Thought of the Day

Thought of the Day

I find the majority of love advice to be encouraging of one's constant focus on the relationship. However, I personally find the perfect formula to be a mix of focus on the relationship and giving it the space it also needs by engaging in your own beloved life interests - they make us happier and [...]

Showing Interest in Someone Makes Them Interested in You

Showing Interest in Someone Makes Them Interested in You

Men and women are often being told that showing interest in a prospective partner makes them look needy, desperate or pushy, and that those who don't care are the ones who get the girl/guy instead. Those giving and taking or worrying about such advice take an important ingredient out of it - the Law of [...]

Love or Attention – Which Do You Truly Want?

Love or Attention – Which Do You Truly Want?

This is going to be quite a self-help-type blog post. I've been thinking about obsession, manipulation and the need to attract attention (and, attraction) from the person one wants to manifest a relationship with rather than focusing on love. Sometimes, the need to be with someone and make a relationship happen with them can stand [...]

When One Doesn’t Need a Relationship…

When One Doesn’t Need a Relationship…

The more I think about it, the more I’m convinced that self-confidence and the ability to let go share a deep connection. I was given permission to share this story. Recently, a friend of mine got out of a long-term relationship and while wanting to relax before hitting the dating scene, they became a target [...]