When you transform the core of your personality to positive, to being a positive individual, your periods of succumbing to annoyance naturally last briefly.
If the Law of Attraction confuses you at times, you probably find yourself bouncing from the thoughts of living your desire to the thoughts of not having it in your current reality just yet. This is one of the most common manifestation and LoA teaching problems; it is where attachment and the refusal to let go rule one’s awareness.
If you can’t take the focus off your current reality, your desired one isn’t making you happy enough…yet. You must make the visualizations and feelings of having your desire more vivid, creative and reflecting what you want instead of what you don’t or what you fear having to settle for.
If you pay equal attention to your positive and negative thoughts, you are stuck between the realities, so to speak. However, focusing on your desired reality is always the answer. The more you nurture positive feelings about your desired reality, the more your current one will fade.
Can you imagine what your life would look like if your entire visualization focus rested on having and living your desire already? It would be everything you see and it would lead to manifestation. You wouldn’t think twice about still living your current reality and you would start to enjoy it while knowing that your desired reality is coming.
When manifesting anything you can imagine, I consider it a done deal. All my happiness goes into the thoughts of living my desire which takes the focus off my current reality, allowing me to live it and stop paying attention to the insignificant details in it. As I enjoy these visualizations, my awareness soaks up the feeling of having what I want. With my desire in my life, I imagine it to be inspiring, positively challenging and full of enjoyment.
When you make your desired reality that happy, the current becomes something you don’t even think about. You don’t mind it and might start to enjoy it as a result. In addition, this approach is pure self love due to the giving of love to yourself and having your desire.
If you can’t take the focus off your current reality, you will as soon as you make your desired one more engaging in your mind. Then, you will also let go to manifest.
At the same time, impatience and a lack of self love prevent many from entirely letting go of the current reality and putting their faith into the desired; instead, many look for short-term solutions and “steps” to manifest their desire slowly, wanting to feel happy now without having to take the time to locate their limiting beliefs and personal manifesting blocks.
Some refuse to let go due to the fear of actually manifesting their desire, feeling undeserving of that manifestation and fearing its eventual loss instead of praising its gain and presence. If this is you, repeating the affirmation “I am good enough” whenever you feel the need is going to work for you.
Today, I want to solve a specific issue several of my beloved readers stated in their blog comments.
Since Christmas or in some cases, January 1st, several of you have commented that you wished your soon-to-be significant others (because I believe in all of you) happy holidays to no reply. Or, some of you wished to receive a greeting from your specific person but didn’t.
You are hoping for a specific reaction from a specific person – a text or a reply to a text. But what if you got it and didn’t represent a significant shift you were hoping for in your relationship manifestation? Specific behaviors don’t always bring what you want just because you think they should – you have to let your specific person express themselves in the way they wish. That means letting them be and allowing them to come to you. This is why being relaxed about your desire is vital and completely natural when you allow the person to just be themselves. They might say what you want to hear over text or in an even better way. You want a reply but what if that reply makes you realize you’re still in the same place you were before it? What if there’s a better way to move forward but you refuse to allow it because you’re hooked on that reply?
You can stop needing that text or reply.
Do you want the reply or the relationship?
This isn’t criticism! It is nothing but advice on how to stop doing what’s making you feel awful. Needing specific steps or ways of manifestation (i.e. specific texts) makes you feel sad, needy and lowers your vibration too effectively. And I want you to be happy.
You have to assume that the relationship you want is yours and remain true to that belief.
You weren’t energetically open to receiving communication which doesn’t mean that he/she doesn’t care. Simply take a look at what your worrying says about you. What are your limiting beliefs? If you really love this person, you will believe that you can make them happy, want to make them happy and let them come to you.
Things are never as bad as they seem.
Do you want to be close to your person, live a life of closeness or want to manifest texts?
When you know your desire belongs to you, when you are deeply sure, you can text and do whatever else you want because you will continue to believe until you manifest.
When evaluating our negative thoughts, their origins and current form, we may be tempted to blame our pasts, parents, exes or misfortunes for all our limiting beliefs.
The truth is, everything one allows into one’s belief system creates their reality. One’s past, parents, exes or misfortunes were merely the vehicles offering specific beliefs which are one’s choice to accept or reject.
Taking responsibility for your limiting beliefs which attracted your experiences is a great way to raise your vibration. No matter what it takes, you may choose to hold onto the negative feelings or break free from them. If you genuinely want to and know that you can, you will emerge on the other side a more positive individual than you ever knew you could be.
Just to be clear, I am not saying you have asked for your specific negative experiences to manifest in your life. I am not saying you deserved them. I know that fear can be paralyzing and I don’t blame you for being unable to escape it at certain times in your life. I am merely saying that where you are today is the only thing that matters right now. From here, you can create any kind of life you want. If you genuinely want to be happy, you can and will achieve your bliss. If you genuinely desire to overcome your troubles, you can.
I’ve experienced breakups, unemployment, living in a place I hated profoundly and insecurities. Once admitting that I’ve attracted these things into my life with my temporarily negative attitude, I was already on my way to fixing them.
Once I admitted to myself that I felt guilty about not genuinely wanting to be with a boyfriend, having second thoughts, that I picked fights with him because I wanted out and made mistakes (having not loved him enough), I could make peace with a break-up and move on.
Once I became grateful for being unemployed, having all the time in the world to spend with my friends, family and dogs, go to the gym and travel for pleasure as much as I wanted to, I would find employment according to my exact specifications. During this time, I always knew that the job was mine already, already on its way to me. I just knew. That was all I needed.
Once I became determined to find the good aspects of living in a specific place which I practically hated, I got the opportunity to move. I decided to make friends, tutor students, learn to play drums and join a choir. I was also Suddenly, I got to miss school for a while and during this absence, I found out my family was to move away. I was beyond grateful.
Any and every insecurity I’d ever experienced ended when I decided it would – that was how much I wanted to be confident and happy. I knew who I wanted to be and filled this idea with pure passion. This is why having the clearest possible idea of what you truly desire is vital to your success – knowing what you want and how you want to feel can only be experienced without resistance once it resonates with your heart.
Does this sound familiar?
Taking responsibility for your past comes down to making peace with it and leaving it behind instead of bringing it back into your reality. It comes down to being unburdened by it or simply taking all of its positive aspects into your present – nothing else. The “taking responsibility” part comes down to one decision and much positive recognition to follow.
Do you feel that a negative experience from your past is preventing you from being yourself?
If a negative experience you once went through was simply too painful to attach gratitude to, finding only one positive outcome it had will already raise your vibration. Maybe your negative experience made you stronger. Maybe it raised your awareness of specific issues in the world and motivated you to help others. Ultimately, will you break free from the prison of this negative experience and claim your happiness? Because you deserve it.
If you think you can’t, consider the benefits your present situation of being stuck brings.
None. You already knew this. Now, imagine how amazing you would feel if you overcame your negative experience – don’t you think you deserve that much happiness?
Recognizing one positive outcome that came out of your negative experience is enough. It might even be enough for you to entirely make peace with the said experience.
Once you’ve made peace with your past and taken responsibility for your thoughts, fears and actions, you can put all the passion in the world into your desire.
That is how I often create.
Everything I received rapidly, I’d put endless passion into. If I couldn’t see the way something would happen, I would decide that a miracle would occur. I rely on my decisions, trust the Universe and in turn, I have experienced more miracles in life than I could almost believe. I intentionally manifested a move to another continent at age fourteen. Every relationship I’ve ever been in was manifested intentionally, with a specific or a generic person at a specific time. I received double the fees I had asked for my work. Leaving the creation part up to the Universe feels right to me, which is not to say that I never took any specific steps towards a specific desire.
When you know it’s yours, you know what to do.
However, you won’t believe it could be yours until you’ve rid yourself of limiting beliefs. Taking the responsibility for them will allow you to receive your desires. There is no reason to hold onto those limiting beliefs – you already know that, too.
This is one of the most important posts I have ever written.
I often stress the importance of directing feelings of love and appreciation towards oneself regardless of one’s current life circumstances, physical appearance, social or financial status. Some may think they need specific external validation in order to achieve their desired self-confidence, a notion entirely untrue.
Six years ago, I manifested weight loss of about 20 lbs. I thought it would make me as confident as I always wanted to be. However, I felt exactly the same and was shocked over that very fact. My awareness and with it, my self-confidence, never changed until I faced my limiting beliefs.
Every time I manifested a relationship I desired, I felt the same after I’d received it. I wasn’t permanently happier – I was only more excited. After the excitement wore off, I was the same person. Each time, I was expecting that the relationship would bring out an even better side of me, forgetting that I and I alone had the capability of doing so. My absolute best always rested in me, not in my relationship.
I’m only thirty years old and back then, I was in my mid twenties. I hadn’t learned everything I needed to just yet.
If you think your life circumstances, current job, physical appearance or financial status stand in the way of being the person you desire to be, this is the person you never were. An amazing person is amazing regardless of what is happening around them. Energy movement ensures that once you are capable of being the person you desire to be, you will manifest all your desires. You have to believe before receiving – the essence of LoA.
Directing feelings of love and happiness towards oneself expands one’s self-confidence, which is an essential element of effortless manifestation.
If you love who you are, never criticize yourself for your negative thoughts. Learn to love your appearance just as it is, knowing that you can change it whenever you want. If you hate your job, do you want to be the person who embraces the misery or one who changed their circumstances? Once you opt for the latter, use LoA. Decide that your dream job is yours now and never abandon that resolve. Every time you encounter a negative thought, simply replace it with a positive one.
You might think you would approach the person you love if you were more attractive or wealthier. You might think that these external attributes would offer you a needed confidence kick but in reality, they would only distract you from dealing with your deep-seeded issues.
And, you know it.
Being the person you desire to be requires strong resolve.
When you feel like you’re drowning in your negative thoughts, say to yourself,
“My dream life is mine right now. Thank you.”
Your happiness and focus will change effortlessly. LoA is a way of living and your awareness will change as a result of evoking happiness within.
When you encounter an undesirable thought, say to yourself,
“I forgive myself for those thoughts. I am manifesting my dream life right now. My desires are a done deal.”
As soon as you say it, you will feel warmth around your heart. Your happiness will change your awareness and you will let your desire go effortlessly, allowing it to manifest.
Be happy forgiving yourself for your negative thoughts and be happy that your dream life belongs to you. Feeling this much happiness excludes all resistance, allowing you to allow your desires to come to you in the most natural flow imaginable.
If you encounter an undesirable circumstance, say to yourself,
“I am grateful because there is an even better way for my desire to manifest than this would have been.”
Believe it and then, let it go.
The essence of your life lies in your love for the person you are. You are capable of effortlessly being everything you desire to be. Directing love towards yourself when you feel your best, your worst, your happiest, your most hopeless is going to take you there.
Job hunting (or, attracting) with the help of LoA could cause wonderment, I find; going against every principle one has ever been taught about job hunting, Law of Attraction can seriously help.
After all, haven’t we concluded that the limiting beliefs one has been compiling throughout their lifetime are nothing but self-imposed obstacles?
Obtaining a desired job works on the same principle as everything else when it comes to the Law of Attraction – you feel that the job is yours already, feel love and gratitude for it as well as absolute happiness, visualize yourself at work if you like visualization and/or prepare for it as you wish. Surely, you can relate to these ideas when looking back on every job you have ever gotten – you were either sure it was yours or filled the idea of having it already with love and light energy, causing it to come into your life effortlessly.
I’ve created jobs in various ways throughout my life. Once, I wanted fulfilling work I could pour my heart into, one that would entail writing and teaching. I’d said to myself, “Job offers are pouring in. Thank you for the career of my dreams.” This way, I’d removed any illusions of having to do everything in order to get a job and completely allowed the Universe to manifest my desire.
About ten days later, I received a phone call. A great recommendation in my name found its way to the dean of a university, wanting me to come in. This work engagement lasted shortly before going on hiatus once I became unsure of wanting it anymore… Typical. Then, I decided it was mine again. It ended up returning to me in an even more spectacular setup, new amazing assignments added, causing me to receive even more than I had asked for.
Soon, I received an email from another university; even though I was told that the head of the school never answers emails himself, I said to myself, “He’ll answer me.” After emailing with me for hours, we scheduled an interview.
This was the start of the lecturing and motivational/inspirational speaking part of my career.
When it came to these particular work engagements, I had only created them in as much detail as I felt like coming up with – at the time, that was enough for me. I mainly focused on the feeling of having work engagements that suited me momentarily. The feeling of gratitude towards doing significant work which I loved and which happened on my terms was plenty to give me the sense of having it already.
The lack of jobs available is a perception created by some while those who see plenty of jobs available are the ones who actually find them. No matter what you’re told, accepting it means allowing the external world to dictate your life. However, when you’re fully aware of your desired job being yours already, you fail to even consider any other options. Someone tells you they’re not hiring right now? Stay convinced that the job is yours – circumstances change by the day! In this case, you simply have to be willing to believe that anything is possible. However, if you realize that you genuinely desire another job or the same job somewhere else, move on. Listen to your feelings, values and priorities in deciding the amount of detail necessary for you to create the awareness of loving what you do.
An unavoidable part of creating a dream job is loving what you do. How many individuals dislike their work but never consider the fact that things could be better? This kind of habit keeps them in the same place for a long time and the best thing you could do is consider whether or not you desire the same for yourself.
When it comes to creating your dream job, creating your image in relation to it as well as a lifestyle that comes with it is a useful technique for creating the feeling of having the job already.
I certainly enjoy this practice – when creating separate work engagements or various aspects of my career, I create an entire image around them. I decide how much money I am going to make as well as the perks I am going to receive. I decide how happy I am going to make those around me with my work and how much help I am going to provide to them. I enjoy everything I give and everything I deserve. I choose the details of my appearance which fit in with this new aspect of my image. I see how others treat me and feel their reactions, all of which I love.
Some of the reactions coming from the world in regards to your new job could be jealousy or attempted devaluing. In today’s world, where many have fallen into the self-imposed struggle of finding any job, some of them will be jealous of your success. Accept this reaction and accept that you deserve your dream job regardless of what anyone says. Wish for them to find their own happiness, too, but ignore their negative reactions.