Why Do We Expect Our Biggest Needs Unmet?

Why Do We Expect Our Biggest Needs Unmet?

Whatever our needs are, we should consider them small; if we consider our needs massive, there's a chance that we'll begin to fear never meeting them and finding them elusive. Our needs are not something we should apologize for, as long as they don't hurt other people. As long as they don't hurt us. We [...]

Love or Attention – Which Do You Truly Want?

Love or Attention – Which Do You Truly Want?

This is going to be quite a self-help-type blog post. I've been thinking about obsession, manipulation and the need to attract attention (and, attraction) from the person one wants to manifest a relationship with rather than focusing on love. Sometimes, the need to be with someone and make a relationship happen with them can stand [...]