I used to write poetry and fiction, became a published author in my preteens and eventually, decided that I preferred writing about real life. Fiction can never be as powerful as real life, no matter how much it is based on it.
Some people have asked me whether Law of Attraction was fiction or not. Some perceive visualization and the concept of living as if to be fiction for as long as it is different from “real life.” However, current reality and visualization of an ideal one are equally real, as one’s ideal reality must be seen as real in order to manifest into the current.
If you perceive visualization and living as if as fiction, how can you ever allow it to become your current reality?
You can’t. You have to believe in the possibility of your ideal reality becoming your life in order to allow it to happen.
Believing in living your ideal reality is not as scary as you think. I know it’s easy to hesitate to imagine living your ideal life for several reasons – fear of loss, fear of success, breaking out of your comfort zone… Yes, these things sound scary but as soon as you try, fear begins to fade. If you did it just a few times, it would go away completely.
This is something you simply must do.
Working with the Universe means allowing yourself to feel good so that your desires manifest. Believing that what you want is yours already, a done deal or about to happen is all that it takes once you get out of your own way.
Getting out of your way is all about listening to your positive feelings which stem from your positive decisions. Even when you “have a feeling” that something good is about to happen, it is because you decided that something good is about to happen and followed the related feelings.
A choice, positive or negative, always comes first, from your conscious or subconscious mind.
Listen to your needs – only you can fulfil them. When you’re upset, make yourself feel better. Do whatever it takes to feel better. When you’re tired, rest. A positive attitude is a choice and so is positive thinking.
One of the most important ways of working with the Universe means choosing to do what makes you happy instead of staying in the space of “waiting” for your desire which can often make you feel incomplete. And you deserve better.
Refusing to let go equals refusing to be happy. In this case, one chooses not to be happy. The choice to change your thoughts from those related to your desire is yours. Think about other things, enjoy your life, be happy and allow manifestation to happen! If you do whatever it takes to feel good, letting go will be easy.
I don’t meant to be dramatic but every time you react to your negative thoughts, you are letting something good die. You are letting your positive thoughts get lost and might struggle to retrieve them. You are allowing your positive mood to wither while replacing it with the negative.
Choose the positive because attachment sucks.
Everything in life is your choice! What you accept is your choice. Stop accepting negative thoughts and start embracing the positive.
This is how you work with the Universe to bring your desires to life.
Today, I want to talk about the (usually short) time period when two people in a relationship are on different energetic levels.
What happens when the person you’re manifesting love with has to get on your energetic level and not the other way around?
Imagine that you are manifesting love with an ex (or someone new) who is now unhappy and frustrated in their own life. You see them for who they are, you see how valuable they are but for many reasons, they are in a bad place in their own mind and life. They were happy the first time you were together but now, they aren’t. On the other hand, you are happy because your life is amazing, you have so much, you know and love the Law of Attraction and now, you are even happier because you are about to get back together with your ex – you have decided to do this and it is happening! They need to change their thoughts and life in order to become happy and get on your frequency because now, you are on different ones. Sending heart energy and positive feelings to them will help raise them up because the loving energy of another person makes all of us feel good.
You are already happy but your ex has to become happy in order to get on your frequency again.
I once manifested a relationship with a man who was frustrated with the dishonesty of the people in his life and the uncertainty of his future. He was a kind and loving person who lacked confidence and the ability to create his own happiness and our mutual happiness lasted shortly. When his personal dissatisfaction prevailed, I’d done nothing to change it. Had I not decided to end our relationship, I would have been able to create more happiness in his life the way I’d done in mine. Had I loved him more, the way he deserved, my love would have helped him discovered his purpose. This is why it is utterly important to give nothing but loving energy to one’s relationship – you never know when you’ll move to two different frequencies if you continue to rest in negativity. Years later, he started to learn about creating his own happiness, respecting himself and loving his life. I love being his friend and I am giving our friendship more love than I ever did to our relationship.
When seeing someone we love unhappy, we tend to hold on very tightly and are relentlessly trying to make them happy. The trick is to just let go and simply love them. Influence them with loving energy.
I’d learned this lesson in practice and wish I had known it a lot sooner.
If you are failing to feel enough love for the person you want to manifest a relationship with, you simply have to learn how to love them. If you can’t imagine loving them now, when you just want to manifest them back, chances are you wouldn’t love them forever even if they came back today. Love and faith go hand in hand and by faith, I mean absolute knowing that you and the person of your choice are meant to be together and being happy about it. Forgive them for their mistakes and love them for everything they are.
Sometimes, it is a mere understanding of things that raises your vibration and enables you to let go. When you have a specific goal in mind, everything else happens in order to make your goal manifest.
This particular sensation is one I constantly describe to others as it enables me to manifest instantly and with results even more magnificent than anticipated.
I call it the Highest Energy State; it is the state of nothing but love and happiness so intense that it almost takes me to another world. It can practically alter one’s physical senses, allowing an entire being to succumb to the energy passing through it while understanding that feelings, energy of the mind and energy of the heart are the creators of the reality that physical bodies experience.
This state enables us to put all our trust into the Law of Attraction and completely and utterly surrender to its power.
This state is the ultimate proof that Law of Attraction is real.
When in this state, I simultaneously feel excitement and calmness, knowing that my dreams are manifesting with every passing second. I can feel the energy flowing through my heart, my limbs, my bones, my hair, my eyes and my fingertips. This sensation is so strong and feels so amazing that I have dedicated my time to finding the best ways of inducing it on the spot. So far, I have discovered several ways of doing so:
1. Recalling one of the events that has put me in this energy state in the past;
2. Imagining how a desired event would feel and therefore, put me in this state;
3. Analysing the ways in which I would reach and stay in this energy state.
They all work.
The list of my manifestations emerging from this state is endless. Unexpected but massive opportunities and circumstances, job offers, a new laptop, beautiful jewellery, gifts, some of the most amazing days of my life, cash, love relationships, specific interactions, text messages from specific people, rapid weight loss, meeting people I had been wishing to meet, all within the span of minutes up to several days at most.
Looking at it from a scientific point of view, there is much discussion and many resources explaining the workings of the Law of Attraction through energy, vibration, frequencies and the energy of the mind. While reading them, I come to understand them; while trying to explain them, they contain wider knowledge of physics than I can interpret. Einstein’s explanations of physics and matching the frequency of the desired reality leading to receiving that reality was enough for me. Ultimately, I do not need to understand how all things in the Universe work – simply knowing that they do is enough.
The path to reaching this state is caused by happiness so strong, it is almost scary, and heart energy so powerful that it overpowers everything else in a physical body. All that is left to do is surrender and once we do, we experience an otherwise unknown sensation, being at one with everything we know.