Why It’s Hard to Power Through the Current Pain to Eventually Manifest

I see this example frequently in my coaching – a wonderful individual is hurt by the lack of evidence in their desire manifesting, yet the frustration in the lack of evidence perpetuates the lack of manifestation.

Why? Because Law of Attraction corresponds with our feelings about a specific desire. When we feel like it isn’t ours and are upset about it, we must receive more of it.

When we affirm that our desire is ours (because we’d decided so), believe that the Universe is making it happen and imagine living our most desired scenarios while relying on that decision and our belief instead of the current reality, we will begin to feel good about our desire. And then, we will manifest.


There is no perfect answer – we just have to choose to believe. Searching for the perfect solution only delays the manifestation, losing days of thinking positive (which would be much more productive).

Becoming the person you want to be requires thinking like that person now. If you had your desired job/relationship/home/bank account balance now, how would you look at things? Which values would you nurture? How would you feel about things around you – same as you do now, or differently? When you see things this way, positive thinking is easy and enjoyable, fulfilling its purpose of uplifting feelings and changes in your life.


Relationships are one of our favorite topics on this blog, and I believe the world needs better relationships in every way. Every relationship still begins with deciding the way you want to feel in it.

You might think this is egotistical. You might subscribe to the idea that it’s all about the other person. You might think you’d be selfish to think like this but let me ask you – what would your relationship look like if you were only fulfilling the needs of your partner and neglecting your own?

You might still be accepting that in a relationship, your needs must be fulfilled, too. You might be thinking about just making your person happy and how it would be enough. The truth is, it would only be enough for now.

As you affirm that you make your specific person the happiest they’ve ever been, and are willing to honor their needs and life, you must also think about them fulfilling your relationship requirements, guilt free. Because, why wouldn’t you deserve everything you are willing to give? You do. And you must receive it. Relationships cannot be one-sided and that’s why you must visualize having what you want from a person you respect enough to give them them the same.


Not putting enough feeling into the idea/concept/imagining/visualization of having your needs met will make you see roadblocks and cause you even more pain.

You are currently experiencing a lack of manifestation because you are neglecting your side and allowing the current reality with your person to dictate the course of your manifestation. You are giving them all the power – why do they deserve to decide on the course of the relationship and you don’t?

They say they don’t want the relationship. You however know how happy you would be together. Why do you feel guilty believing while making a conscious effort to be the best person you can be every day? Why is he/she right to decide you aren’t a match? If you believe in your desire, you are right, too. Let your positive feelings prevail. But don’t let them go just because your person doesn’t see it right now – if you happiness, positivity and confidence grow, your energy will manifest a change.

This is where confidence matters most. You are as amazing as you decide, not only as good as someone else does.


No matter how impossible it seems, give it a shot and one step at a time, visualize your person being the kind of partner you desire.

Do you remember the secret ingredient to make it easier?

Strongly deciding that you are in the kind of relationship you desire, with the person you chose.

When you decide your relationship is coming to life unstoppably, it’s easy to relish in positive feelings about its inevitable delivery. We need to reconnect with visualizing our lives while believing in magic as well as compatibility, miracles as well as desire, and creation as well as determination to achieve.


See Your Desires as Facts and You Will Never Fail to Manifest Them

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Can you be happy if courage is not a part of who you are? I think it’s a very interesting question that can make anyone think about who they want to be.

Do you feel happy being the person who dares to know that what they want is theirs? A done deal, pre-made already. No going back on the fact that you’re about to receive this and live your life with it. And that’s precisely the case.

You must see your desires as facts, as they are the facts of upcoming events in your life.


Courage is not as unattainable as it seems; courage is present when you know that what you want is a fact already. Knowing is courage. And knowing is normal. Some people view courage as something they will never have but courage means what all of life does – believing in the unseen before we can see it.

Everyone is brave in some way. Observe your personality and recognize the ways in which you are courageous. If you’re brave enough to do all the things you dare to do, you have already shown yourself the courage to make anything happen; according to Law of Attraction, nothing is more or less difficult to manifest than anything else and there are no “big” or “small” desires. The magnitude of any desire is determined by the individual manifesting it, which is why we must see everything we want as normal, small or easy to get.

Believing in the unseen is the way life is truly created. We have to imagine ourselves having what we want, even for a second, in order to attract it into our lives. Sometimes, we do it unconsciously; sometimes, subconsciously. But we can do it completely consciously if we love the idea of living our desire, know that it would make us happy and know that we are the right person for it.

Whether our desire is money or a relationship, we have to see ourselves making it happy as it makes us. You have the power to make the person you have chosen the happiest they’ve ever been. That money is what the Universe wants to give you because you have decided it belongs with you. When you love money, you attract it; when you want money, that money wants to come to you because that is the Law of Attraction.

So when you can see yourself having that money, the money will come. What we believe and what we know is what we will absolutely end up attracting.

Don’t let yourself believe that you will never have your desire or that it’s still difficult to manifest! And don’t be afraid to feel the emotion of having it already. Feeling this emotion takes courage and if you had the courage to do so many things in your life, as everything in life takes some courage to achieve, you can certainly be brave enough to feel.

When we feel, we are happy; when we are happy, we become addicted to happiness.

We must know our desire belongs with us. We make our desire happy as it does us. And how could something that belongs with us not be easy to manifest?

The easier we view our desire, the faster we end up manifesting it.

Manifestation Epidemic – Wanting to “Do” When You Should Be Letting Go

Knowing your desire is yours but not seeing it in your current reality just yet can be frustrating. At this stage of manifestation, you might be wondering what you’re supposed to be doing or simply how to distract yourself when the thought of having your desire makes you so excited that it is all you can possibly think about.

At this stage, you might be tempted to start “doing” something to make your desire manifest faster but please refrain – in this exact moment, you should simply distract yourself by doing other things, especially enjoying the things you have time for now but won’t as much once you have manifested your desire.

Every change of circumstances changes a life. With every new chapter, we have a little less time for some aspects of the previous. There are things you could be enjoying right now that you won’t have as much time or energy for once your desire is manifested so focus on them instead. In turn, they will allow you to let go of your desire entirely only to see it appear in your current reality faster than you think!

This change of focus is more beneficial than you might currently realize.

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Are You Ashamed of Your Past/Present?

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If you are, it might be the reason you keep getting stuck, manifesting the same situations over and over again, without knowing how to break free and manifest what you want for a change.

Is shame the manifesting block you have been trying to pinpoint and overcome? If so, you are now on your way out of the darkness.

Being ashamed of something you’ve done or experienced is just another version of feeling as if you are not good enough; it is the fear of inadequacy that makes you doubt your own worth, power or ability to make life happen. That sense of shame can be strong enough to effortlessly keep you focused on your perceived mistakes instead of enjoying the visualizations of the life you want, making you feel like you don’t deserve that life because of the embarrassment endured.

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