How to Break Free From “Not Having” Your Desire

How to Break Free From “Not Having” Your Desire

The feeling of your desire missing from your life can be annoying, upsetting and can drive you into frantically working to change it in order to attract your desire instead.

I won’t even try to describe that feeling beautifully or eloquently because it isn’t; instead, this feeling is unpleasant and can lower your mood.

However, I am going to suggest several solutions for it.

Remain committed to staying in a good mood!

When your goal in life is to be in a good mood no matter what you do and where you are, knowing that bad mood is a waste of time, you will automatically want to go out and do something for yourself. Every time you fall into the bad mood, you will automatically want to change it.

When you get bored, think about what you would like to do to fix your mood. When you feel low, treat yourself (I hate that expression but it works). Go out and buy something for yourself, treat yourself to a meal you love, have a bubble bath, remember all the wonderful people in your life or, one of my favorites, donate money. In any way to anyone you want. Giving is something that will instantly raise your vibration.

Remember all those LoA sources telling you to get in a good mood first and then, think about having your desire in order to attract it even faster. To that, I want to add that when you remain in a good mood, when it becomes your goal, you will manifest your desires fast anyway.

Repeat affirmations!

When this dark feeling comes to you, you can change it by training your brain to automatically think opposite thoughts. You can repeat affirmations, self-devised or any you have read and liked, training your mind to automatically go to the positive when you think of the negative.

In addition…

You can always use the steps described here. You will notice the similarities.

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Why don’t you think you’re amazing?

I preach confidence non-stop because it makes manifestation easy. It helps you stay in a good mood. It makes everything in life easier. Many readers have told me they struggle with maintaining their confidence especially when manifesting relationships.

Confidence is a positive feeling, awareness and attitude. Confident individuals never judge themselves or others – one of the most important lessons we could ever learn. Confident people love their lives because they arrange them in all kinds of positive ways.

Now, do you love or need?

Loving the person you are allows you to love another. Feeling incomplete while thinking that another could complete you will inevitably trick you into thinking that you need them to be the person you always wanted to be.

Truth is, you don’t need anyone – relationships are a choice. You are capable of being happy on your own, allowing love to manifest into your life. Being happy on your own is also very healthy, allowing you to be the best possible partner to the person of your choice.

The most amazing partners are those who can be happy on their own.

Are You Afraid to Let Go?

Are You Afraid to Let Go?

The fear of letting go only means you are not vibrating at a high enough frequency to live your desire just yet.

This is why we can only see ourselves having our desires when we’re happy. Makes sense, right?

It’s amazing what we can see ourselves having when we’re happy. In 2011, I manifested an all-expenses-paid trip to Brazil. I was already vibrating at a high level and dared to believe that this was mine. I was already in a happy relationship, living in a city I loved, doing my Master’s and manifested this without a problem. Isn’t that a great lesson in loving your current life in order to manifest even more into it?

If you fear letting go, you are actually in fear of your life staying the same in case you should suddenly let go of your desire. However, you fall into the wrong way of thinking when this becomes your perception, as letting go allows your desires to manifest instead of vaporize.

Law of Attraction can be confusing because it is the opposite of what many have grown up believing.

When you are happy, you can imagine yourself having anything you want. I understand that sometimes, a struggle lies in having to make your current life happy when all you want to do is escape; however, why should any part of your life ever be unhappy? Don’t you deserve to have fun, be happy and feel fulfilled no matter what you do?

You can love your current life and manifest your dream one.

Those who fall into the trap of trying to make their current reality happier without trying often attempt to manifest signs of their desires manifesting. If they fail to see a specific sign just once, their vibration is at lowers without effort. Instead, they should appreciate everything they already have – cook an extravagant meal, go out with their friends, play with their dogs, go shopping, have a bubble bath, pick out work outfits for the following days, read a book, see a movie, listen to music, donate some money or clothes, manifest some money just for fun, go for a walk, visit their parents or get a mani pedi.

Regardless of where I am, I like to focus on the parts of it I find beautiful, tasteful, stimulating, fun, relaxing or just happy. I love good food and coffee. I love clothes, organic cosmetics and great conversations. I love spreading good mood onto others. I love animals, music, dancing and laughing, writing, books, acting and movies. I love both traveling and photography. I love dog walking. I love spending time with my friends. I could go on but you get the idea.

I have recently learned that essential oils are a proven method of raising one’s vibration, as they naturally vibrate on high frequencies. Last summer, I used my oil burner as usual but for the first time, I started to feel different. I didn’t know if it meant anything until just weeks ago, when I was told about this natural quality of essential oils. Then, I received an article corroborating the claim. Now that you know this, do you see yourself even happier at home while enjoying this fragrance bliss?

I used to use essential oils often but since discovering their most amazing benefits, I’ve been using them daily.

Last week, I attended the opening of an exhibit by an accomplished photographer and artist. His pieces striking  and stimulating, the audience a mix of acquaintances, friends, celebrities and new faces with a private concert as well as traditional catering, this event provided for a great reminder of the many lovely individuals I know and the fun I can have.

Here’s a quick snap on the way out:

Several weeks ago, my 13-year-old cousin had her first night on the town. My friends and I took her out on a Saturday night, giving her a taste of the party scene. She had an amazing time. She was dressed trendy while I went slightly classic but sexy. My friends treated her as an equal. She was up for a good time, fun conversations and discussing the cutest member of One Direction. She drank Coke while we drank gin and tonic in great moderation. She laughed while I sang loudly and danced to Wham! in my seat, with one of my friends. She was entertained by funny boyfriend stories. The police greeted us in the street. We made sure that by law, she had no curfew if accompanied by an adult and knew the places we were allowed to take her as long as she steered clear of alcohol. Our late night cab ride home was also fun, as the dancing never stopped. It was a great night.

Saturday night, I visited family friends. The meal served resembled a French cuisine spread – various types of cheese, home-made bread, select meats, olives and red wine. I couldn’t believe how much I ate. The conversation ignited many laughs. At one point, the group split into sports followers that occupied the living room and coffee-drinking, current events discussion participants who remained in the dining room. Then, it was men and women separately.

All these examples provide proof that we all have the ability to make our lives interesting but fun. Perceiving your own life as interesting and fun just as it is allows you to raise your vibration and bring even more love into it. Positive events such as these allow you to feel love for yourself, your life and all the exciting parts of it while suddenly giving you a chance to be able to see yourself living your dream life.

I’m off to buy more candles and essential oils.