Holiday Announcement – To My Current and New Readers and Clients

My dearest people,

Over the holidays, my email, blogging and all coaching and messaging services will be suspended from December 19, 2018 until January 11, 2019.

All texts, inquiries, emails, comments and other remarks received during this time will be answered starting January 12.

Until December 19, I am still taking appointments for all single coaching sessions and look forward to hearing from anyone interested.

Lots of love and thank you for your understanding!

Love,

Nina






		
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LET’S TRACK MY PROFESSIONAL MANIFESTATIONS TOGETHER!

Hello, my dearest community! I would like new professional challenges in my life and I want us to track these manifestations together!

I want to do different and/or new things, professionally. I want to follow and report on my manifestation path under the new blog category called My Career.

Let me inspire you by manifesting my professional life!

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Today, I feel like telling you about my desires of different professions in life changing.

I used to study acting and met with directors trying to cast their movies. My drama school represented me. I also performed on stage and did plenty of screen tests. I was in my teens and even though I was good at it, I eventually moved onto other things. I was restless and too hungry for variety.

I had been writing my entire life but I spoke about my poems and essays being published on this blog in the past. I also took a photography and video course over the years.

In my early twenties, I dedicated time to singing and later became a DJ. Yes. I don’t look like one but I was damn good at it. I loved singing, felt that it moved others and I worked hard at it. I still remember the moment I met a seasoned Swedish producer who told me, “I rarely see a person who just feels the music the way you do. Keep singing – you’re going places!”

Then, I started writing books.

Writing and books touch people in a special way. Books change lives. Books can be revisited. Books are timeless. So is music. Working as a communications assistant in between also entailed meeting people in the film industry once again, as the IT company I collaborated with made software for studios and media companies. Everything sort of revolved around the same things, making others happy and inspiring through my own artistic expression.

I also wrote about teaching university seminars plenty in the past.

And then, I began life coaching and my personal life took a different turn. I was in a serious relationship nine years ago and have been in another for the past year. Being with a person I see myself marrying made me want to slow down a bit, at least for a few months, and just enjoy life. However, I was never looking to quit working. I just wanted enough alone time with a man I had been looking for. It feels amazing to have that balance, the balance that makes us the happiest. It’s amazing to be in love. Now that I’ve been reminded of how wonderful it is, I’m surprised I wanted to be single for years before we met.

I still crave knowledge. I recently took a make-up artistry course and did great. I almost never used make-up and the instructor, a professional beautician, told me I was doing great. I have to pick up my diploma this week. One of my closest friends told me she admired my craving for knowledge and it was one of the best compliments I ever got. Novelty makes me happy and I had even considered becoming certified in make-up artistry. Last week, I registered and started writing a new blog on vegan lifestyle and have been working on my third book.

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When manifesting professional engagements, it’s important to see yourself as an asset and never an underdog. Don’t think that some sort of injustice has been bestowed upon you if you don’t have a job yet. I was unemployed after finishing my Master’s and it’s not a big deal. I once quit a job without a backup and found a new one two weeks later. Any life circumstance can change instantly, as soon as we get our thoughts right.

All you have to do is believe and be ready to do what it takes.

Now, I’m thinking about what I want next. I want to keep coaching and inspiring but what else? I want to keep moving and inspiring regardless.

So, let’s begin!

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How to Tailor Your Manifestation to Yourself

On a drive taking care of my morning errands an hour ago, I started thinking how much any kind of anger or frustration with another person just isn’t worth it. Ever.

We are to focus on our goals and not the people involved in them. Oftentimes, the people we think are involved in them are actually irrelevant to the process – it’s all about knowing that you have what you want already and you will soon become aware that nothing can prevent it from happening.

Instead of thinking about all those negative people from your past, believe in meeting only the best kind of people in your future. Not everyone is worth your time – focus on meeting those who are and only those that suit your goals.

Tailor your life to yourself.

If you want to repair your relationship with someone, they are already worthy of your love. You can repair your relationship by reviewing their positive traits and being grateful for the traits you want to see them display to you. Think about how they fit into your life, not how you fit into theirs –  if you want to be with this person, you will believe that you’re already the perfect fit. Why would you think otherwise about someone you chose?

Why say that you want someone in your life but then say you’re not right for them? That would be a waste of time.

Why assume you’re wrong for a job or lifestyle you want, or that those are wrong for you? That would be a waste of time. We must assume we are exactly right for anything that would make us happy to have in our lives and that is how we’ll manifest it.

You have to assume that you’re right for what you want and that what you want is right for you – otherwise, why bother? If you don’t assume that what you want is right for you and that you are right for it, you will automatically worry about manifesting it whether you realize it or not.

When You “Fail” to Manifest – A Guide to Starting Over!

What happens when you think your manifestation might arrive at a specific moment yet it doesn’t? You might have gotten signs or feedback that lead you to believe it was happening only to discover that it wasn’t what you hoped for, at least not just yet. 

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You Must Focus on Your Ultimate Goal…Now!

Have you ever, for any reason, forgotten this very simple idea?

You must not obsess about the “how” or any other details of your manifestation but only keep your eye on your ultimate goal!

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We Want to Feel Special, Not Famous… So, Why is Fame Appealing?

 

Have you ever wondered why the concept of fame is attractive?

It is not because one wants to be worshipped by the entire world.

It is because one wants to feel special and accomplished while celebrated for their unique talents. 

The Stages of Overcoming Annoyance

Getting rid of the feelings of anger, annoyance or irritation has been my personal battle against negative thoughts at times. It was either one of the following two – fearing boredom or feeling annoyed with people or circumstances completely unnecessary to my situation.

Once, my then boyfriend’s ex attempted to interfere with our relationship. I told him I would get end our relationship if he didn’t cut her off. He did. I have been harshly dismissing people who had attempted to involve themselves in any situation of my life ever since even though I am often aware that simply ignoring them is enough. And I can tell you that this irritation with them instead of pretending they don’t exist doesn’t make me feel good. Today, I have made a promise to myself that I will continue to act as if they don’t even exist – to me, this is positive thinking because it means removing myself away from negativity and the people generating it.

Lately, my weakness hasn’t been firing back at those that have tried to insert themselves into my life (you have to sometimes) but still being irritated with them long after I chased them away. 

Life Coaching, Professional and Personal

I love sharing personal examples in my coaching. I think that a good life coach should be an authentically positive person who is good at living life because someone like that will have stories, understand them in terms of the Law of Attraction and never suggest unrealistic visualization or other methods they can’t even connect with themselves.

Positivity is real. Negative thoughts exist but can be ignored – you don’t have to make an extraneous effort to remove them. Just knowing they are powerless over you if you decide as much is enough to ignore them (even if they rattle you at first). A good life coach will encourage you to do this because they know you can! You could wake up tomorrow and find that last bit of motivation you’ve been missing which should be the goal your coach has for you.

A personal story is powerful because it provides a lifelike analysis of LoA that makes the listener realize how they feel about things. Offer your own point of view and you will be doing someone else a favor, making them see how they would handle this, the feelings they would have and their opinion of the situation (which doesn’t belittle your choices in any way, even if they disagree with you). It is not you job to persuade others to follow – it is you choice to offer you perspective generously so that others could gain a second opinion and possibly find themselves in the process.

When your main focus in on yourself instead of other people’s thoughts, actions and life choices, you find yourself capable of generously sharing you examples without the need for approval or validation.

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If You Think Law of Attraction is Fiction…

I used to write poetry and fiction, became a published author in my preteens and eventually, decided that I preferred writing about real life. Fiction can never be as powerful as real life, no matter how much it is based on it.

Some people have asked me whether Law of Attraction was fiction or not. Some perceive visualization and the concept of living as if to be fiction for as long as it is different from “real life.” However, current reality and visualization of an ideal one are equally real, as one’s ideal reality must be seen as real in order to manifest into the current.

If you perceive visualization and living as if as fiction, how can you ever allow it to become your current reality?

You can’t. You have to believe in the possibility of your ideal reality becoming your life in order to allow it to happen.

Believing in living your ideal reality is not as scary as you think. I know it’s easy to hesitate to imagine living your ideal life for several reasons – fear of loss, fear of success, breaking out of your comfort zone… Yes, these things sound scary but as soon as you try, fear begins to fade. If you did it just a few times, it would go away completely.