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Awareness, habits, Thought of the Day

Thought of the Day

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Thought of the Day

Whenever I am about to meet my closest childhood friend, I end up running late. Every time and only with her. I usually pride myself on punctuality but no matter what, I always end up arriving late to meet her, specifically and without fail.

However, every time I start getting ready to see her, something comes up for her last minute but it always ends up magically resolved just as I am about to arrive. Every time I’m late, it turns out to have actually worked out better for her that way.

This is the essence of our dynamics and we are both aware of it. We find it very interesting and have gotten used to meeting this way, thus continuing to attract the same outcome every time. One could say we have a positive effect on each other, as one’s tardiness works out better with the other’s short-term, last-minute obligations.

How would you analyze that according to the Law of Attraction? Let us know in the comments!

Awareness, Energy, focus, Friendship, Manifesting Situation, Paradigm, positivity, power, Reality shift, Resistance

Girl Talk: How Positive Feelings Lead to Specific Positive Experiences in Dating and Relationships

by Nina Grdic4 Comments on Girl Talk: How Positive Feelings Lead to Specific Positive Experiences in Dating and Relationships
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Spring awakening.

The other night, I was in a deep discussion with a friend as we were driving around the city at 2 a.m.. Sharing experiences of recent and not-so-recent encounters with men, her accurate grasp of relationships absolutely amazed me.

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Awareness, Change, Comfort zone, Happiness, Heart, Intuition, Manifesting Situation, Mind, motivation, Reality, Reality shift, Specific person, Vibration

The Truth Behind Changing Your Mind in Specific Manifestations

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The Truth Behind Changing Your Mind in Specific Manifestations

Being specific has its ups and downs. Then again, anything does.

In life, my actions always reflected a core belief of “I want this so I am going to have it – nothing else, nothing less!” which led me to certain manifestations that looked nothing like I had imagined.

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Awareness, Friendship

Do You Like Your Friends?

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Do You Like Your Friends?

It is often said that our friends say a great deal about who we are.

What you must know is that our friends may serve as mirrors in various ways. They could be critics, support, a getaway filled with love and relaxation or warning voices that remind us of the important things we may have forgotten over time.

 

Different individuals in your circle of friends could remind you of the different things you either love or struggle with – just observe your reactions to their words and you’ll understand what I mean. On the other hand, you might have one or several friends who seem to bring out the best in you.

You might also wonder where these differences come from.

Our friends do not decide who we are – they simply reflect the aspects of already existing self image back to us.

Your friends who feel good about themselves and/or your mutual friendship are probably the ones who make you feel hopeful, happy and seem to bring out the best in you. At the same time, you might have a friend who always makes you appreciate your life simply because they don’t appreciate theirs, focusing on everything that’s wrong with it. This person might make you appreciate your life but also makes you want to keep your distance due to their morose outlook.

Most importantly, what kind of people do you want to surround yourself with from now on? What specifically do you want to have in common with them? Do you want these individuals to be upbeat, creative or intellectual above everything else?

How do you see the time you want to spend together? What do you want to be doing and discussing?

As you can see, your friends can impact you in many ways. LoA states that those we meet mirror our true selves back to us but it doesn’t always explain the ways in which this might happen. Now that you know, you can examine the company you keep and why.

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So, what do you value in the company you keep and why? What have you learned from the people you choose to surround yourself with or are currently surrounded with due to your current circumstances?

Share your personal findings in the comment section below!

 

 

Attachment, attraction, Awareness, Belief

When One Doesn’t Need a Relationship…

by Nina Grdic10 Comments on When One Doesn’t Need a Relationship…
When One Doesn’t Need a Relationship…

The more I think about it, the more I’m convinced that self-confidence and the ability to let go share a deep connection.

I was given permission to share this story. Recently, a friend of mine got out of a long-term relationship and while wanting to relax before hitting the dating scene, they became a target of some very interested individuals instead. My friend’s lack of interest in anything serious removed the internal need for a relationship which resulted in becoming magnetic to the opposite sex. However, these individuals who are targeting my friend overdo it to say the least, reciprocating every iota of interest with a snowball of excessive attention. With my friend’s breakup still fresh in their mind, causing some conflicted personal values, they have come to fear refusing these individuals’ advances and hurting their feelings.

There is no doubt that my friend needs to regain their confidence and values before entering a new relationship but the behavior of these two individuals who have their eye on this friend of mine shows attachment instead of confidence.

How do I know?

Let me explain.

My friend doesn’t feel that either of these two individuals is quite captivating. They feel that both individuals are sweet but overplaying their hand, possibly insecure and coming on strongly instead of respecting the need for space my friend (verbally) expressed. Instead of receiving the space requested, my friend is being chased which is a primal reaction on an energetic level but a poor choice on their admirers’ side.

I have said before that one can make moves only when certain that what he/she wants belongs to them already. On the other hand, making moves in order to “get” something one doesn’t have yet is generally a bad idea. Simple as that.

What my friend does have in this case is fulfillment in their single life – having come out of a relationship, they feel the need for a new one and attract admirers as a result. My friend feels good on their own right now which is a requirement for anyone wishing to attract new people.

At the same time, my friend is attracting the people they are not interested in having long term (or, any kind of) involvements with. This is because they are putting the pieces of their personal happiness back together yet none of the individuals pursuing my friend are convinced that they can make the relationship happen.

There are plenty of LoA lessons in this example. If one of my friend’s admirers decided that they wanted a relationship and had unconditional faith, that relationship could happen.

If one of my friend’s admirers loved themselves as much as they keep asking my friend to “love” them, my friend would feel much stronger attraction for them.

To sum up,

Those who love themselves and are confident in their abilities can let go of their desire to manifest. They already have much love in their lives…because they give it to themselves.

Awareness, Confidence, Energy

Why Self Confidence Helps You Manifest

by Nina Grdic7 Comments on Why Self Confidence Helps You Manifest
Why Self Confidence Helps You Manifest
  1. When you feel good, you know you contribute quality. When you feel good about yourself, you want to share it with the world and bring it into other people’s lives. You know how to make others happy and more importantly, want to. All of this makes manifesting easier because it takes away all the reasons why you should not get what you want.
  2. You forget to remember the time. When you simply enjoy life and your own happiness, you don’t think about how long it takes to manifest. I’ve mostly manifested within days or weeks. Sometimes, two months. Every time I manifested moving countries, the planning and the aligning of opportunities took less than a year. I often want to hear from someone and it happens within an hour or a day; two or three times, it took three weeks to a month. But do you know how long it just took me to remember all of that!? When you simply enjoy life and don’t need, you let go and manifest. The beauty in patience is the reward of receiving your desire rapidly.  
  3. Because you want to give. You think about what you’re going to contribute to the lives of those you want in yours because you know how much you’re worth. You know how much you have to give. Those who feel they’re not enough to receive their desires wish for a world in which those desires would make them better but after accepting that you are good enough, you think about why your desire also desires you.

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The reasons are simple – can you remember any time you brought happiness into the lives of others as well as your own? This often happens when starting a new relationship, enjoying and contributing to mutual happiness. What about a time when you made a friend or a family member happy, or changed someone’s life for the better because you could?

You are special. That says enough.

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Whether we practice self confidence, self love or trust in the Universe, we can perceive the value in ourselves easily. We were meant to feel valuable in our own lives.

Connect with your happiness at the start of each day. Be grateful, and start the day by doing something you love. It can be anything you want as long as it makes you happy. This positive start to the day will keep you on a positive track.

 

Confidence, Energy, Methods, Tools

My Creation Boost

by Nina Grdic4 Comments on My Creation Boost
My Creation Boost

Today, I thought about my personal boosts of positive creation energy.

In order to boost positive creation and the  manifestation of our desires, we are advised to find the manifestation helpers we enjoy. These methods can be visualization, sending out heart energy, repeating affirmations, perceiving our desires as if they have manifested already or anything similar.

One of my closest friends characterized a particular manifestation method in my case by saying,

“You’re like an excited school girl!”

And she was right.

In the company of closest friends, I love to talk about my planned manifestations as if they were a done deal, simply because they are. When I make decisions to manifest a certain desire, I love to gush about it. This doesn’t happen with every single planned manifestation but only the ones that feel good, so to speak – forgetting about some of my desires makes me happy but when it comes to some others, I love to share them with my closest friends.

This is how the process works.

When I talk about any desire that evokes a wish to gush, I am completely present in that moment. I don’t think about how exactly this specific desire might manifest and am just certain that it will, planning it while talking to a friend. When planning specific details around that desire, I adjust them to the present circumstances I see while being unattached to any details altogether, entertaining them as nothing but options and staying open to any possible manifestation path. If any negative thoughts come up during or after the planning, I already know they’re false – my post manifestation world is real, palpable, my (already) current reality and my new life.

After sharing my stories, I receive many signs of my desire manifesting.

If you were to talk about your desire today, how would you feel? Explore this as an option. If you were to discuss it, would you feel like it’s a done deal or think about your desire potentially not even manifesting?

Do you know that your desire belongs to you already but choose not to share it with anyone?

You might have a desire you wish to manifest one day but are consciously not ready for just yet. Or, you may have finally become ready to manifest a desire you’ve been wanting for a while.

You know that you’re ready to manifest your desire if you naturally dismiss any distractions and focus on the essence of attraction. Talking about your desire can provide the right focus, as long as you enjoy talking and sharing.

Attachment, Manifestation

The Asking/Manifesting Sensations

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The Asking/Manifesting Sensations

After deciding to manifest any specific desire you may have, do you feel a rush of excitement? Do you feel happiness, tingles and thrill all at the same time?

I do. Alternatively, I experience an outbreak of loving feelings, ease and calm. This particular sensation makes letting go in order to manifest easier than any other; when it happens, having to tell myself to let go in order to manifest is unnecessary.

Last week, I manifested one of my closest friends booking her tickets to visit me less than an hour after I expressed gratitude for her coming to visit and just believed. In this case, I felt the excitement. I didn’t know how or when she was going to tell me that she was coming to see me but I was excited while expressing gratitude and then, I just relaxed. Having repeated my gratitude affirmation three or four times, I told myself to let it go because I had asked and therefore had to receive. While repeating the affirmations, I quickly visualized picking her up from the airport and having her stay at my apartment. Before I knew it, she was informing me about booking her flights.

When manifesting love or other relationships, I often felt that very love combined with ease and calm. When wanting a specific person in your life, you probably want them because they make you happy and you wish to make them happier than they have ever been. This honest sensation can make you visualize strongly enough to experience how it feels to be with that person before you manifest. The loving feelings you feel for another allow you to see the two of you together for every good reason connecting back to the only relevant one – you love them and you want them.

No matter how you feel, be grateful for having manifested, as if you have already. Be grateful for your exciting life, reaching your goals, your dream career, your amazing love.

abundance, Awareness, Belief, Manifestation, Paradigm, power, Process, Specific person

Why I Love to Manifest

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Why I Love to Manifest

When it comes to LoA, I know that some fear it, don’t believe in it, find it too difficult or simply don’t believe in themselves. I am positive that most individuals realize that there are ways of making their dreams a reality but don’t believe the process can be easy; I am sure that some of those individuals believe LoA to be real but resist using it for various reasons.

Every time I attract things many don’t believe to be possible within hours, days or weeks, I realize how much I love to manifest all over again. I love it when I receive the exact work gigs I wanted. I love it when I manifest living somewhere I wanted to live. I love being offered even greater professional fees than I had imagined. I love manifesting contact from anyone I wanted to talk to. And, I love the feeling of immense excitement and gratitude every time I manifest intentionally.

Today, I loved manifesting one of my closest friends coming to visit me just weeks after I had taken a trip to see her. We’ve been close for twelve years and never failed to visit each other wherever we lived after college, the first day of which we had met. We spent a week together in June and wanted that to continue; we’d been talking about another week together since parting and today, an hour after I expressed gratitude for her coming to visit me, she informed me that she had booked her tickets.

In moments like these, my love for intentional manifestation seems to be the greatest whenever I do something to make both myself and others happy. When it comes to friendships and loves, we manifest mutual love and adoration. When it comes to manifesting the happiness, prosperity and well-being of others, we also manifest mutual love that is both ours for directing happy feelings at another and theirs for receiving the abundance of all sorts. If you wish someone well, their life will get even better.

Always wish others well – it will come back to you tenfold. Always manifest loving friendships and relationships, and cherish all those amazing individuals in your life. Always be convinced of your personal power and your ability to make others happy, and you will have the most amazing friendships and relationships in your life; your friends will support your relationships and your friendships will be even richer in love and value.