Can you be happy if courage is not a part of who you are? I think it’s a very interesting question that can make anyone think about who they want to be.
Do you feel happy being the person who dares to know that what they want is theirs? A done deal, pre-made already. No going back on the fact that you’re about to receive this and live your life with it. And that’s precisely the case.
You must see your desires as facts, as they are the facts of upcoming events in your life.NG
Courage is not as unattainable as it seems; courage is present when you know that what you want is a fact already. Knowing is courage. And knowing is normal. Some people view courage as something they will never have but courage means what all of life does – believing in the unseen before we can see it.
Everyone is brave in some way. Observe your personality and recognize the ways in which you are courageous. If you’re brave enough to do all the things you dare to do, you have already shown yourself the courage to make anything happen; according to Law of Attraction, nothing is more or less difficult to manifest than anything else and there are no “big” or “small” desires. The magnitude of any desire is determined by the individual manifesting it, which is why we must see everything we want as normal, small or easy to get.
Believing in the unseen is the way life is truly created. We have to imagine ourselves having what we want, even for a second, in order to attract it into our lives. Sometimes, we do it unconsciously; sometimes, subconsciously. But we can do it completely consciously if we love the idea of living our desire, know that it would make us happy and know that we are the right person for it.
Whether our desire is money or a relationship, we have to see ourselves making it happy as it makes us. You have the power to make the person you have chosen the happiest they’ve ever been. That money is what the Universe wants to give you because you have decided it belongs with you. When you love money, you attract it; when you want money, that money wants to come to you because that is the Law of Attraction.
So when you can see yourself having that money, the money will come. What we believe and what we know is what we will absolutely end up attracting.
Don’t let yourself believe that you will never have your desire or that it’s still difficult to manifest! And don’t be afraid to feel the emotion of having it already. Feeling this emotion takes courage and if you had the courage to do so many things in your life, as everything in life takes some courage to achieve, you can certainly be brave enough to feel.
When we feel, we are happy; when we are happy, we become addicted to happiness.
We must know our desire belongs with us. We make our desire happy as it does us. And how could something that belongs with us not be easy to manifest?
The easier we view our desire, the faster we end up manifesting it.
Is there a person in your life or relationship that makes you feel inadequate or like you’re always coming second? And are your feelings continuously being made worse by your partner who seems to pay more attention to this person and their feelings than you in a variety of ways? If you have answered yes to any of these questions, you probably feeling like there is a person in yours or your partner’s life you have to compete with.
This person could be your partner’s close friend, a nagging ex or even a family member – whoever they are, you feel queasy in their presence or from the very mention of their name. You might even feel that their feelings are more important to your partner than your own and you might be torn between wanting to fix the problem and even considering leaving the relationship.
Before you decide, there are several important points you need to consider.
First of all, it is important to know that no one is forcing you to compete with another person…ever. You choose whether or not to engage in competition, just like you choose everything else in your life.
Personally, competition is beneath me. If I feel like I am being forced to compete with another person, I simply walk away. If you don’t want to walk away immediately, having an open conversation with your partner or whoever it is that makes you compete is always a good idea and it might just solve the problem if you express your feelings openly, honestly and with confidence. Remember that you have the power to solve any problem in your life, either by compromising or leaving.
You have to start living your life from the awareness of being a person of value. Great value isn’t determined by what you have or have accomplished – it is determined by who you are. If you decide to connect with your confidence and stop accepting being treated poorly by another, you will naturally gravitate towards other confident people and positive situations.
You have to start having more fun in your own life, without the need for approval from anyone, your partner included. When you focus on making your own life fun, you will stop being upset by all those people whose behavior is simply not on your level. Making life fun for yourself will help you reconnect with your own confidence and maybe even lead you to new people and new experiences.
And instead of fearing the person you think you have to compete with, use some ingenious ways to get them on your team. If they have a particular skill set, ask them to do something for you. If they are the person who is constantly trying to make you compete, laugh off their attempts and refuse to let them upset you (or pretend that they don’t) as this particular approach will throw them off. Whatever you choose to do, do it with confidence.
Getting this person on your side might just be the inspired action that makes you feel good which will prompt LoA to bring even more positive change into your situation. When you do what makes you feel good instead of worrying about any particular situation, you begin to make better, lighter and more positive decisions which attract even more positive change as a result. This is how LoA works when you take a positive step in your current reality!
I suggest you celebrate yourself and your life.
You have to play the lead role in your own reality instead of putting the person you want to manifest a relationship with first. You can prioritize them but imagine the relationship and your love as you want it and as it makes you happy!
I mean, being able to love someone the way you want to and have them love you back…don’t you love the thought of that?
Don’t you want that?
We respond to those that respond to us.
What happens when you think your manifestation might arrive at a specific moment yet it doesn’t? You might have gotten signs or feedback that lead you to believe it was happening only to discover that it wasn’t what you hoped for, at least not just yet. Continue reading “When You “Fail” to Manifest – A Guide to Starting Over!”
When it comes to manifestation, you might be closer to your goal than you realize.
You might think you have no money only to discover that your bank account balance increased while you weren’t looking.
You might deem it impossible to imagine living the life you want only to find yourself indulging in related visualizations soon after and coming out a different, more positive person.
A simple change in your daily dynamics could help you realize how far you’ve come and what a positive person you genuinely are.
You might fear you will never attract the person you want to be with (back) into your life only to finally let go as a result, shift your awareness entirely and all of a sudden, manifest.