Reverse Another Person’s Negative Influence on Your Life

Reverse Another Person’s Negative Influence on Your Life

Have you ever been involved with someone who has a negative influence on you in terms of you having a hard time accepting them yet still wanting to be with them and then, attracting problems into your own life as a result of a perpetually low vibration?

This usually happens when you love someone whose behavior in the current reality upsets you.

Want to know a secret? We’ve all been there and there is nothing that we can’t reverse in life with LoA so in reality, there is nothing to worry about. It doesn’t matter what situations you put yourself in – you can reverse them and their effect on your life.

LoA sometimes suggests that we can do anything without consequences but that’s not true. A low vibration due to whatever one has done is the worst consequence of all – that’s why we should always do good and expect good.

You will reverse someone’s impact on your low vibration by deciding that you are the most important person in your life and that nobody’s behavior should have the power to influence yours; with this, you will know that you must take care of your happiness first and attract a specific person second.

You will take care of your happiness first by pampering yourself, enjoying your friends or manifesting new ones – oftentimes, manifesting friendships can be easier than manifesting relationships and you should use that! Create your own identity first with a desired career, lifestyle, friends and pampering yourself/knowing what makes you happy. Once you have defined yourself, manifest a relationship.

Unless we know who we are, we cannot be happy with another person because we won’t know what exactly it is that makes us happy. We first have to decide.

In the past, I thought that one could simply wait to discover what they want and then manifest it; however, when I thought that, I had forgotten an important point I had always known in life.

One cannot grow into the person they wish to be unless they think about who exactly they want to be, what kind of person they wish to be and what exactly makes them happy. We have to think about these things until we find the answers – otherwise, we will go through life getting used to being in the comfort zone of “searching” for ourselves and never actually finding ourselves.

And once we know who we are and what we want, we will be able to manifest it.

We should expect nothing less than our desires manifesting and if we’re going to receive them, we must know that what happened in the past doesn’t matter because the moment you change your awareness and declare your intention, your present life is going to change. Your desire isn’t to be manifested in the future but in the present; the moment you ask for it, it’s yours entirely.

We can only produce miracles if we see no boundaries.

Thought of the Day

Thought of the Day

Whenever you find yourself noticing your desire missing from your life, remember that since you asked for it, you must receive it.

As soon as you remind yourself of it, you will believe it; you will know that what you want is yours already. Your belief will create.

Noticing your desire missing and worrying about it manifesting is attachment. Knowing your desired manifestation is a done deal is positive awareness.

An Overview of Dealing with Fear

An Overview of Dealing with Fear

I want to address the issue of thinking about your desire and encountering fear and negative thoughts.

As I stated in the past (my book included), start by being convinced that after you have asked for your desire, you must receive it. Since your desire absolutely has to manifest, you may relish the thoughts of living it all you want.

I am able to think about my desire or not for as long as I want to because from the moment I ask for it, I believe that it is manifesting. I let go of the need to control the process because the positive thoughts of living my desire make me see that it is manifesting in the most amazing way.

One only doubts the manifestation process if one entertains both the positive and the negative feelings connected to their desire. 

In accordance, all lack of happiness comes from fearing or worrying that one’s desire is not manifesting and never will.

When any fears related to your desire come up, remind yourself that it is yours already. Because you asked, it is yours already.

If you keep reminding yourself of this fact, you will start to believe it with every part of you very soon. All it takes is a little belief to start with in order to fully believe and relax soon after. You can do this and you know it!

As a friend of mine recently stated, it is fun to see yourself living your desire! Enjoy it.

Believe that you can do anything. Believe that you can make anything happen and see your dreams coming true. If you decide this to be possible for you, you will assume that all your desires are manifesting while thinking about them with newfound lightness and love.

Positive Thinking = Active Lifestyle

Positive Thinking = Active Lifestyle

Positive thinking is a choice.

Positive thinking is an active way of living life.

To many, having their negative thoughts take over any attempt at positive thinking is a given. They are used to thinking negatively, fearing or feelings helpless yet they deserve to be happy.

A friend told me they find it so much easier to drown in negative thoughts because that is what they’re used to. This person also told me they don’t seek out a positive mindset or advice on it because it’s just easier to stay put, not even ask and keep things as they are. Even if it doesn’t feel good, at least it’s comfortable.

Positive thinking is natural – those who refuse it feel poorly because they go against what is organic. And that is happiness.

Thinking positive thoughts is active. It is a choice. This means making a choice of redirecting your feelings and lifting up your mood when the bad one strikes. It means relying on yourself and your active belief that things are going to work out to match your hear’s desires.

All it takes is a little bit of steady practice. Continuously thinking in a positive way can become one’s entire awareness, especially because it produces positive results.

Positive thinking also means being patient. Positive thinking increases patience by removing the need for the manifestation. Positive thinking allows one to see their desired manifestation in their mind and with all those factors combined, manifest fast.

One will manifest as fast as they can stay focused on feeling great!

If you choose to think positive, you will eventually reach the point where positive thinking is effortless. The sooner you relax, trust yourself and stop rushing, the sooner you will get there.

I know that thinking positive without effort is your goal…and you can reach it. We adopt novelty into our subconscious minds through the conscious so choosing to think positive will eventually become a habit. This is why I suggest affirmations, especially when in doubt. Whenever you feel lost, affirmations can help you. Be persistent with them and your struggles will end.

Desire to feel great and you will get there!

Believe in yourself. If you do, you will get there.

Thought of the Day – Guilt, Fulfilment, Positive Feelings or Negative Behavior?

Thought of the Day – Guilt, Fulfilment, Positive Feelings or Negative Behavior?

LoA is when you make pizza, eat the entire thing in one sitting and remain at your ideal weight.

Many feel guilty about what they have and wanting what they do. Guilt is nothing but empty emotion and an inexhaustible source of personal manifesting blockage.

Guilt is contradictory to manifesting because it evokes negative feelings while manifesting is all about the positive.

Some refuse to even remove negativity from their lives because they feel guilty about dropping it and actually feeling better; feelings of this nature go back to one’s fear/awareness of being unworthy of their desired manifestation.

The reasons for engaging in certain behavior during your manifestation period say a lot about your awareness. Do you visualise because you love living your desire or because you feel that you should in order to receive your desire (a.k.a. because you feel your desire missing from your life and want to attract it)?

Do you actively feel guilty about wanting what you do or feel that you deserve it?

Affirmation of the Day

Affirmation of the Day

Create an affirmation for right now.

Many find themselves dissatisfied with where they are but you must be happy in order to get even happier. This affirmation can get you there if you allow it. You could remove all resistance.

My affirmation for right now is,

I get what I want, when I want it.

This affirmation is going to make you happy in the present moment by knowing that your desired future is coming. Suddenly, you will know it’s yours which will make you see just how much you already have by knowing that even more is coming.

Manifestation Epidemic – Blowing it Up in Your Mind

Manifestation Epidemic – Blowing it Up in Your Mind

This goes hand in hand with making too big of a deal of your desire (additional stories on the Big Deal phenomenon here and here).

When you are unable to think about receiving your desire without some sort of concern coming up inside you, chances are you have made a big deal out of it rather than just enjoying all the excitement related to it. Excitement and nervousness might feel the same initially but when you decide your desire belongs to you, start from there and stick to it, these moments of tingles passing through your body are excitement and energy that attracts.

People often say,

“I want to do this-and-that but I’m nervous/unsure.”

I say,

“It’s natural to share happiness so do it only if it makes you happy, without expecting anything in return.” But if you just know you are going to get something you want in return, good for you!

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