getting what you want. Unconditionally believe it’s already yours because you are the only one responsible for obtaining it. 

Why the Process of Creation Makes Me Happy

There are many amazing things to be said about intentionally creating your reality using the Law of Attraction. Turning an idea of a life you want to live into the life you were meant to live is a magical sensation of pure happiness; having experienced it, I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Everything we love having in our lives, we have drawn to us effortlessly. In my case, failing to draw something into my life at amazing speed meant that I either didn’t want it enough or didn’t love it enough. Then, I would decide whether or not I do and when I did, it would manifest. I have not only been creating but also studying creation and the Law of Attraction, discovering great love for the concept itself.

Here are the reasons why.

Creation gives me confidence. If you ever failed to manifest something, the lack of confidence that you could was one of the main reasons for it. When you know you can and will it with all your might and love, you will create what you desire to live. Every single time I create, I feel lovingly powerful.

In order to be confident, we must hold the highest possible appreciation of ourselves. Imagine yourself being as beautiful as the person you deem the most beautiful in the world. Be grateful for your amazing intelligence, sense of humour and for every trait you possess which adds to your appeal.

Creation gives me new ideas. Constantly, I think of new things in life I’ve been meaning to try and had forgotten about. Now, they effortlessly come back to me every day.

Creation has taught me the importance of forgiveness. I used to be unforgiving, unconditionally. I never forgave and rarely asked for forgiveness. That was then.

Creation allows me to spread my knowledge to others. I often think that the most amazing aspect of Law of Attraction is that everyone in the world holds equal power to manifest their dreams and desires. Helping others achieve their goals is one of the most rewarding parts of being familiar with energy and creation.

Seeing Others Manifest What We Want

Whenever I was manifesting a love relationship, I got excited at the sight of happy couples because each and every one of them reminded me of my relationship in one way or another. Famous couples, couples that looked nothing like my then boyfriend and I but their PDA reminded me of ours, couples who talked about each other while their words described how I felt about my relationship… All of them made me recognize some kind of similarity with my own relationship, causing positive emotion in me and manifesting my own relationship circumstances easily.

When in this state of ultimate happiness, the amount of time from deciding I would manifest a relationship with someone to the exact manifestation happening was practically non existent. I knew that every relationship I ever wished to experience was mine from the beginning and both of us would almost immediately start expressing the fondness we had for each other. Before I knew it, we were both bragging about becoming a couple.

Why is it important to be happy when seeing others have what we want?

When seeing a happy couple, your first thought might be jealousy but you must overcome it. When we do, we are filled with love towards others, ourselves and our lives… And this is when we manifest. Seeing another couple makes us see that manifesting love is possible and this should give us comfort in knowing we can do the same.

If you are truly manifesting a relationship from the heart, you will naturally be happy when seeing happy couples. If happiness is not the feeling you are experiencing, your heart is not in your relationship fully which is an inner circumstance you can change. More importantly, this is a circumstance you must change because if you choose to be in a happy relationship, you are meant to receive it and when having something, we are just as happy for others experiencing the same thing.

Manifesting a State of Mind

Over the past year, I have asked the Universe to put me in the state of mind where I am able to either let go in order to manifest, reach the Highest Energy State or simply, relax.

By stating what I wanted to feel, I set out an intention of feeling good, knowing it was all I needed in order to manifest my desires. The next step meant allowing myself to relax.

There were times when the state of mind I wished to reach was a failed manifestation attempt, as I held onto my desire too tightly. Other times, I managed to relax without effort. There were times when I reached the desired state of mind or heart but was interrupted by someone. Other times, I remained in the desired state for long periods of time.

Eventually, I managed to relax easily once I realized the problem – I had lost the grasp of what it was that made me happy.

Sometimes, we take specific actions or nurture specific ways of spending our time not because we enjoy them but simply because we have gotten used to them. Habit does not always equal happiness and most of the time, it turns into the very opposite. Knowing what truly makes us happy means knowing ourselves. This is one of many reasons and explanations why we attract what we are and why it is necessary to make what we wish to receive a part of who we are.

Something as simple as the right piece of music can raise the level of our happiness, bringing everything we love to us.

Asking the Universe to help me relax was my way of asking for guidance. Personally, I avoid asking for specific guidance on which action to take – I know what to do when I feel it. I know the right action to take when my heart tells me to because once we learn to listen to our hearts, we are on the way to unfolding a new reality with manifestations that are magical beyond our belief.

Once we begin to see the magic manifesting in our lives, our state of mind and heart has already changed to better and for good.

The Highest State of Energy – Part II

I am hoping to explain how the feelings of love amplify visualizations and therefore, change the course of events.

The Highest Energy State, as explained in the previous article, produces an almost transcending physical experience in some of its cases but a high level of contentment and calm while feeling an avalanche of love has the exact same effect and we should hold on to that feeling for as long as possible.

Aligning a desired manifestation, whatever it may be, with the sensation of the Highest Energy State can be done with just a little practice leading up to it.

The first step is to dare to imagine things as you wish them to be. Your dreams, those dreams you deeply wish to live, can be experienced as long as you are able to visualize them. Then, as you visualize, the overwhelming feeling of love and fulfilment as well as the feeling of living a miracle will translate into the manifestation of the imagined event in your life.

When so much love is put into a specific visualization, chances are we will be able to “let it go,” allowing it to manifest as rapidly as anything else in life. After experiencing life’s magic, we are happy and grateful for it while being increasingly motivated to continue living in happiness. That same magic can be created and manifested with the help of visualization. In life, once an event is experienced in our reality, we do not question it ever being experienced; the same kind of sensation is followed by visualization in the Highest Energy State when done so strongly and completely that the return to our physical world is almost shocking.

The only question is, what is it that truly makes us happy?

What do we wish to experience?

Are we prepared to find out?

The after effect of the minutes or hours spent in the Highest Energy State is going to be witnessing the forming of a new world around you one step at a time.

While in the Highest Energy State, one is able to detach themselves from the result and draw their desires to them by visualizing so realistically that they experience results on the spot.

While being in this state, I have manifested events down to the exact words being said, the exact places in which they occurred and the exact songs playing in the background. Even if a thought of questioning anything in this particular state comes, the feeling of love is so strong that it simply does not allow significance to any other frequency. Love is the highest frequency of all.

Neville Goddard wrote,

“In order to intelligently operate the law of consciousness, it is necessary to understand the relationship between the conscious and the subconscious. The conscious is personal and selective; the subconscious is impersonal and non-selective. The conscious is the realm of effect; the subconscious is the realm of cause. These two aspects are the male and female divisions of consciousness. The conscious is male; the subconscious is female. The conscious generates ideas and impresses these ideas on the subconscious; the subconscious receives ideas and gives form and expression to them. By this law – first conceiving an idea and then impressing the idea conceived on the subconscious – all things evolve out of consciousness; and without this sequence, there is not anything made that is made.”

This passage explains that the subconscious mind reacts to what the conscious dictates – but it does not know the difference between the real and the imagined. When a visualization is so strong that it feels like an event is actually taking place, it is only a matter of time before the body goes where the mind went. This concept works without fail and it is the reason our thoughts draw all of our experiences into our lives, yet we are able to control our visualizations and focus them only on what we wish to experience. This is a gift we need to use.

Energy creates reality. Nothing is solid – everything is consisted of moving particles. When energy is so strong while visualizing an event that it feels as if that event is happening in the reality we know, the event will translate into it shortly.

The Highest State of Energy

This particular sensation is one I constantly describe to others as it enables me to manifest instantly and with results even more magnificent than anticipated.

I call it the Highest Energy State; it is the state of nothing but love and happiness so intense that it almost takes me to another world. It can practically alter one’s physical senses, allowing an entire being to succumb to the energy passing through it while understanding that feelings, energy of the mind and energy of the heart are the creators of the reality that physical bodies experience.

This state enables us to put all our trust into the Law of Attraction and completely and utterly surrender to its power.

This state is the ultimate proof that Law of Attraction is real.

When in this state, I simultaneously feel excitement and calmness, knowing that my dreams are manifesting with every passing second. I can feel the energy flowing through my heart, my limbs, my bones, my hair, my eyes and my fingertips. This sensation is so strong and feels so amazing that I have dedicated my time to finding the best ways of inducing it on the spot. So far, I have discovered several ways of doing so:

1. Recalling one of the events that has put me in this energy state in the past;

2. Imagining how a desired event would feel and therefore, put me in this state;

3. Analysing the ways in which I would reach and stay in this energy state.

They all work.

The list of my manifestations emerging from this state is endless. Unexpected but massive opportunities and circumstances, job offers, a new laptop, beautiful jewellery, gifts, some of the most amazing days of my life, cash, love relationships, specific interactions, text messages from specific people, rapid weight loss, meeting people I had been wishing to meet, all within the span of minutes up to several days at most.

Looking at it from a scientific point of view, there is much discussion and many resources explaining the workings of the Law of Attraction through energy, vibration, frequencies and the energy of the mind. While reading them, I come to understand them; while trying to explain them, they contain wider knowledge of physics than I can interpret. Einstein’s explanations of physics and matching the frequency of the desired reality leading to receiving that reality was enough for me. Ultimately, I do not need to understand how all things in the Universe work – simply knowing that they do is enough.

The path to reaching this state is caused by happiness so strong, it is almost scary, and heart energy so powerful that it overpowers everything else in a physical body. All that is left to do is surrender and once we do, we experience an otherwise unknown sensation, being at one with everything we know.