They say you can’t please everyone.
I say, why is that the goal? Continue reading “Idea of the Day”
They say you can’t please everyone.
I say, why is that the goal? Continue reading “Idea of the Day”
Often, a struggle in manifesting means one hasn’t pinpointed their priorities in life.
If you don’t know what is truly important to you, what you want to manifest and live every day, it can be difficult to find your happiness. There were times in my life when I wanted several things to a certain extent but nothing quite enough to make me choose. I either had to wait and see what I wanted (meaning, let go and see) or find something new.
However, if you know what you want and are sure that this is it, all you need to do is believe you can have it.
You must know what you want. Many of you do but there will also be those that don’t.
You might have thought you wanted something but are not ready to live it. You might like the idea of living a specific reality but honestly be unsure that you could deal with everything that reality brings every day.
For example, you might like the idea of being a parent but in truth, not be ready to accept everything that parenthood brings. You might not be able to see yourself as a parent right now or ever – at the same time, you might change your mind and realize you are ready.
If you want something but feel unprepared to accept everything that comes with it, you probably feel torn. You might not know what to do now but you must do the one thing you have been avoiding – looking within.
You must examine your own feelings and ask yourself what you truly want, without anyone else involved. You simply cannot avoid fulfilling your own needs first or put someone else’s ahead of your own.
Where are you headed? Where do you want to be headed? Decide what you want to live for yourself, not for anyone else.
You get what you give – we often hear this phrase when dealing with LoA. I often say it but I find it comforting. Why shouldn’t I receive a great life while sending positive vibes out into the world?
But what does this idea mean in terms of manifesting relationships?
“You get what you give” means being an amazing person and believing that your partner is one so that you could attract the kind of relationship you want with that person. If you believe that the both of you are amazing people, you will believe in the possibility of your desired relationship with that person. Whether you are manifesting being with a specific or a generic person you haven’t met yet, it means knowing that the relationship you want is yours and being the kind of person that deserves it, which means being the person who is convinced of deserving to live their desires.
You already are an amazing person and so is the person you are manifesting being with. Now, all you have to do is believe in it. Neither of you needs to be superhuman – you are both amazing just as you are.
I use the term “amazing” but you can use any term you want – “great,” “kind,” “good” or simply, “deserving.” Use anything you want!
If you don’t believe that you can manifest your desire just yet, make sure to be the kind of person you admire! Accept that you are good enough now but if you need to, improve yourself as well. Do the things you always wanted to do. Contribute to yourself and the world. Do whatever you need to do in order to finally realize that you are an amazing individual.
You must love yourself first so that you could love another and offer them a reason to come into your life.
When manifesting relationships, laying the groundwork is important in order to offer someone else a happy partnership. You are making sure you’re happy so that you could be the perfect partner.
If you feel that way already, just ask and receive but if you feel like you need some prep, keep reading.
Many want to manifest a relationship at the time they are unhappy which doesn’t make them a good partner. This is manifesting out of need, not love. Instead, these individuals need to be happy with what they already have in order to gain even more and be an amazing partner just the way they are.
Manifesting relationships is a serious thing because you must be a quality person in order to attract a quality partner and relationship. If you don’t feel good enough, the problem lies in your beliefs about what exactly quality means.
Too many people fear that quality means physical perfection, financial wealth, fame, fortune and similar things. They base the idea of quality on the external factors so much that they forget it is all about the internal. Not even your looks mean anything because it is all about your inner energy and if you look back on your life, you would understand why this is true, especially after observing your past relationships.
I realized a long time ago that looks, age, financial wealth or any other external factors don’t matter. Only those who think their looks and similar factors matter end up lowering their level of attraction to others. Those who believe that everyone will deem them amazing only if they do so themselves end up attracting whomever they want!
For all these reasons, giving love to yourself means laying the groundwork for a successful relationship.
Being uncomfortable with what you desire will prevent it from coming into your life; this concept translates into the intentional practice of LoA in various ways.
If you are aiming to manifest love but feel uncomfortable with the idea of living it for any reason (you know whether or not this is true), you are preventing it from coming into your life. This lack of comfort often translates into various doubts you may have around the idea of living your desire. If you doubt that the person you want to be with could love you, that you could be happy living a life with them under the circumstances you say you want or that the relationship would change your current reality too much, you are uncomfortable with it and are preventing a smooth manifestation process.
In this case, you need to think about your genuine feelings. You need to accept some things or believe that you can improve them.
If you want to be at your perfect weight, you have to be ready to live a life with that perfect weight and be ready to let go of your current physical appearance in order to manifest a new one.
If you want to manifest love and a specific life with it, you must now be ready to live that life so that you could manifest it and allow it to start. On the other hand, every time you have doubts, you will prevent your manifestation from happening. (Having doubts means engaging in them; dismissing any doubts that may come up means you’re ready to manifest).
In order to prevent any internal tension, you must relax and you know it.
What triggers attraction between two people is what moves the attraction process when it comes to LoA; it all comes down to the same thing.
I am not telling you to alter your personality but just relax and with that, change your awareness into that of having your desire.
Be honest with yourself. If you feel the need for manifesting your desire because you’d been trying so hard to get it (or for any other reason), this is not the right reason to manifest. The only reason to manifest a desire is if living it would make you happy, if you truly want to live it. If someone were manifesting love with you, would you want it to be out of need or for the love itself?
You get what you give. And once you relax, you will project the awareness of living your desire and/or overall confidence and happiness. You will give these things and what do you think that will get you? Just about everything you want!
While closing my garage door today, I once again thought of an idea I’d recently had. Since LoA works on the exact same principle regardless of one’s desire, I advise (you) conscious manifestation practitioners to look back on anything you have successfully manifested and apply the same principle to your current desires.
I manifest any desire the same way I manifest successfully closing my garage door.
When pressing the button, I know that my garage door is closed. I know that since I asked and decided so, it is so. When suddenly in fear of accidentally pressing my remote (located on my key chain) and opening the door, I remember that I already decided the door was closed and let go instantly.
Even when experiencing fear, I switch to a positive, secure mindset and I let it go.
Every time I experience any (false, as they always are) fear connected to my desire, I remember that the garage door is closed.
When the thought of my car resting safely in my garage enters my mind, I feel gratitude and express it.
Now, how can this specific creation method be applied to other desires you may have?
When thoughts of living your dreams enter your mind, entertain them. Love them! Love them even if just for a few seconds. When spontaneously envisioning how something might happen makes you happy and light, go with it.
Unfortunately, most tend to see the worst, the feared or the undesirable when it comes to manifesting love.
Love is an illusion. Love hurts. Love is scary. Love will break your heart. These are the phrases one tends to hear in life, making it difficult to entertain a belief that love can indeed be everything it’s cracked up to be. In truth, is there a real reason it couldn’t?
There isn’t. Every assumption or fear you may have related to the concept of love can be replaced with a more positive one. After all, if love is so horrible, why keep hoping for it despite all your negative thoughts? And, we all do.
Negative thoughts connected to the idea of one’s desired relationship might be a normal idea to many… But you deserve better than that. If your relationship history was undesirable, remember that now, you are living a different life. Decide that now, you are living the life of your dreams while the past stays in the past. Now, you have created a new relationship and in truth, we create as soon as we ask for something. After all, if you want it enough, you will decide it’s yours because you deserve it (and nothing less).
When it comes to relationships, your fear is either your comfort zone or, you are determined to beat it. How do you beat it? By focusing on positive thoughts. Your goal is not to fight negative thoughts but to develop an effortless ability to focus on the positive ones.
I recommend all of this as a new manifesting tactic. Think of something you successfully manifested in the past regardless of your fear that something could go wrong. In a very short time, you will know that your desire is yours.
Once you’ve truly had it with your negative thoughts, you will make the most powerfully determined decision that you are creating your new life now. Then, you will live it.