We have to be the ones to validate ourselves – there’s no other way around it.
Hello, my dearest community! I would like new professional challenges in my life and I want us to track these manifestations together!
I want to do different and/or new things, professionally. I want to follow and report on my manifestation path under the new blog category called My Career.
Let me inspire you by manifesting my professional life!
Today, I feel like telling you about my desires of different professions in life changing.
I used to study acting and met with directors trying to cast their movies. My drama school represented me. I also performed on stage and did plenty of screen tests. I was in my teens and even though I was good at it, I eventually moved onto other things. I was restless and too hungry for variety.
I had been writing my entire life but I spoke about my poems and essays being published on this blog in the past. I also took a photography and video course over the years.
In my early twenties, I dedicated time to singing and later became a DJ. Yes. I don’t look like one but I was damn good at it. I loved singing, felt that it moved others and I worked hard at it. I still remember the moment I met a seasoned Swedish producer who told me, “I rarely see a person who just feels the music the way you do. Keep singing – you’re going places!”
Then, I started writing books.
Writing and books touch people in a special way. Books change lives. Books can be revisited. Books are timeless. So is music. Working as a communications assistant in between also entailed meeting people in the film industry once again, as the IT company I collaborated with made software for studios and media companies. Everything sort of revolved around the same things, making others happy and inspiring through my own artistic expression.
I also wrote about teaching university seminars plenty in the past.
And then, I began life coaching and my personal life took a different turn. I was in a serious relationship nine years ago and have been in another for the past year. Being with a person I see myself marrying made me want to slow down a bit, at least for a few months, and just enjoy life. However, I was never looking to quit working. I just wanted enough alone time with a man I had been looking for. It feels amazing to have that balance, the balance that makes us the happiest. It’s amazing to be in love. Now that I’ve been reminded of how wonderful it is, I’m surprised I wanted to be single for years before we met.
I still crave knowledge. I recently took a make-up artistry course and did great. I almost never used make-up and the instructor, a professional beautician, told me I was doing great. I have to pick up my diploma this week. One of my closest friends told me she admired my craving for knowledge and it was one of the best compliments I ever got. Novelty makes me happy and I had even considered becoming certified in make-up artistry. Last week, I registered and started writing a new blog on vegan lifestyle and have been working on my third book.
When manifesting professional engagements, it’s important to see yourself as an asset and never an underdog. Don’t think that some sort of injustice has been bestowed upon you if you don’t have a job yet. I was unemployed after finishing my Master’s and it’s not a big deal. I once quit a job without a backup and found a new one two weeks later. Any life circumstance can change instantly, as soon as we get our thoughts right.
All you have to do is believe and be ready to do what it takes.
Now, I’m thinking about what I want next. I want to keep coaching and inspiring but what else? I want to keep moving and inspiring regardless.
So, let’s begin!
On a drive taking care of my morning errands an hour ago, I started thinking how much any kind of anger or frustration with another person just isn’t worth it. Ever.
We are to focus on our goals and not the people involved in them. Oftentimes, the people we think are involved in them are actually irrelevant to the process – it’s all about knowing that you have what you want already and you will soon become aware that nothing can prevent it from happening.
Instead of thinking about all those negative people from your past, believe in meeting only the best kind of people in your future. Not everyone is worth your time – focus on meeting those who are and only those that suit your goals.
Tailor your life to yourself.
If you want to repair your relationship with someone, they are already worthy of your love. You can repair your relationship by reviewing their positive traits and being grateful for the traits you want to see them display to you. Think about how they fit into your life, not how you fit into theirs – if you want to be with this person, you will believe that you’re already the perfect fit. Why would you think otherwise about someone you chose?
Why say that you want someone in your life but then say you’re not right for them? That would be a waste of time.
Why assume you’re wrong for a job or lifestyle you want, or that those are wrong for you? That would be a waste of time. We must assume we are exactly right for anything that would make us happy to have in our lives and that is how we’ll manifest it.
You have to assume that you’re right for what you want and that what you want is right for you – otherwise, why bother? If you don’t assume that what you want is right for you and that you are right for it, you will automatically worry about manifesting it whether you realize it or not.
We simply must know what kind of life(style) we want because knowing what would truly make us happy is the key to manifesting it. Unless we know, we have to settle for letting the Universe provide it but then what do you do in the meantime? Isn’t it better to discover what would make you happy on your own and then visualize it while knowing it’s yours already?
If it isn’t better to do it this way, you can always ask the Universe to show you your true happiness and stay patient while allowing it to happen. But if you want to discover it yourself, you will live a life of trying different things and having fun with them until you find your ultimate bliss.
One of the things I always, always, always (!!!) wanted to have as part of my lifestyle was traveling. If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you know I started manifesting not just traveling but living in various countries on various continents when I was fourteen. Continue reading “Should You Only Want Unique Beauty or Can You Also Want Guilt-Free Luxury?”
In my books, blogging and personal coaching, I have always emphasized two options for using affirmations to attract the desired – being grateful for your desire being yours already or expressing gratitude for your desire being on its way. Either way works but your choice depends on what makes you comfortable, allowing you to either feel good about everything being yours already or accept its upcoming arrival without experiencing resistance from being too aware it isn’t here yet. (The latter requires being okay in your current reality as it is, until your desire arrives).
Some can easily imagine their desires being a done deal in the sense of belonging to them already – these individuals have the easiest time imagining reality as they want it to be. Others can imagine themselves having their desires but have an easier time thinking those desires are still coming to life which allows them to let go.
I still switch between the two depending on the goal in question but today, I prefer the method of expressing gratitude for living my desired reality right now. It’s my life already; it’s mine right now. Technique one. Continue reading “The Next Chapter”
When it comes to manifestation, you might be closer to your goal than you realize.
You might think you have no money only to discover that your bank account balance increased while you weren’t looking.
You might deem it impossible to imagine living the life you want only to find yourself indulging in related visualizations soon after and coming out a different, more positive person.
A simple change in your daily dynamics could help you realize how far you’ve come and what a positive person you genuinely are.
You might fear you will never attract the person you want to be with (back) into your life only to finally let go as a result, shift your awareness entirely and all of a sudden, manifest.
Being uncomfortable with what you want means being uncomfortable with yourself. It means being uncomfortable with the version of yourself living your desire, the you that chooses to live the life that makes you feel good.
Ask yourself why. Do you not believe that living what you say you want would make you happy? Would it change your life too much? Do you fear losing it after attracting it?
Share your thoughts below.