As you can tell, so much of this is about changing your perspective and clearing your thoughts so that your relationship could change as a result.
Making sense of the current reality is challenging enough but what can happen in a manifestation process is noticing the absence of a desire becoming one's entire point of focus on the current reality. This never happens intentionally. I mean, who would actually want to notice the absence of their desired manifestation?! No one. However, [...]
I suggest you celebrate yourself and your life. Wondering how? You have to play the lead role in your own reality instead of putting the person you want to manifest a relationship with first. You can prioritize them but imagine the relationship and your love as you want it and as it makes you happy! [...]