Tuning Out Expected Fears and Negativity – How to Ignore Those Who Say “That’s just how it is!”

Earlier this week, I intentionally manifested something I had been told that “No one ever gets.” So what if they don’t? I was going to be the first. 

I wasn’t actually the first and I’m sure of it. The thing about manifestations is that someone has always done it before you. Whichever goal that seems to be impossible, someone has attracted it at some point in time. Rarely do we actually do something no one has ever done but when manifesting, our situation always seems unique, something that has never been done before. 

Where does that even come from, the never before seen and done? It comes from other people’s impressions and their stories. It comes from something they heard and experienced. It comes from them – not you – but it makes you feel like you will never get there if you listen to them. 

Tuning out those whose experience is the opposite of your goals is just good sense. Their life went the way it did because of their own attitude but where your life goes will depend of yours. 

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There are no universal rules of how and where one’s life will go except for what they expect. The fact that your expectations create your fate is the only universal rule there is. This is the essence of the Law of Attraction – what you expect to receive, be that your desire or the opposite, is what will end up happening. 

So, how can you tune out the voices from the outside and in your head telling you that you can’t manifest because it’s simply “not the way it goes?” Why should the way it was for them be the way it goes for you? 

It shouldn’t. But what we must be aware of is that if we believe them, the words of those around us will impact our manifestation. If we give them enough meaning to allow them to block our beliefs, we allow those blocks to actually become our own beliefs and keep us from living our dreams. 

At the same time, if the words of others are the only distraction we have, we’re lucky. It’s much more difficult to escape thoughts of the past in one’s mind and it is even easier to fear them. 

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The way to keep these voices out is to repeat to yourself what you want; then, immediately switch it with “It is what I must receive.” Do you want it? Does it make you happy? Then go for it! Acknowledging it as the only thing you must receive puts your focus on living your dreams and not someone else’s failed goals. 

The truth is, life doesn’t exist without belief. Sometimes, we manifest what we want and then want something better, faster and more profound. Other times, we manifest what we want but as it unfolds, we decide that we want an aspect of it to move faster (I’ve done this recently as well!) so we make that happen. And other times, we decide that the way we lived life until now was great and happy but we want and are ready for more so we step up our game. 

However you put it, life is beautiful and full of opportunities. All that matters is what we choose. And every time you manifest something you have never had before, it gets easier next time.

Think about this – if you got used to manifesting new things and experiencing the unconventional, you would never be afraid of attracting anything you’ve never done. So, practice. Attract something new every day. Attract a gift from someone. Let someone buy you flowers. Manifest some money from an unexpected source. Start small and soon, you will be changing your life entirely. 

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Your Personality Type and Manifestation

Combining some light psychology and manifestation can be useful. Today, we are going to discuss your personality, preferences, habits and ways of expressing yourself that can help your manifestation play out as smoothly as possible.

Some people are extroverted and others, introverted. Some are outgoing and others are shy. Some are open and others tend to be distrusting for a variety of reasons. Some love to have booming social lives while others prefer to socialize mainly with their closest friends. Some are optimists and others are pessimists, even if they wish to be optimists instead and are currently working on achieving that goal. Some love to take risks while others like to feel comfortable. All of us love novelty in different ways.

How well do you know yourself? Knowing what kind of person you are helps you reach your full manifestation potential. What are you used to? More importantly, what would you prefer to experience?

Our strongest character traits can drive us in our lives. The things we seek and the lives we value can help us define the path in which we see our future manifestations coming together. Our personalities can help us manifest if we stay positive yet true to ourselves.

Are you upbeat? Do you like to engage in the things that keep you happy and excited? Or, do you get excited about many things without effort? Either way, you can boost your manifestation with the behaviors that are organic to you.

You probably like to enjoy the things that make you excited so try and incorporate living your desire with that. What would your desired manifestation have to entail in order for you to feel comfortable with it yet never lose yourself? If you like an adrenaline rush, take action towards your desire but only if the thought of doing so makes you happy while you expect nothing in return. In this case, you would simply be feeding your own happiness. You will feel excitement just from making a move! At the same time, always remain positive.

Are you an extremely strong person? Do you feel good but are rarely rattled, reducing your worries to problems larger than your own? If you think that nothing is a big deal (or, that many others make a big deal out of nothing), you stand a great chance at fast manifestation due to your steady mind and a resistance-free outlook on life.

Just like nothing else is a big deal, neither is your manifestation – it is just as likely to happen as anything else. Believe! You can receive your desire because it’s a regular thing in life. Something you are wishing for has already manifested for someone else before you and there will be others who will manifest the same type of thing in the future. It’s not as big of a deal as it seems.

Are you a highly positive person? Do you like to turn every situation in life into something positive or better yet, something you actually want?

You might not usually manifest many specific situations but rather have a habit of turning everything you encounter into something positive, knowing it’s going to work out for the best. Use your lack of need for specific details and focus on your end result – keep your end goal simple and you’ll succeed fast!

Are you imaginative? If you are, you can use the power of visualization effortlessly. With your eyes open or closed, focused or in passing, imagine that you have what you want, now. What are you doing with it? How do you feel? Who are you? Use the power of your imagination and live your desire as if it were reality right now!

If you like to imagine what makes you feel good, simply imagine your future.

Are you usually quiet? Then, you might prefer your desires to come to you without you “doing” anything but feeling good about yourself and allowing manifestation to happen by letting go. The steps in between will align. 

Imagine a world in which your desires have manifested. You were comfortable with manifestation and are now happy. Wasn’t it easy yet you were able to be yourself, taking all the time you needed? 

When you happily think about living in the world where you have everything you wanted, say an affirmation which reflects having your desire in your life or lovingly visualize living what you wanted. Then, just be yourself. 

Be positive and believe.

Know.