When You “Fail” to Manifest – A Guide to Starting Over!

What happens when you think your manifestation might arrive at a specific moment yet it doesn’t? You might have gotten signs or feedback that lead you to believe it was happening only to discover that it wasn’t what you hoped for, at least not just yet.  Continue reading

LoA and Health – How Does It Work?

One of the aspects of life I am grateful for every day is my terrific health. Something that should never be disregarded, good health is manifested using the same principle as absolutely anything else. At the same time, following ideas given by the field of medicine can be a co-creating tool but one should never forget their health is primarily their own choice. Medicine is useful so be grateful for it but you give the final word – how many truly believe this to be possible?

If it were impossible, there would not be a single case of individuals “miraculously” recovering from fatal illness to no tangible explanation. However, there are plenty of those cases yet still so few to show that true and unrelenting faith tends to rest in a rare kind of individuals. Faith means primarily believing in yourself.

LoA AND HEALTH

It is said that the human body already contains everything it needs to heal itself. Medicine helps but why believe that specific medical therapy works or doesn’t work – just because someone said so?

Aren’t we stepping into the essence of LoA?

Those who make decisions regarding their health must also mind their energy around it. Are they convinced the desired result belongs to them or are they testing various options hoping to see results? Are they keeping a positive attitude, helping their intuition guide them to inspired action?

I realize that believing in one’s good health/successful recovery while the doctors are uncertain of it isn’t easy for everyone. However, this concept comes down to the same creation principles – we all manifest what we believe to be true and that truth must exist in the mind before it can manifest into one’s reality.

If everything we need is already within us, so is the strength to manifest our own good health. Sometimes, medicine will help and other times, we won’t even need it. Even finding the right co-creation field depends on one’s positive attitude in finding the solution; one simply has to keep an open mind and focus on the end result they truly desire, producing positive energy which allows them to find that solution shortly.

MY OWN HEALTH

I maintain my excellent health with daily gratitude.

Last weekend, I was worried I would catch a cold having accidentally put on a thinner coat than planned in a moment of distraction. I didn’t exactly catch a heavy cold but wasn’t 100% either, which continued for as long as I accepted this state of my health. Maybe I just wanted to spend two days in bed with books, tea and TV. Then, I decided I was healthy and yesterday, woke up feeling like my usual self.

Illness can also come as a result of either a collapse or a raise of one’s vibration. Seven years ago, I endured four weeks of bed rest within the same year due to two different cases of illness. However, the positive personal changes I experienced over that year were even bigger. One of the cases of illness was an ear infection and one of the great personal changes was moving into my own, new, fantastic apartment. A decision to move away from another beautiful apartment with a roommate was followed by the ear infection which was followed by finding and moving into that incredible apartment. I had only found the apartment after having gotten healthy. It hadn’t been up for rent until then. However, I was positive I would find the perfect place the entire time.

Sometimes, the Universe works out the perfect timing even when you know it’s going to be soon. All you have to do is keep focus on your end goal and know that everything will come together soon.

Any day now, as I say.

MANIFESTING FOR ANOTHER

It might be difficult for you to imagine manifesting good health for someone else, especially one that keeps focusing on the negative.

I have once tried to advise someone who was ill. They weren’t up for cooperation. To every affirmative ideal I had, they would say, “I don’t know.” As simplistic as this may sound, try to apply this idea to anything one wishes to create – knowing is essential and without it, how could one possibly create their desired outcome?

Then, I asked, “Do you believe you could get better?”

They said, “I’m not sure. Sometimes I believe it’s possible.”

I asked them why just sometimes.

They responded, “I’m too old and tired. I can’t bring myself to hope. It might be my time to go.”

This person suffered chronic disbelief in their good health, the very thought of manifesting which made them exhausted. Disbelief can run deep which is why many refuse to even venture on manifesting their desires. Disbelief keeps them in their comfort zone to this day, with short-term improvements followed by the inevitable relapses. They can believe for a few days and then, fall back into negativity. They have not altered their awareness fully.

WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE?

When it comes to your health, you will manifest what you believe to be true – just like any other aspect of life.

Are you the type of person who is always sick? Someone who always catches a cold, expecting it to happen? Or, are you always healthy and happy about it?

Now, be honest with yourself – are you grateful for your health every day? Do you believe you can feel as youthful and energized as you wish to be?

The Power of Gratitude

Why is gratitude going to serve you profoundly?

Gratitude ignites passion. When you feel and express gratitude for having your desire in your life already, you remember every reason why you fell in love with it in the first place.

Gratitude heightens the awareness of having your desire in your life. Appreciating what you have leads to appreciating what you want to have and vice versa. Appreciation for what you have also allows you to feel that your dream-come-true reality is possible to obtain.

Gratitude reminds you of everything you already have. When you focus on a single thing you appreciate about your life, Law of Attraction gives you even more to love. Sometimes, this is done with suddenly getting a simple reminder of how much you love your life just as it is, allowing even more to come into it.

Gratitude raises your vibration. With it, gratitude gives you exactly what you need to bring your desire about. Suddenly, you can imagine yourself living it; you know what it feels like.

In order to work, gratitude has to be authentic. Observe everything you are truly grateful for. I once read that we should feel gratitude for the good and the bad in our lives – I say, if you can’t, at least find the good sides of the bad. Think of the ways in which the bad things have improved the person you are. What have you learned from them? What were the good sides of those bad things? That is what gratitude for the bad means – focusing on its few good results, some of which may have been crucial to the strength or fearlessness in you.

Sometimes, that one good result emerging from a mostly negative experience signifies a turning point in your life.

Gratitude is one of the most beneficial habits to develop. Without fail, gratitude improves your own life as well as lives of those you love.

THOUGHT OF THE DAY

Do you have a fear you keep holding onto, having never manifested, knowing it is pure paranoia yet it still hasn’t left you?

This fear feels fake. You may have kept it in your mind but you know it’s fake. Even when you fear it coming to life, you know it never will.

It may have been implanted in your mind by the media or your own imagination. However, just as this fear is fake and false, any fear you may have is, regardless of how real it seems. If you decide that it is, it is. You can manifest your desires instead.

Take the Responsibility and Raise Your Vibration!

When evaluating our negative thoughts, their origins and current form, we may be tempted to blame our pasts, parents, exes or misfortunes for all our limiting beliefs.

The truth is, everything one allows into one’s belief system creates their reality. One’s past, parents, exes or misfortunes were merely the vehicles offering specific beliefs which are one’s choice to accept or reject.

Taking responsibility for your limiting beliefs which attracted your experiences is a great way to raise your vibration. No matter what it takes, you may choose to hold onto the negative feelings or break free from them. If you genuinely want to and know that you can, you will emerge on the other side a more positive individual than you ever knew you could be.

Just to be clear, I am not saying you have asked for your specific negative experiences to manifest in your life. I am not saying you deserved them. I know that fear can be paralyzing and I don’t blame you for being unable to escape it at certain times in your life. I am merely saying that where you are today is the only thing that matters right now. From here, you can create any kind of life you want. If you genuinely want to be happy, you can and will achieve your bliss. If you genuinely desire to overcome your troubles, you can.

I’ve experienced breakups, unemployment, living in a place I hated profoundly and insecurities. Once admitting that I’ve attracted these things into my life with my temporarily negative attitude, I was already on my way to fixing them.

Once I admitted to myself that I felt guilty about not genuinely wanting to be with a boyfriend, having second thoughts, that I picked fights with him because I wanted out and made mistakes (having not loved him enough), I could make peace with a break-up and move on.

Once I became grateful for being unemployed, having all the time in the world to spend with my friends, family and dogs, go to the gym and travel for pleasure as much as I wanted to, I would find employment according to my exact specifications. During this time, I always knew that the job was mine already, already on its way to me. I just knew. That was all I needed.

Once I became determined to find the good aspects of living in a specific place which I practically hated, I got the opportunity to move. I decided to make friends, tutor students, learn to play drums and join a choir. I was also Suddenly, I got to miss school for a while and during this absence, I found out my family was to move away. I was beyond grateful.

Any and every insecurity I’d ever experienced ended when I decided it would – that was how much I wanted to be confident and happy. I knew who I wanted to be and filled this idea with pure passion. This is why having the clearest possible idea of what you truly desire is vital to your success – knowing what you want and how you want to feel can only be experienced without resistance once it resonates with your heart.

Does this sound familiar?

Taking responsibility for your past comes down to making peace with it and leaving it behind instead of bringing it back into your reality. It comes down to being unburdened by it or simply taking all of its positive aspects into your present – nothing else. The “taking responsibility” part comes down to one decision and much positive recognition to follow.

Do you feel that a negative experience from your past is preventing you from being yourself?

If a negative experience you once went through was simply too painful to attach gratitude to, finding only one positive outcome it had will already raise your vibration. Maybe your negative experience made you stronger. Maybe it raised your awareness of specific issues in the world and motivated you to help others. Ultimately, will you break free from the prison of this negative experience and claim your happiness? Because you deserve it.

If you think you can’t, consider the benefits your present situation of being stuck brings.

None. You already knew this. Now, imagine how amazing you would feel if you overcame your negative experience – don’t you think you deserve that much happiness?

Recognizing one positive outcome that came out of your negative experience is enough. It might even be enough for you to entirely make peace with the said experience.

Once you’ve made peace with your past and taken responsibility for your thoughts, fears and actions, you can put all the passion in the world into your desire.

That is how I often create.

Everything I received rapidly, I’d put endless passion into. If I couldn’t see the way something would happen, I would decide that a miracle would occur. I rely on my decisions, trust the Universe and in turn, I have experienced more miracles in life than I could almost believe. I intentionally manifested a move to another continent at age fourteen. Every relationship I’ve ever been in was manifested intentionally, with a specific or a generic person at a specific time. I received double the fees I had asked for my work. Leaving the creation part up to the Universe feels right to me, which is not to say that I never took any specific steps towards a specific desire.

When you know it’s yours, you know what to do.

However, you won’t believe it could be yours until you’ve rid yourself of limiting beliefs. Taking the responsibility for them will allow you to receive your desires. There is no reason to hold onto those limiting beliefs – you already know that, too.

If You Love You, Do So Unconditionally!

This is one of the most important posts I have ever written.

I often stress the importance of directing feelings of love and appreciation towards oneself regardless of one’s current life circumstances, physical appearance, social or financial status. Some may think they need specific external validation in order to achieve their desired self-confidence, a notion entirely untrue.

Six years ago, I manifested weight loss of about 20 lbs. I thought it would make me as confident as I always wanted to be. However, I felt exactly the same and was shocked over that very fact. My awareness and with it, my self-confidence, never changed until I faced my limiting beliefs.

Every time I manifested a relationship I desired, I felt the same after I’d received it. I wasn’t permanently happier – I was only more excited. After the excitement wore off, I was the same person. Each time, I was expecting that the relationship would bring out an even better side of me, forgetting that I and I alone had the capability of doing so. My absolute best always rested in me, not in my relationship.

I’m only thirty years old and back then, I was in my mid twenties. I hadn’t learned everything I needed to just yet.

If you think your life circumstances, current job, physical appearance or financial status stand in the way of being the person you desire to be, this is the person you never were. An amazing person is amazing regardless of what is happening around them. Energy movement ensures that once you are capable of being the person you desire to be, you will manifest all your desires. You have to believe before receiving – the essence of LoA.

Directing feelings of love and happiness towards oneself expands one’s self-confidence, which is an essential element of effortless manifestation.

If you love who you are, never criticize yourself for your negative thoughts. Learn to love your appearance just as it is, knowing that you can change it whenever you want. If you hate your job, do you want to be the person who embraces the misery or one who changed their circumstances? Once you opt for the latter, use LoA. Decide that your dream job is yours now and never abandon that resolve. Every time you encounter a negative thought, simply replace it with a positive one.

You might think you would approach the person you love if you were more attractive or wealthier. You might think that these external attributes would offer you a needed confidence kick but in reality, they would only distract you from dealing with your deep-seeded issues.

And, you know it.

Being the person you desire to be requires strong resolve. 


When you feel like you’re drowning in your negative thoughts, say to yourself,

“My dream life is mine right now. Thank you.”

Your happiness and focus will change effortlessly. LoA is a way of living and your awareness will change as a result of evoking happiness within.


When you encounter an undesirable thought, say to yourself,

“I forgive myself for those thoughts. I am manifesting my dream life right now. My desires are a done deal.”

As soon as you say it, you will feel warmth around your heart. Your happiness will change your awareness and you will let your desire go effortlessly, allowing it to manifest.

Be happy forgiving yourself for your negative thoughts and be happy that your dream life belongs to you. Feeling this much happiness excludes all resistance, allowing you to allow your desires to come to you in the most natural flow imaginable. 


If you encounter an undesirable circumstance, say to yourself,

“I am grateful because there is an even better way for my desire to manifest than this would have been.”

Believe it and then, let it go.


The essence of your life lies in your love for the person you are. You are capable of effortlessly being everything you desire to be. Directing love towards yourself when you feel your best, your worst, your happiest, your most hopeless is going to take you there. 

Obstacles or Desires – Which Do You Choose?

Do you ever experience trouble sticking to a decision you made, wanting to manifest your goal but simply becoming discouraged along the way?

It all starts from one’s belief that they can indeed manifest their desires. If one knows the magnitude of their power and knows exactly what they want, they’re there already. Those who know that they can manifest anything only have to choose what exactly makes them happy while those who perceive obstacles simply don’t believe that the Law of Attraction is working for them. Even if they believe in the Law of Attraction, they don’t believe in their own power. They never feel that their desires belong to them already and instead of feeling love for having an amazing life, they are upset about not having what they want.

Sticking to a decision is easy when one knows their desired reality belongs to them already. That’s all there is to it. Allowing yourself to be derailed from knowing that you have what you desire already, focusing on how difficult it is to feel good and achieve any goal not only shows you don’t believe it’s yours but also, that you never believed you had it in the first place.

Achieve focus on your desired reality and feel love for it. Everyone has to do this part for themselves.

THE WILL TO ACHIEVE

Getting clear on a specific goal is one thing but being willing to do whatever it takes to achieve it is another. This doesn’t mean one must invite obstacles into their manifestation – it simply means being relaxed about that manifestation and its possible ways of coming to life. A true attitude of willingness to do anything in order to manifest one’s desire is not even thinking about the option of not manifesting it.

Energy is difficult to describe but I try every day; at the same time, it’s a fantastic writing challenge.

I fear that many attempts to figure out one’s personal energy and actions made towards achieving their desires makes their thought process even more complicated. Like attracts like and for as long as one continues to try and find the solution, they’ll keep looking for it.

The purpose of energy clearing is to feel good, not invite even more need for energy clearing. Waiting to start feeling the way you want to feel will only invite more waiting.

Clear your thoughts and relax completely but continue to focus on your goal. The only thing I recommend is focusing on your goal, being grateful for it and feeling as if you’re living it already. Work on self-confidence and the knowing you can manifest anything you desire into your life. Once you have achieved this, you won’t need anything else. You’ll simply be happy already, being sure of what to do whenever an opportunity presents itself and more often than not, without having to do anything yourself – when you’re that happy and completely grateful for your amazing life, opportunities fall into your lap.

The time one puts into figuring out the ways to manifest successfully is the time spent swerving from their end goal. When one takes searching for their answers too far, over-analyzing their current circumstances instead of focusing on their dream ones, this is where they end up. They move into the in-between and start living there. They know that they haven’t reached their goals quite yet while at the same time, feel the progress already being made without knowing how to take it further.

My suggestion – drop the issues of the mind. Expand your heart energy instead, feel unconditional love for your desire and keep focus on it. Focusing on “resolving issues” creates the need to resolve them. Too many are caught up in their need to “resolve” instead of the gratitude for living their dreams.

There are two options – feeling love for your desired reality or being blocked by the fear of having to live without it. Which do you choose? If you already spend your time thinking about what you might be doing wrong, why not use that time to focus on your goal instead?

A Personal Approach in Getting an Ex Back

This morning, I was asked what I would do in case of wanting to reconcile with an ex boyfriend. The person who asked the question specifically asked me what I would do if it were my life. I felt very flattered that they valued my potential to inspire them and I was challenged in a positive way, as reconciling with exes was a business I never really wanted to be in.

To be perfectly honest, I only wished to reconcile with an ex once in my life (only because I wasn’t interested in anyone else at the time, until meeting someone new a month later). This story had become my template for breakups, whether they were made official by myself or by the other side. I just believe that every end always means there’s someone better out there and I found them every time because I was open to meeting them. I truly believed that every breakup happened to me for a reason but in reality, this was just a mask for the notion that I never cared about anyone that much. Most of my exes were momentary fascinations I had consciously manifested short-term relationships with.

I decided to look at it from the end result – a basic LoA technique, looking at the world from the point of desire already manifested. I got an ex back – what does that make me? What do I look like? How happy am I? How do I feel? How has accomplishing this made me feel?

What I could automatically see was looking and feeling like a movie star. If getting an ex back is such a difficult task to accomplish, according to many, then why not feel better than ever and make it happen easily? Seeing myself as someone who had just done this, I felt invincible. I felt like a goddess. I felt so good in this imagined scenario that I immediately visualized mutual friends inquiring about the news, everyone asking how it happened and being so surprised, as if the world had transformed around all of them.

Soon, I dove into a spontaneous visualization of the flow of events. I listened to my heart and mind, believing that all the steps taken towards accomplishing this goal had truly come from the essential parts of my personality.

So, what specific steps did I take?

1. Meditation.

I believe in meditation, I love it and no matter how much I practice it, I always want more. In this scenario, I could see meditation helping me make peace with the mistakes coming from both parties that ultimately lead to a breakup (and keep in mind, it is never only one side’s fault). I already believe that continuous feelings of anger towards an ex pose a question of whether or not one really wants them back. How is it possible to love someone who does nothing but cause annoyance? Then, I remembered. When people seem to push our buttons, this is still a question of our peace, our happiness and our stability while they were just the utility that brought those aspects to our attention. If someone pushes my buttons, it means they have touched an unsettled aspect of my mind, heart and soul, leaving it up to myself to fix if I want to improve myself and my life. A scattered mind, which can happen after a breakup, cannot be of benefit in getting an ex back. In this case, meditation is a personally recommended way to focus on the love for two phenomena – oneself and the Universe.

Developing the feelings of trust in our abilities, trust in the Universe, trust in our powers and trust in our thoughts allows us to feel love for the infinite possibilities we can create in our lives.

2. Never surrender to loss.

Feelings of loss create more of the same, just like any feelings. We are all connected to each other, especially those we choose to gift our thoughts and feelings to.

However, I understand that the words your ex has uttered to you may have been hurtful and therefore, caused you to feel that you may have lost them.

You may be offended at your ex thinking or once saying that the breakup was your fault. Don’t be because simply by knowing that it is never only one person’s fault, you are already ahead of most people when it comes to understanding relationships. Their insecurities prevent them from admitting they have done something wrong but that’s their problem to deal with. By focusing on their thoughts, you are deflecting your focus from examining yourself while most likely fearing what you might find. Change this pattern of behavior today – we change our lives and the lives of others with love, not mind control.

All the while, you are forgetting that what we give is what we get. When your ex told you that it was your fault, they have projected the energy onto themselves of things gone wrong being their fault. This doesn’t necessarily refer to relationships alone; it usually means your ex already blames himself (or herself) for many things gone wrong in their lives. Everything is connected and issues translate from one aspect to another.

3. Locate your personal values. 

What are your main values in life?

To those who have adopted novelty as being one, wait for your ex to start feeling new to you. In this case, the period of communication cut off after a breakup will be both a blessing to you as well as your most reliable tool. After taking some time in absence from your ex’s life, they will feel new to you while at the same time, your absence will make you missed in their lives.

Novelty can also be translated to yourself. Do you wish to be a new and improved version of yourself the second time around? Are you doing it only because you feel your ex will like it or do you truly want to improve for you? If it’s for you, as it should be, become that person now. Since this new person is the one both you and your chosen person love, you can see how looking back from the end result will ensure that the new you receives the love you want.

If having security is something you seek and value, embrace your love for it and create security within yourself. Make your home your haven. Place all the security you want to feel in it – your home is a sacred place with nothing but happiness in it. Turn your home into your perfect world of love in which there is only happiness and the reminder of how much you love the world. You have been blessed with such a wonderful home and you feel immense gratitude for it every single day.

I cannot stress the value of the perfect home too much, especially to those who see it as an extension of themselves. Everyone wants the perfect home and a mission to create one will lift your energy more than you can imagine. To those valuing security, a home you need only yourself in is going to take you straight to heaven. Over the years, I advised even the most couple-oriented people to start enjoying their own company in their home and sooner than I thought, they started to cherish it so much that even I was baffled. This comes naturally to all of us. You could be next.

When locating our personal values, we are able to express them on our own, without anyone’s help. Then, not only do we feel complete but others are lining up hoping to be the ones to complete us.

4. Be aware that everyone is equally valuable. 

You may be idealizing your ex right now, thinking he or she is better than anyone else in the world. However, nobody is. The only measure we have to go by is being drawn to and by love. We are drawn to those who emit love and happiness and we draw specific individuals to ourselves by feeling love for them. This is why it’s difficult to attract an ex one still holds a grudge toward.

The men I drew into my life rapidly were those I thought to be amazing. Not better but amazing! I was attracted to their minds, hearts, points of view, sense of humor and charisma. I was drawn to the “it” factors they possessed which made them different from others. The factor of amazing was caused by the love I felt for the individuals they chose to be instead of things such as personal validation factor, their social status or their level of financial wealth.

But what makes a person amazing?

That is different from one case to another.

What drew you to your ex in the beginning? Was it their kindness? Was it the attention they were giving you? Was it their ability to speak their mind, their confidence or how much they cared about you?

Was it the surprises they were throwing you?

Was it excitement?

Surrendering to those feelings will automatically make you remember what kind of person you were when you started your relationship. If you wish to create this exact reality again, you have it easy! You already have everything you need to focus on, fill with love and see everything unfold.

However, if you only wish to use these feelings and memories as a starting point, you may. Just remember that being allowed into one’s heart and soul will show you they are a complex person who wants love, just like everyone else. Everything you are feeling, they feel, too. We have all been hurt at one time or another therefore your ex isn’t superhuman by any means. Relax about them as much as you are relaxed about everyone else. You can attract them back just as easily.

5. Feel love for the millions of options you are offered in life, whether or not you wish to take them. 

Here’s a little abundance mindset exercise I created.

Take three of your exes or those that meant a lot to you. With each, remember the time you felt the happiest. With one at a time, remember this feeling and you will notice that you have relaxed automatically. Reliving these experiences brings you great happiness.

Now, imagine all three of these situations happening on the same day! You probably can’t without feeling a little suffocation for all these people coming at you all at once. You wouldn’t have time to deal with all of them; you would, however, think they were lovely and caring which would only prompt an even greater snowball of love and attention from them. This shows you how much we actually receive when someone gives us their feelings and just by changing your mindset and sending feelings of love towards the ex you want to see return, you will change the energy between you and open the path for the two of you to come together once again.

We communicate with each other through our feelings, whether or not we utter actual words to each other or see each other face to face. Communicate to the Universe that you are grateful. Once you realize there are many things in the world that could make you happy right now, you will release the attachment from what you now see as the ultimate and only happiness.

6. “I always receive even more than I asked for. Thank you.”

When I realized that feeling massive amounts of love for something or someone combined with relaxation, detachment and trust brings even greater results than I ever imagined, I turned this into my own personal mantra. Just thinking of it makes me smile and whether or not it was consciously manifested, this happened to me more times than I can count. I would definitely use this in getting an ex back, as I would remember that sending such a significant amount of love towards anyone and anything ensures magic happening all around.

Right now, you may want an ex back and in love with you. But what if he also asked you to marry him? What if she told you she loved you and wanted to live with you?

You may want your ex to be completely devoted to you, in love like never before. Anything can happen when you trust – what you wanted plus some amazing surprises.

7. Beware of the reality created. 

Every aspect of our reality is something we have created ourselves. When it comes to manifesting exes back, fears may come up. The only thing you must remember is that any kind of fear equals creation.

If you fear that your ex can’t love you back, you are creating that reality. If you fear other suitors coming their way, that’s also something you might be creating. You have to trust the Universe and know that your dream goal is yours already. If I should manifest an ex back, I would only accept the option of us being madly in love and only wanting to be with each other. I would think of us as soul mates, caught up in this amazing love we never want to let go of.

When one’s heart opens, they don’t even think about how things will manifest. All they see is how happy living their dream makes them. And since feelings of love create so much faster and more powerfully than any other, this dream comes to life.

I truly hope that those of you who wish to manifest getting back together with an ex will find inspiration here.