Tuning Out Expected Fears and Negativity – How to Ignore Those Who Say “That’s just how it is!”

Earlier this week, I intentionally manifested something I had been told that “No one ever gets.” So what if they don’t? I was going to be the first. 

I wasn’t actually the first and I’m sure of it. The thing about manifestations is that someone has always done it before you. Whichever goal that seems to be impossible, someone has attracted it at some point in time. Rarely do we actually do something no one has ever done but when manifesting, our situation always seems unique, something that has never been done before. 

Where does that even come from, the never before seen and done? It comes from other people’s impressions and their stories. It comes from something they heard and experienced. It comes from them – not you – but it makes you feel like you will never get there if you listen to them. 

Tuning out those whose experience is the opposite of your goals is just good sense. Their life went the way it did because of their own attitude but where your life goes will depend of yours. 

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There are no universal rules of how and where one’s life will go except for what they expect. The fact that your expectations create your fate is the only universal rule there is. This is the essence of the Law of Attraction – what you expect to receive, be that your desire or the opposite, is what will end up happening. 

So, how can you tune out the voices from the outside and in your head telling you that you can’t manifest because it’s simply “not the way it goes?” Why should the way it was for them be the way it goes for you? 

It shouldn’t. But what we must be aware of is that if we believe them, the words of those around us will impact our manifestation. If we give them enough meaning to allow them to block our beliefs, we allow those blocks to actually become our own beliefs and keep us from living our dreams. 

At the same time, if the words of others are the only distraction we have, we’re lucky. It’s much more difficult to escape thoughts of the past in one’s mind and it is even easier to fear them. 

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The way to keep these voices out is to repeat to yourself what you want; then, immediately switch it with “It is what I must receive.” Do you want it? Does it make you happy? Then go for it! Acknowledging it as the only thing you must receive puts your focus on living your dreams and not someone else’s failed goals. 

The truth is, life doesn’t exist without belief. Sometimes, we manifest what we want and then want something better, faster and more profound. Other times, we manifest what we want but as it unfolds, we decide that we want an aspect of it to move faster (I’ve done this recently as well!) so we make that happen. And other times, we decide that the way we lived life until now was great and happy but we want and are ready for more so we step up our game. 

However you put it, life is beautiful and full of opportunities. All that matters is what we choose. And every time you manifest something you have never had before, it gets easier next time.

Think about this – if you got used to manifesting new things and experiencing the unconventional, you would never be afraid of attracting anything you’ve never done. So, practice. Attract something new every day. Attract a gift from someone. Let someone buy you flowers. Manifest some money from an unexpected source. Start small and soon, you will be changing your life entirely. 

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Manifesting Relationships – Does it Matter What Kind?

When I say relationships, I mean friendships, love, family relationships, professional relationships and any other you can think of. Let’s discuss manifesting them!

I believe we all have something we absolutely love to manifest and manifesting specific people is what really turns me on. Attracting friendships, relationships and specific people I want professional opportunities from makes all of us happy simply because I have decided that I bring happiness.

Manifesting specific relationships brings love into our lives while making them everything we wanted them to be.

When manifesting relationships with specific people, I aim for the both of us to be happy, if not happier than ever.

Manifesting professional opportunities means just as much to me in terms of making people happy.

Some people get a rush from manifesting money. Others, career opportunities. They get a rush from feeling powerful and manifesting even more power into their lives. I love to manifest both those things and maintain my professional and financial lifestyle with ease but the purpose of my work is to inspire other people. I love it when my work offers me an opportunity to create my best work to date and when I motivate myself to create it. I love being financially compensated for my work because it achieved the expected result. I love feeling deserving of the compensation I wish to receive and enjoy it.

Feeling deserving of living the life I want and nurturing my interests and goals makes me feel even more convinced that I am bringing happiness, excitement and value into the lives of the people I manifest relationships with. Everything I do and everything I choose to do makes me a happier person.

When it comes to feeling deserving of desires manifested, I always push for self-confidence as the answer. You already know that. However, self-confidence doesn’t mean having to be someone you are not; self-confidence means being comfortable being the person you wish to be, being comfortable doing the things you wish to do.

Self-confidence means feeling deserving of living the life you want.

When it comes to friendships, for example, self-confidence means avoiding being affected by negative opinions of others while choosing friends according to their appreciation of you and your friendship. Truly loving friends will love you and be happy for you while also loving and being happy for themselves.

When it comes you, self-confidence and love mean refusing to engage in negative self-perception, fears and negative life anticipations.

Self-confidence means expecting to receive the happiness you truly deserve. By default, self-confidence also means sending love out into the world with your actions, words, feelings and your honest approach to people.

When it comes to manifesting relationships, self-confidence means believing that you are succeeding because your goal is to make the person you want in your life happy! They already make you happy and you have decided to make them feel the same way. That’s how I see it.

THOUGHT OF THE DAY

Don’t know where to start when it comes to the Law of Attraction?

Start by believing that anything is possible.

This belief will be necessary for you to adapt anyway, so why not start now?

In addition, this belief is a great reminder of your manifesting power if you ever find yourself in a rut; a sheer reminder of the fascinating energy that connects us is enough to bring us into alignment with our desires.